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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

A bloody mess! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I had sex with my girlfriend recently during her period. During the act a lot of her blood got on me. Mostly around my penis and hands. I did wear a condom and several months ago we were both tested for STD's and the results were clean. Should...

I'm unable to sustain an erection, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi for the past year my wife has been telling me i don't get as hard as i use to. If she talks dirty it seems to do the trick, but not for long. Several times i haven't been able to finish off which she says is ok but i am not sure. Recent...

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...

I'm thinking of walking away. Is the love I have enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi, wonder if you can offer a few words. I have been seeing my girlfriend now for some 4years and plan to move in together, maybe next year sometime but the problem I have is that she wants to get married, this I have not dismissed but I ...

I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...

They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...

I'm terrified I could be anaemic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My mother has terrified me... She told me I could be anaemic! Reason being that I often start my period every 3 weeks and according to her, it's not normal and is caused by lack of iron! Could she be right? If so, are there any consequences from it? ...

How can I remedy my erectile problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am Visually impaired, partially deaf and a wheelchair user. I struggle to get girlfriends because of erectile dysfunction, even though I often get aroused my erection isn't firm enough. What can I do to remedy my problems?...

Where can I buy Covergirl Foundation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Please publish this post, I'm very desperate to know! I've heard of this amazing foundation (It's really good for spots and doesn't dry skin) And it's a brand called 'Covergirl'. I've never seen it in the UK, where I live! I'm in desperate need f...

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...

D`oes he hate the way I taste?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hey My boyfriend of 5 months went down on me for the first time ever this weekend, all was goin great, until afterwards he said i 'taste like a bitch'. what i wanna know, is this a bad thing? does he hate the way i taste? this has me really c...

Can I overdose on nutmeg?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Ok, so I was just playing around on my computer and i typed in fun ways to get high.I have never heard of getting high off of nutmeg before, but it showed up and i started to read about it. It sounded kinda fun, so I went and looked in my parents ...

When I have sex with my new bf sometimes I bleed, what could it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hey girls...i need help..okay i lost my virginity in the beginning of this year and now i have an older boyfriend and when we have sex somethimes i bleed [embarassing]but what does it mean? ...

Overnight tips on getting rid of spots!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a day tomorrow, and my face just exploded with zits! OMG! Does anyone have some quick tips that I could use to get rid of them, or at least hide them?...

Why is he accusing me of having chlamydia???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - my so called boyfriend has accused me of having chlamydia,which is so untrue,why would he say this unless he has got it and thats why he`s done research i havent got any symptoms to indicate this and ive recently had tests which dont show anything ...

Is there a psychological impotency?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - is there a psychological impotency?...

Do I report my boyfriend for domestic violence or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have known my bf for years, and have dated for a few months now. He beat me up pretty badly, all my xrays and catscans came back fine, but the police were called by the hospital and they want me to report it. i don't know what i should do, i don't ...

She has Anaemia - will it affect her ability to have children in the future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It ...

Doctors haven't helped... HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i've had this problem for about a month now. I need to pee every 5 minutes! at firt i thought it was cystitis, so i went to the doctors an altho they cudnt see any clear signs that it was cystitis they treated me for it. However after finishing ...

My self-consciousness in interfering with my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex. i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex...

Could this be a mommy complex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...

Why would someone choose to live like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I am at my wit's end. My roommate/ex-boyfriend has had terrible hygiene for as long as I can remember. He has not showered in over two months. Many people cannot fathom going that long without a shower, but I am not exaggerating when I say it has ...

How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I was 17 when I fell in love for the first time. I know people will read this and think that 17 is too young to be in love but I'm 23 now and I know without a doubt that there was love between us and I've never been able to recreate those feelings. ...

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...

Had my period for 14 days now, what could be causing the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I've had my period for 14 days now! I made an emergency apt with my Gyn. but thats 5 days from now. What the hell is wrong with my Uterus? I usually have long heavy periods like 9 days (which is still ridiculous) but this takes the cake. Does anyo...

We've had excellent sex but recently while in the act his errection disappears. Is it me? (he insists not)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - my bf of one year and i have amazing mind blowing sex, but just recently while we are having sex his errection disappears. This has happened on more than one occasion and when it does he gets quite frustrated with the whole ordeal. He says hes not ...

