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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Does this happen to teen girls? Is it normal? My periods are irregular.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm almost 14, I first got my period right before I turned 9 so my periods should be normal by now right? Well it has been a month or two since and I have not had my period. I still get the PMS symptoms. But I dont get my period and I am NOT ...

Shouldn't my periods be normal by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm almost 14, I first got my period right before I turned 9 so my periods should be normal by now right.?. Well it has been a month or 2 sicen I hav gotten my period I still get the PMS symtomps but I dont get my period and and I am NOT ...

Is Breaking Up a Mistake? Should I Tell Her the Truth? I need advice to Get Over Someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - For about three years I have had feelings for a close girl friend of mine. I have told her I was bi/ pan sexual. I have also told her about my feelings for her a couple years ago. It didnt go anywhere because she is straight. But this past summer ...

Am I being emotionally abused? He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - 22 years ago I fell in love with my high school sweetheart. After graduation we parted ways and I moved out of state. We reconnected last year on facebook and have been together ever since. He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to cont...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

His sex drive is higher. I deny him probably 2 times a week, but how do I deal with him masturbating to porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I know this question has been posted a million times, but I was hoping for an answer on my specific situation: My boyfriend (he's 26 and I'm 23) have been together for about a year and a half, and have been living together for 10 months. Some...

Could I really just be a late bloomer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Okay, I'm honestly starting to believe I'm a late bloomer. Both my dad and my brother are both hairy guys. I'm 19 and my navel hair is just starting to kick in. Everybody keeps saying, "Oh some guys don't grow hair on their bodies." Bullshit, Both ...

Irregular periods have me worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hey friends. . I havnt had my period this sep. . I did have it twice last month. .earlier and month end. . Its irregular periods but why is it happening when i havent had sex since june? Please help. Any help would be appreciated. .thanx....

Can you get pregnant if a woman doesn't reach orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi every one! I've been wondering and would like to know that can a woman get pregnant if she still doesn't reach orgasm? If yes how does it happen? Thanks for your time reading this and thanks for your answers in advance. ...

Will more women be interested if I lose some weight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I am a guy who was always on the smaller, scrawnier side. I could eat Ding Dongs and drink soda all day and I weighed 165 at 5'10" at age 17. Long story short, I am now 6 feet tall and 210. I think an ideal weight for me is about 190. I th...

How can I support him? Could he be lying to cope with his parents' divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have this very good guy friend. He is a really good guy, very sweet and usually an honest person. About two weeks ago he texted me he wasn't going to be in school. I asked why, and he said family issues. I told him I hope eveythings ok and h...

G/f says she cant have sex due to "girl issues", but she's not on her period. What else could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfreind says she cant have sex due to girl issues.But shes not on her period.What else could it be?...

How normal, or how often, is it likely a person could get depressed by what their loved one says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How normal or often is it to get depressed by what your loved one says? sometimes I feel like I was in a better place before I talk to my boyfriend. He's very politically centered, and I just don't like politics. everything has to be poli...

I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I would like to know at what point I should tell dates that I have M.E/CFS? I am on a few on-line dating sites and I'm not sure whether I should put it on my profile. The problem is that although I can just about hold down a full time job, my ...

Do girls find a man with a big butt attractive??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - do girls like big butts on a man? im slim but quite defined up top, definded arms, stomach and shoulders but in a slim way, i not skinny, fit is the word id use, then my legs are realy musculare from all the running i do , football for pas...

Is it weird that the only thing I'm really concerned about is what my body will look like postpartum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are both 21, been together for three years, we're both continuing our educations, and we're 2.5 months pregnant. I know we'll survive financially because we already have a few thousand saved up from working so much the last three ...

Break his heart when we've been through so much or try to get past these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and sometimes I feel so in love with him and other times I just can't stand him. Now I just don't feel attracted to him. He loves me to the moon and back and he'd never betray me but I just don't know what ...

What would cause a man to lose all interest in sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - We are married 25 years ago. Our children are not living with us anymore, we have all the time, to have great sex. But instead of that, we have none. How a man can complete lose his sexual interest,like that? My husband says, he never thinks o...

Should I create a bedroom for my 24 year old daughter or keep the study for myself in apartment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - This might seem like a slightly odd question relating to family and home. My daughter is now 24 and has moved far away from home for 5 years now to be at Uni. She is very happy where she is living and it looks like she will stay there maybe for ...

How can he not miss me when all I ever wanted was to love and help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship for a year with a man that I loved deeper than I even knew I could. He proposed, and we always talked about our future, I was so happy. Things started going bad and we started fighting alot, which I found out was because he ...

My sex drive is suddenly really high and I don't want him to feel inadequate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So I have a question.. mine n my fiancees love life is great I think... We make love at least once a day but sometimes two or three times... Is it normal for me to be horny all the time to the point where I want to masterbate? I've never been Likw ...

She does not know why. What can we do for her to feel better and possibly restore her love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - I need help it's with my gf. we have been currently been together for 2 years and 2 months recently she has told me she has had a very bad feeling and she is losing her love for me. I don't know why she is like this, and she doesn't have a clue ...

Usually I like being submissive. So how can I step up the face, to be more active, like he wantrs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So here goes, my partner of 18 months says he wants me to take on more of an active role in the bedroom eg initiating sex more often and suggesting things I want him to do. The trouble is, I don't know how. Everytime I think about saying or doin...

Love triangles. I keep trying to do the 'right' thing but it keeps hurting more and more. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - First it's important to know that I have never had this occur before, never thought it even slightly possible, and hope it never happens again. I'm 35 and 3 years ago I moved workplaces. I was assigned a mentor, B, who was great in showing me the ...

