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Health: Help and advice

It's his first time getting a blowjob, can I get a std?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for months now, and we are absolutely crazy about each other. I know him well, and know for a fact that he has never been sexually active with anyone. He is super shy, and has told me he hasn't, and I can honestly say I ...

Now I have changed my lifestyle I seem to have got more stretchmarks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i'm 15 and my BMI is normal but i feel like i need to tone up. i don't have any stretchmarks, only on the upper part of my thighs, but ever since i started eating healthier, exercising more, and drinking more water, i've been getting ...

Should I shave my arms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hey there so i suffer from PCOS which increases my wrong levels of hormone anyways, my prob is that I have hairy arms and the whole rest of my bod. I shave my stomach and yadi yada but I don't know if to shave my arms. My problem is that where i ...

I don't know whether to carry on and to hope that I'll feel like I did, or to let him go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Basically, to try and cut a long story short.. I was in an abusive relationship for 11 months, i got cheated on and there were kids behind my back etc.. And at 16, getting knocked out by your 'loving boyfriend' was pretty horrible :( as i finally ...

How do I handle swimming, without tampons or pads? How does that work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am going on holiday in 2weeks and my period is due for the last 5 days of my holiday, and I don't really have a problem with that, but I don't use tampons so I wont be able to swim. Some people have said to me they still go swimming on their ...

I look like a circus tent compared to other women! Any weight loss advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i am 30 yaer old and i am size 16 and 14 stone. i find it hard to lose weight since i got older, to make things worse where i live there is no gyms,no swimming pool ,no sport shops,i can,t effort personal trainer.i can,t run i have asthmas,i am ...

Is it possible to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Is it possible to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after an emotionally abusive relationship?...

Do a few beers each night amount to addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Torn between loving my boyfriend of 5 years and worried about his drinking habits becoming more of a problem -he seems to need at least two / three bottles of beer a day after work and if its a night out he has to get full drunk. I just have a few ...

Does Plan B work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...

I have a small lump "down there" and I'm worried about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi guys, this is a kind of embarrasing, and I'm worried about it but don't want to be worried if it's nothing, I'm 14 years old 15 in a month, and i'm a virgin (never even kissed a guy lol) and I have a small lump, kinda like a big spot, down there. ...

I'm so alone. Help me fix it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - i feel so alone and helpless i feel like im in a world full of aliens and im the only human... how can i stop this i just want someone to love and hold onto someone who can make me happy when im sad and someone i can comfort when they are down. how ...

Pain in my spine when I masterbate! What is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a problem when I masturbate. It may seem a bit strange, but everytime I start masturbating, I get a really sharp pain at the top of my spine and the up the back of my head. It will be a dull ache afterwards but it still hurts. Does anyone ...

Why did I act as such a fool? Have I lost him for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hello there, I'd like some advice on how to stop feeling like a complete fool and move on after breaking up with my bf of 9 yrs. I'm sorry if this is a bit long, bit here goes... I met him 9 years ago at Uni, fell in love hard and fast, and 2 ...

Advice on helping my boyfriend quit smoking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's 16 and he's been smoking since he was about 13 (bad crowds) and because of how much I am against the idea and the problems it's causing between us he's determind to try and quit with some help. He has tried in the past but not ...

Does anyone know why I bled so heavily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Ive been on the pill of the Microgyn 30 (not sure how you spell it) for 2 packets now. However on both withdrawal bleeds on the placebo break, my 'period' has stopped and then came back after a day. Last night, i was ill and whilst being sick i came ...

Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...

I used to go and hunt for sex, now I seem to prefer to do it on my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I seem to have lost my libido with other people. I don't really understand it. I am gay, have never had much of a problem having sex with people. Now I just seem to prefer doing it on my own. I used to go and hunt for sex but now I just think ...

Poop problem!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Recently I haven't done anything different as far as I know but whenever I go to the toilet for a poop my anus tears a little on the outside and a littl bit of blood is produced and it's quite painful. Anyone have any idea what could be the cause of ...

Should I be worried about the size of my penis?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - ok well this is not a lie i am 14 and my dick is 9.4 or 9.5...is that to big it is kinda scaring me i went to sleep and woke up and it grew from like 7.8 or 9.5 is that normal should i see a doctor about this or wat...

I'm pregnant and unsure which path to take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I recently just found out I was pregnant. I had all the period symptoms but it just never came so I took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive. It was devastating, I remained calm and tried not to panic. I told my...

I think I have some anger issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - okay well i am 13. i been told i need to chill and that i have anger issues.. i dont get mad easily but sometimes the simplest things you say would make me want to punch you in the face.. i was in my room and i was feeling perfectly normal and...

How do I overcome my Arachnophobia...help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi,this isnt really the kind of questions you ask on this site but i was wondering if anyone could tell me how to overcome my Arachnophobia. Its terrible, when i see a spider i cry, scream and take panic attacks. Im terrified when im in the house my...

