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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

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Was he serious or was it the booze talking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles, Ok so I was out the other night with a friends and her boyfriend in the same bar as this guy we went to school with years ago. We never chatted in school but knew of each other. Anyways he was really drunk and it took ...

Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic? I believe this is what puts people off going, the only question they should ask is how long since you last had unprotected sex. I also believe they should only ques...

Should I encourage our kids to reach out to my ex's side of the family during this crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

30 December 2013 (?) - My ex and I have been separated for 3 and half years, there have been many women and of course lots of hard drama. This last woman has been quite a challenging event with her many harrassing messaging, fake accounts to contact. Its been quite ...

Does he deserve somebody who will love him as he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on my situation. I have been with my partner for about a year and a half. It has been amazing. He is the most genuine caring person and i love him to bits. My problem is, I...

He feels our relationship is not healthy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for almost a year now. Everything was great and he always treats me like a queen. But recently, we started to fight over stupid little things. Due to that, he has tri...

I keep self sabotaging potential relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I''ve got a really bad pattern when it comes to guys. I meet someone I'm attracted to, I assume that they would never consider a relationship with me, I have sex with them and then freak out because I assume that they would never want to date me, ...

Found out my boyfriend was using me to cheat on his long-term partner and now my self-confidence is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - this sounds really pathetic but about 2months i found out the guy who was my boyfriend was actually cheating on his long term girlfriend with me and since then i have lost a lot of confidence. i contastly bodycheck all my fat (im 5'7'' and 140lbs- ...

I am too attatched and clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I have a problem and I'm really hoping someone else has gone through this and can help me. I feel as if I'm too attached and clingy to my boyfriend. Not to like an obsessive point, but more like I'm with him as much as I can be, I drop everything ...

I met a guy online and he kept on postponing because of back problems. Should I wait it out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I have come looking for advice, just slightly confused about a sitaution .So a while ago I decided to give online dating a go. I met this guy online. We hit it from the start.Its been five months and we speak everyday, skype text etc.....

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For...

Problems from my past are affecting sex and love in the present!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3772 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - my man would like to have sex with lights on and be able to see me naked ,but I don't have any confidance in how I look I am 45 but am a size 10 ,but have issues from a rape yrs ago and in my marrage when I tried to spice things up in bedroom dept ...

Where is the passion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I appreciate any/all answers immensely because I'm feeling very lost. I have been dating a man for nearly 3 years now (I'm 22 years old) and he is a great individual..he is kind, affectionate, understanding, loving, intelligent, supportive, has a gr...

After being so independant I now hate to be alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - So lately ive been feeling very strange. I feel like im a new person? I look at myself in the mirror and i just feel different, its hard to explain. Its not that i dont recognize myself, its that i feel different. I also have started to question ...

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...

I said and then she said ..... so whose opinion matters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - Hi, Basically me and my GF had a big arguement over something really pathetic. However I believe her comments towards myself were personal and hating. The arguement was over the tiny statement that I made regarding " I would never include reciepts ...

26 never had a boyfriend, no confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm 26, I've never had a boyfriend, I've never been kissed or even been on a date. I was always very popular when I was little but we moved away from my home. People started bullying me and I lost all my confidence. I was called ugly and fat ...

I don't want to be alone anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - If I'm trying to find my first g/f, or in general first date, etc... What places should I go, library, book store, when I'm at the park on a walk? I'm feeling out of options here, I just don't really want to be alone anymore. If anyone has anything ...

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...

I worry my hearing aids may put men off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I need help please! For about six years now I've been deaf in both ears due to otosclerosis - a genetic condition where the bones in the ears stop moving. The way that this works is that I'm not completely deaf, but certain tones and pitches are ...

Money is tight so eating healthy food hasn't been happening

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I know this isn't exactly a love or relationship question, but I really respect the answers and opinions of the people here and would love some input. My father is drastically overweight. It is affecting his health and quality of living. He has b...

How can I encourage my boyfriend to adopt a healthier lifestyle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over two years now with a man much older than me. I love him so very much and genuinely love spending time with him. Before meeting him, I was on a very successful path of losing weight and right around our 3 months ...

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

How do I inform my friends and family that I'm now a vegan?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Basically I converted to veganism 2 months ago because i nolonger want to contribute to the violence towards animals, with the bonus of improving my health and being one step closer to saving the planet. Now i've keep this a secret from ever...

Should I distance myself from my boyfriend while I sort out my mental health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I hope I can receive some advice or opinion from others. A few weeks or so ago I spent time in a psychiatric hospital. I had a break down and was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder because of trauma suffe...

Flakey girls and the men who fall for them!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - Just got back from going out, and my situation off that bat is I'm 27/m, never had a g/f, date, kissed, held hands, had sex, etc... And I don't want to be left out. So I'm approached by a girl who seemed at the time to be into me, got her something ...

I promised my girlfriend to never kiss or do anything sexual with her or masturbate, any comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - I have no idea what to do or dont do. I made a few promises to my girlfriend and two of them are to never do anything sexual to her (including kissing) and never masterbate. Since my girlfriend thinks sex is gross and painful, I respected her ...

I wanted to celebrate, but he got drunk and fell asleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - It was mine and my boyfriend's second anniversary today ( the anniversary of our relationship, we aren't married ). He has Bipolar Disorder, and he sometimes drinks a lot. I was upset this morning , as I hadn't had a message from him saying happy ...

Its make or break time for our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...

