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Archived questions from: September, 2018 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

How can I be more confident in social situations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

30 September 2018 (F) - I have often the confidence to be quite witty and use my sense of humour to speak and talk when needed to although I am a shy and quite person . I have realised that I tend to be confident and talkative in situations were most people are probably ...

How do I deal with my controlling husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

30 September 2018 (F) - my husband is very controlling he times my every move. tells me to pack my clothes when I try to go see my friend and says housework is women work. and we both work. he spends all the extra money we are about behind on our bills that I take care of ...

First crush and self-loathing thoughts, how do I cope with them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

28 September 2018 (M) - I think that all started last october when I realised that I really liked a boy at school who is a year older than me. I remember being walking and chatting with a friend of mine along the corridor when he appeared out of the blue and greeted both ...

How do I learn to filter my comments?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

25 September 2018 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old guy. Started a new job few months back and am in a good place right now. I'm meeting a lot of people with whom I need to co-ordinate to get my job done on a daily basis. The problem is however that I get too friendly...

I need dating advice on how to meet women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - I'm 30, single male, and at a total loss on how to meet women for dating. I don't have a big social circle (which has been shrinking since my mid 20's) so I don't meet anyone through mutual friends. I live in a small town but commute to work ...

How to get people off my back about dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2033 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always ...

Why do I feel so emotional about events happening around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

23 September 2018 (F) - i sometimes feel pathetic with what i am going to say, a month ago my nephews best friend died in a tragic accident. I first saw his face in the newspaper before knowing he was my nephews best friend ( i didnt know every friend he had ) and i just ...

Confused and not sure if I'm in love anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

21 September 2018 (M) - Hey fellow cupids. I'm a little bit confused and have been for some time. I'm in a long term relationship and care for my partner, probably even love (sorry I'm not an emotional guy so it's hard to understand my feelings sometimes). For the last t...

I need to talk about what I am feeling but cant burden my family or people at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

20 September 2018 (F) - Hi, I have a dilemma and I’m starting to feel desperate I’m afraid this may be very long winded :/ but if I don’t tell someone out there how I’m feeling I will implode. First of all I should say that I have been suffering from ptsd for the last yea...

My fiance is a virgin but I've slept with 6 people and had an abortion. Do I need to tell him all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

19 September 2018 (F) - Hi, I am engaged to a wonderful guy from the last 5 months, we are going to get married this December 2018,I came to know by investigation and inspection and his views and thoughts and actions, that he is a virgin and he is against premarital sex ...

My wife wants to use a sperm donor to ensure that our third child isn't autistic but I’m not sure how I feel about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

18 September 2018 (M) - My wife (34f) and I (36m) have been married for just over six years and in many ways have an ideal marriage and are very much still in love. Despite two kids, we still have sex 2 - 3 times per week. We still find time for getaways nearby beaches, ...

My crush is distracting me at work! How do I keep my focus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

18 September 2018 (M) - Hi people, really like a girl at work and it's driving me crazy, need to take my mind off her but every time I get her off my mind she appears and I have her on my mind again. I can't lose this job but I am starting to lose the plot! Any advice w...

How to make a recovering alcoholic comfortable at a family holiday event?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

18 September 2018 (F) - My brother-in-law is a recovered alcoholic. The last time he drank was 11 years ago, when he got so drunk that he is surprised he did not die from alcoholic poisoning (he had to buy a new bad because he woke up with everything covered in vomit). Two ...

How can I get better at finding the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

17 September 2018 (F) - I wanted to get some advice since my love life is a mess ( or lack of). I have been single for a year and a half and I have tried a lot of things to find the “one” but nothing - I can’t seem to connect with men and the ones I do connect with or ...

I feel my mother-in-law is inserting herself into my marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

16 September 2018 (F) - I love my husband very much, and I love my mom in law too, she's always there for us when we need her but she's also starting to annoy me. She doesn't seem to have boundaries. Btw, she is single. When she first started making me uncomfortable wa...

I am panicked about delivering the eulogy at my dad's funeral service.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

16 September 2018 (F) - I am giving a eulogy for my dad who passed away on Sept. 11. I am his first born and it is family tradition that the first born delivers the eulogy. I am panicked and afraid I will break down. So many people are relying on me. So, I also feel ...

My progressive hair loss is making me insecure about dating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

14 September 2018 (M) - Hi all, I'm having a real tough time with my confidence on dates. This has been due to my now significant hair loss. I'm in my late 20's and recently went out with a girl who i'd not seen for almost a year (i'd had to move away for work, but we kept ...

I want my mother to move in with us so I can take care of her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. My fiance and I are in the process of moving back to my home state and purchasing a house there. It is a relatively large house and we have more than enough space to start a family. My mom is not in the best of health. She recen...

How can I motivate and encourage my daughter to socialize more? is her behaviour normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

8 September 2018 (F) - My daughter is 19, and I've been really concerned about her mental health lately. Since she graduated from high school, her friends would reject hanging out with her, basically everyone went to a different place and they just lost contact. My ...

How should I not feel so worried about maybe not getting a text or phone call back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - I have a friend who has recently gone away to university so I wont see her for a few months . im hoping to see her when shes back but im really worried that she will meet new friends and forget about me because I know this can happen . I'm really ...

Am I being unreasonable in wanting us to cut back on our weed expenses? I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - So my husband works to keep me at the moment he literally pays for almost everything (including holidays, clothes, materialistic things etc) But bare in mind I don't ask him for that he just does it. I'm unable to work at the moment due to my severe ...

I’m worried and insecure about my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - i’m a little worried about my nipples and i’m really insecure about my body. my nipples are pointy and i’m not sure if it’s normal or attractive. any advice ? HELP .... lol ...

How do I enforce boundaries with my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - This post is not about my romantic relationship per se, but more about my sister and how it is affecting my life as a whole. To give a little background, I have been living with my sister(~7 years older) and a friend for past 6 years. I am ...

I helped him through depression but now our sex life is gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - Hi all. I’m so lost right now. A year ago I met an amazing man, instantly I felt a connection. It sounds silly but I wasn’t looking for a romantic relationship and they say it’s when you stop looking you find it. I’m a 25 year old busines...

My boyfriend wants me to help support him as he tries to strengthen his knee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - Hello I would like your opinion on this. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We live in the USA, he lives in the East Coast, while I live in the West Coast. We've been together for about three years. My boyfriend injured himself ...