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Health: Help and advice

Every time I have sex it brings on a period!

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31 May 2010 (F) - Every time i have sex with my boyfriend it brings on a period even if i'm not due one?? can someone please explain this?...

How can I help my food-crazed cousin stop eating and obsessing so much about food?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a relative I am currently rooming with. She has some habits that really annoy me and I don't know any nice way to bring it up or let her know. And I need help doing that. She has battled with weightloss all her life. It is so h...

Pill problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I went to my doctor as I kept feeling dizzy, and she checked me out and couldn't find anything wrong with me. I have been on the pill for about 2 1/2 years and she told me to come off the pill for a couple of months as it could be that. Has anyone ...

A few questions about the pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have a few questions about the pill. Does it cost anything? Are there any health risks from taking the pill? Where do I get it? I'm 16, does my mum need to know i'm taking it? I know that i need to use a condom too as it is the only contra...

Which books will improve my vocabuary?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hey there, I am 25 and since leaving school and university, I have hardly had the time to read books nor really had an interest for them, but as time goes by I find that my English is not as profound and great as it could be and I am starting to f...

Am I too obsessive? I need something else in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I feel really strong about each other, but the thing is I feel more strong then him.. He says he always loves me more, and I feel that's a lie. I know I love him more but I feel a little obsessive. If he doesn't call me back ...

I just stopped taking the pill. How long should it take for me to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi im 23yrs old and have just stopped my pill on the 3rd last day of my period, i want to have a baby... i want to know how long it should take for me to get pregnant.? Also i fell pregnant about a yr and half ago but had it aborted,... i a...

I gave him oral and now I have a bump on my lip, what could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - so i gave a blow job to this guy i have known for awhile but the day after i gave him one, i noticed a little bump in the corner of my mouth. Im not sure if it is a cold sore or not and i want to know if i caught herpes?...

Can being in a relationship, ever weigh more than the risk of getting their STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hey! It's me again. I have to see my GP in a few days time to arrange an HIV test. You see, I had it off with a prostitute once and I have to find out if I caught anything. Comprende? But my question is...Is it worth ever being in a relationship w...

I don't understand my anger and whether I should control it or not..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - how do i control my short temper? when someone annoyes me i lash out at him/her and i cant control how i feel... i dont know if am doing the right thing by telling people when they annoy me...or i should just to keep the peace...

G/f very ill and I have lost my attraction to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Ok, so here it is...my girlfriend (21) and I (24) have been dating for 4 years now, most of it a long-distance relationship until we moved in together. She suffers from severe ulcerative colitis, and she's had episodes every year we've been together...

Boyfriend seems addicted to facebook...is this a concern?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend deleted facebook but i keep finding out he goes back on it. i feel kind of sad for him that he can't live without it. but i don't see the need for it. he said he didn't want it so i don't understand why he keeps going on...

Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I want him to not use alcohol to deal with his problems..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - well the thing is, my bf was an addict when he was a teenager. and now we have been together for 5 yrs now, now he is 25. It started 2 yrs ago,he used to drink alchohol only with friends...then it got worse, and became a habit. Now he drinks every...

Does a man have to have a sexual release within a certain period of time or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Is that even possible? Or does a man have to 'release' every now and then? Because it cant be ignored and its to that point? Can anyone help answer this? Or is this controllable?...

HELP! I have horrible back acne

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

28 May 2010 (?) - It's summer and I want to be able to be half-dressed and stuff--but one embarrassing thing is holding me back... I have HORRIBLE BACK ACNE! Please, does anyone know anyway to help? I have a few pimples on my chest, but not as much. Please! Anythi...

In need of some advice on how to deal with a cold boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" Okay, So i've been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years and we dated before around 3 years ago. 3 years ago he was the perfect boyfriend, I couldn't ask for anything more. But we broke up and he got back with his abusive ...

How can I develop better self esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I have low self-esteem and I don't understand why. My Psychiatrist says it could be because of my social isolation and Asperger's Syndrome. But I am wondering if there are other reasons behind it all. I know that I am fat but I don't thin...

How do we communicate more effectively? And how do I keep from bugging him too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of a year and i are great together, when we're physically together. i only see him about once a week, and all is well. the problem is, when we're not together during the week, i feel like things are a bit tougher emotionally. we'...

I'm obsessed with being pregnant...help, its driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I hope you can help me out with my situation. During last summer, I 'thought' I was pregnant with my boyfriend's (now ex's) baby. My periods became abnormally light and irregular, I always felt bloated, felt faint, was urinating more o...

How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we ...

How long does it take for chylamydia to turn into Pelvic Inflammatory Disease?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. So I've had a bf since last year, we just started having sex a few months ago, in our past we both only have 1 previous partner. We used condoms, I'm on the pill, all is good right? Well shortly after we started doing that there we...

Why is sex painful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - why does it hurt when he does deep inside of me ( my leg on his shoulders) but it does not hurt when it is not hitting the end ( my legs open at th side of his arms while he is on top of me ). is thr somethng wrong? ...

How long of drinking 3-6 days a week does it take to be an acholic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Ok... I'm a bit tipsy so gimmie a break on spelling. So.. I started drinking about three months ago, about three or four times a month. But in the last couple weeks, I've drank every day. I don't know what classifies alcohol though. I don't drink ...

Depression issue or stuck in a rut?

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26 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what is wrong with me anymore...If I have a serious depression issue or if I'm stuck in a seemingly endless rut. I am so irritable with my husband and child almost all of the time. It seems that almost everything that they do gets on ...

I haven't had a period for five months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - i am 13, i am not sexually active, i am not pregnant, i am stressed, i am underweight, i have been on a diet recently, i excercise daily for about 1 hour, i am low in iron, i am weak, and i missed my period for about 5 months now... my friends are ...

