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Health: Help and advice

Circumcision or no circumcision?

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24 November 2009 (M) - i was wondering what kind of penis do girls like a circumcised one or non-circumcised one ...

I'm losing my looks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm 17, and basically I think my looks are fading, and fast. I know everyone is gonna think im crazy, but seriously I have noticed a big change. I never thought I was amazingly stunning, but I didnt think I was bad either. I got noticed by b...

Are there any home remedies for oral yeast infections?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (M) - I have a oral yeast infection on my tongue. I have used a full tube of gel for it and am well into a liquid stuff I put in, swish around and swallow BUT it isn't getting any better, it is getting worse. I have reduced my sugar intake, avoided ...

Not attracted to obese boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (F) - I have been with the same guy for three years, we are both in our 40s. When I met him he had just lost 140 lbs through diet and exercise and was running marathons. A big part of my attraction to him was admiration for having lost all that weight and ...

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

Should I wait for him or should I drop his sorry ass and try and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up Aug 2009 just before i went away to college (he is not going to college). He is currently in rehab getting help to help him regulate his medication for bipolar and his drug addiction. He's been 4 times in the past 12 ...

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (F) - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...

Irregular periods, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (F) - hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then layin...

I cant stop having sex dreams about my ex, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - I cant stop having sex dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite childish i ...

How long can sperm be active outside of body? Can I get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend have sex, and i was just wondering is it possible to get pregnant even if he doesnt cum directly inside of me? how long can sperm be active outside the body???? ...

How would you label someone who isn't attracted to either gender?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (F) - I am not attracted to either gender or interested in having sex. So what am I supposed to be classified as? Asexual, in my opinion, is mainly about sexual relationships. I don't find the human body of either gender to be attractive. I've had ...

Bleeding...can anyone explain whats happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 November 2009 (F) - Im starting to get a bit worried about things. After i masturbate lately iv been bleeding. Im a virgin so not sure if iv broke that bit of skin. Its been happening for two months now. Can someone please explain what is happening?...

On medication for depression but using drugs too, could I be causing myself long term damage? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I'm concerned about any long term damage i may have done to myself after using drugs occasionally over the last few years. I have tried most things once or twice and have probably taken mdma/exsctasy etc about 15 times in 5 years but now usually ...

Calas solved the erection, but now I can't climax!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Hi from time to time i have had problems getting a full erection and staying hard. i have seen the doctor and he says everything is normal and as given me calas. i take about 1/2 a tab. and it fixes my erection (it does however give me a bad he...

He says he wants to be a couple, but he doesn't text me as often

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been dating a guy for quite sometime now, he calls texts me a few times during the week so we can go out on the weekend usually both friday and saturdays. He doesn't mind seeing me even with my friends and gets along with them too. Last w...

Could my drink have been spiked?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...

Can anyone tell me what these secretions are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really ...

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2009 (F) - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro ...

Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2009 (F) - hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...

I'm jealous of his past! Will I always feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've ...

I bled after masturbating - what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...

What are these weird spots on my legs???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Hello I am 18 and living a very healthy lifestyle, I eat the right things and I exercise regularly, but thats not what's wrong with me, it's my legs! Ever since I was little I've had a rash on my legs but it's not red and itchy, it's little spots, a...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

I realised I couldnt trust my boyfriend but only after we had unprotected sex! How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely betrayed. I was dating a guy for six months and thought i could trust him. He started doing things that made me believe otherwise. So I broke it off, then I realized we had sex a couple of times throughout our relationship ...

Will I catch up to her? She's 6 feet tall, I'm 5'9"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and I love her a lot but she's taller than me she's 6 foot. And im 5 feet 9 inches will I catch up or pass her in height. ...

Any tips for losing weight quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...

I am sweating too much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where ...

Guys only - circumcision advice needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - ok this is a strictly GUYS ONLY question, so please i suggest that girls, dont read this. i developed a urinary tract infection, so my doc said that it is best if i get a circumcision done, as it will prevent further infections.so th...

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...

I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...

Help! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

I am a mess because my girlfriends bad dreams!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - hey my girlfriend was sexually abused and has nightmares about her uncle. she cuts herself sometimes and she tells me about the dreams and i cant handle it so i cut myself. i have gotten her help and i went to the police and im not asking about...

Are we ready for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do...

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...

How to I overcome panic attacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - So i've been dealing with anxiety for a while now. It's only a sometimes occurence though but when I have an anxiety attack it just takes over me and I can't do anything about it. IDK what to do it only happens sometimes but now Im always scared t...

Is it wrong to have sex during your period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him....

How can one tell if they're bi-polar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - How can you tell if you may have Bipolar? I am not quite sure if i should be asking for your help as i am no 100% sure i have symptoms or not. I don't really know where to start either. Neither of my parents have been diagnosed with the illness...

My mum is ending an 11 year relationship. How can I best support her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hey guys, ive written to you once before and u were all lovely and made me see sense. However im writing to ask for some advice on how to support my mum. she has recently told me that she is splitting up from her partner of eleven years. thi...

I need a light at the end of the tunnel!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up,...

What can I do about my embarrassing facial hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hello!! im only 14 years old and i realy like to flirt with boys but ive recently noticed that i have some excess hair on my face, its almost none at all but sometimes it makes me feel self conciuos. so my question is...if i shave it off with a r...

Can one catch an STD through oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I really want to know if you can catch STD's through having Oral Sex? Thanks :)...

Lost the weight, but need to lose the extra skin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im not sure where my question would lie. I have been working out and lost alot of body fat but I have all this extra skin from my abs and stomach. I really want some advice on what to do here. I work out with a trainer and whatch my diet very clo...