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Health: Help and advice

I'm a fat chick needin' love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago, and when i did i was very athletic and weighed 161 lbs. i got pregnant, and got fat. i now weigh 268 lbs. he does not want to have sex anymore, and actually stopped when i began to gain weight in the beginning. he ...

How does chlamydia happen in a monogamous relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a very weird question. I have been with my man for a few years, in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I got a checkup a while back, and they said I had chlamydia. They also said that chlamydia can only be spread through ...

I have a lot of white discharge and no matter how many times I go to the doctor, it just son't go away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i am so sorry this is so long. i just want to know if anyone else has this problem. i have heaps of white discharge. all the time for about 2 years now. maybe a little less. i thought it was yeast ifections. so i would treat it as such and sometimes ...

A word of warning about an anti-anxiety drug!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - So many people suffer from many different forms of anxiety. Our world is filled with people trying to prey on our insecurities, capitalize on our fears, sell us a pill to make us prettier, thinner, stronger, smarter, smooth-skinned, white-teethed, ...

My periods have been regular for more than seven years - until now. What could be causing the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - am 17 years old and started my periods when i was 9 and they have been regular but this month my period only lasted 3 days when they usually last for 5 to 6 days there is no chance of me being pregnant i was just wondering is this normal ...

Can suffering from S.A.D. "Social Anxiety Disorder" affect your sex life or performance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Does anyone suffer from social anxiety disorder? If so, how does it affect your sex life/sexual performance? Do you suffer from feelings of embarrassment or guilt after having sex with a new partner?...

What are stretch marks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i've read about streatch marks but i have no idea what r they i know i am a female and i should know about it but i really have absolutely NO IDEA what strech marks r ...

Has anyone had orthadontic surgery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - This is not a relationship question but i'd really appreciate some replies. The Orthodontic recommended i have oral surgery to level out my top and bottom jaw (The top is bigger than the bottom) due to this, I have like a gummy smile as the upp...

Trying to exercise my PC muscle - any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I'm a guy and I'm trying to strengthen my pc muscle. I can't really find it but think i have. When i squeeze the muscle my penis kind of feels like it lifts slightly Is this right? Are there any other methods to exercise the muscle? Th...

Does anyone want to quit smoking with me? We can do it!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Goodbye nasty cigarettes, hello brighter future : ) I know I'm not exactly posing a question here but today I decided to kick the habit. I have only been smoking a year, I am in college and for whatever reason I gave into the smoking peer pre...

Irregular period question...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Is it normal for there to not really be any pattern to the times when u get your period? Because I really can't find anything that's close to a pattern and I don't want anything to be wrong with me. I've never done ANYTHING that would cause my ...

How can I lose weight from my legs but no where else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - Hey. Im a girl, Im almost 16, Im 5' 3" tall and I weigh about 8st 10lbs. Before this starts to sound like a lonely hearts advert (lol), Ill skip to the problem. Ok, so I don't feel fat really and people tell me Im not fat, but I hate the size of my ...

E.D. is destroying me emotionally because I just want to make love and not worry about the sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi I am a male, 28. Since 7 years or so I have had a problem with erectile dysfunction. It has been creeping up and has been getting worse lately. I have had about 10 partners, all of whom I had sexual relations with. The problem is, I cannot r...

How can I get over this mindset and realise relationships can be enjoyed more than being a source of anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Why are relationships so hard? I find myself thinking about relationships and getting all these weird feelings. Now I'm in a relationship and have been dealing with so much insecurity and anxiety from my part. I also see other troubled couples...

I can't always maintain an erection-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - There is a funny situation that makes me feel sometimes worried but last few months sometimes when i have intercourse at the begining my penis is hard but while i start doin it in a minute it becomes softer and i need like to get it out and again ...

I am very concerned about the size and shape of my breasts, I am 15, will my breasts grow more, and will the shape change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - this is quite a strange question but im concerned about my breasts. im 15. There small but they dont have the 'breast' look. There just like a triangle off my chest. They dont have the 'drop'. not a 'U' shape. more like a V but sideways. Will they ...

I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they woul...

I smell fishy after masturbating. Is this normal? Should I go to the doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - when i masterbate the next day i smell of fish i really dont want to go to the doctor but my ex boyfriend was teasing me about it because he made me wet and i smelt then is this normal? please help ...

I have pain when he penetrates very deeply, during intercourse, why does it hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - why does it hurt when he goes really deep, like all the way in? is he hitting my cervix?...

My vibrator is making me feel uncomfortable when I get close to orgasm.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have not been masturbating for very long. (about two weeks and it is with a rabbit style vibrator) I come very close but I find the vibrating is too intense so I have to stop! I have not had an orgasm before. I would like to but when I get very ...

I have brown discharge before my period. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - is brown discharge normal? i seem to get this usaully before my period is it normal??...

I get a lot of sleep, but I'm always tired, how do I get my mom to take me to the doctor?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - this isn't about love or sex or any relationships.. But I still need some help.. I sleep A LOT and I'm not sure whats wrong with me, my mom wont let me go to the doctor or anything to get checked because she just thinks it's the way I sleep...

My doctor stopped my valium. I'm worried about suffering adverse effects.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Is it wise for a doctor to suddenly stop valium (2-4mg a day) that I have been taking for about 3 weeks. Before then I was taking 2mg when required. This has increased. My doctor (who was far from sympathetic, and who I don't normally see, new to m...

How can I shave my pubes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - How can I shave my pubes? What kind of designs can I make any ideas? Need you advice please help ...

He came in the condom and had me continue. What are the chance of being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello I have a slight um worry if you will. I have been off my period for 2 days and i had protected sex with my boyfriend. However he came in the condom and had me continue, i think some of the cum might have leaked out... but i am not sure wha...

