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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Contraception for an Epileptic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I have previously been on the contraceptive pill. I came off that maybe 2 years ago due to been diagnosed with epilepsy. I stopped taking it as it was making my mood low and it just wasn't agreeing with me. Since then my husband and I have been ...

How do I stop my boobs from growing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Okay i'm 15 years old, i'm 5'1 and my boobs are way too big already, i just want to know if there's anything i can do to stop growing anymore! I'm already a 32F, no 15 year old at my short height should have boobs that big, and i'm really quite ...

Is there an age limit to find out if you're fertile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I was wondering I read a question earlier asking how do you find out if you were fertile and repliers said to go to their doctors. I live in the UK...I want to know the same thing cause I am worried...Is there an age limit for this? What age do I ...

I'm dreading Christmas! Whatever I think about planning I almost get anxiety attacks! What would be the best thing for me to do during this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Christmas is coming and I'm dreading it unfortunately. I do have a lovely boyfriend who is caring and loving and loves me to bits, but he is lazy, undermotivated, etc. He hasn't achieved very much when it comes to career...he doesn't work at all.H...

Could this cramping mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am new at this so bare with me? I have been cramping for 5 days now and my period isn't due til the 13th! I can't figure out what is going. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant even if I do take every precaution condom, im on the pill!!! ...

Brown discharge...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I haven't started my period yet, but I have been having a discharge for a about 2 years I think but the other day my discharge went from white to brown... what is this from and what can I do to make it not brown?????...

Behavioural problems???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I have some sort of behaviour issue... I am extremely melodramatic, I have a very short temper and tiny things annoy me... such as mistakes i've made in writing especially in pen it makes me so angry and i often attept to write it agian and ...

Back with my ex after a year and my libido has vanished, what is wrong with me?

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29 November 2008 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman and I have been in a relationship for 8 years now. My boyfriend and I use to have a wonderful and exciting sex life. We currently just got back together after being seperated for almost a year and my sex drive has vanished ...

Problem with testicles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - When feeling the testicles, whatever connects to the left gland (vein, semen line, etc) on the left testicle, what does it mean when in contrast to the right gland the connection feels swollen and bumpy? plz answer as soon as possible, thank yo...

What are the chances of having a false negative pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Gonna try keep this as short as possible! Was just wondering what the chances of having a false negative pregnancy test are? I took a test around 2 weeks ago which resulted in negative. But my period still hasn't come, making it over 6 weeks late! I ...

I'm on my 7 day break from the pill but still haven't come on! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hey! This is sorta a relationship problem but im on the pill and stopped taking it last wednesday for my 7 day break but i still havent come on. Im thinking of going over to my boyfriends tomoro and if we will have sex will it make me come on? I ...

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...

What can I do to loose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm 17, 5 ft 3 in and 130 lbs and I want to lose weight deperately. I've thought about getting hydroxicut or some weight loss pill but theres no way for me to get it. I am not old enough to buy it. I've tried diet and exercise but its a little too ...

I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello. I am a 40 year old woman. I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon. I have tried for years, however my body seems to push them out on it's own. Does anyone know why this could be? Yes, I use them right! lol I'm just so tired of pads. ...

Are my eating habits the thing making me not able to lose weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm 15 years old 107lb and 5 ft3. My family tells me I'm not fat but to me I am. I only weigh 107 but look 130! I really want to lose 15lb but it seems near impossible. It's not just numbers on the scale I want to see though. I want muscle but not ...

When after pregnancy, can I expect to get my periods back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Heya guys. Well I had my beautiful baby son just over 3 weeks ago! Everything is going pretty well, and I love him to the moon and back. I'm breastfeeding him, Which I've heard can mess with your cycle? I was wondering when to expect to get my perio...

I've recently been feeling ill and I don't know what's causing it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hey, I know this is a relationship advice kinda site but was wondering if anyone could give me some help on this issue. I've recently been feeling really ill after I have eaten, usually stomach cramps, nausea etc and I dont know what's causi...

How do I speed up my period so it will end sooner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have the whole house to ourselves on Sunday and we hardly ever get the whole house anymore. It should hopefully be good but there's one small problem.. I'm on my period. My periods normally last about 5 or 6 days and on Sund...

Are doctors used to silly questions like this? Should I ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am looking for some female advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors just to ask if everything is ok "down below", I have always felt a little unsure if I am "normal" and I was just wondering if doctors are used to "silly" questions like ...

How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...

He said he has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - me and my boyfriend met at the beginning of the year and before we met i had booked a trip to go trevelling for almost a month. we moved in together a week before i went travelling and within the week i realised that he had a problem with coke. he ...

Is it possible that the combination of alcohol and the pill caused me to have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi recently I was having sex and the condom broke.... my husband immediately pulled out and he hadn't yet cum. I was also missed the pill around tht time for a few days as we had gona away and I left them at home. When I got home from our holiday I ...

My mum and I never got on well, I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - ok right me and my mum have never got on well. we always have arguments and i have s.a.d seasoning depression and this time of year is the worst for me.. my cousin died in september and hes best friend hasnt spoke to any one about him since last ...

Cheating wife - long but impossible to answer, please try...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - It's a long conveluted story, but in a nutshell: my wife suffers from bipolar disorder. it had not been properly diagnosed until recently but we've been dealing with it since we dated(7yrs total-3.5 married) We both have had the same number of ...

Why can't I stop eating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hey, I'm female and 5" 4. I recently had a still birth. After the loss of Dillian I weighed 14.6 stone (202 lbs). In the last month I've lost 3.7 stone and now weigh 10.9 stone (149 lbs). I've often made myself purge after eating and do a lot of ...

