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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I think I have a physical sexual problem but don't want to tell my mom! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - I don't know if I should be asking for this kind of advice on here or not but I don't know where to go with it. I'm shy and don't want to speak to/show my mum, but I have a problem with my vagina, i don't know how to explain the problem and i am not ...

My boyfriend is convinced he is not "BIG" enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Hello dear internet, I have nowhere else to turn and thus I find myself here requesting your genial and honest advice. This is mostly an appeal to men, personally as a woman I don't understand it but anyone who can offer advice I will be very ...

What do guys do to have clear skin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

30 August 2013 (M) - This a question mostly for guys who take care of their skin. What do you guys use or do to have a beautiful smooth skin? Everytime I see a guy with smooth skin I get jealous. I'm 21 and I sport nice and well groomed beard but I do look a bit olde...

Is there something wrong with my family? Why can't they be happy for my result?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - HI! A year ago a started the toughest job selection on the planet dreaming I would get my dream job. The firm said they would hire 12 people: 6 in Sept 12 and 6 in Sept 14. The competition was ruthless- I had to undergo 3 super selective exams an...

I'm a 22 year old virgin, trying to understand and deal with it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - Hi all, I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. To be honest, it doesn't bother me. It is what it is. I don't believe in sleeping around or getting to know someone for the purpose of sex like most people my age seem to do. I mean, sure there are people w...

I don't understand my ex. Does my ex have issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - My relationship with my ex ended almost 6 months ago as she had been raped 12 months ago. She was able to tell me just a couple details to start with but admitted she had an orgasm. she said she couldn't get it out of her mind or understand how i...

Can working too much cause impotence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I was wondering, if it is possible that my husband 'simpotence,caused by his workaholism? He is totally off sex, never wants any sex, at all, he is unable to get hard, when once every few month i initiate sex. I found very confusing articles...

I'm so frustrated because I can't pass my driving test!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - What do you do when your so frustrated? I'm so frustrated and depressed!!!!! I can't pass my driving test. It may be a small matter, but right now it's big to me. I was in college, I have a 3.0 gpa but I have to push it back because I'm so tired. I...

My girlfriend is disabled and does not feel respected by her mom.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - Well my girlfriend is upset cause her mom doesn't let her take shower without her mom around. She used to have bad seizures. But her seizures are under control with a nerve stimulater. My girlfriend has to wait until her mom is around even though ...

I now have an erection whenever I kiss my gf. How can I stop this awkward reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I were making out and it went a little further. We ended up doing oral. Now I every time we kiss I get an erection. Even just regular "goodbye" kisses. I didn't have a problem with this before. How can I stop it from happening? I ...

I can see potential in this guy but my mom thinks he's bad news. How should I proceed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - I moved with my family into a house next door to a guy around April. We started talking late May. We got along great and were hanging out heaps. We were staying at each others places watching movies or having drinks. We did give each other hugs ...

I tried so hard to protect her but she left me because she was scared of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - My ex was diagnosed with PTSD. I did everything in my power to try to be her protector. I knew logically that I couldn't save her from all she was dealing with, but I always, always was there for her. If she called in the middle of the night, I'd ...

I need to know how to stop my sexual urges.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - In the last few days or so, I've become more sexually aroused then normal. I find myself having to masturbate every few hours because it gets too difficult to concentrate. My body has these new urges. I had sex with my ex boyfriend this morning and ...

What is this crazy attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - I've got a question that's been bugging me for a while and wondering if any of you have had the same thoughts or experience or on the same wavelength. I have fancied this guy ever since I 1st saw him one year ago. But I say 'fancy him' I feel so d...

My boyfriend blames me for his recent sexual problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - My Baby's father got a problem. he lost his sex drive. No erectoin and ejaculate very quikly. he's in mid 40's pls help me. Now accusing me of missing my ex. he saw msg on my phone. Of one of my friends. Pls help!!!...

Could you suggest anything to make myself feel better, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - hey, im in such a bad place at the moment i fell out with one of the girls due to this all the girls arent talking to me, i am single so now have no one day in day out in stick in my house doing nothing, theres no clubs or anything around my a...

How can I go swimming when I'm having my period and can't use tampons?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - Please help. My friends mum is taking me, her and her 8 year old sister on holiday tomorrow we'll be going swimming in a really cool pool too but I started my period 2 days ago I can't cancel as she already paid. I can't use tampons. I tried but it ...

