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Health: Help and advice

Nearly assaulted, feeling incredibly depressed, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - THe other night i had a terrifying experience. I was walking home and some guy i felt was following me even though at this point i hadnt laid eyes on him and there were others around. It was 230 am and i had commenced a 10min walk to my bfs house th...

Addictive personality, becoming addicted to cannabis!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I have an addictive personality which means i can get addicted to anything as silly as penguin biscuits and i get addicted very easily too. Ive done well to stay away from drugs so far in my life but for my current bf they're quite a major part of ...

I need change...any recommendations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by ...

I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...

My hormones are controlling me and it's horrible. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I know hormones are very normal for my age but I can't cope with them. I always get upset when I am on my period; I sometimes feel aggressive. I'm one of those people that don't start fights and probably wouldn't fight back, but recently I have been ...

Very emotional after I had the contraceptive jab, how to deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - girls help with hormones had my contraceptive jab and finding it hard to deal with the emotion/sensitivity part. anything , remedies, hot baths to make me feel better? any suggestions?...

My anger slowly builds up and I lash out, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey again everyone. I'm worried about myself, as from time to time, I get fairly angry over a lot of small things parcelled up into one, as I try to suppress the fact I'm angry. And I fear this may turn me into someone violent, when I'm actual...

Liquid or powder foundation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (?) - hi, i was just wondering, erm which is the best foundation to use, liquid or powder? I want to get that 'airburshed' look, i have never tried liquid before and powder has a reputation just to go orange. But is liquid foundation bad for your skin or ...

Anyone know how long it might be before I can expect a period again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone Not sure if anyone can help but... I've been taking the pill (microgynon) continually for about 8 weeks - you're meant to have breaks but the whole reason I went on the pill was to not have any periods whilst I was doing my fi...

My girlfriend has nightmares constantly, could she be repressing something, should she see a doctor or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, My girlfriend is having nightmares that are really interrupting her (our!) sleep. They seem to occur just as she's drifting off, and they vary in intensity. She'll suddenly have a start and wake up, sometimes she's tossing and turning,...

How can I fatten myself up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION! im 14 about 5'6 98lbs. i want to gain FAT not MUSCLE and i want some fat in these areas: legs arms stomach and butt. I tried ensure but its too expensive. is there any supplement vitamin or powder i can drink? yes ...

I really want a baby!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...

How do I control this sweating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi :) I have a problem and I'm not sure what to do so I'd like some advice! I use deodrant all the time but somehow I still sweat and it makes sweat patches on my clothes. I have like 5 different ones so my body doesn't get conditioned, but it still...

I have a real problem with emotional eating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a real problem with emotional eating, especially eating out of stress and boredom is the big one. I also just don't have a sense of being full, since I can't tell I usually just choose to stop at some point but if I am distracted its easy to ...

I am worried I have some kind of ovary problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 3-4 months now, we never use protection. I was 1-2 weeks later starting my period, so I took the test which came back undecisive. This morning I came on, but the blood flow is just water, I woke up to the ...

Periods and sexual activity....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x...

Are there risks involved with having sex with two women at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - hey, can i get any STI's or anything like that through having sex with two woman at the same time, without using a condom. is it safe to put my cock into one woman, then into another and back again? is there any risks?...

Infected foreskin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - I've done some research on this and the results so far haven't been good. I'm 37 years old and very obese. I'm not circumcised and have been getting infected foreskin a lot lately. I'm almost positive it's not an STD. I haven't had sex with anyone ...

I would like to know about women's periods

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - Hi dear girls... My question is only for girls pls... don't mind boys.. Yaar because I am come from that society where it is not possible for me to ask this directly to someone. I want to know about periods. How it happends and in what age...

Will being "loose" down there affect married life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on ...

Problems with sweating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - This probably isn't the appropriate question to ask on dear cupid, but I would like some opinions please. This is a health related question. I am male, 25years old, and fit and healthy, however I have have a problem with my underarms, I am ...

One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am ...

How to deal with chest hair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - i have a pretty hairy chest, but i dont really want one anymore, ive tried to shave it but all that it left me with was multiple ingrown hairs, rough stuble. I want a smooth hairless chest, is there anyway to get that?, maybe waxing?...

Ladies, I have a lot of pubic hair which I want removed, how do I ask my mom to get me something that will take care of it, did you ever have this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - This question is only for girls. I am thirteen and going thu puberty... obviously. any way I have a lot of pubic hair that show on the bekini line and I really want my mom to buy me nair wax strips for bikini lone or something like that but...

Really need some exercise tips, for specific results?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - With summer only weeks away im wanting to tone up and lose the fat around my thighs, as well as toning my bum, making it look 'lifted' as if fuller, but im not sure what would be the best way to achieve this?? I eat normally quite healthy, but to be ...

I am short of breath, have a sharp pain, doctor has found nothing, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm really worried about my health. There are times when I feel a little short of breath, and every now and again, I experience a short but sharp pain in my chest. It only lasts for a second or two and then it stops. I've been to a docto...