Does a mouth ulcer indicate pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hiya i have one question does having a Mouth ulcer mean a sign of being pregnent my friends just found out shes pregnent and she said she had a mouth ulcer just before she found out, I actually said to her that shes being stupid and thats not one ...

What do I say to my doctor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I need some advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors because I think I smell a bit down below and I have thought this for some time, I am a little embarrassed although I know they are used to sort of thing, I am not sure what to say to my ...

How can I shift these spots?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - This is irritating me. I know this has nothing to do with relationships, but I need help. I've tried everything but my spots just won't go away. Everynight and morning I rub a spott cleansing lotion on my face. Every other day I wash it. And occ...

Other than diets, exercising and starving myself how else can I lose weight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm new to this site and just had one main question if you could help I would really love it. Well to start I'm 16 years old. I weigh 130 About. I'm just under 5 ft. To me I'm am fat although my family and friends say I'm normal. Plus for...

Guys say I'm beautiful, but I have a lot of stretch marks, will this make a difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Ok guys say I'm beautiful all the time but what they don't no is I have stretch marks EVERYWHERE!I really wanna be intimate but I think my stretch marks will drive guys away.I'm wondering if guys will still b interested after they see my horrible ...

When we try anal sex, I have bad pain, is there smething we can do to stop the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have tried anal a couple of times and sometimes it really hurts and this has put me off it. i want to know what positions will stop it hurting or will it take time to get used to and then it wont hurt anymore? i have this really ...

After 4 years, the love of my life left me cold, I cry all the time, what do I do to get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - My lover of 4 years just left me for someone else. She betrayed all the promises she had made to me, betrayed my trust and faith in her, forgot all the sweet moments we’ve had, forgot all that i have done for her and just left. The way i find out is ...

How do I shave my private area, without getting irritated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I shave down there but every time i get little red spots and i always get ingrown hairs! how can i make it stop? what should i be using to shave?...

What birth control makes your breasts grow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have been on yasmin for about 9 months now and im still getting period pains so i friend who is a pharmacist recommended that i go on Diane, just wondering if anyone is on it does it make your breasts grow? And has Yasmin made anyones? i have had ...

What is that maggoty smell down below!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I need a bit of help!! (it's a bit embarrassing though. I am very healthy, I have a shower every day but I have a maggoty smell down below any idea what it could be?? thank you in advance xx...

Does going to the gym make sex better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Does going to the Gym help you when you want to have good sex?...

I want to get a bikini wax, but I'm scared that I'll smell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - A question for the girls, I am thinking of going for a bikini wax because I don't know what to do with it, but I think I smell, I was just wondering if you are suppose to have an odour, and I am a little worried in case I leak when they start ...

I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am in a dilemma, I think I might be pregnant but my result on boots pregnancy test came back a faint negative line. I'm not due till 4th December 08, did I do it too early, I have all the symptoms, bloated stomach, nausea, I have actually gone ...

The day before I begin my period I have brown discharge... is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - the day before i begin my period i have brown discharge... is this normal?...

I feel awful for having retaliated at my violent girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Hi guys, Ok here goes my girl is violent she attacks me and pushes me and even pullled a knife on me once this has been going on for at least 8 months and tonight she attacked me. she slapped me at least 4 times and started pushing me and t...

How can you tell when you chest is growing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - How can you tell when your chest is growing?...

His grandma's making me NUTS!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfrien of 2 years and I moved in to help take care of his 70 year old grandmother and 91 year old great grandmother. Unfortunately, I am on my own pretty much entirely as his great grandmother has dementia and thinks he is the devil. Besides ...

Did my husband cheat on me and gave me a std?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - my husband of 21 years told me he had sex with another women 1 month before we got married. when we were married i got pregnant on our honeymoon, after i had the baby i ended up with a std, i was 18 when we got married an was stupid i really did ...

My boyfriend use to get coldsores, does that mean I will get herpes if he goes down on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is very used to getting coldsores but hasnt had one in a bout a year. We started to haave sex about 8 months ago and he goes down on me. As coldsores is herpes, and it never goes, does this mean i have herpes? can you tell?...

I'm so skinny and I hate it! What can I do to gain some weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Im so skinny and i hate it. Im a 15 year old girl, 5ft4, and weigh about 6stones 9pounds. I hate being soooo skinny. I eat sooo much and im stil the skiny stik i alwayz have been. People can make such horible comments. 1)Erghhh, your arms a...

How can I avoid taking drugs again when around my old friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - so recently i started hanging out with some of my old friends, and when they really knew me we were all in the drug scene together (smoking pot every day alone or in combination with other drugs) but after i moved i got a new girlfriend and we had a ...

I worry over my extremely unregular period! Anybody had similar experiences and/or know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I started my period at the age of about 12. My periods have never been normal, I have them every other month as opposed to every month. Not long after I turned 16, I noticed that I hadn't had a period for about 3 months. I went to my doctor, who ...

Are the chemicals released during sex causing me to have a high tolerance for noise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - For some reason, whenever I have sex for 20+ minutes, I cannot hardly hear afterwards! I mean, I can have a conversation with someone just fine (it's just a little harder than usual), but I always feel like I cannot hear the TV or hear music that I ...

I have a high sex drive and it is a huge struggle for me - what could I do?

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25 November 2008 (M) - Okay here's the deal, quite simply I have a high sex drive and my boyfriend has a low sex drive. We love each other and have no intentions of breaking up. The difference is sex drive doens't really affect him a great deal but it is a huge struggle ...

Can I get pregnant if I've miscarried and had an abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - If I had an abortion and a miscarriage, can I still get pregnant?...