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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I don't know if this is normal or not????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey i really need some help... since my period (about 2days ago) ive had a watery discharge constant and soemtimes i can feel it like ive come on my period but i know i havvnt because it is watery and thin and clear/white. i dont know if this is...

Am I too small?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - hi im 13 and my penis size is really small its is like 1 in soft and 3 in hard and i am very scared people will laugh at me is there anything i can do about it?...

I've shaved my pubic area... Now what do I expect? Is there a major risk of ingrown hairs or itches?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - My question is simple guys - I've shaved 'down there'... Now what do I expect? Will it start growing back straight away? Is there a big risk of in-growing hairs? I'm really worried about those! Will it hurt and itch and never grow back the same aga...

Am I becoming obsessive over my spots and blemishes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hi - wondering if anyone can help. I have for a while been picking at my face - by this I mean I can spend long periods of time each day with a magnifying mirror, near a window for best lighting, so that I can pick what I think is all the spots, ...

Does a rape victim want friends/parents to freak out in their defense, or be quietly understanding? How can we help these people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I am finding out that almost everyone I know has been raped, guys and girls. My daughter just told me she was raped over 3 years ago, in high school. My husband was raped as a teen, but we established early in our relationship that he was OK, and ...

Just came off anit-depressants, now I'm worried my emotions will tear us apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I think I might be trying to destroy my extremely happy relationship with my boyfriend. I get upset with him over the smallest things and end up crying. I tell myself that these little things are not a big deal but I still cry. I hide in the ...

My bf's groin area smells really bad!! What is it? Any ideas on how I can talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Yeah so this is kinda awkward but I have a problem with my boyfriend of 10 months. His groin area smells bad. It's like a strong sweat odor and it's rather offensive. The smell is constantly there, even after he showers, and it really repulses me. I ...

Will I ever get over this and/or will I ever be able to trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. It's been very hard. At the begining he got hooked on drugs (light drugs). He begged me to help im stop. I did, but I went through hell trying to get him off them. He became abusive verbally...

My ex is making me feel like I'm crazy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel like i'm going round the twist. And i'm a jumped up opinionated, arrogant idiot! I spent 2 yrs with someone that lied and did me out of money, yet he has me now thinking it was me that is crazy. I daren't tell him where he's gone wrong ...

Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...

Julie, Julie do you truly love me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Day one.I first meet Julie in our city’s hospital for sick kids. “I’m nine and I've got leukaemia!”, she says by way of enthusiastic introduction. I accept the challenge and deliver unto her the most perfect counter-blow of human sufferance...

Inflamed lip on vagina, what could this be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Anyone please help, I've noticed that I have an immflammed right flap on my vagina. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but he is clean I think. What could this be? Please help I'm really worried.!! Thanks....

He seems to have vanished, we go to the same college and have been getting to know each other. What's happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - A guy from my college started contacting me on Facebook a few weeks ago, telling me how much he liked me/'missed' talking to me. I replied after a while and we started to see other around at college. He would tell me some very personal stuff and ...

He told me he can't trust me because I didn't tell him what friends and family were saying about him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years, my boyfriends friends and family have been saying awful things about him to me. he lost his job he has children and they call him worthless. I didn't tell him and we are supposed to be moving ...

How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way,...

I have not started my period yet and am worried...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i am slightly worried i have not started my period yet and i am in year nine but my discharge has started going brown should i be worried ? i need some advice thanks ............

I love a monster, I don't want to be abuse anymore, I need to find a way out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Read my other 2 question to know more about my situation,please any ur help. My baby father has done all he could to make me feel like shit. He abuse me in many different ways, but i still love him, and have hopes one day he will realized how muc...

My ex has restraining order but is ignoring it and still comes round to threaten me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 58 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i recently had a child, who is a really wonderful baby and very good, and i love her dearly. the only problem is the babys father, who i recently split up with due to your advicein a previous question. first of all let me say i am very happy that i ...

I'm worried about my penis... have I damaged it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I have this serious problem.The left side of the head of my penis has a bit of foreskin attached.After 3 years of vigorous jacking off it's taken it's toll.I now have this bruise like mark down the length of my penis where the skin is being ...

Can't wear a tampon. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - is it normal if a chik cant wear a tampon? i started my period agin this mornin and i tried to put in a tampon but i couldnt! is that normal?...

Please help me, I'm still mourning my dog's death, I have exams and I'm not eating! I just feel that I don't care about anything.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Please help me. I feel like I have changed so much, and I dont expect anyone to put up with it, or even care. I dont understand it but recently I just have been feelin that I dont care about anything and I just cant be bothered. And thats not like ...

Any suggestions for raising a low sperm count?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Myself and my fiance have recently undergone tests to see if we can have a baby together. My results were clear but he has a low sperm count, does anyone have any suggestions on how if it's even possible to raise his count?...

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...

What are the signs of depression?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Does anyone know what the symptoms of depression are?...

Can a dildo damage or hurt your insides if used wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Can a dildo serious hurt/damage your inside if used wrong or to hard..? Please i really wanna know cuz iv used one alot and afta im really hurt and it stings 2 pee until the day afta i end up avin 2 get in the shower and put hot water on it 2 ag...

Why is my period late? And my bf has blood in his pee yesterday, what's that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - i think i'm one week late with my periods, (it happened to me before).me and my bf had sex more than two weeks ago, without a condom. that night he penetrated me and i cum but he didn't, he just was not that turned on. after a while (about 15 min) ...

