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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Why are my siblings turning their backs on our mother now that she is sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - DearCupid,I am a middle aged young woman who put her life aside because I have one living parent and now she is slightly sick she's a diabetic and had to have her legs taken off she also have other health issues going on.I am not the only child I ...

What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and ...

Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one? 1) You have to be happy alone before you can be with some...

He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual function for unknown reasons. He is unable to keep his erections, and he has zero sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I m so disappointed . My husband and me , might be unable to make it much longer together., after 26 years of marriage. I know sex is not everything, but affection is... I really need some understanding and some advice. He is a good man, but he is ...

We have sex 3 times a week, what can I do to boost my sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Hello dear cupid I have a serious issue. ..I am 22 and my fiance is 27 we have a great relationship outside of the sex department. ...we have a handsome 9 month old, truly faithful to one another, and pursuing to be successful for our family...the ...

What is wrong? I ejaculate too fast!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I dont really know what is wrong. But each time i try to play with myself i usually ejaculate very fast than expected and anytime i try to penetrate any girl i usually ejaculate even before my penile draws closer to the vagina. I dont know if this ...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

Am I wrong to feel a little bit hurt by this? I spent 5 years letting his mother say what she wanted to me and after I finally stand up for myself he goes round like nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles Got a problem, I've been with my bf now for 5 years his family have never really accepted me in all this time and thing got worse when I went into an apprenticeship rather than go to university. My bf moved in with me and my f...

Fat Issues and lots of Tissues: Question is, why would I stay in a relationship where I have to change to suit his ideals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Fat issues and tissues So my SO keeps calling me a fatso. Mmm that's abusive. I need to loose, for myself, 20 lbs Also in menopause and also 52 years old. But I'm very active, trying now to boost my metabolism I have put my relationship...

Any other females that have been through these feelings of the clock ticking have any advice? Or any males that could give me advice from their viewpoint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm 27 and I'm not not married, finishing school with my graduate degree in 2 years and by then I will be close to 30. It's starting to scare me only because I always thought that I would have met the right guy by now and all my friends are in ...

How do I emotionally cope with the aftermath of a C-section?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and just went for my weekly doctor's appointment. I found out a few things: my baby is already nearly 8lbs and breech and I'm 1cm dilated. I had hopes the entire time of having a natural birth, but the doctors aren't ...

Do women get wet panties without physical stimulation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - Women do you get wet panties - in a sexual sense - without getting physical? By this I mean without someone physically stimulating you. Several years ago a girl I was friendly with came round to my flat and had a quick shower after work.W...

My friend assaulted me, should I report it to the police?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Not a relationship question, but I could really do with some advice here! Last week a friend bit me. Hard. It was completely unprovoked, and I don't know if he just thought he was being funny or what. We were sitting on the couch, just ...

PMS blues. Should I talk to my mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old, and I suffer from awful PMS. I've had my period for about two years now, and despite hours of research, I can't seem to find any information on how to aid my symptoms. I get severe breast tenderness. I can't even wear a shirt ...

He gave me chlamydia and wasn't upfront with me about it. Is withholding information the same as lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm 3 months pregnant and through the series of required blood tests, I tested positive for chlamydia. Totally shocked, I told my bf what the doc said and asked if there was anything he needed to tell me (I tested negative at my last visit in ...

Why is this being taken out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - i'm really hurting a lot right now and i don't know what to do. please help. my ex and i have been off and on so many times in the last couple of months. it's been killing me. when we were on, we were amazing. i could see how much she loved me just ...

Would it be possible that it could be STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago we tried to have sex, in the sense he tried to enter me but couldn't, his penis touched my vagina but he didn't enter me, I think it was me being too dry but that isn't the ...

Why do I have this nervous feeling in my stomach about my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - Hi basically I've been having trouble with Anxiety/worried feeling in my stomach for a week. I believe that I don't know what started it. However because it was making me feel bad I was off with my girlfriend of 7 months. Now all of a sudden I ...