After 15 years ex who had amnesia contacts, do I respond and help with memories or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - Hi all, thankyou for taking the time to read this. A bit of background before I get to the question. If you had an ex who ended up having a rare form of progressive amnesia, and was then tormented by former schoolmates to the point that they were ...

Is it possible for a person with depression to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

22 August 2013 (M) - Hi, Is it possible that someone suffering with depression would call it off with one person who she can only see at weekends then later start seeing a friend close by because it's easier to cope with with their illness?...

How do I start my journey with my kids and end contact with this awful man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - I am devastated, as I have been used and abused for 7 years with a man I loved and sacrificed alot for. Last year I gave birth to our second baby and he started mistreating me terribly. He would sleep out 3 nights every week, and bit me up. ...

I got horrific razor burn and ingrown hairs from shaving my groin. How can I make it go away and avoid it happening again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me she prefers a man that is shaved in the groin. I've always just trimmed fairly short, but I figured I would give shaving a shot if it is what she likes. I've only ever shaved my face so I wasn't too experience with what to do ...

My roommate says that I smell but I don't know whether she is being mean or honest

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My roommate and I hate each other and she says I have an odor problem when I’m doing what I know is right hygiene-wise. I’m at my wits end. We’re in the military. We live in a 3-man room. She says that “my smell” infects the entire room. I h...

My Bf, while still a child, suffered sexual abuse by a male pedophile. Can this affect the relationship between my Bf and I, long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend recently told me that he was sexually abused by his male coach when he was 8. I am the only woman he has ever had sex with and he says loves making love to me. He says he feels very loved and complete afterwards. He said that he does...

Did the fortune tellers mess with my mind or do I truly want to change careers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - Hi guys,you've always given me great advice on love so now I need some career advice. Before I start, I want to say that I have some form of ocd called pure o, where I over analyze thoughts to the point where I have become mentally ill and anxious. ...

Is being tan really considered to be more beautiful?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

20 August 2013 (F) - So lately, everyone has been commenting on how pale I am. I mean its the summer time and I work as a lifeguard so you'd think I'd be super tan but nope, I have to wear a lot of sunscreen and when I don't, I get badly burned very easily and the burn ...

What are some proven successful ways to overcome premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

17 August 2013 (M) - For anyone who can help but mostly to those who had premature ejaculation and has overcame it. I have sexually intimate with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. My first time with her was my first time and also my most embarassing moment. I go...

My boyfriend can't come through intercourse!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

16 August 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about nine months and for the most part I couldn't be happier - he's kind, caring, trustworthy, funny and smart, and I think he's gorgeous. But there's something missing: vaginal Iintercourse is rare and brief. ...

I don't want us to be a sexless couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend of one year (30 years) seems to have lost interest in sex. I think it could be down to stress as we are going away in one week and he keeps saying he really needs this holiday for a break from work. Also his eating habits are a ...

I'm freaked out by my boyfriend telling me he loves me after one week together. Should I take a break from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - ok I have recently acquired a new boyfriend, he's really sweet and nerdy like me but we have only been going out a week and have only actually met up about five times. and then today he told me he loved me! I didn't respond I just said "see you ...

Have the courage to go from doormat to dream girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

15 August 2013 (?) - O.k, lets define what a doormat means. A 'Doormat' is where people wipe their feet before entering a house, so someone who is called a 'doormat' is someone who gets 'stepped on' or abused by other people. or A weak individual who is regularl...

My boyfriend spends a lot of time chatting online, including to a younger girl. He hasn't changed his relationship status for many of his accounts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since 6 months. Hes a computer guy and spends all day on his computer at work. I'm concerned how much time he spends not working, but chatting or doing something else. He has so many accounts on so many ...

If someone has regretted starting smoking at some point, will they ever quit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - As much as I hate that you can't make someone quit smoking I understand that it has to be their choice. I just wondered though, although I am possibly living in hope. If someone has regretted starting smoking at some point, will they ever quit? At ...

Two terrible reationships and now I want something good! What do I look for in a guy? And how do I lose weight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3685 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Hello! I hope everyone is doing well and keeping this site going and I basically have an a bit of an update and a question for all of you wonderful aunts and uncles. Recently I came out of my second un-successful relationship due to my ex be...