Experiencing a lot of irregularity with my period, what are your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - OK so im really worried i got my last period on April but this month i got my period in the beginning of the month and it wasn't heavy or nothing barley stained the pad but it ; lasted 3 days and then around the 18 i got it again for like 3 hours ...

We had sex, noticed a strange white substance, any ideas what it was??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - today my girlfriend and i did it and when i came, i came on her stomach and when we looked there was other white stuff under her vag but it was close to it and it looked like semen but not light white as my semen and it looked thicker than my semen ...

Is cryotherapy worth the cost?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I went in for my regular female exam and ended up having to get a cervical biopsy. I got the results back from that, and all my doctor told me was "the abnormal cells we seen are caused by hpv." She didn't tell me if I had warts or if it was just ...

How can I build up my self-esteem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - How can I build up my self-esteem? I don't normally hear black men - or men in general for that matter - talking about this, but I've never had much confidence in my looks or my personality. I've always felt inadequate for relationships with women: ...

Is it possible to pass on thrush to your Boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have some symptoms that are quite like thrush. However my boyfriend and I had sex sunday night and now he appears to have the same symptoms. Red gentils, itchiness, White clumps, odour etc. Is it possible that I could have thrush and passed i...

Unknown Infection. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - For the past few days I have had itching around my vagina. I noticed that my discharge is alot more white than usually as well as having white clumps in it. These white clumps have been contineous. I noticed my boyfriend also has the same problem...

How can I get rid of acne spots?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Hey. I'm asking for ways to get rid of acne/spots quickly. My skin's ok. It's not disastrous but it's not glowing either. I cleanse and moisturize daily but I still get the odd spot or two which make my skin look bad. Are there any ways of getting ...

2 days after sex I find part of condom in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex 2 days ago and today I found the top half of the condom inside of me.. Is there any danger with having had the condom(latex) inside of me for such a long period of time? HELP!...

I have no idea how to get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - Hi All. I split up with my long-distance boyfriend at the start of February, so almost 4 months ago. We've maintained contact as we'd really like to stay friends and have spoken every day since. More about that later. It was my 21st birthday o...

Any good advice on how to handle an alcoholic, my nerves are frayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

23 May 2010 (M) - hi i'll keep this as short as i can,three years ago my father inlaw died.my wife of sixteen years took it really bad and started drinking.my father inlaw left her a substantial amount of money .when this came to her she got progressivley ...

Does anyone know why this is happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I really need some advice before this kills me. In november i got mild thush whilst i was on holiday, i couldnt find any thrush treatment and i was in turkey so i didnt really want to guess what i thought was thrush treatment. When i got home ...

Why does it hurt when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - Lately, our sex life has been very different. For some reason, it hurts me when we have sex. We have plenty of forplay (fondling, grinding, oral) but it hurts when he goes in. It didn't hurt before. It'll eventually feel ok but my vagina will h...

Are men attracted to overweight women?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - hey aunties and uncles. I'm going to be direct with this question because I've always wanted to know. is being overweight a real turn off for boys and do they get attracted to overweight girls? I myself am not overweight or anything but I am curious ...

Why stinky toes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid. I know this isn't about sex or relationship but it's generally about my body. When I cut the nails of my big toes, I cut them as far as I can and when i do that, this horrible smell comes out and I think it's because in an already si...

I am losing a lot of blood from problems maybe related to an implant, what advice can you provide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - hello there. i have the impant (implanon) and i have done since September 2009. my periods have been really messed up from it, then i went on the mini pill to stop my ireggular bleeding from the implant. this messed them up even more. about 4 we...

Strange health condition, can you please give me advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom to urinate and it was going two ways. Then I noticed that there was some kind of scab on the tip of my penis. It was not crusty or anything it was like rubbery. All comments ar...

Advice after weight loss, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I guess I would start with this: About a year ago I weighed almost 200 lbs and now that I am down to 145, I am noticing a lot more about myself. Normally I just noticed the stretch marks and fat that my body had decorated itself with, but now I ...

They're not fake. Really.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - My question involves my breasts. I was really blessed... i guess with my dads metabolism and my moms big boobs. They are 34DD and still growing. i'm 18 and 5'10" and very small waisted. People (mostly guys) think my boobs are fake... how would i get ...

Why has my husband gone off sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - What are the reasons for a married man to completely gone of sex? I really don't know what to think.. This is my husband ,after 26 years... Around 4 years ago ,he stopped touching,having any sexual feelings all together. Almost feels like a spell......

Horrible rash on my legs

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi, this morning I shaved my legs in a hurry and stupidly did it without using any soap or cream...or anything but water and the razor. Consequently a now have a rash on my legs and it looks awful!! Needless to say, I haven't done that before and ...

Is there anything that can help me with my excessive sweating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - my feet are really sweaty. it means i have to wear socks and tights all the time. the thing is, i have prom in a few weeks, and i want to go bare-footed, but i cant. its ruining my life. any suggestions?...

I had unprotected sex a month ago and now I seem to have pimples on my penis, what could this be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone... I was not being smart and I had sex with a girl without a condom. It's been like months but now I'm starting to see some stuff on my... Penis. It looks like pimples but there red. I have a few little ones around my genita...

Missed birth control, negative pregnancy test, but still not quite right, please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone so im a little confused. I am on birth control and doing a little bit of exercising. Last month i had missed 2 or 3 pills. I never usually miss.. but my dog had got to my pack and had a few so i just skipped them thinking I would be OK ...

Severe Pain after having sex twice, what is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 May 2010 (?) - Yesterday was the first time my boyfriend and I were able to have sex for a few weeks. Yesterday we had sex once and then a few hours later we had sex again. Except the second time it started to hurt me. So we went really slow. Once it was over and ...