Its false projecting when she's making her lips look larger than they are!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - I met this girl, who is incredibly beautiful, funny, smart and so easy to get along with! One the thing that I found alluring about her was the fullness of her lips. And we've been on a few dates and yesterday we went out in the day and I noticed ...

Can I get Herpes from kissing my boyfriend doesn't have any blisters ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - question about kissing and herpes. I recently started dating this guy he is very nice we has a kissing make out session we have only been on 3 dates so no further but now he tells me he has Genital Herpes. I told him that I was not going to sleep ...

Did I do the right thing here? Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi aunt and uncles :) It's been a while since I have had to post as I have been really happy up until now. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years and we were really happy. He lost his job in November and was sent to prison. I st...

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

Single Mom, please help - why is my daughter behaving like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I am a single mom... I have a daughter who is 13 yrs of age. For the past year her behavior has been really unusal. She walks around the house with a robe all of the time...And its like 80 something degrees, it seems she uses this robe as a clutch s...

My oily skin is ruining my life and my makeup! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Hi its not really a relationship problem but more of a skin thing. Basically I have seriously oily skin! Like literally you could fry chips on my face, fit or what!! Anyway, I've always had oily skin to a degree but nothing too major thats its ...

How can I show my gf that she is beautiful and that her scars are not as bad as she thinks they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - My girlfriend is beautiful to me and anyone who has ever met her but she refuses to take off her clothes during sex or without the room being dark. I know she has a pretty bad scar on her torso just under her ribcage because of a burns accident ...

Where is the blood coming from?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hello! I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite awhile. While we were on vacation, we were having sex much more frequent than what normally happens at home. YAY! On one of those days it was kind of rough, and later on when I ...

Should I go back to my old job? I worry that the store manager does not like me and I suffer social anxiety. Or should I look for something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under su...

Should I wait until the divorce comes through before I pursue things further with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - After a 6-year wait for a possible relationship, 3 months ago I finally got a reply from the advert I placed on Match.com, one thing I liked that she mentioned in her profile was B movies (and her advert seemed a little keen: it said: if you thin...

I am almost completely flat-chested, my self-esteem is in the toilet and it's affecting my relationships.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Well, the title says it. I am basically the equivalent of a 32AA bra size, and even then my bras tend to slide around because nothing fills them up. I've always been a slim build and then recently put on some weight and I now weigh a comfortable 125 ...

I am overworked both at work and at home but my traditionalist mom doesn't understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Hi Having a few problems here. The last couple of weeks I've been suffering from bad migraines and dizziness. Then last Wednesday I had a full scale panic attack before going to bed. Now this has only started happening recently the only other ...

Erection difficulties at 19?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. This is more of a health question than a relationship question but could anyone help? I have been with my boyfriend about 5 months now, everything is great, except we've had a few er problems in the bedroom. He always gets an erection ...

My menopausal mother is taking the joy out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - This is a relationship question focusing on my mum. I am nearly 20 years old, I am in a three year relationship and recently engaged, I am looking for a house with my boyfriend although we have no firm plans to move out yet, she is going through...

So lonely even though in a relationship. My boyfriend says I drag him down when I come to him feeling sad. Are there solutions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I am in a long term relationship with a guy and we currently live together. I've been having some personal issues that have made me sad, but I try to keep it to myself and don't bother him with my issues. He wants me to be more...

Is it OK to tell my Bf that he sounds like a complete jerk because he is depressed? It's too much for me. His depression is annoying me, it's 24/7.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I met this guy a while ago and he was always telling me how unhappy he was in his current relationship. I liked him a lot and eventually I started to love him. he told me he loved me and he was going to leave his gf for me. I told him no and to s...

My ex has cancer. Do I help him secretly or tell my new boyfriend about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - My ex and me have been broken up for a while now but we still talked every so often. He recently got diagnosis with cancer. He lives a few hours away. I've tried to help him as much as possible because his family lives in a different state. here is ...