Is it likely a new Bf may lose interest after learning about the STD? I want to break up with my bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but our relationship seems hopeless, and I think I probably should end it. This seems like an odd reason to hesitate, but I am worried that I will have trouble finding someone new because I was recently diagnosed as being HPV ...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

Should I intervene on behalf of my boyfriend who just tossed in a good job? Is he ready for a new challenging job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been unemployed for over a year. I feel partially responsible for his situation because he moved with me so that I could start a job, and the new area does not offer many jobs in his field. In the past year, I have seen his ment...

How can I control my obsessive actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 22 years old and ever since I was 15 I have had sevral unhealthy obsessions with individuals one of them got so out of control I was threatend that the police would be involved. I'm now recently obsessed with my ex boss during his leaving ...

I just can't seem to get over my ex and can't figure out why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - O.k so I am in quite a weird situation which I can't seem to figure out so let me explain my situation so hopefully someone could give me advice ! This is probably really long by the way So it's been 2 years since me and my ex broke up, I broke up...

How do I get this sex addict some help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - A member of my immediate family is gay. None of us have a problem with this, however his behaviour over the last 16 years is causing me to question whether he is a possible sex addict. He has never had a meaningful relationship in his life. He has...

Why don't tampons fit me right now after boyfriend fingered me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've used tampons before and they worked fine. My boyfriend fingered me for the fisrt time about 2 months ago. Ever since then my tampon won't go in! I'm using the same type of tampon. I slide the aplicator in but the cotton part comes right back ...

I have a lump, is it an infection?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I am a 20year old lady. Last weekend my boyfriend and I had sex that was kind of rough, although we do that lots of times. I have since noticed a small lump (hard) on my vagina lip and i happen to have more discharge than normal. It seems like am ...

She never invites me to her home any more. Why does she only suggest we "get a room"instead? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Let's say you are in a relationship with woman where is has been off and on for years and have been to her place before, in the beginning. but now she moved and told you "she brought a house" and I live out of town but every time I come into town...

I'm the last one to be told anything about his plans. Do I end the casual relationship we've got going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - There's this guy I've been seeing. We aren't official, but have spent the last month and a half or so together. Not long ago I found out, via a mutual friend of both me and him (a friend who does not know we are seeing each other), that he plan...

When is the right time for me to come out as a Cross Dresser? I need help to come to terms with my life.

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26 September 2011 (M) - I am whats classed as a cross-dresser. I want to be able to 'come out' to my parents, to my school mates, to everybody. I am afraid to do this, I have almost told my Mam once or twice, but Dad is so male, that I am afraid to tell him. I need help ...

Has being single so long left me bitter in some way, or maybe desperate seeming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been single for three years. The first year was nice, because I was finding my own life after getting out of a long, young, horribly bad relationship (only one ever). Now I've wanted to be with somebody and have a healthy relationship for year...

Am I in the wrong for not doing it more often or when he asks for oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i are both 26 and have been together for four years. We seem to have the same repetitive arguement all the time regarding performing oral sex on him. The thing is i really dont like doing it, so i dont do it often. maybe lik...

I am moving soon. We argue too much. Would it be healthier to completely separate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and things are starting to fall apart. I am moving to a neighboring state in a few weeks and we have just been having little arguments ever since i told him. Arguments about little pointles...

Yasmin Pill a month later

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone thanks in advance for your answers. My issue is technical. My gyno prescribed me Yasmin pills and told me to take them August 6 because I wanted to be period-free for some time (Swimming-Lengthy Vacation). BUT! My period cam...

Sad part? I don't think he likes me that way. Is it that he just wants to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for quite some times. We are really close and I believe we've known each other for 7 years. Well this year we finally confessed we liked each other and dated for a two months. After we broke up things went back to o...

Has anyone ever felt this way for a potential significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hi I was wondering if anyone has felt this way or if anyone can make me realize what these feelings were. During my last course in graduate school ( i was 24) I landed in this class; my last class thesis class, before I had to graduate. Either w...

I'm just really hurt and I didn't see it coming. Do I just let her go? I really do like her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - First of all thank you for reading this! So i've been in love with my best friend now for close to two years. We met at a friend's house and we liked each other and went on a few dates. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years so she...

So much friction his head becomes numb....is there anything that can be done to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - I' writing a question on behalf of a dear friend of mine. His penis is very big,both in length and girth, especialy the head is huge. I think this causes so much friction during sex that the head becomes numb. Either way he hardly ever comes. It ...

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, es...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

Is she out of love? taking me for granted? it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and she did not plan anything for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - For the past couple months I feel that my girl and I are drifting apart. I feel that I am always trying to hug her or kiss her and it's like she doesn't want it. We have been together only for 2 years now and we barely make love and she comp...

Is this how it is? Should I be getting more than a tingeling sensation when masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Well this is kind of embarassing, so if you are your not going to be nice about it just don't say anything, otherwise thanks for taking your time to read this. Well i am a teenage girl, and like a lot of teenage girls i masturbate, one prob...

Becoming too attached to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts! I am sort of in a sticky situation and I am trying to figure out what to do. Any advice would help me greatly! I have been with my boyfriend Andy for almost 8 months. I am 21 and he is 20. We both attend the same University and spen...

I'm suffering from insecurity and need help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me really ? Im 17 years old ( nearly 18 ) and just over 5 months ago i met this bloke from my workplace. I knew straight away he was the one and anyway we hit it off quickly and have been together 5 month...