My fiancee is being abused by her mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

21 December 2013 (M) - Well, I recently found out that my fiancee is being emotionally and verbally abused by her mother. I looked up under section 6 felony. But does this mean that my fiancee mom go to jail or get a warning etc? But this is crazy how my fiancee's mom is ...

How To Get Through The Holidays After A Breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3725 days ago

21 December 2013 (?) - It is approaching the Holidays and the New Year, and many of us ended relationships in the year 2013. Some of you have been single following a breakup for a lot longer; but you start to reminisce about the good old times, when you were all cozy with ...

She got so drunk she can't remember hours of her night out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - my girlfriend of a year and a half went out last night on bourbon street in new orleans with her brother and got black out drunk and seperated from him. said she doesn't even remember how she got back to her hotel room this morning and can't recall ...

She didn't seem like a virgin when we had sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

20 December 2013 (M) - I have not too much experience with girls, Ive been dating this girl for a while. We dated and we had oral but not nothing further. then after a few dates later she finally decided to have sex with me. Not long ago she told me she bought online a ...

Has anyone used a 'safe' option to reclaim self-esteem and then dumped 'safe' for 'hot'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

19 December 2013 (M) - Hello, Have any of you ladies on here suffered with some depression, low self esteem and insecurities to the point that while seeing a hot man, you can't enjoy it for the endless worrying that he will dump you for someone better? So, you end up d...

Does This Happen To All Teenage Guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3780 days ago

19 December 2013 (M) - Why is it that every time i am with a Beautiful Girl who is Sexually Attractive i always seem to pre-ejaculate in my pants, its happened in the past a lot, will it ever stop? im 19 years of age and today it happened while i was talking to this girl ...

What do women in particular think of a guy who's 30 and never had a girlfriend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

18 December 2013 (M) - Anyway, I want to hear some opinions. Guys are welcome to comment, but I think that girls may be able to offer me some valuable insight as to what exactly my problem is, and whether or not anything can be done about it. I've always been rath...

I don't want sex with my girlfriend to be boring for her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

16 December 2013 (M) - I try to mix things up sexually with my gf but new things don't seem to work. I try to give oral sex but once she finishes from that she doesn't want to continue. Same every time she orgasms, she cannot continue. I don't mind this and am happy th...

Single and sexually frustrated. How can I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I would only want to sleep with someone if I really care for them or love them. I am not up for casual sex at all as I don't get anything from it. How do girls overcome this? I'm 22 an...

Why does this get to me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - I'm worried and don't know who to turn to for help. I am in love with a lovely, caring sensitive man. I think the world of him, he is everything I dreamed of yet there are these insistent doubts. I have suffered many abusive relationships, survived...

He's accusing me of adultery, with him, because I'm not yet divorced. We have so many issues. Is this abusive situation resolvable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My issue is, I been together with my bf for over 2years now, but on and off. It's our first baby, i left him and get a new house where we can live with my baby. we have a big fight all the time,thats why i left . I gave him so many chances,...

My husband and I no longer make decisions together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - My husband and I have found it hard to make time for each other lately. He is so busy working and I am busy with kids and house. We always make decisions together but lately we can't agree on anything he just says what he thinks I want to hear. W...

Why do you not lose weight whilst on your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - I'm confused with this whole 'you can't loose weight whilst on your period'. I have started my period and typically it's started on the first day of my weight loss. I'm eating very healthy and doing lots of exercise today onwards to get back on t...

Should I send this letter to my narcissistic ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me 6 months ago. A few months ago after I read something on the Internet, I realized that I'm a narcissist victim. I'm trying to move on, but I still think about him a lot. The last time i sent him a message was 2 months ago and he ...

At a crossroads, getting divorced, not a US citizen, with no friends or family in Europe

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I am in a process of a divorce and I am leaving to Europe. I was marriaged for 15 years to an american and now we decided to split up. I dont have anyone in the USA,only my husband´s friends and family which are not that much of my friends and ...

She is always in the same clothes! I'm getting fed up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 December 2013 (M) - I have been in an relationship for 8minths going strong but I am getting fed up about certain things. My girlfriend lives with her mum and doesn't have much money. She has two outfits, and all she has worn since we been together. I offered to b...

Why is this guy seeing me if he's had better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I'm having a childish issue. I'm seeing a new guy. We were friends before we started dating... I actually saw him as a friend, well, for all the time he was trying to win me over (which was MONTHS), and I actually started things out with him as a ...

My emotions always over rule logic.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I feel really childish for not this even being an issue in my life. There are two people in my life. I am currently in a relationship with one. The other is my recent ex. My ex and I split up in mid-late July of this year after dating for about a...

How can I socialize with slight anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

11 December 2013 (M) - If anybody could please advise , what’s the best way to through the issue above. Basically I feel down about myself and indeed never feel happy anymore or fulfillment of me being me . I feel as if I am going nowhere with life and life is just a c...

I want him to help with our children. But can I trust him? Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - Ok so here's the situation! I've been with my man going on three years and 2 months! It's been a heck of roller coaster I'll tell you this! Although I should have seen all the signs and signals to leave him in the beginning but being in "love" a...

My negativity is hindering my happiness

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - I am having a REALLY difficult time. I have found myself over the last couple of years becoming more and more disillusioned with life and society. It really worries me but everything about society gets me down. I won't go into too many details...

I had a drunken one night stand when my fiance broke up with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - I have woken up feeling awful. I just need to vent. 3 months ago I was a normal , happy girl , engaged to my lovely partner, we had our problems but doesn't everyone. A classy, professional , quiet girl, but always laughed and smiled. We had ...