I want my mother to respect my choice to remain with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend around 5 months. It has not been the most perfect relationship, he has a short temper which has caused a number of arguments. I know that he is probably not my life long partner, and have considered leaving the ...

Shouldn't the person who claims they love you also be able accept some of your flaws?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

12 June 2013 (F) - Hi All, I need some feedback on my situation please....here it is so sorry if it is a little long. We met in the tackiest way possible, internet dating site and we instantly hit it off but we were separated by oceans. We spent 4 months tog...

Does anyone have experience in dealing with a bipolar partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

11 June 2013 (M) - i've got a bit of a problem and would appreciate some good advice. i've used this site a few times in the past and had some really great responses. my girlfriend is bipolar. she was just diagnosed and is currently taking meds to stablize her moo...

Do I help my sister with her meth addiction???!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - My sister is an addict. She had done everything; pot, heroin, cocaine, mushrooms, acid and meth. She is now currently struggling with meth addiction, diabetes, two skin disorders and addiction to alcohol. She has expressed to me that she wants h...

Possible Peyronie’s question? is it normal?? How can he make it straight and why did it become askew?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Mmmmmm i don't know if my question is stupid or it is fine because i really don't know if it is normal or not My boyfriend and i are having a little problem while having sex We want to do many positions but the problem is with his dick It's ...

Will I ever get over this frightening experience? My parents still haven't yelled at me! Is this normal? Should I have cried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Friday I was in a wreck. I was going to surprise a friend. I was driving and my best girl friend was in the passenger seat. I wasn't using electronics, that was her job. We were about 2 hours from home and 20 minutes from the play. I t-boned ...

I really want to leave my husband, but how can I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Modnote: please advise your country too, as it will= more culturally appropriate advice.Some countries have better support resources than other countries - available to a woman facing your issues. .... ..... ..... ..... ..... .... ....... ..... .....

Since my family and friends will not approve of this love: should I let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl who has been brought up in a conservative family with certain values. I was reluctant to behave in a certain way and do certain things in order to fit in with the rest of the people at my school and college. I'm a responsi...

First time anxiety. How do I overcome it? Still have not consumated the relationship fully yet, but want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

8 June 2013 (M) - What's up everyone, totally new to the website and first time poster but hoping to get a lot more active. Just some background on me so you know where I'm coming from. 21 years old, virgin (but hopefully not for long, more on that in a bit) ...

HPV from oral sex? Can someone explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - HPV from oral sex, can someone please explain this to me? So you get the HPV in your throat by oral sex with someone who has slept with an infected person? How do you get tested? I have had quite a bit of unprotected oral sex as I'm guessing a lot ...

Is it weird that I'm completely shaven down there now and my girlfriend isn't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

8 June 2013 (M) - This question is about pubic hair shaving on men. I usually trim everything to a 1 on my electric trimmer and shave underneath the shaft and all of the scrotum; thus, leaving all the hair above and on the sides intact, albeit trimmed very short. ...

Starting from the Root - Self Esteem & Self Confidence for Women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3964 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - I recently watched a movie called " The Help" and I found one aspect of it that stayed with me even after the movie was over. Most people were raving about the main topic of the movie which was racism in the South of the US, but I found one aspect ...

How much weight loss would be achieveable in 4 weeks time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - Ok I know this is not a diet and exercise board, but I also know a few of the aunts/uncles have mentioned losing weight in previous posts so I thought I might get some good advice here. So last week I started an exercise/fitness regime to try to...

I need some strategies, please, to deal with my sister. What can I do? She's become insufferable since she lost weight.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - I am 26, and this year to celebrate my Dad's 60th birthday we are going on a family holiday to Florida. This will include myself, my parents and my two sisters. I generally get on well with my sisters, but one of them has recently become ...

He's fathered a New baby, with his new younger wife. So why did he have to show me a photo of the baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - hi aunts and uncles, its me the older woman dumped for the 24 year old girl who got pregnat by the ex.... im over him, still care about him but have finally come to terms. i went to meet up with him for the alimony payment the other day and what ...