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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Too old for sport!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Is being 35 years old too old for sport because I think I am too old for sport because I'm not as young as I used to be......

I've started to get really annoying acne after changing my diet. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - This isn't really a relationship question, but I can't find anything online to help me. About 2 weeks ago I started eating healthy and exercising, I really want to get healthy so I can feel better and live longer, but for about a week now I've be...

Every day we get a "run-down" of pregnant co-worker's condition!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some advice on how to deal with my colleague.She is 7 months pregnant and all she goes on about all day at work is her baby!!! Its her 1st and i know she is excited but honestly from the moment she gets in work at 9am until 4.45pm whe...

I want to help my ex but I'm not sure how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I was dating my boyfriend for a year before we broke up last week. We have broken up a few times. He has gone through a lot of tough stuff in his life, and he often gets depressed about it and pushes me away when I try to help. I don't know how to ...

I cream my pants randomly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Okay, so I cream my pants randomly for no reason and often. The thing is I'm getting sick of it having to wear long shirts and I'm terribly worried and too embarrassed to ask my mom. So is it normal?...

Are my breasts normal? Ladies please advise

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi.. I dont even know if this question is really suitable for this sort of website, but I'm pretty scared, so I need to ask somebody. Im 13 years old, and I have just found a movable lump under my nipple which is quite hard and i think I can move...

What are the side effects of the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - What are the effects on your body after taking the morning after pill? Does it make you throw up or anything?...

Opinions on using birth control AND condoms!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has been on birth control for over two years and takes it exactly on time, every day, religiously. She has been tested several times and is 100% clean of diseases. I am also 100% clean of diseases because she is my first and only s...

Can anyone help me come up with a plan to lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am so tired of looking in the mirror and cringing with disgust at my reflection. There's no denying it, I look like a fat pig and it's been driving me crazy. I want to do something about it. I've begun excercising daily and I've dramaticall...

Strange headaches

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Since I was young I've been having these terrible headaches which sometimes lead on to migranes, I've tried glassess twice, been to the doctors etc, even been in hospital at one stage they were so bad. They stopped for a while but the headache...

Is boarding school going to be a form of bladder torture for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I'm writing to inform you of a severe medical health issue which is currently provoking/upsetting my bladder. In the past, I've always been regarded as the owner of a strong bladder - and been able to hold my urine (often in large quantities due to ...

Are condoms safe?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - If you can't use the pill is condoms very safe?? What are their success rate?...

Anyone know what these pains might be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get ...

I found something unusual inside me, anyone know what it is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - i know this isnt the right sight to be asking this question but i didnt no were to go. this morning i was masturbating and i felt a small sqishy ball in my vagina, rilled it out and it was just like a small lump of jelly but was a very very dark ...

Drank too much and it's been 3 days and still feel horrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am 25 years old. I drink used to drink every weekend when I would go clubbing (like for 3 years), but for the past year... I drink on occasions only! (probably once every other month-moderately as well like 2/3 drinks that night-slightly mixing ...

Is the new sensitivity in my penis going to be a problem for our future sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck! im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!! with one of my ex's "C", i used to be abl...

Will being sick with a fever and strep throat hurt my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Will being sick with a fever and strep throat harm my baby? i am about 7 months pregnant.?? what can i take to feel better faster?...

Opinions about tattos?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm getting my thrid tattoo next week and I'm curious on other people opinions on them. Personally each of my tattoos have a meaning behind them and a strong connection to some chapted in my life. I get that everyone is different but I've always ...

I feel like I am the other woman even though he was with me..she's still in the picture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am so deprest, this year has been a very hard year for me. My fiancee and I broke up like 10 million times last year because he cheatted on me. I called of the engament but I woul always find my self accepting him back. This year he cheated on me ...

Would your penis be smaller if you are exercising?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - ok.. i have a simple question guys does you're penis seem to be a little bit smaller than usauall if you're exercizing alot, like push-ups working out and stuff.. i was juss wondering if that happens. thxz...

Thoughts on belly button piercing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hey :) Well I was thinking about getting my belly button piereced, but im not sure if its a good idea or not! It looks cool, but although im ok with pain, its needles im not a fan off, although I can cope. I mean I got through my TB jab! So the main...

Too thin & bony but when I eat I always vomit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i am 16 years of age and have lost weight really quick and with this i have to bones on the upper back both left and right showing along with my spinal bone. i would like to know do girls hate boys with bones that show and that are kinda skinny and ...

Any medical websites where you can put on a photo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Is there any website that i can put a picture of a medical problem online to ask advice?...

Advice on getting rid of loose skin without having surgery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid i have lost weight 2 years ago went from 90kg to 50kg, with this i have loose skin which i tried everything to get rid of but can not, cardio, sit-ups etc. along with this my lower left part of my stomach seems to be bloated than my ...

