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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

How can I retract my foreskin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...

Can exercising too much stop your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - This isn't really a relationship question but i'm pretty sure you can help me. Basically i've been wondering whether doing too much excerise can stop your period. A couple of years ago I used to do a fitness plan and it was like fifty sit ups, t...

My obsession of my b/f's ex has turned into depression, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 October 2009 (?) - I am glad I have found this site.I have been obsessed with my bf's ex ever since we first started going out. We have been together 10 months now and he moved in with me quickly.I love him very much.This week I have deleted my facebook to stop myself ...

What can I do? I'm desperate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i want to make my boyfriend miss me more or as much as i miss him. i also want him to call me more and appreciate that he has a rare girl and he needs to do what it takes to hold on to her. im showing him all that, just not getting it back. please ...

What could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Me And My Boyfriedn Was Having Sex And He Said it Hurt When He Cumed But He Dont Want 2 Get Checked Out :/ But a Few Weeks Later i Had a Yellow Liquid In My Nikers And It Smelt Really Bad i Just Wanted 2 No If Thats Normal Because We Did Use a ...

Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hi, Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant? I've heard the affects can last 2-3 years after removal???...

How can I stop my period for one day so that I can have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - how can i stop my period for one day so that i can have sex?...

Is this serous and will this pain go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I thought that I would ask on here before going to the doctor's in case it's normal. The thing is I recently got married and we went on our honeymoon straight afterwards. During our two week honeymoon we had a lot of sex. About foir ...

Just come off the pill......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill....

My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...

Why is my vagina swollen shut?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - okay a few months ago i started having problems with my vag it was swollen shut an there was redness an some irritation so i went to the doctor an i was treated for a yeast infection after i was okay test results came out fine sometime after this ...

Has anyone tried the kegel master?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Has anyone every tired the kegal master if so does it really work? I am tryin to get a tighter vagina! help ...

Whats happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Does sex make your areola darker and bigger? Cuz mine are darker and bigger......

Why is one breast smaller than the other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old. and I have come to know that my left breast is smaller than the right breast, it worries me. what should i do....

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please...

Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...

Am I considered "too skinny?"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi, im 20 yrs old, i am 5'6 and I weigh 110 lbs. Would most guys consider this to be too skinny? Ive tried gaining weight but im a runner and i cant force myself to overeat. thanks....

Are breast implants attractive to men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ...

What can I do to control my mood swings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - heya im 15 and this is a question about my periods. basically i am REALLY hormonal. my moods are every where and i can be really happy one minute and the next im screaming at the top of my lungs. i know this is normal but im ruining my friendship...

I'm too shy to go to the doctors, what could this personal problem be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and i have very good personal hygiene but i have a very itchy annal hole which is very annoying, when i scratch it bleeds and looks as if im on my period, when i have a feel i can feel a few pimples up there somedays it so painful ...

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 26 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (es...

Am I repulsed by men in general? Or is it my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think i'm reaching breaking point, i'm trying to bottle things up but i know soon enough it wont work anymore when ever i get close to guys i get scared. i was abused by a family member from the age of 11 however i repressed memories unt...

My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they ...

I've been an emotional zombie ever since my fiance passed away.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - 3 years ago during the summer of 2006 I met my fiance at a family get together she was friends with one of my sisters and we hit it of great. We got engaged in Spetember 2008. we got in to a car accident coming home froma news years eve party 2008 ...

If he shouts abuse at me, I see red and lash out! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - me and my partner argue alot over stupid things like eg house work and animals etc i love him to bits but if he shouts abusive words at me i see red and lash out please please help me before it gets serously out of hand i am scared ive got ...

The whole time we were together, I used Viagra, and she doesn't know!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - I dated a girl a couple of years ago for about a year, she went her way and I went mine. She now lives in a different city. However, recently we have been talking a lot on msn messenger and it feels like we are on the verge of maybe getting back ...

When should I start my birth control pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Okay I had unprotected sex about two and a half weeks ago. I've took pregnancy tests and they all came out negative. I went to the clinic to get started on birth control which I chose to take the pills. My period came about a week ago. They also ...

Any anorexia or bulimia sufferers out there that could help me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - i know we dont usully ask for this type of help but im soo stuck. im doing my undergraduate dissertation on pro eating disorder websites, it needs to be more specific any idea what could be my question? bare in my need whatever my question is i need ...