His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of...

When can I expect the pain to subside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My ex is an alcoholic and on steroids. His behaviour and attitude have changed dramatically in the past two months, and as such (through self preservation) I've had to leave him. Has anyone else had problems with the love of their life being...

I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, ...

Have I got an STD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I am having small watery or seimen like discharge from my penis, and it's not painful but a bit eatch after when urinating (small burn sensetion). What could be the problem?...

Love affairs from afar, circumcision, and masturbation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - First, I'm in a distant relationship and love my gal too much. This is what's causing da problem. I think about her to the extent of my head aching. I miss her so much that it really hurts. Sometimes i feel she doesn't love me as i do because ...

Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy? And is it a turn off for men? What if he keeps coming back for more?...

Puberty issues! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I'm 16 right now, and I think I haven't gone through puberty yet. At least, not all the way. I have pubic hair, but my penis doesn't seem to have grown at all. My girlfriend wants to be physically intimate with me, but I have confidence issues a...

I keep getting depressed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I started university back in september, I really enjoy the course, I have a good set of friends, I go to the gym, play hockey and football, and people really like, a big change from high school. Yet I've noticed that I am feeling down every other da...

I want to get in shape, but will I be too skinny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

25 October 2007 (?) - I want to get my body in shape. I am a normal weight but I am not toned. I want to stay curvy (like a Jlo and Beyonce kind of figure) and I don't wanna be too skinny. I just wanna know; does toning your body means you lose weight?...

I can get an erection over anything, even just hugging a mate. Advice, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - well im 17 and i can get an erection over anything and they're really hard, even just hugging a mate, i wear baggy trousers, tight underwear and a long jacket as it is. has anyone get any advise, pls?...

He is in the forces for 2 months, our contacts will be almost non-existent because of the nature of his job. I'm worried he'll end contact with no explanations, as my ex has!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 273 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Hi everybody, my problem is trivial but im making myself ill with worry and at the moment. I have been seeing a lovely guy for a very short time (two weeks) but those two weeks we spoke to each other everyday and when he was home spent alot of time ...

Where can I get KY jelly and how should I use it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - wer will i get KY jelly would i get it a local chemist or is there some special store that i wolud have to go to. and wen sholud i use it how many minutes before intersourse ???n wer should i apply it???...

Our situation is extremeley complicated and I wish that my partner could see that I've finally grown up. What should I do to be a couple again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner 9 years. we have an eight year old son. i was addicted to recreational drugs when we met, though i have since stopped. i lead a avery busy working life and have had little time for my family. i still smoked cannabis up ...

Tips for getting clear skin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Does anyone have any good tips for getting really clear skin, anything that works ? ta x...

Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds ...

Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, ...

Help with feminine issue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - okay wll recently started my period, and i swim so i guess ill have to go straight into using tampons. the prob is i have tried a few times, but it feels really uncomfortable and sometimes painful. am i putting them in wrong or something ? please...

The differences between males and females

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - Why is it that men are nearly always responsible for crimes. Not just murders and roberies but also child abuse. Yet oddly the ones who can be the most vile are actually women (cat fights and veral abuse). Can anyone explain that?...

Is it love or addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depressi...

Is there a way to normalize my periods?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now ...

White discharge from my nipple. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - So this is really embarresing, but some white discharge from the nipple, that normal? I'm kinda scared, and totally embaressed. ...

Abused twice - by a supposed friend and a coach. It wasn't my fault, and I'm scared...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I was sexually assualt by a friend who i thought was a good friend at secondary school he did unspeakable things to me. and said some nasty things, now words trigger things of or comments. It caused me so many problems then. I eventualy went to my ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - why did my ex husband say he wanted to get back with me,after a year then i said give me abit of time to think,and i said ok lets give it ago and he said its to late he has found someone else and wants to be with her.the new women told me she was no ...

She's a big wimp and can't stand pain... how can we make sex better for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - To make a long story short, the girl I'm currently dating lost her virginity to me...which is nice. However, she is in her late 20's. A little odd, but not really the issue. The problem is, sex with her is difficult, meaning she can't seem to ...