I had unprotected sex. When should I get tested for STDs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! I did something stupid and now have a little problem. I kinda fell for a guy and ended up having sex with him all weekend. I usually use condoms but didn't this time and just let him pull out each time. I know it was dumb. I want to get ...

My penis bends a little to the left. Do girls care about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Well, this is a bit embarrassing and I hate to ask it but it's always been something in the back of my mind. I am fairly happy with my penis, it's nothing special but it's at a comfortable size and what not. The only problem is is that it curves ...

Are we safe using pull-out for birth control? Is it normal to have several orgasms in a row?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have a couple of questions. First and foremost, my fiance and I have only been having sex for a couple of weeks now. We were originally waiting to be married but it randomly kind of happened one night. That aside, he finds it less romantic an...

How can I get rid of really bad breath?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi okay this is pretty embarassing, I have had really bad breath for a while maybe like a week or something... anyways I have tried so many remedies like tongue scraping, mouthwash, chewing parsley, and many others and it just isn't working!! My ...

I've had my period twice this month, but I'm on the pill... what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I had my period just 2 weeks ago and have started it again at the end of the month. I have not been with any sexually since before my period 2 weeks ago. what does this mean? I have never had this before and am really regular as i am on the pill and ...

I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) - Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...

I have trouble keeping my private area smelling fresh, does anyone have any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - i need a bit of help, basically, im having trouble kepping fresh down below, especially at this time of year. i bathe on sundays, tuesdays and thursday, sumtimes hsower on saturdays, and im fresh when i get out the bath, but i can pull on some clo...

I have a strong lack of confidence and negative thoughts, please give me some ideas, as to how I can build my self-confidence and self-esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - i feel stongerless with my confidence.i feel thoughts which is unwanted for me but that cames automatically in my minds,please help me for that and answer me...

I've been bleeding, hungry, tired, and throwing up since having sex. What could be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - So i had sex with my boyfriend about 11 days ago and i have been bleeding ever since. Then today, i threw up twice and my appetite has increased as well. And in addition, i am constantly tired even though ive had plenty of sleep. I told my boyfriend ...

My life is generally good, however I feel depressed a lot of the time, and I don't know why or how to correct this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - ive gotta qierd question/query: a lot of the time, i feel depressed, and i dont know why. me and my boyfriend sometimes argue about trivial things but hardly anything major, life at home is good, ive got a lot of the things that ive always wante...

My husband is schizophrenic, I'm depressed. How can I stop cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I need help with this. I have been married for over 8 years and for 7 years, everything was pretty good - no marriage is perfect, but it was good enough that I was not really even thinking about flirting with danger or entertai...

I love my wife, but erection problems and lower sex drive are hurting our marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - i'm having a serious crisis ,in my mariage,and I don't know where to go from here. I really need some suggestion, as I never been so stuck in my whole life,, I'm in my mid 40 es, and around 3 years ago I developed an erection problem. slowly my sex ...

Can you get STDs by kissing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Are there any STDs out there that you can get by kissing? I don't really understand what the different kinds of STDs are. I know about HIV since we learned about it in school......

How can I do exercises to make myself tighter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i just have a question i was just wondering how can i do a kegel exercise you know to tighten my vagina muscles and can i become tighter inside my lips in my vagina on the inside you know the vagina part there isa lot of skin sagging i guess you ...

Would it be easier to kiss her at the club, when we are all drunk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - its our results night soon and everyone is goin to this one club. The girl i've liked for many years will be there. I know everyone will be drunk, do you think it would be a good idea just to kiss her there? It would be easier wouldn't it after ...

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...

Why do my testicles ache?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - This is bit embarassing but what might cause my balls to ache? They have ached in the past when I've been seriously turned on but not had sex however they seem to ache at times every day for past few days. I have been masturbating but even so am ...

Recently I found out I had chlamydia. Does this mean he has cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - i got back with an ex two months ago but before i got back with him he had slept with a number of girls and i had slept with one other boy, when we got back together we had constantly been having unprotected sex. just recently i found out i had ...

Can penis size be extended?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - can i make my cock longer ?please help and thanks...

I cannot sleep. The doctors can't decide the reason. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I can not sleep, and I mean this is not a new thing, it has been this way my entire life. Some of the doctors say it is because I have RLS, others think it is an aniexty, or depression, others think it is because I am anemic, because I have ADHD, ...

Black discharge after period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - ok a couple of months ago my dicharge was almost black after my period! it hasnt happened since and im not worried about it im just curious. thx J 3...

Is it possible to get withdrawal symptoms if you stop masturbating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

26 July 2008 (?) - i know you hear of people gettin withdrawal symptoms from smoking, drinking etc, but when its that one week out of the month and mastubating would be a REALLYY messy job so i prefer not to do it, i get realy snappy n stuff, and i get so horny its ...

Should I have my facial birthmark removed or could I learn to live with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - i have a problem with my self image i have a birthmark on my face and it does get me down sometimes when people will stare. i have the choice to get it removed by laser which i would want to do but at the same time i dont want to turn my back on ...

Do I have PID? Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 79 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - please help me i dont have insurance and i was reading another question on here and it was talking about PID and some smytpoms are bleeding and other things and i bleed very lightly once in a while between periods but mainly bout 1 week b4 i start ...

Is it possible to have a baby if you are an overweight smoker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - im a bigger girl and i smoke i know its bad and i just want 2 know if there is any other bigger girls that smoke that ever had a baby bcuz i know if ur overweight and smoke its harder 2 concive and i wanna have 1 so i just want to know if it is ...