Should I have an affair on my husband?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...

Can someone contract diseases such as HIV and others during kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked question here before and i got a reasonable answer. I appreciate that. my question is, can somebody contact diseases like HIV and others during kissing? it confused me sometimes. i don't know how to kiss and i want to try that. ...

How do I approach her about the lack of sex in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little less than 2 years and we dated for a little over 2 years before that of which more than a year was spent in different continents. At the outset I must say that I love my wife and feel fortunate that s...

Is it normal for my tail bone to hurt so bad this long after having the baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hey i just had a baby a month ago and i have been trying to do my pelvic floor exercises but when i do i about die from the pain in my tail bone. it hurt the worst while i was in the hospital but i thought it was my back. now when i sit done for a ...

What is so gross about breast feeding?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Why do other girls give me looks when i say im breast feeding my baby? why does people think its gross? i mean thats way babys are ment to be feed. i think with it being flu season and babys die from the flu it would be selfish for me not to breast ...

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy ...

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....

I am cramping long after my period ended. Please Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - i started my period on 12oct 2009,an finished on 17oct 2009.its weird because i usally have it for 4-5days. On the 25 oct i started getting cramps and every time i eat a meal i get diarria.and its 26oct today and im still getting them on an ...

Is it possible that I can be pregnant even though I'm irregular?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ok i need help. im 2 months late and i dont know if im pregnant or not. i had unprotected sex a couple of days after my last period. my periods are irregular so im thinking thats the reason why im late but then again i could be wrong. i havent t...

Sex hurt me way too much! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - hello(: I'm 15 years old and have been talking to a guy for over a year. He made it "official" a week ago. We tried having sex but it hurt way too much i could not handle the pain. I felt really bad because i told him i was ready. But i just wann...

Is my friend correct about my hymen not being intact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I can fit my middle finger inside my vagina without any discomfort my friend said that this probably means that my hymen isn't intact, even though I've never had sex is this true?...

Is there a way I can tell him about my weight gain?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - A guy added me on myspace began talking to me. We have been talking for about a month and have similar interests, good conversation, and he is very interested in me. He wants to meet me, but there is one catch. All of my myspace pictures...

I've been having symptoms of my period but it hasn't started yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - For the past 2 weeks, I've been having my period symptoms, cramping, being grouchy, being bloated etc...but my period isn't starting! I haven't been under any stress, and my diet hasn't changed at all. I'm not on any crazy birthcontrols. Ever...

How do I open the lines of communication?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Okay I'm sorry in advance for this being so long... but its been a long 6 years lol.. my girlfriend started staying with me at my parents when she was 16 and I was 17. She lived out of the school ddistrict and her mom fell ill with cancer. (She ...

How do I deal with my husbands depression? I feel more like his carer than his wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My husband has been depressed since 2005 ended, I've constantly tried and tried to seek help for him but he has so far refused to get it over the past four years. He keeps on insisting to me that September 2004 to the end of 2005 were the "golden...

What can happen if you do not get a yeast infection treated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I thought I had a yeast infection but I never got it checked up! 1.Is because I don't have health insurance 2.I thought after a while it would eventually clear up. But now I think that I should get it checked because it's very thick and I am ...

Is it possible to get a sex change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - i want a sex change but i like women i just also want to be one but is it possiple to get another sex change ...

Anyone heard of constant, negative pregnancy test results before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hello. This is very mathematical so i apologise already. *I made a summary at the bottom Secondly please dont judge due to the age bar up there. Im engaged, we both work, we both have qualifications and we both pay our bills and tax. So lets get...

How can I unborn a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - how can i unborn a baby i am 2 month of pregnat and if i tellmy dad he willkilll me and send him to jell i dient know i was pregnat me and him was pretecting are self but i dont know what happing and when plz help me dont tell me to go to a clinic ...

What first? Remaining a ladyboy or castration?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - my age is now 18 i want to be a female please say me what i have to do first is achieving feminity possible or only i be remained as a ladyboy please say to me about castration also please...

Sex after having a baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby and during labor i tore real bad. i didnt tear down i tore on the side. and it goes real deep in my vagina. its heeled up now but it hurts to touch it and wipe and i have been holding off on sex till my 6 week doc visit. well its ...

My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there...