Getting ready to have some fun, noticed his penis was peeling, is this a big problem or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I get checked for diseases twice a year. (AIDS, std's etc)And i've always been clean. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and hes clean also. (Well, i'm guessing hes clean, considering I've been tested while being sexually active with him, ...

I think he was very rude to me after I spotted his white duvet a bit, what do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I hope people don't find this too personal a question but here goes. Recently I have had sex with my fiance and unfortunately I have started spotting. He has pure white sheets and I sat on a towel but two very tiny smudges got on his white duvet. I ...

Worried about getting braces!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but ...

Confused about women's bodies and sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - Hi Dear Members? I am 25 years, I have lot of confusion about women body and their sex organs. because I don't have sex yet. so, can you pls tell me What is hymen? is this releted with menstruation? is it true that every girls have bleed i...

Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms. My question is to all the girls and i want a com...

I have a massive porn addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - hi, this is more confession than question but i would like some feed back so i have a pretty...well lets call it healthy, sex drive. i think sometimes it screws with me being happy with my life. i dare say i am on the boarder of being a porn add...

Am I overweight for my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - This isn't really a relationship question but this is the only place I can turn to, to get some advice. Idk what all information you need to tell me what I need to know but I'll just tell you everything about my body. I'm 13 years old, about 5'2, my ...

I am naturally pessimistic about life and the world

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - this is a broad question. i am aware that there are a million approaches to life, but my mind usually takes the most negative perspective first. if i try hard enough and am lucky, i'll force myself to look at it another way--and believe it. but typi...

Chance and choice, how scenarios happen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I wonder how much our life effected by chance,and how much on our choices? Right now I think chance is more dominant ,than choice. Like a bad marriage I live in, can determine your life for years, and if you have children ,its not easy to get out,...

Diet & exercise tips for 6 pack abs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - Ok, im 14 and can not find anything that sounds convincing or is true on building ab muscle. I want to get a 6pack (not to big, just a nice mild look on the skin cerface). I heard that a good diet helps.. can somebody please share any d...

Could having an orgasm help my period start?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, im 14 and havent had my period yet! idk if theres something wrong with me but all my friends have it. Im not under developed. Ok but i was wondering if maybe an ogasm could have had an effect on me getting my period or not?? i need answers! ...

Six cans of red bull a day? This can't be good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Theres a guy i know who i am worried about, he drinks at least 6 cans of red bull per day, surely this cant be normal? What health problems can occur from consuming too much caffeine? ...

How can I get rid of those last extra pounds??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I am 5ft 4inches and I'm almost 10 stone. I don't think I am fat, but I would like to be at my target weight of 9stone. Compared to others, I don't really have alot to lose, however because I'm not drastically overweight I am finding the extra ...

I'm so skinny, when will I start to fill out and look normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

27 May 2009 (?) - i am reaaaaaally slim. i'm definitely NOT anorexic, thats just a terrible thought. all my friends are like 'oh how skinny are you' and its really annoying because it makes me feel upset. that i'm not normal like everyone else. everyone is like 'oh i ...

New lover doesn't use deodorant....any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I have new lover who i seriously want to keep. i am terrified of offending him. He is smartly dressed and clean in appearance, however, i noticed that he does not use a deodrant and has a tendency to sweat a lot. How can i possibly tell him, withou...

Am I old before my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Im 25 years old, i dont drink much, i keep fit and im happily settled with my long term bf. Everything initially sounds rosy however since ive become happy and settled none of my friends want to know, i constantly try to organise days and nights out ...

Pains in my stomach after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - The first time i had sex a few weeks ago it was fine during sex, however a couple of hours after i got a sharp pain through my stomach area every time i stood up/straightened my back. I didn't know what caused it or if it was to do with the sex, but ...

Kissing and HIV

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - I want ask that if may i kiss my hiv positve friend now will i become hiv positvie or not?...

How can I help my boyfriend with his OCD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suffers from OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.)i love him so much but sometimes it gets really difficult between us. Take two nights ago, for example, he called me saying that he doesn't deserve me, that he's a loser and that the ...

I feel inferior all the time!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I feel inferior all the time. I don't know why. I mean, I've always had some issues with my self esteem, but usually I did pretty good and was fairly happy with myself. Of course in high school this was normal, as I wasn't pretty or popular, so I ...

Frenulum tear; can't tell parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - We'll Im not a virgin and the first few times i had sex except for fact that i lasted very short intervals of time, everything went smooth. however a month ago i attempted to have sex and my frenulum ripped and the same thing occured today after ...

Going for the burn!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Masturbating for 30 minutes and having sex for 30 minutes continuously. How many calories would burn in each process for a male weighing 200lbs (90kgs)??...

Am I suffering from Anorexia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hi im 16, weigh 7st 10 and im 5ft 5 (female) in 2007 alot was happening in my life and i started suffering with anorexia. i went from 9st - 6st no one realised but i think my mum did as she started making me come in for tea but she never t...