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Health: Help and advice

How can I stay positive, I know I will never be slim and trim.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1552 days ago

23 January 2020 (F) - Can some people give me some ideas on how to stay positive . I suffer from a hormonal endocrine problem that Menander my body holds on to body fat . I’m medicated for it and see a specialist regularly but it will be with me for life . I follow a ...

My step father is abusive but wants my mother to take him back.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1552 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - My dad passed away in 2009 by suicide. I was 13 at the time my sister was 2.. In 2010 my mum met this guy -let's call him Jay. They dated for awhile until my mum fell pregnant and the family forced them to get married -she had a miscarriage. D...

I don't know how to be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1558 days ago

20 January 2020 (F) - I split up with my ex of 8years 7months ago but only stopped living with him 3months ago. Since splitting up I had a few casual dates that meant nothing and then met this guy I really liked him and I thought everything was going great but he just ...

I feel lost in life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1559 days ago

17 January 2020 (M) - I’m really lost in life. I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t find any work and I’m just passing life by. I have wasted my 20’s trying to work hard but I just get used by companies and thrown. Now I am trying to find work and I have resorted ...

My boyfriend treats me terribly, maybe I deserve it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1562 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, hoping someone can offer some advice.. I'm a 31 year old woman and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's the same age. He's been living with me for six months, around the same time he lost his job. It wasn't something we ...

Is it possible to have healthy relationships with family with mental issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1560 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - It has only been recently I’ve realized just how toxic my relationships are with my immediate family members. I’m having trouble knowing how to proceed with them now that I’ve had this realization. I’ve always been aware that our family is ...

My live in boyfriend is allergic to my cats.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1561 days ago

15 January 2020 (F) - Hello and thank you for any advice and opinions. I have a beautiful family of 5. My bf 3 cats ( midnight, xena, and princess) and a dog ( max). I have had my first cat midnight for about 4 years, my cat xena for about 3 years, my cats pri...

My wife will not take a bath.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1564 days ago

12 January 2020 (M) - wife will not take a bath it has been a month now,I have said in past, time to take a bath, she says leave me alone. I am tired of it, no sex cause of this, she smells leave the room and the sink stays, what to do other then leave....

I hired a PI who tells me my wife has been cheating on me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1245 days ago

12 January 2020 (M) - I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair for the past two years with a single male friend of ours who we had a drunken threesome with two years ago..that threesome which i initiated wasnt so fullfilling for me, since i had ...

I feel lost and miserable around my long term partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1566 days ago

11 January 2020 (M) - Ive been trying to make my relationship work for many years and Im tired. I lack the motivation and positive outlook for our future anymore. I am not depressed but my partner has been for many years, up and down, but the last 3-4 years half been ...

I quit a job with bad work environment, so why am I missing it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

8 January 2020 (F) - About 6 months ago I changed jobs. I left a role I held for seven years to try something different... but, I also left because of a terrible work culture that gave me anxiety regularly. The company’s C-suite were men and very immature men who...

My foster child refuses to attend school.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

8 January 2020 (F) - I have a 10 year old foster child who refuses to got school. I work in the day and cannot leave the child home alone. The foster care agency I am with allows youths to refuse school at any age. I don’t want to give her back she’s a sweet c...

My motivations and decisions are based on my ex wife somehow.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1571 days ago

8 January 2020 (M) - Hi, Seeking advice on the following issue ; Having trouble actually letting go of my ex wife. Let me explain further - 14 months ago I found out my ex wife was being disloyal, I found messages of a sexual nature on her accounts as I had susp...

How can I tell him his teeth need sorting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1574 days ago

4 January 2020 (F) - Got bk in contact with an ex , he used to have a nice set of teeth but 2 yrs on hes lost quite a few to be honest hes lost the front and half the back. I'm not stuck up or snotty but hes let himself rot ( I know about his lifestyle) not the best. ...