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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Should I be worried that I have puffy areolas? I am worried they will be a turn off for guys.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - So I'm 16 and I have really puffy areolas. I read somewhere that they level out as puberty progresses but I guess I've passed that stage already and I'm stuck like this. I hate it because I always have to wear a bra, even around the l the house I ...

Why am I only attracted to troubled women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've wondered this for a while. Why am I only attracted to troubled women? Or women who are either bad for me or I can't have? I've never, ever had trouble in the female department. In fact, I would say I've been very fortunate. I've always b...

Should I face this now? Or wait, to avoid the stress, until baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - In the next 7 week I will be at my due date with my first baby with my boyfriend. Over Christmas my brother fell out with my boyfriend, and my brother kept telling me to dump my boyfriend as he wasn't what I thought he was and I'd be better m...

I "hooked up" with a guy I hardly know. No sex, but did try to give him a Bj. Will my next experience with a guy be better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and a few months ago I stupidly and carelessly "hooked up" with this guy I didn't know too well. Please don't tell me I'm an idiot because trust me I've told myself that everyday since. Before that I'd never soo much as held...

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without frie...

What can I do about my overbearing controlling sister in law? She also has power of attorney over my husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3009 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Should I give up on my marriage? my husband s oldest sister who is power of attorney to him and was power of attorney for his mom before his mom died still wants to be in charge of everything. No way in hell does she want to let go of this. ...

Am I over sensitive about the mean things my husband says to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hello I am a middle aged woman and have been married for 12 years. My husband is in his early 60s. Our marriage has had its up and downs but we have made progress, we are both from different countries. We live in Canada. My family live in UK. ...

Help me beat my fear of violent sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have a problem that's seriously interfering with my sex life. When I was 11, I learned about how sex worked by looking up naughty videos. These videos and games were hentai, and often portrayed sex as bloody and painful and that the woman di...

I am mentally dating myself--am I crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts, my story stems from when I was 9 years old. I had just freshly moved out of my dad's house to live with my grandmother after him and my mother separated. So I was very bored and had this second world of thought where I usually ...

I need to focus on finding myself but don't know where to stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

28 January 2016 (M) - Hello Everyone I need advice on getting my health and energy back on track. I have a very stressful job but it's gotten to the point where I am blaming my lack of energy, and poor eating, failed relationship and not going to gym on my work ...

I can't move past the bad experiences I had in my former job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I'm having trouble dealing and moving past previous bad experiences at work and other things. I've been to the doctors and they have implied (not officially diagnosed anything) that I have anxiety. Although I don't worry per se more beat myself up ...

How can I overcome my emotions over this bad break-up? Feel sick with jealousy, anger, hurt and sadness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. So I broke up with my ex girlfriend and ended up exploring my bisexual side. Since September 2015 I have been seeing This guy our meets were intense and we ended up having sex. I freaked out for a couple of weeks and ignored him. He ...

What can I do when she gets in a mood like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - My friend has been really difficult and I don't know how to deal with it or if it's even worth it. She's been having a hard time the last couple of years and the things we both went through in life is what made us bond in the first place, as much ...

Why is hubby hiding Viagra from me??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have been married for a very long time. About 10 years ago I discovered that my h was a porn/sex addict, he has never sought help, just thought that he could hide it better, now with the use of pocket porn, his mobile phone, he has a constant...

Why did my guy betray me and stop being loyal while I was busy supporting my Dad during Dad's terminal illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have had the worst year of my life due to my dad's terminal illness. This has took a lot out of me waiting for the outcome to happen. I had what I thought was an amazing man supporting me. I've now happened to find out that through all these ba...

I'm very self conscious about the cold sores on my mouth and worried about what others think

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've been feeling really insecure and self-conscious recently because I have these two horrible cold sores on both corners of my mouth that look disgusting and really hurt! I know this may seem like such a small thing to be moaning about when there ...

Could it be that we are sexually incompatible? 110 percent compatible in every other way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. During this time I have noticed that when we have intercourse he doesn't always reach orgasm. At first I put it down to us needing more time to get to know each other's bodies but now it is becoming...