Partner has depression I need help to understand how he thinks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - This question follows on from where my last one left off. I got some very sound, impartial - and ACCURATE advice, so I'm hoping for more of the same. Well, even just a sympathetic ear would do... Cheers. Let me start by saying this is a long d...

Pain & cyst on testicle..any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - I am experiencing pain in my right testicle and have been researching online - i need some advice..the back of my testicle on the epididimus is really quite tender and is sending an achey pain through me. I have a small cyst there anyway and i am ...

I can't help thinking I'm fat and nothing I do makes me thinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - im 15 and i suppose ive become pretty obsessed with my weight n how i look. im small for my age..about 5 foot. I really wanna lose some weight to make myself feel better cuz i always wear jackets out and hate takin them off. Ive started drinkin ...

Coping techniques for turning 30

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - coping techniques for turning 3 0.its really depessing to i need techniques to cope.because i don,t want to turn 3 0,3 1 and 32 ,33 ,34,35 36,37,38,39 .knowning me i,ll be 4 0 before i know it, nothing to do pulling guys.it just i always hate ...

I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?...

How do you know if you're fat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?...

No armpit hair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - im 14 and i don't have any armpit hair should i be concerned because all my friends have it even the ones younger than me have it. I do't even have a single hair....

I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hello all, I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance. I realize that this isn't a replacement for medical advice, but I would like to know if anyone can share some advice with me. ...

Stretch mark help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have like stretch marks in my boobs and sides and arms and you cant see them unless your really close but its embrassing and I hate my arm being out im not fat but I use to be Im kinda scared because I like doing it with the lights off because of ...

Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles". I know that this is definitely not "normal" but does it effect me when I want children?...

What do you think is wrong with me? I feel so run down...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am always extremly tired, I bruise very easily and bleed from my stools and am very moody over the littlest thing lately. This has been happening for a month. Can anyone give me suggestions as to what this might be. Of the top of your head or by ...

Jykle and Hyde caused by ADD/ADHD

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I need some opinions. I'm dating a man that has severe ADD/ADHD. He's a beautiful man inside and out. Here's the problem, he's going to be diagnosed next week with ADD/ADHD (How do we know he has it already?? we are both familiar with the signs as ...

How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too......

Quick solution for love bites?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Is there any quick solusions to getting rid of love bites any help would be greatly appreciated...

Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...

Can anyone give insight on hormone therapy treatment for prostate cancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who has been diagnosed with Protate cancer (PCa). The cancer has spread to his bones and that has limited his treatment options. He has been placed on Hormone Therapy - which is supposed to halt the cancers progress but will not ...

It really hurts to wear a tampon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - It hurts incredibly bad to put a tampon in. It doesn't feel like normal pain like it hurts really really bad and it seems like it can't go in. It seems like there is something stopping it. I hate using pads and being on my period would be so much ...

Missed period has me concerned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Im in 8th grade and have had my period since 7th. I've never had a normal week, so i go off last months week. This month we have 5 days left and i still haven't gotten my period. I do have stomach pain and cramps like normal. I have not been ...

What happens when frenulum breaks during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have frenulum breve and I am a virgin. I am concerned of what happens when the frenulum breaks during sex. I mean i want to know from people that actually happened to them and as many details as possible because i am kinda scared of what will ...

My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...

Can you get gum disease by kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Iv heard that you can catch gum disease from people who have it through kissing and such, true or false? Slightly concerned as my boyfriend has some form of full blown gum disease, he's lost a majority of his teeth and everything, also its not from ...

First my period is late, then it comes, then it stops, what is the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i have a question ; in few weeks i thought im pregnant cuz i didn't get my period for 15 days but then now i get my period but it stop it what is that mean that i have a bby in my tummy but its dead or something wrong with me cuz this mornign i have ...

23 ways to cut fat from your diet

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25 January 2009 (?) - Of course, everyone knows that high-fat diets have been linked to obesity, heart disease, certain cancers and other health problems. But that doesn't mean that all fats are bad for you; in fact, some fats are even considered healthy. Omega-3 fats, ...

Being naked in front of a man terrifies me....any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Ive got a weird problem. Ive lost 5 stone in weight and im am a slim size 10. I do have a little excess skin on my tummy from the weight loss but the i seem to have a fat vagina. Its sticks out when i lie down like a mountain and when i stand up it ...

Abusive relationship pushing me over edge & now I am cutting myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've been in what I think is an emotionally abusive relationship for months now and I can not bring myself out of it. I have lost all of my strength. I will try to keep this short... ...after months of being accused of being unfaithful, after mo...

Depressed for years!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - i've been depressed for nearly ten years, i'm on antidepressants, i've tried talking therapies, i've tried exercise and healthy eating. i've tried it all and nothing seems to work. what can i do?...