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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I'm a 13 year old young woman with a lot of issues about the way I looke. I look pretty tiny. I am 5'0.5' tall and I weigh like 125 pounds. Do you think there is something wrong with my weight?...

My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...

How can I get rid of warts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I just found out that having warts means you have HPV, im really down because im on my second out break with them within the last year,im so ashamed im now a carrier, is there anything i can do get rid of them forever?...

When should I tell a man that I have HPV?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am a 21 year old single female and i was just wondering when to tell a man im interested in that i have an STD. I dont want to scare him off (im pretty sure i have done that in the past) by doing it too soon, but i dont want him to think i was ...

What side effects are associated with contraceptive pills? How does the doctor prescribe them (are a few visits compulsory)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - hi all was wondering when you go on the pill what can the side effects be and do i just go to the doctor and say i want to be on the pill and they give it to me then or do i have to make a few vists ...

Are these extreme yoyo moods normal or is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - hi. this is quite an odd question i suppose and i dont know how many people will be able to answer it but her goes: im 13 years old and this really weird thing happens. one second im feeling so happy, like im on top of the world and nothing can ...

Am I likely to be pregant??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I'm currently trying to become pregant and my last period was on dec 11. but i had sex on dec. 16 22 27 and he came in me. Now would I be likely to be pregnant? The fertilty calculator says im most fertile on dec 25. Can someone help me?...

How do I get through these situations and improve me self-esteem??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - My daughter is two years of age and is it still possible to go through post pardum depression? When is rains, it pours. First situation, I left my daughter's dad because he cheated on me twice. He cheated on me once and I forgave him. He cheat...

I'm extremely shy, I haven't even talked face to face with my boyfriend, why am I like this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - i've got another big problem. im really really shy. i dont know why.i dont like eating in front of people, especially boys. when i go to meet my boyfriend, i will be like 'ok this time im going to talk' but as soon as he says 'you ok?' i go weak at ...

I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a ...

How can I prevent a heavy flow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hello, I recently posted a question about being worried about my heavy period. It's gone down now and everything is fine. I was just wondering, for later refrenses, if there's anything you can do to stop a heavy flow. I don't mean pills. I mean like ...

My husband is in love with fast food. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, this problem is hard for me to solve and embarrassing too, but i really need your help. i'm 28 and my husband is 33. we've been married for 4 years and have a young son. over the past few months my husband's become obsessed with fa...

How can I get over how he used to be when he was drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My partner was an alcoholic. He used to be abusive when he was drunk. He has now stopped drinking and is doing really well. My question is how do I forgive him for the things he used to do?? I find myself still being angry over things - especial...

I'm having some disturbing dreams... Can anybody explain why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Recently i have been having some disturbing dreams.It all started when i was searching for something in our loft. I found a shoe box with some photos of my mother before i was born. She was wearing a really skimpy dress and despite myself i got abit ...

Can I get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - can i get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day? how long do i stay ovulating after that day.?...

Am I overweight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - this is a huge question, i have a very low selfesteam and i need to know is 116 lbs to much for me i'm 5'0 and 14...i always feel fat and disgusting i use to obsese over my weight (NOT anerexic/bulimic)but now that i dont as much i have gained ...

I have a sore bump on my labia, what can it be and how to get rid of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - well i felt sore down low and i had like a bump on my vagina like on the lip it hurts when you touch it can this be serious?? my mum says it mite just be a spot with some puss inside but i want to no from u guys what shud i do to get rid of it?...

I'm on the pill but afraid I might have gotten pregnant anyway, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am asking my question again to see if I may please get some more responses. I am on the pill and have been for a few years now. I have been having sex without condoms with my boyfriend. I am having spotting which has gone from light pink to ...

My bother in law is getting married abroad this year and only thinking about going there makes me cry. I suffer from agoraphobia and I feel like an outsider in his family, how do I live through this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - My husbands brother has announced he will be getting married abroad later this year, and naturally we will all be expected to go. It will be two weeks with my husbands family which is going to be really hard. I am very different in every way to them ...

Since my thrush cleared up I don't get wet anymore...any ideas why? I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating or don't fancy him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 monthes, and between september and november i had thrush but now i know the cause of this it was from perfumed soap, but it has cleared up now... anyway since it has cleared up everytime i have sex with my ...

Can I increase my willpower against temptations so that I can keep a diet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 December 2007 (?) - Before I start, can I please ask not to have a load of scientific cobblers about willpower not existing. I am 14, and I have always been paranoid about my weight, and according to BMI tests, I am not overweight, but almost in danger of becomi...

I need a more toned tummy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - hiya im 16 and weigh between 9-9 n half stone. I used to weigh about 8 n half a year ago. Now my back has always seemed to arche in further than others and so my stomach sticks out but for about 6 months ive really been noticing it n its really ...

I'm 11 and my period has been very heavy, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I'm 11 and I got my period October 10. It skipped in the beginning of November and my mum said it's normal. Then, I got it right on Thanksgiving! For December, I got right on Christmas! Weird! I think their's something wrong though, because last ...

Vaginal piercings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - i'm 14 and this is weird but i was having a conversation with a close guy friend of mine about piercings and i have had my belly button, nose, tongue and nipple pierced but what i want to get pierced is my clit he says if i did that it would be ...

I have had my period twice in one month and am worried something is wrong with me...please help.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - hi! I need some help and advice please. this time is is not about boys! *surprise surpries* lol. Well i had my period right at the start of the month about 3rd or 4th of decemeber that was expected and fine etc. But today i had my period again,...

How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to...

How can I shake the winter blues??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - I think I have the winter blues.I've been really depressed lately,and EXTREMLY self conscious of my body.I've lost my tan.=( Its weird,because in the summer I have no problems being confident what so ever. I just feel fat and pale lately. How can ...