Is this the person she will always be? She hit me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I were studying together in an empty classroom when she decided she was cold and wanted to do jumping jacks to warm up but said it would be too embarrassing. I said: it's not embarrassing and nobody is here but me so who cares. I...

Suddenly he cannot get hard. How can I help him with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - A little background on us, we've been dating since the week before thanksgiving 2015. It was fun and very exciting to build this new relationship and the sex was great! But suddenly he cannot keep hard no matter what I try. I didn't rush him aski...

Do I need help (depression) or am I just complaining?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

24 January 2016 (M) - Hi, I don't know why I'm writing this - I'm not paying too much attention to what I'm writing, it's just kinda spewing out. I don’t know what I should do, or if I feel up or down about what I am these days. I don’t feel as depressed as I u...

I think my boyfriend has aspergers. How do I get him to open up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a while (he still lives with his parents hes 36 and has never lived on his own , he can afford to but i think its because he cant cope) and I've started to notice a lot of things about him that has made me think he's ...

I've completely lost interest in sex due to the health issues it causes for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

24 January 2016 (F) - I'm in a long term relationship (7Years). We are very happy together. I love him. However, I have to completely lost interest in sex. I think like main reason is that I get a bladder infection every time won have sex (been to doctors and had lots of ...

What action is needed by us, to resolve this family issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years living together for three years. Last year his mother died and his father had major heart surgery. We offered to have his father living with us temporary until he got better although he didn't tell his ...

Our marriage is falling apart. I ask myself, 'why am I with him?' What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - My marriage is falling apart and has been for some months. We aren't close and don't have a marriage in the true sense. We are more like friends now. Trust issues years ago regarding my husband haven't helped either. We've been married nearly 24 y...

Is there an explanation for what occurred??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Hi all I have a pretty weird question to ask, first of all I'll explain the situation: I was due on my period later this week so me and my boyfriend decided to have sex (our first time together and my first time in general) it hurt a little a...

My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usua...

Is there any way to delay my period from starting so I can have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'm looking for a little bit of help, I'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow and we were planning on having sex for the first time, we are both totally comfortable with this but my only issue is that I'm due to have my period this week but it ...

I got herpes from boyfriend while pregnant, turned into staph infection, I terminated the pregnanc and now he doesn't act the same towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - He was my first. I got pregnant.I was ecstatic.He had genital herpes all the time.He just never had an outbreak.so he didn't know.I caught it during the first trimester and had an outbreak all over my cervix.The doctor wrote it on paper that genital ...

Is it normal that every time my boyfriend goes out he comes home completely drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

19 January 2016 (F) - Is it normal when my partner goes out with friends, he comes home pissed drunk? My boyfriend does not hang out a lot with his friends, probably once a month, or once every one and a half months. But when he does, he always gets drunk or tipsy. ...

Severe depression and anxiety after worst breakup

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - My ex and I split up about 2 months ago. Mainly because I felt I was putting more effort in than him. He's 30 and I'm 28. I refused to see him for 5 weeks as I believed the distance would do us good and give us time to figure things out. He was me...

My boyfriend turned 40 and has become sad and depressed. Does this happen to everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

16 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is 9 years older than me and we have been together for just over 3 years. When we met he was 36 and he seemed really full of life and we had so much fun! We talked about everything and anything and had sex a lot. He will be 40 ...

She wants to smoke, I don't and its causing so many problems we wonder if breaking up is the answer

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

15 January 2016 (M) - I'll make this short and quick. Me and my girlfriend are having a lot of trouble of a smoking issue and we want it to be finally resolved after just over 4 months of hassle. Over 4 months ago she got curious about trying one and even though I'm ...

I'm going through a really trying time and feel alone in all of this! Advice, kind words, pointers would be helpful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

14 January 2016 (F) - hey all I am an art student and I was in college- completed my diploma but dint get accepted for my bachelors. So I have an off year and I'm re doing my portfolio and working part time. It's not the happiest time of my life. I was really taken aba...

Was he put off because I wasn't 100%, or am I overthinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - Some advice would be much appreciated please. I went on a date yesterday afternoon with a guy my friends have been trying to set me up with for a while. On Friday just past, I started to feel ill (sore throat, achy, headache etc) and despite my best ...

