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The Crying Game: what to do other than leave this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Im 40 years old and tired of a four year relationship with a 33 yaer old woman who cry's all the time. Ive asked and tried to comfort but she does it and has done it so much it infuriates me to hear her whiney voice and its always over attention she ...

I want to go out with a guy I've never even met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid but please hear me out. I'm at uni, the stereotypical "party girl" and used to be really shallow regarding guys. I'd get romantically involved with the most attractive guys who showed the slightest bit of...

I feel I missed out, I've only ever been with my wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I married 20 yrs I know all my wife's sex partners. We went to high school I've even know what they did because she told me year 20yrs ago. I have seen her have sex with one at a party. I cant get it out of my head its driving me crazy . I have ...

Has anyone with PCOS succeeded in getting pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have PCOS and thanks to that I never get a period. Me and my boyfriend want a baby. I started metformin a month ago and have been taking 2000mg for 2 weeks now. Has anyone succeeded in conceiving? I really really want a baby now. Any...

Anyone know a good way in which I can shave daily and not bleed to death and tear up my skin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Wondering if anyone else has experienced this and can give advice. I have PCOS and as a result of that I have rather bad hirsutism, lucky for me though I am red headed and my hair isn’t exactly dark but I do still have to shave. Everyday I sha...

Why do I get hiccups all the time and what can I do about them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Though this one is not related with relationship etc, but this is a situation i am currently going through. Problem I am facing right now is that, I get too much of hiccups, sometimes continuously for many hours and after every 5 minutes or so co...

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t ...

I feel too ugly to be a bride!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't want to sound conceited or like I'm being an attention seeker but I'm due to get married in 1 year and i feel as though I'm too ugly to be a bride. I hate having my photo taken and I even discussed with my fiancé about not having a ...

My wife stresses about EVERYTHING which in turn causes much stress for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi everyone - I've been married now for around 9 months. When my wife and I were first dating everything seemed like we were on cloud nine, we got along really well and did not have a single drama. The few weeks before our wedding however things got ...

Will he notice that I gained weight? Does it matter to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I am probably going to sound completely insecure, but hey, I need some reassurance. I have liked this guy for a long time now, we used to see each other once a week over a 6 month period last year, but for various reasons we kept it purely platon...

Confused as to why he keeps threatening to go to prostitutes if I do something he doesn't like!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - im in relationship with w for more then five years. the only thing i promised him was that i will never leave him or for sure i will never betray him. but i will leave him if i get to know that he is with other girls. if any girls cross into our ...

Ways in which I can get my emotions out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This question should be realitively short, but basically i'm trying to find ways to get my emotions out? And it sound strange, but I need help. I have one or two mental health disorders, and I have always beleived the reas...

Should I try to reach out to a boy I don't know to give advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - There is this guy at my school. He's in one of my classes and were not exactly friends but I recently heard from a friend of his that he is depressed and has cut himself. I wish I could talk to him and give him words of encouragement but I don't ...

If you think someone is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know if anyone will know the answer to this but here goes. .. If you think someone you know is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor? Everyone I know thinks that my ex is out of touch with reality because he thinks we are together and ...

I'm ruining my girlfriend's life with my drinking but she won't leave me. Should I break things off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hey, I met a girl 3 years ago at a bar in which she happened to be a singer,her voice spoke to me,it was beautiful I used my contacts and got her work at a higher end place..we eventually started talking and then dating..her career graph is reaching...

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nast...

I'm pregnant and feeling sad knowing my child's father won't be in the picture

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Im having to face being a single mum and only in the last week or so I have been feeling loss of love towards my baby. I know it could be hormonal but i dont like feeling this way. Especially when I felt nothing but excitement towards my baby from ...

I know I deserve way better than this! What do I do about this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok here is the situation at hand, my husband, I just don't know anymore with him, on 4/27/13 I was having bad chest pains and I was thinking about going to the er, he wouldn't even go with me, he said that all my anxiety attacks are coming from me, ...

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one ...

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle...

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general....

When to reveal a disability during online dating?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...

Where is my marriage ending? Unhappily ever after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm unhappily married to a man more than twice my age approaching his 70s. While we dated, I knew he was not the right person for me. I however admired his maturity and intelligence. I was at downnest point with no money, career and basically messed ...

We are very much in love so why am I beating myself over her past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I'm 45 my girlfriend is 28,which we have been together for 2 yrs and have a son.I have only slept with 1 woman before her, my ex wife who I was with for 23 years. I have this re occurring problem which plays on my mind, she has had about 4 partners ...

What he said to me made me so sick to my stomach that I didn't sleep all night. What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years we had a perfect relationship but then he got addicted to drugs. I had to become more of a mom figure to him. Then a girl friend due to everything he was getting himself into. But through it all I stuck by h...