Has anyone had their hymen broken riding a horse (and did it hurt)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi my 16 year old sister is going horse back riding for the first time . one day she was looking up things about sex , virginity and other stuff. mostly on dr. drew's web site and gurl.com about the hymen that we women have she found out that the ...

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

Very self conscious about my big breats. Any natural method for breast reduction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD. Is this too big?? Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds... Should I get a Brea...

14, my dad died, my big brother hates me, my mother as well and I am bulied in school and at home. I'd like to move with my auntie but don't know how she'd react. Solutions for me, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - here are my promblems ... -my dad died 3years ago when i was 10, i miss him so much -ive fallen out with all my mates, i cant live without them -my big brother hates my, and i mean hates me, he wont talk to me and hasnt for a year, he moved t...

Any suggestions as to what might be wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - hey i need some help here. does any1 av any suggestions whats wrong with me? was out@ dinner with friends a few nights ago and i was fine during the starter but when the main courses came i felt really sick and had to go home. this has happened a ...

How do I get a flat stomach and get rid of the double chin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Hey I need advice and help. I want a flat stomach how do I go about getting one? I'm not that fat but my stomach is still pretty fat. And I've got a double chin but it only shows when I look down how do I get rid of it? I'm 18 years old and not ...

My gf is ex-anorexic and has mental issues, becoming moody. If I don't behave in a certain way she gets mad and breaks up, which is emotional straining for me. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - hello I a a lesbian any my girlfriend is really feminine and I am too, but not as much as her. we've been together 9 months. She wants me to treat her like I was man as far as doing things for her. She is also ex anorexic and does have mental issu...

14, I performed oral sex on him without a condom. He didn't ejaculate, could I have gotten any disease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I am going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me. The other day we told each other that we loved each other and that we never want to lose each other. because he made me happy, i gave him a blowjob, 3 times. He said that i was really g...

How can I stop him blackmailing me, as I am becoming scared?? We've had a turbulent relationship so far, now live together as lodges.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I have been in my current relationship for 6 years, living together for 3 of those. We have had a turbulent relationship to say the least, it has been a 'can't live with or without you' type. We decided last xmas to split, however, we have been...

Depressed before period...Is there help for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5970 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - Hey..this is a silly question really... Basicly about a week before my period is due until it comes on I feel REALLy depressed...Suicidal even sometimes..It gets so bad that I cant even go and and cant stop crying...I know its only hormones...

I date women but my boss asked me if I was gay? Now I'm really confused --help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a 21 year old male currently experiencing some confusion. Over the past year or two their have been rumours from other people about me being gay. At the moment I am pretty depressed and these rumours just make things worse. FOr a bit of b...

I told my best friend she hurt my feelings when she mentioned her love and even forbade them to kiss in front of me. Now I feel guilty for all that happened and need advice about how to react in the future.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - I'm a 21 year old guy in a 3 way relationship gone from bad to hell. I have had trouble with friends in the past..who betrayed me..or just used me..things like that, so i never wanted many friends just a few good ones. That's how things were a year ...

Her doctor advised her to distance herself for people for an introspection as she doesn't know what she wants. She left me twice, no explanations, no hopes. How to win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - Hi Guys and thank you for reading! I was with this girl for 1 year and a half. After 1 year she dumped me because she thought she did not love me anymore. I called her again and again, but nothing, she would not answer my calls. I let he...

My girlfriend suffers from low self esteem and bulemia, I came up with some ideas to boost her confidence but my friends say I will drive her into the arms of another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - I have been with my grilfriend for a over a year now, she has recently told me she has suffered from bulemia and is desperate to feel good about her self and more importantly to feel sexy again. She is gorgeous and has a beautiful face and the most ...

Life is getting me down, how do I change things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - This may sound ridiculous but it's quite a big issue for me at the minute. The thing is i'm 17 years old and live at home with my father and sister. This year I have been under immense stress it's just been a really tough time. Now I know I coul...

Does Dr Pepper lower sperm count?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My friend hurd a roumer that Dr.Pepper lowers sperm count? is this true?...

My boyfriends brother is obsessed with this girl to the point it is causing depression, how do I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Ok, I have a question (obviously) it’s about my boyfriends brother; he is infatuated with their ex-flatmate. He is starting to self harm and get really depressed about it; ok she moved out but she still see’s him on a regular basis, yes she flirts ...

I still love my pregnant ex, but she has a new boyfriend. Do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My ex girl friend is pregnant and im still in love with her. but she also has a boy friend to. what do i do??...

What time in your menstrual cycle can you get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Ok I know people say 'you can get pregnant anytime' BUT can you definatly get pregnant 5-6 days after a finished period. advice is welcomed...

Maybe my ex disrespected me because I did what I originally said I wasn't going to do, so was it in fact my fault he was abusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5974 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Was it my fault my ex was disrespectful to me? I ask this because even though he was emotionally abusive, maybe he disrespected me because I did what I orignially said I wasn't going to do (ex. have sex with him before marriage and get drunk)-of ...

GF suffers from mild depression and it is now affecting me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend suffers from mild depression. She can hold down a good job, but she has trouble sleeping, cries a lot and rarely wants to see anybody. I have done my best to cope with her depression for the last 6 months and I have now reached ...

Is it normal that a man can ejaculate without his penis being hard?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Is it normal that a man can ejaculate without his penis being hard? My b/f lately has been having problems getting and keeping it up, and so we did it doggy style the last few nights, and it wasn't even up, it was still limp, so it was hard to get ...

Can my daughter still get viral meningitis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - My daughter has a very bad cold and is suffering from back ache. There is virul meningitus going around and i am worrid she has it. She had the injection when she was younger can she still get viral meningitus? ...