Do haemorroids effect your sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I have been suffering from haemorroids for a while but I have managed to find a really great natural product called H-Care Haemorroid Relief Cream. The range also includes new hygienic wipes- yeah. My question is do haemorroids effect your se...

I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet but how do you do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Hi there I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet. Apparently you can strengthen this muscle anywhere by tensing your PC muscle. The problem is i dunno how to do this :S Is it just kind of sq...

She wants space and to date other people, I don't have a problem with that. Should I back off completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - im a 33 yr old who has a realtionship question--i met a girl on the internet--it was supposed to be only a friend with benefits--but we clicked the first night we met---after the 3 rd time of hanging out i was staying the night--we continiued seeing ...

Is this size small for a 5 foot 5 inches tall man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - is a 6 and a half inch,2 inch wide penis small for a 5 foot 5 man?...

Question for the girls, will she give me another chance? She broke up with me because of depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hi,i have a question 4 the girls!,some1 recently said 2 me that a girl will always tend to give thier ex another go before starting somethin with someone new,i am goin through this situation where my ex split up wiv me cuz of home life,basically she ...

Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...

I have HPV, would it be better to stop having sex, or can we still? He might have it too...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Iam 19 years old and i have Hpv. i know that you cant know who you got it from because it can years to know that you have it but how many years can it take or about how many or the most it can take? i have a partner of four years and i want to know ...

What should I expect when I go and see a counsellor/therapist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i was just writing to ask, what should i expect when i go and see a counciller/therapist? I dont want to go into detail about why im going to see one, i just want to know what will happen there? Thanks, tasha x...

On the pill for health reasons, haven't stopped bleeding for 17 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Im a athlete, and because of certain performance problems while on my period, my doctor and physio advised that i go on the pill. I Started my period on the 12th( they normally last between 5-7 days, and are quite light) i took the pill on the fist ...

I can't seem to put the past behind me and I'm scared that if I do I'll be back to square one. I need help but don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I'm avoiding relationships and I admit I need help. (Well at least I said it). I'm 30 now and really want to be in a loving relationship, marriage, kids the works but I feel I'm past the point of no return. I can't bring myself to go through mo...

What's the best way to stop anxiety and stress?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - whats best way to stop anixety and stress?...

Is my girlfriend leaving me because of low self-esteem as she says??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hello anyone reading this... My girlfriend of 5 months just broke up with me tonight. I'm 23, and she's 20. We are in a long distance thing (we're talking 300 miles, as we go to different schools, but we have the same home town). We're ab...

How can I learn to trust him and get past all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 60 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and before i was with him a guy cheated on me and messed me up very much. now i've been trying to trust him but the past has hurt me so much. now he has been going out twith his new friend thats ...

Hes so jealous and controlling and I have to force myself to have sex with him and don't want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hello. I just turned 21 in October. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. Things were good at first cause I was new to the area and had no friends there. Well I made friends...and course they wanted to hang out with me. At first he ...

My boobs become very painful around my periods... do you think anything could be wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - am 17 years old and a bit over weight as a result my boobs are quite big am a 44dd but for the past couple of moths right around my periods my boobs become very painfull a started my periods when i was nine and this has never been a problem before i ...

Could I be pregnant after a negative test or am I just imagining things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I recently had a pregnancy test after experiencing signs of pregnancy for instance, sore breats, feeling sick and not being able to smell food without feeling sik etc. It Showed up negative yet these signs have not gone. Could I Still be pregnant...

Can I still have a baby after two abortions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - when i was 21 i had an abortion i had it want my choice my bf wanted me to have the abortion even though it was a planned prenancy anyways he flipped on me the 2nd abortion was with this guy i loved and i though that he was different than the other ...

Should I get a tummy tuck?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I'm a plus size lady that has big tits and ass but the only thing is my stomach is also big. i've lost weight but my stomach didn't go anywhere. i don't have any problems with the guys but i want to get rid of it. should i get a tummy tuck?...

Itchy and red around my testicles. Is this dangerous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - hi im 13 now the age is wrong, but around my testicles it is very itchy and red. its been like this for 1 week. i cant tell my parents. is it dangerous? thank you ...

How do you get over being used and abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - How do you get over being used and abused? Ive had two serious relationships and both were abusive- mentally/emotionally, verbally, sexually and on the way to physical abuse, but they both ended before the physical abuse got too bad. I feel so ...

I think I might have an infection! Just started having sex and now have a slight stinging sensation when I pee...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I suspect iI have some sort of infection in my private part. I have recently started having pleasureble sex with a guy on campus. During and after sex I become very aroused and as a result I get dripping wet! Although we always use protection and I ...

I'm getting a pain in my left testicle just before I cum! I'm also getting bored of wanking...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Ok so when ever I wank I get a pain just before I cum on my left ball, it also seems to move up and when it does that it hurts a lot. Is this normal or it is something to be worried about, I'm not to sure, can you help me please. Another thing ...

I don't orgasm. It's my husband's fault. What can I do about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I am 28 years old and married 6 years before. I have a 5 year old daughter. My problem is that all these married life not even once I had orgasam. I am frustrated these days. We do lot of foreplay but of no use and I think he ejaculates very fast. ...

Can circumcision be reversed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??...