So many questions I never had an opportunity to ask my ex. Why can't I move on? Why can't I stop thinking of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Why, do I keep thinking of my ex? It's been almost a year, I don't think I am missing her. I never got my last words in, never got to tell her what what I needed to say, like why did you break up with me? I keep thinking what I want to say to h...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3982 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

How long could it take to get over my first love? Is there any hope to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - how long does it take to get over my first love? i dated this girl since oct 2012. she was the one who went after me. i had the biggest crush on her to scared to say anything. she was just amazing beautiful kind funny and very tall 6 feet. we were ...

We didn't have sex but he use erection support pills! What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to think!!! My boyfriend and I finally decided to live together and he took all his things to my apartment. Today when he already went to work I put his things in shelves. He has a lot of supplements and pills, e...

Could my boyfriend have lied to me? He said he was a virgin when we met, but seemed to know so much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were to together for five years. When we first met we were both virgins but throughout are relationship it was always in the back of my head thinking about. What if he hadn't been a virgin? He said he was but he knew so much abou...

I start to feel nauseous when there's a possiblity of starting a relationship. Why does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I have been writing like crazy the last couple of days trying to figure out what's happening in my head. I have had this a couple of times, but the last time, it started about two weeks ago. I met a nice girl and we really seem to connect and like...

Is his lack of empathy, and the fact that he is not understanding towards me, going to make it difficult for our relationship to continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months. He has a lot of an amazing qualities but then there are some characteristics that I can't get past. He isn't emotionally supportive and I feel like he doesn't "get me" like he should. ...

My Mom seems to want me to be more like her. But that's not me. How can I handle this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - hey aunties and uncles, it's not a relationship question, well not of the romantic kind anyway. just a quick background, As a child I wasn't very shy but as the years passed I suppose I became shy with strangers at school I wasn't bullied, ...

I don't want to break up. What can I do? She wants to tell everyone we are dating and I am not there yet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am in a very complicated situation. I've been dating this girl for a couples of months now. I had never dated a women before and before I met her I always considered myself straight 100%. I don't like women, I just like her. I have actuall...

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started ...

Should I tell my boyfriend? Just thinking about sex disgusts me. No desire for sex. Could I be asexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I am struggling with my sexuality. I have been in a relationship with a male for two years but I think I may be asexual. I have no desire for sex, I feel disgusted when thinking about it and it causes conflicting feelings towards my boyfrien...

How do you deal with a spouse who shuts down when something truly upsets them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - My wife has been through so much her entire life and she definitely is a rock. She is the motivated type who when faced with a problem doesn't get flustered or crazy she just finds a solution and gets it done. There are times however that when ...

How do you stop becoming obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hi. I was hoping to find some tips here since I'm really, for the first time in need of help from others. I've had a really awful relationship of 3 years to early 2011 and I felt I was recovered from it. However, I've kinda developed an obses...

This cute guy is all I want but I'm too shy to talk to him, it's killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Why can't I get him out my head? This is killing me:(? My ex boyfriend lied cheated and dumped me and i lost all my confidence so I decided to join the gym and I'm in the best shape in my life. Guys all say I'm attractive. But there's ...

Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...

If I stay with him is it possible that he will just make me even more unhappy? Because he's not the Bf he used to be. He takes me for granted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have dated for almost 3 years. We've never dated before so being in a relationship with eachother is our first. I have made a few mistakes in the past such as lying. When I first met my bf I lied to him about a few things such as g...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

How do I get rid of my bad thoughts and concentrate on my work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - i m a 25 year male, student. i have always find myself thinking bad things as like sex etc. and always trying myself to keep away from my actual work. i found that i m deteriorating my career and life but repeatedlly i m becoming failed to keep my ...

Life Balance. May I have some tips on how to prioritize between my school life and find time to enjoy my passion of helping others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Well I have been off this site for a while, and I am coming back for a little while as I have been overloaded with work! Basically, I am 16, and I have a little bit of a problem. My GCSE's are comin...

I feel tired after I have climaxed three times. Yet is it fair that girlfriends have called me a sex addict for wanting more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

22 April 2013 (M) - Hi am 27 years old and something is disturbing me when am having sex with a lady after ejaculating i still feel horny and i can continue having sex without having to rest upto the 3rd round that is when i have a refractory period or feel tired.And ...

I love him still and want him in my life but have come to the realization that for now I have to let him hit rock bottom and pray that he finds his way back to my heart..hopefully soon enough.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - The man I love with who Ive been off and on (not because we argued all the time, just because he has not been ready for a relationship because of many aspects of his life). 1- When I say he's not ready for a relationship is because he isn't...

So is having a high sex drive good and why do my hormones drive me crazy, is it because of being only 23 years old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - Hi guys, is it wrong that I look at glamour models on website and magazines everyday because it seems the only way to control my urges. It as if I have a high sex drive and I am a virgin, is that a possibility. Obviously, if I met a girl then this ...