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Health: Help and advice

I'm worried about my mental health.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1576 days ago

31 December 2019 (F) - I'm scared i'm sinking into depression and can't pull myself out of it. I'm a Mum of one (teenager) and came out of a long term relationship in October. When I had my child, I battled post-natal depression for several years and so I think I c...

Are my wife and mother being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

31 December 2019 (M) - Am I paranoid or are people selfish? I recently had a road traffic collision and as a result I was prevented from doing my usual sports or activities by my wife and mother, physically I was fine. They both said I shouldn’t drive for my health ju...

There is no physical chemistry, which makes me think he is not "My Guy"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been dating a friend of mine who confessed that hes had feelings for me for a year now, and since I just got out of a toxic relationship he said he had to tell.me how he felt before I started dating someone else, hes a great guy, ...

My husband doesn't like my new hair colour.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

29 December 2019 (F) - ive been with my partner for twenty years when I met him I was natural brunette but now im in my mid forties got a few greys and I changed my hair to blonde which everyone likes my family and friends and I get much more attention. Most importantly I ...

My boyfriend's good side is wonderful, it is why I have stayed so long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1582 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Over the last year, I've spent 5 months total with my bf. Let me give you a timeline. January-gone half the month working February-gone half the month because he was mad at me but we took a trip to Florida where we reconciled but then I flew acro...

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me, did I make the right choice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1582 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - Dear Everyone, I am writing this today because to be completely honest, I feel completely lost. I have been in a relationship for about 7 months. It started pretty slow, I didn't necessarily plan on being in a relationship so fast. We started ...

I can’t get into deep sleep anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

25 December 2019 (M) - I haven’t been able to go into deep sleep, this has been going on for almost a year now, I am only able to experience shallow sleepwhere I almost feel half asleep and half awake, I feel like I could be awaken by a drop of pin. And this shallow sleep ...

My hypochondria and fear about the health of my loved ones is driving me up the wall

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

24 December 2019 (F) - I desperately need help for something that's gotten out of hand. I am a total hypochondriac and always assume the worst when it comes to health issues. The last year has been particularly bad. I thought I had breast cancer (turned out to be a harm...

We don't have sex much anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years. And next year it is 10 years. But we don't have sex that much anymore. Is this normal in a relationship?. Or is there something wrong with me?. ...

I lose my erection when I'm about to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1585 days ago

22 December 2019 (M) - Hi guys! I am having problem during sex.My penis is tight and fit when i play with my babe but when i want to insert it become lose. what is issue? need your help....

The yelling and shouting between my boyfriend and I has gotten much worse!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - Boyfriend and I are starting to have blow up arguments. Half of the time I can't even remember how they started. He starts to yell and scream and I have started to return the yelling and screaming, at first I use to just deal with it. Then he ...

My partner doesn't seem to care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for 6 years but I feel so lonely I went out last night and kissed some bloke in front of everyone I was really drunk I get shown no affection from my boyfriend or shown any love at all we don’t have sex and he’s Been in ...

I'm worried I am leaving it too late to have a family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - I just recently turned 33 years old a couple of months ago and I am panicking about my age - specially because of the comments I get from my family about getting married and my eggs being dried up and mocking me about how I can’t seem to find anyone ...

I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than take him back, but I feel so lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hi all, Sorry to being negativity to the table but i'm feeling lonely and wasn't sure where to go to with this. Basically I recently broke up with an abusive boyfriend of many years. I've had a really busy couple of weeks in work and so h...

My girlfriend keeps breaking down over stress at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

20 December 2019 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I'm 24, she's 26. We were living together, but now she's working 4 hours away while I'm still studying. She's constantly stressed at work, and I feel like I'm just an outlet for her stress. Nearly ...

I'm compensating my lonliness by filling my life with material things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hello all, I've been having a really hard time controlling myself spending a lot of money. It all started 3 years ago when I first started university. I lost contact with my friends from school, they kept cancelling plans whenever we wanted to ...

My terrible anxiety is affecting everything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

19 December 2019 (F) - I am 31 and I just finished working at a salon while training. I'm still attending college in January to finish a few things so not fully qualified just yet. But I have terrible anxiety. All throughout my job I've had moments where I didn't think ...

Since the birth of the baby I'm just not interested in sex anyore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1602 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - I had a baby nearly 5 months ago and have no sex drive. I've also recently been getting depo provera which is contraception injection. Its known to decrease sex drive I read but I've only just had my first one and was like this anyway before it. Not ...

Is my wife exaggerating everything just to try and make me feel bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1606 days ago

2 December 2019 (M) - Last week my wife injured her pinky toe after we (her being barefoot and me with shoes on) clipped each other's feet as we walked past each other. It was a freak accident. She was in a lot of pain and there was a bit of blood. At first she was ...