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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I don't want to watch him die

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My bf is 25 and im turning 23. He's got high blood pressure but taking medication right now. Should we even think about getting married or should we end our relationship? I don't want to see him die. I don't want to be left alone to deal w...

Relationship going down the drain because of my depression

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Relationship going down the drain because of my depression. My partner just does not understand why i hate the thought of going to sleep and why i cant stand waking up to face another day. Why i cry myself to sleep every night. He says i should just ...

Do I start next months pack as I've lost this month's birth control pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, i just need some quick advise. I'm on the 28 day pill, i forgot to take it last night, and i was just about to take today's pill but noticed that i must have lost the pack when i was on my way home on monday after staying at my ...

Can anyone make any sense of this???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...

How can you love someone and get turned on by other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Here's my story. My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I am now convinced that I'm in love with her. So here's why I'm writing now... A few weeks into our relationship I found out that she gave me several STDS, some were easily...

What is PMS?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Does anyone know what PMS stands for ? I hear a lot of people saying it but i don't know what it means....

I swing between quiet and giddy, and people don't know what to make of me. I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever have a social life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - i don't know if i'll ever have a real social life. i like people, but i'm quiet. i'm more like a strong silent type (typical male archetype), but stuck in a female body. unfortunately when i'm 'happy' or just feeling more openly friendly, mo...

After the accident, he won't be intimate with me anymore. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Nicole and I am 25 years old. I have been dating Justin for almost 2 years. We have a great relationship and he has never had a problem showing me affection. 7 months ago we went to a party and we got into an arguement and he stormed ...

Is it unusual to bleed when you first start having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Ok So hi again.. Im 19 and about a month ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time it hurt like hell but didnt bleed alot. a few days later it hurt some and bled alot. since then we have had sex maybe 3 more times. Everytime we do ...

How do I help boyfriend long distance? He's really struggling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 56 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Wow, I haven’t posted on here for such a long time… basically, am in a longish distance relationship with this really amazing guy who I love to pieces. Last night he got taken into hospital after having really awful headaches and he is really ...

Is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey, this is probaly a really stupid question, but is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia? Im thinking of sleeping with my boyfriend for the first time, but I wont be his first. Hes had a test done and hes all clear, and they offer th...

Is douching bad for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I've recently hear that douching Is bad for you. Or atleast nit good because it strips you of hormones and chemicals you need down there and washes you out. Well ever since I was little I've been fond of taking bathes opposed to showers but I was ...

Will my operation cause me problems during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm concerned because had had an operation nearly 2 years ago on my foreskin to remove a cyst but wasn't aware that they would remove such a large area and the subsequent nerve damage i would have. It was just below the frenulum and now ...

Did he ruin our relationship from the start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 56 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - me and my husband have been together for almost 4 years and married for 2. in the very beginning of our relationship he lied to me about still talking to his ex g/f...we live in pa and she lives in fl. i found out that she was still in the picture ...

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

Am I too fat to attract a boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Am I Fat To Have a borfreind? 15 years...60 kg....152 cm .....

I made myself sick to lose weight..I know its not healthy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I started a slimming club a four months ago in a desperate attempt to shed some of my baby weight.. It was working fine for the first few weeks and then the weight loss slowed down, i was excercising as much as i could and sticking to the diet. I ...

Is this redness in my genitals normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi. i have recently noticed that the area under my vaginal "lips" is red, although not itchy or anything, and seems to be rather damp most of the time. it's very embarassing - is this normal? any help would be great. thanks...

Is my penis curved because of the way I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm having curved penis problem.well its a different one,i have a preconception about it-i use to masturbate lying on my belly and pressing my penis up and down on the bed,so i get the feeling that it is because of this only.My dick very little ...

My sisters keep telling me I'm fat! What diet can I try that will help me lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i dont exactly have a problem although its getting a bit much.... My sisters keep telling me i'm fat, although they are properly joking about it, but it really does hurt my feelings. I wont say i'm over weight, i'm 1.56 and weight 66kg and i'm ...

Can anyone help me with the Centrelink system in Australia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Getting treated unfairly by centrelink in australia and wondering what i can do about it. Im 19 and am on independant youth allowance. I have been diagnosed with major depression and am taking avanza. The doctor has said i can not work for another 3 ...

If you have irregular periods will a pregnancy test be accurate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi i have a quick question if u have an irregular period will a pregnancy test show correct? ive done an ultrasound and there is nothing in my uturus..did a pregnacy test came out negative but i have this weird pains here and there in my stomach and ...

What are these white spots "downstairs"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I've noticed I have some large whiteish spots under both labias "downstairs". They are not sore to touch but they weren't there a few months ago! Any ideas?! Thanks very much....

It feels like I am peeing when I orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Dear readers, (Warning this is kinds gross) I have recently found out that I'm very capable of squirting. At first I thought I peed, like everyone else but I read up on it and realized it is female ejaculation. But now I'm starting to think...

I dwell on my insecurities, and wonder if I should be sharing all that with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I am a very sinsecure person, being mid twenties and only in my first realtionship. My relationship is very non-sexual even though we are nearly a year into it, not necessarily through my choice but hers as she is working on some physical and ...

Sex hurts since I had children

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 37 years old. I have been married for 5 years come March. When we first got together we literally had sex 4-5 times every single day. I had two children with my husband in 2006. One was born in February and the other in December. When ever we ...

Blisters on my husband's penis means???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I have a new concern. My husband recently started itching pretty severely on his legs but it wasnt until the evening after he had taken off his work clothes and was getting ready for bed. I attributed it to a new laundry detergent. Well yesterday, ...