I can't see a way out of this hole ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

11 January 2016 (M) - I'm a friendless, 25 year old male that has never been in a relationship before. In "paper" it'd seem like I'm a good catch, I have a master's degree, a fulfilling and well-paying career and an awesome apartment downtown. The biggest issues that I ...

But why the sudden blanking...what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I split up with my ex a year and a half ago. It was pretty messy he ended up going to prison for being an idiot, all alcohol related. He has a problem with alcohol. It was over because I couldn't deal with the stress of it anymore. We didn...

Was my Irritable Bowel Syndrome a turn off? he has not contacted me since I fell ill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - I suffer from IBS and told my boyfriend this when we started seeing each other 2 months ago. Last weekend we planned to sleep together but as I had a IBS attack this did not happen and since then I have not heard from him. Even after sending te...

I'm wondering if I'm over-analyzing or not. Does his lack of reply mean he doesn't care about me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

9 January 2016 (F) - Hi, A little background: I'm in a long-distance relationship where I temporarily live in China for work and my boyfriend in US. I've known him for 4 years (before moving to China) as great friends and co-workers. We started dating 6 months ...

I feel guilty for giving him back some of his own medicine!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

9 January 2016 (F) - My husband has been abusing me verbally, emotionally, physically and financially for the last 4 years. We have been separated for a month now and he is trying to be nice sometimes and then can be nasty. I am feeling upset at the moment as I have...

Why? there is no intimacy. Partner has completely lost interest in sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

7 January 2016 (M) - since the birth of our daughter almost 4 years ago, my partner (early 40's) has completely lost interest in sex and any intimate connection is now non existent, we never hug, kiss or even snuggle, she admits that she has no interest in sex since ...

The appearance bothers me. Could someone give me some advice to stop me overthinking about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - Hi all, in a 16 year old girl in my first relationship looking for advice. We've been together 3 months now and I really like him and he worships the ground I walk on, he's 17 going on 18 and he's been in a few previous relationships but only had...

My partner abuses me and accuses me of cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - i am in a relationship but my partner always suspect me just because before i did some mistakes like my ex dont told him but within 2 month i told him that i have allredy in relational but this not good relation thats i dont told you he always abuse ...

I am at the end of my rope and struggling with health and family problems.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - This isn't about a romantic relationship, but I am at the end of my rope. I desperately need help but I am petrified because it seems hopeless. Let me preface this by saying that I had an emergency surgery a few days ago... I am heavily medicate...

Has my husband lost interest in me? Does he want out? Do I want out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I have already posted a few times, asking for advice on opinions and your comments were always on point. This time it’s not about my friends or relatives, it’s about my husband. I think that he’s losing interest in me or that he finally realized...

I am worried I may leave my children motherless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I am 5 weeks pregnant - 35 years old - just found out. Bf who I have had 2 other kids by (2 boys) - this would be my 3rd kid with him - so making it 4 kids in total is not really reacting much to the news. He was shocked at first but is leaving it ...

I am a beauty pagent winner who suffers body image issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - Hi. I have been struggling with body image issues and it's ruining my dating life as well. I have this friend/crush with whom I fooled around a couple of times. We'll be meeting up again but I'm very self conscious about my body and scared he might...

My mom is sick, dad doesn't believe her and its taking a toll on my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I'm 25 and my parent constantly fight. My mom has health problems in which doctors do not know what is wrong with her. Her body aches and she cannot stay away for very long. This has been going on for about 10 years. Because doctors do not k...

Should I leave my depressed first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and I love him to the moon and back. He has severe depression and I feel it's rubbed off on me. I don't go out, I feel so bad about myself, I can't be bothered to get out of bed and I feel ...

I am the one who is hurt and yet my girlfriend is making it all about her and I want her to stop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

5 January 2016 (M) - I have recently had a bad accident, where I tore my meniscus and strained my calf playing basketball. So the last 5 days I have been in the bed on heavy pain medicine. I told my sister to call my girlfriend and tell her what happened because I was ...

I want my girlfriend to be happy and have a happy future but her new smoking habit bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

5 January 2016 (M) - This is a bit of a long one so thank you if you manage to read all of what I have to say. About 4 months ago my girlfriend got really strong urges to try out a cigarette for the first time, this i didn't approve of but because I'd tried one myself...