I want to masturbate but I don't want to feel the guilt again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

13 August 2013 (M) - To make a long story short, I use to be inlove with masturbating and i stopped doing it 2 months ago, but i feel like if i do it just once ill get hooked but masturbation is a thing with all males 99% of all males do it and i have had these strong ...

I can't afford sleepless nights because my flat mate won't get help for his problems!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - I have a flatmate (or roommate) who is essentially slowly but surely loosing the plot. I've been living in my flat for around 5 months? I'd been flat hunting for around a month at this time it got offered to me and it seemed cool (piano, record ...

How can I make myself happy and blind to the way that I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

12 August 2013 (?) - hey, so i have some major problems when it comes to my body i hate every inch of it from my vainy feet , past my chucky cellulite thighs to my dry hair, i have good days were i am happy and can stand to look in the mirror , but then i have bad days...

Should I fight with ex over settlement? Or just sign it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - Should I just sign our settlement, or fight him? Ex and I are finalizing our divorce settlement. I was mostly ok with everything, but did think I was getting shaft a little bit. Anyway, the other day I had to go the ER because I was covered in ...

Was he right to compare my body to a woman in a porn movie

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 August 2013 (F) - I've been dieting and lost 12 lbs thus far. I was doing this mainly to lose some tummy fat that settled as I have grown a little older. This seems to be the hardest area for me to lose it. My boyfriend, we are talking about marriage, and ha...

Dear Diary, I have poor self confidence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

11 August 2013 (?) - Dear Diary, I have poor self confidence By Highmaintenance101 I honestly can’t count the number of times I enjoyed answering questions about self confidence since I have joined this site. It always excites me to answer a question where in I have...

Stretch marks make me very self-conscious

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 August 2013 (F) - I got LOTS of strech marks (arms/legs/back) when i was 14 years old. I wasn't thin but wouldn't call myself fat. I think it was perhaps growing too fast and maybe not realising i was putting on a little too much weight. The thing is, for all my ...

I'm very depressed since my sister moved away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

10 August 2013 (F) - hey guys , i'm a girl 18 years old,i think i have a real depression problem,four months ago my sister traveled to france, with her husband, it was so hard for me to say goodbye to her , we were best friends we did everything together , i cried so ...

I'm being supported by my family while in college and I feel like a failure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - This is not a relationship question, but more of a personal struggle I'm trying to cope with. I graduated with my AA in Spring of 2012. I decided to go with a psychology degree though I had intended on going to medical school so it didn't really ...

Sore throat after oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - Anyone ever experienced a sore throat after giving oral sex? Lately I've been waking up with an extremely dry throat and the last time my partner and I had engaged in this was about 2 days ago. Just curious. ...

My anxiety is really affecting my life. I want my old self back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - Hello :) I know this doesn't generally relate to relationships but it is having a knock-on effect on mine and I would like to deal with it sooner rather than later. I think that I might have anxiety, or become prone to anxiety attacks lately (or the ...

I feel unwanted and it's like having sex with a stranger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just shy of 2 1/2 years. He's been under a lot of stress lately because we are starting college and because of his job, but stress from school and his job have never been a problem with our sex life until now. ...

Can I leave him or am I trapped forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - I have lived with my husband for six years. I believe that I have always relied on men in the past and have had several abusive relationships. I suffer from deep seated fears/phobias from my childhood and agoraphobia (mild now). My husband has clin...

I'd like to date again but I am in remission from cancer and worry every day that the cancer will return. How soon should I tell someone I'm dating about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) - I am a 33 year old man who has been single for 2 years but I feel I am ready to get back out in the dating game again and see how it goes. However I am a little hesitant because of a possible terminal cancer diagnosis. Last year I was diagnosed ...

My girlfriend is making a big issue about the amount of time I spend at the gym

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) - My question is fairly straight forward. Is my gym time too much and can it hinder the relationship I am in? I have been in a relationship for one year with a great girlfriend. We do lots of things together on a weekly basis and really enjoy eac...

Others admire my achievements but I just feel empty inside

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

8 August 2013 (F) - It all started in 2009 when I didn't make it to get into the career that I had always dreamed of.instead I found myself studying something else that I had thought of.I was very depressed,I felt I wasn't good enough.I had a great childhood,I was very ...

Am I overreacting by being upset that my boyfriend didn't come to see me when I was ill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

8 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm just looking for some advice on whether I'm overreacting about this or not. I was taken into hospital yesterday with suspected appendicitis. I text my boyfriend of 4 years on the way there to let him know what was happening. When I ...