Young girl needs help about periods

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I have an issue, i dodnt know where else i could ask this. i havent had my first period yet. but i have discharge so bad that it goes through a pantiliner and then through my underwear. i want to use a tampon (and i have been) but i am soo ...

I'm married to an alcoholic and I'm tired of being mother and nurse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I really do not know what to do. I have been married for 13 years to an alcoholic. We have two beautiful boys. I am miserable. He has been seeking help through AA on and off for the last year, but still he chooses to sneak and get drunk. Last ...

I feel inadequate! Advice, insight needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - i'm sorry if this question is too superficial...or, is it? i don't want it to, but it keeps eating away at me... i met a guy last year, who was very unstable, but who i actually liked without much effort put into feeling positive towards hi...

Sex, pregnancy and health problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 59 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - i had sex for the first time and the condom slipped when he just pulled out but not pulled out in the sense of being close to ejaculation but it just slipped after a few minutes of intercourse and we put it right back on , but since then ive been ...

Can dry humping cause vaginal damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dry humping a lot lately and my vagina, specifically my clitoris, has been sore. Can I damage my vagina from doing this?...

Pain if I don't masturbate often -- is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - hello, I was just wondering if this is normal, I'm 20 and I have a problem with my vagina at times well i have been told that i have a very high sex drive and its seems if i do not masturbate or have some sexual activity i get this pain. My clito...

Frequently late periods ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - my wife always geting peroid late. 2-3 times she geting period late. but she not pregent. 2 years back we married. but i thought she pregant last month but some time timea brownish clour water cuming.some time time like dropd blood coming. but now ...

Is it normal for a 13 year old's erection to not get all of the way up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 13 year old male and I'm worried about my erection, it get's hard as a rock, but won't get all of the way up for some reason and I'm worried about my future sex life....

I have been unwell and none of my friends have asked after me! Should I bring it up with my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am currently fairly poorly at the moment and have to stay at home for a few days. I have a lovely family around to care for me but what concerns me is that, in my opinion, friends are meant to also ask after me if possible. I have several good ...

Why does it hurt to have sex even after 5 years of sexual activity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hello all I'm kinda new at this so please work with me...I'm 20 years old and lost my virginity at 15 I've had 3 partners in that time one of which I was with for 4 years and we did it on a regular basis and even now it still feels like he rips me ...

What do I do about my alcoholic wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - my question is about my alcohol wife Im married 15 years and the stories or horror stories I never thought that an alcoholic can create so many serious problems, dangerous and destructive. I got to get out of this situation I tried everything to ...

Do I have a disorder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 years old and I don't remember the last time I was truly happy. Sure, I laugh and I smile but I can't remember what true happiness is like. I haven't felt it in a long time. I don't have a bad life, I think I am a good looking girl and...

I'm a 36C, do I still need breast implants?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ive always loved my breasts. Im a full 36c. Well a few months ago my bf at the time always made fun of my breasts saying that they were small and sagging(im only 18, there's no way their saggy). We would have sex and he would still comment on them. ...

His reaction to my unintended pregnancy has made me doubt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm not exactly sure what i'm asking for here, but i couldn't find any 'answers' from any other source, so i thought i'd give it a go. I have just experienced a miscarriage. I think the most part came yesterday but i have been having a lot of ...

Does he even love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 61 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if its me lately we have been arguing alot we have been together for almost 2 yrs and we live together and we have a child. I love him with all my heart. But he thinks he does'nt need to tell me where he is at all the time. I only ask...

He's addicted to Vicodin, and I don't know what kind of help would be best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm 27, in a good job, have a good social life, me and my fiance are well-liked. We've been engaged 6 months. I found out that my husband was addicted to Vicodin the other day when I found bottles of the stuff hidden behind the breakfast cereal...

Forgot to take something out, had sex now concerned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Ok so here it goes... Me and my boyfriend had sex the other night went alright except for one thing... I forgot to take my tampon out..I found out the next morning is this safe???...

Is urinating inside each other okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Okay, my boyfriend and i are both into a fetish called watersports. It's got alot to do with urination. Well my boyfriend likes it when i pee in him, and vice versa, but i was wondering if it was okay? Like, is it safe for us to be urinating inside ...

Do you gain weight after getting your tubes tied?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Me and my man have decided that after the second baby that we didnt want anymore children. So i would like to have my tubes tied. But alot of women have said that when u get your tubes tied you gain alot of weight is that true? ...

Masturbation concerns.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I've recently realised that when my penis is erect, it bends slightly to the right, it only bends slightly and i've assumed that it's been caused by masturbation. Is this normal?...

Will my breasts be a turn-off for all men or is it just bad luck that I'm with a guy who doesn't like them!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I had previously asked a question regarding the fact that my breasts have started sagging as a result of weight loss and my boyfriend hates them and wants me to have surgery. I want to know if d cup but saggy breasts will be a turn off for all men ...

My boyfriend tells me that I'm ugly and I look anorexic with no boobs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend tells me that im ugly have no boobs and that im starting to look like im anorexic. i have already tried splitting up with him that lasted about 6 months and now i been with him over 2 years all together and i cant get over him. Please ...

I was born with eczema, how to get over my embarassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hi, Im 14. I have a weird problem. I was born with eczema so ill have it all my life because in most cases it goes by the age of 7, my grandfather has it too. i dont like showing my legs because im embarassed by it because its on my arms and le...