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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I can't stop my cravings... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm 13, nearly 14 and I have a bit of a problem. Basically, I can't seem to help my cravings. I'm not really 'fat' but I've noticed that my thighs and stomach are getting bigger. I know I eat far too much junk food like chocolate and crisps but I ...

Does smoking effect the way the pill works on the body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm taking the pill and have been for nearly two years. However last year I started smoking. I am on the last few pills for this month and I am going on holiday in a couple of days. I was planning on missing the gap between packs so that I won't be ...

Why does my friend start rumors about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I'm really finding that I'm getting quite depressed with my life. When i look for positives I generally can't find them. My class never hesitates to make fun of me by starting rumours but now i'm just sick of it. Worst of all the perso who sta...

I really don't want the doctor to see my private spots, what can I do to calm down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - hey, well my problem is that i have unusually heavy periods and a lot of times i get it twice a month and so my mom decided to make me a doctor's appointment. Cuz she's tired of me complaining about them. My only fear though is that they're going to ...

How do you use tampons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want to start wearing tampons and my mom will not help me with it! So how do u put them in? This question is strictly for women!!...

Hubby out of shape!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My hubby has always been gorgeouse-well almost. We dated when we were young, and for a few years he was in an unhappy relationship and he gained about 20 kilos so it totally changed his looks. He blamed his ex girlfriends pregnancy and the fact that ...

Can the gynocologist tell if I've been sexually active?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm going to a gyno tomorrow to get an exam, for me to get Birth Control. I'm freaking out because my mom told me to be honest with the doctor and I am but I'm not a virgin and my mom would freak if she found out I've been sexually active. She said ...

Personal electric shaver? or Venus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Very straight forward question. Is it worth it to switch to a personal electric shaver for shaving my private parts? Or should I just stick to my Venus brand?...

My boyfriend still has pain from an old sex injury, is this normal and can it be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suffers from a tight foreskin which causes him discomfort sometimes. I just learned that occasionally his frenulum also becomes very tender for no apparent reason and stings; he says it tore or was damaged to the point of bleeding ...

My husband is having an erectile problem. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - In the past 3 times that my husband and I have had sex, his penis starts off hard but than it goes down- he tries to get it hard, and sometimes it does but once he goes inside of me, it goes down again. We never had this problem before, we wher...

Is there a cure the premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Is there a cure the premature ejaculation? I've looked over the internet and there are a lot of people who say that premature ejaculation cannot be cured. I last about 10 seconds every time me and my girlfriend have sex. We've been having sex ...

I love horses but have never learned to ride one!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I people connect emotionally with their animals (like family members), so I imagine it's relevant. Not a romantic relationship question, I know, but it really means a lot to me. What do you do...

As much as she is very excited, she cannot get to the finish point

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - OK, I hate to ask, but we are at a loss here. I love my wife very much, she loves me very much, and we only seem to have one problem, My wife and I get Very Excited with each other, and we play and get really into things, but she is having a prob...

Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told...

16 yo virgin and I have stretch marks on my stomach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I have stretch marks on my stomach, and i dont know how to get them to go away. me and my best friend want to loose our virginity to each other, but im scared to take off my shirt. can you help me? ...

I don't think it is worth keeping this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - i am 21 and my girlfriend is 17...we are in the relationship since a year now ...she has been very responsible and extremely caring and so am i ..but there is a lost spark in the relationship and i am not that crazy for her and have liked her only ...

Should I go permanently bald "down there"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...

Missed period. How long before I can take a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I had cramping last monday, thought my period was comming a week early, but it didnt. I am now 3 days late for my period - i run a very reliable cycle and tested on the first missed day but it was negative. i will test again in a few days but was ...

Natural remedies for period pain???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hello Ladies, it's another women's health question really... I've got really horribe period pains, I swear if child birth is anything like this I may just adopt. I've tried taking paracetamol and ibroprofen (together and separatly), other so called ...

Why can't I get hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i cant get a boner i watch porn i do all this stuff and nothing happens and i cant cum and my girlfriend hates so can u help me? please...

I'm 13 and my boy friend wants to go to second base

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and my boy friend wants to go to second base. I want to go to second base too however since I'm just starting to develop most of my chest is just bra. If my boy friend did any touching I'm sure he would be able to tell. I'm ...

Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health?? I have a very good healthy body, I'm 34" in waist and 5'5" in height with 73 kg weight. Kindly advise me and let me know if I ejaculate 3-4 times a ...

Rid of the shine on my artificial hair extension?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I recently bought a hair extension, that clips under my normal hair to make my hair look longer. This hair extension is artificial hair. The problem is, the artificial hair is extremely shiny, much shinier than my normal hair, thus it looks ...

Irritated swollen skin after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hi, i have been with my wife for 5 years now and every time we have long oral sex (3-4 hours) followed by Intercourse, my Skin that covers the head of my penis get really big (swollen) but the next day its goes back to normal, My Wifes Vagina is ...

I'm too hairy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Okay so im a 15 year old hispanic and i used to think that it was just my race well it isn't . Im much too hairy for a girl. I have hair on my stomach,back,pubic area, arms,legs, face. Basically everywhere! No exceptions. I don't know what to d...

Somebody please give me some thoughts before I head to the doctor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - hi. since august 08 i have been irregular with my periods. that was the month i started college. since i started college, i believe i had one in august i don't believe i had one in september and i had one in november. then i didn't have one in ...

I cant take this. I almost cant sleep. I almost cant eat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - hi i cant take this. i almost cant sleep. i almost cant eat i smoke a lot, i am so sad. I loved her my whole life, i took the pain from all the relationships she had. I feel like i am nothing, nothing has any sense,nothing is fun any...

Is he just trying to find an easy way out of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - So recently stuff has been hard. I'm under quite alot of pressure from school to get the best grades I can and at home as well. So me and my friends started going out on a friday night and taking off the pressure by drinking. We've only done it for ...

Buzzing in the ears from clubbing. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Everybody has had the experience of going out clubbing, and going home with a very loud ringing and buzzing in their ears, and it can last for half of the next day buzzing. Is there any advice or remedy that someone might know of to make the buzz...

My vagina smells fishy after I go to the toilet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Hi Wondering if anybody can help me. I have a fishy smell coming from my down below, BUT it is only there after i have pee'd and wiped myself dry. Once i wash myself, it goes away, and there's never a problem during sex- it smells fine. What cou...

Does anyone else have this same problem like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok so obviously I know the response I am going to get from people are either "get over it", "seek counselling" or "everyone has them". However my question is more for the later. I am black, I have stretch marks all over my butt cheeks, other th...

Am I becoming evil? Whats wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been having a series of really vivid dreams. Some of them seem to have a dark thread running through them, and I'm getting scared because I do terrible things in my dreams. I'm so angry all the time. In waking life I force myself to ...

I feel so insecure about my body.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I feel so insecure about my body. And this makes me feel weak and abnormal... I see so many women being ok with who they are, and I just can't seem to accept these issues. But here it goes. My boyfriend watches porn, and the other day he told me h...

How long do I have to wait before having sex AFTER A SMEAR

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27 March 2009 (F) - I had a smear done today and i bled a little. How long do i have to wait until i can have sex again? Thanks...

Is he hiding his real feelings and covering it with work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Why workaholics always find an exuse to work? My husband works 14 hours a day 7 dasys a week. No vacations, no weekends, no any other activities. He won't do anything around the house. he just goes to work. He works at home from his office, but he i...

Will Kegel exercises benefit the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and I'm not a virgin. I've only ever had one partner and I have a feeling that number will stay the same for quite some time; I'm not exactly the most confident or most assertive person out there. For now, I'm okay with that, but late...

What do I do? I just got my first period!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Please help i'm at home with just my dad and little sister and i just started my PERIOD for the first time what do i do? I don't have any pads or any of that here and i don't feel right going to tell my dad! and my mom is at work...

I cannot get to terms with the way my father lived.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My father died last year. We were never close, I grew up with my mum (they were separated). We had an on o.k. adult relationship (or so I thought). As a child I was often scared of him because he liked to use physical intimidation as a method of ...

Stretch make agony

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hello! =) I've gradually have been gaining weight, i hadn't noticed for the longest time but then one day in November-December-ish, i noticed i was starting to get stretch marks on my tummy and tighs n stuff, ever since then i've been freaking ou...

I hate having stretch marks!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - i hate having stretch marks... i'm a little overweight and have always had these stretch marks, i've lost quite a lot of weight now but i've still got them, they are all over my tummy, hips and my arms... does anyone have any suggestions about how ...

I don't want to give up on him but he is pushing me away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 5 months now: 2 months ago he's lost his job. I've been trying to keep him happy doing all he has ask(like sex, money, cooking 4 him, washing his clothes, etc.). We don't live together but he stays 2 blocks from my house. ...

I'm not a guy, so I just don't get this killer exercise to get in shape I guess.:)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - This is a queestion for everyone out there! Ok, so my boyfriend started this new exercise program. It's for 90 days, but a killer!! You have to do certain exercises every day. He has only done this (3) days and the soreness just gets worse every...

I know he loves me the way I am, but I really want to lose some weight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read this! I suppose this is a more health-related question, but I could really do with some advice. I'm going away with my boyfriend at the beginning of July to Spain. I know he loves me the way ...

I want to have plastic surgery on my breasts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I know this is a very random question.... Lately i have been thinking how uncomfortable with my boobs..i want to go and have plastic surgery (stupid idea..i know) on the nipple area..so tonight i took some pictures of them to see if they are ...

Are these symptoms of OCD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Im constantly biting my nails and the skin surrounding it.. also im constantly checking my face for any bumbs, pimples, blackheads.. and i do my boyfriends face too! Are this signs of OCD?...

Never had sex and my period is late

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I have never had sex before. My period is late. What do you think?...

I want to be able to pleasure him as much as he does for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that he doesn't like oral sex because it hurts. Mostly just the head of the penis. I thought at first that he was telling me it hurts specifically when I do it but apparently hes always been this way and its not me. I'm wonderin...

Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?...

Can I make it not so sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - i am 22 years old and the tip of my penis is really sensitive. and around the bottom of the tip. like the bottom ring part of a mushroom. :). but i was just wanting to know if there is anyway to make it not so sensitive. ...

I'm an alcoholic and I fight it everyday!. Please..I need some help to cope!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - A few years ago i was told by doctors that i was an Alcoholic. I recieved treatment and for a period of a year i never drank at all. I did start drinking again but only at social events and nothing to heavy. Last october i completely fell of the ...