Which are the best sex positions for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I'm 20 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend. We started our sex life about 3 months ago and since then we've done it a few times and it's always been very enjoyable... but we have a bit of trouble with positions. We pr...

I get wet before having sex, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - im in a sexual relationship and my fella always comments on how wet i am down below before we have sex. he always mentions it and has also mentioned that he has had to use lube with some of his exes and never with me so im starting to wonder if ...

What is this white crystal thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have recently been on my period for about 3-4 days now and while i was peeing white crystal kind of thing came out my vagina what is that? im really worried....

I found out I have Herpes... is there anyone that's going to accept me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I just found out I have herpes...got it from the last guy I was with and am not very happy. Been in bed all day depressed, crying. I feel like my life is over and nobody will ever accept me. I was already having a hard time dating and I feel like ...

What are these pains?

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28 July 2009 (F) - is their anyone who is medically able to answer this question? i have been having pains for a long time the started just like in my ovarie area sometimes on the left sometimes on the right, for now those went away now its awful shooting pains in my ...

I've met a great man, but I suffer from uncontrollable flatulence. How do I tell him? Or should I just pass up the chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and have been a sufferer of uncontrollable flatulence for five years now. It has crushed me many times over for the past few years. For a while, I was ok being single. I could imagine myself spending the rest of my life alone. But recently...

Anxiety issues - how do I find new ways of coping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So i hate this I used to be a self injurer and used to cut myself. I've been a year cut free now though. But I developed another issue dealing with self biting and technically pulling off the skin of my fingers, it's disgusting and a horrible...

What excercises can I do to tone my body?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, so i'm 5'3, weigh 120 pounds and i'm 15. personally, i think i need to tone up from my thighs, arms, and especially my stomach. my question is what excercises can i do to tone up your thighs, get rid of fat from under your arms, an...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...

I wear the same clothes all the time that I go to hospital in, am I spreading MRSA?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I'm visiting my gf a LOT recently in hospital due to her illness but i haven't been changing my clothes when i get back and i have been lounging around on my bed and the sofa etc as i haven't seen the point in changing when i get back so late. I ...

I need an unbiased opinion. There's a lack of passion in our marriage due to her illness.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 8 years. When we started dating (12 years ago), we had a great time. She was not as passionate or as romantic as I was but I was able to look that over because she had many other great qualities that I was attracted to. ...

So why did my period come early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend. We have sex right after my menstrual cycle finishes everytime. The last time we had sex was on 07-11. Two weeks later, I felt horny that I decided to finger myself until I came. The next day, I started to bleed for no ...

Hormones playing about or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hiya, I'm quite confused because I always get my periods and there regular. Im on the pill at the moment however when I came off it for my period to start I got a tricle of blood and now nothing. I've been waiting for it to start again however it...

Boyfriend is depressed - what to do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for about 5 months. We met over the internet and he had just relocated to my city for a new job. At first he seemed to good to be true..such a great guy, no drama, steady job...just what I needed. Things were going ...

Does anyone know why my periods are so irregular?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've never had regular periods. They usually are regular for about 3 months and then they come on a couple of days later. However, this month it's slightly different. I'm two weeks late. I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative. ...

I don't want to sound mean. She doesn't exersice and shes putting on weight

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - ok. i dont want this to sound horrible but it probably will. Im very very into fitness and working out. i have a very good body and feel its really important to stay in shape not just for myself but for my partner. my girlfriend however, with...

I can't stand my sisters behaviour anymore. Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I don’t want to know my sister anymore . She has turned out to be : selfish ,cold hearted , nasty and manipulative. She gets jealous of anyone and everything . Sadly her current boyfriend changed her beyond recognition . My eldest sister (C...

She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. Howeve...

My boyfriend has a lump but he wont go to the doctor!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hello Everyone, My byfriend is 29 and he has a lump on his testicals (inside his scrotum not on the outside) and he tells me it has been there for a good few years. Its nothing you could feel froma general play but he showed me where it was the...

I've got hair growing on my bottom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - ok this is quite embarrassing but im sure its normal. but i have har growing on my bottom and i saw my bottom in the mirror the other day when i got out of the shower and it really looked freaky. i was just wondering what should i do about it? ...

She knew she had genital warts and didn't tell me. Forgive her? Or boot her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I am in an hard spot, i have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are in love. We have sex on a daily basis, usually once or twice a day. For the most part i pull out instead of wearing a condom so its unproteted. We agree it feels better so ...

Why do I bleed heavily during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I am a 39 year old female. I love sex, but sometimes I start to bleed heavily during sex, Why does this happen. It is so embarrassing and I need to know if there is something I can do to stop it from happening? Any advise is appreciated. ...

How do I cope alone with Involuntary celibacy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born ...

I need to lift myself up but can't see how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've posted quite a lot on here about the same subject. I feel very low and have lost a lot of self esteem due to bad relationships. I just don't know how to pick myself up - I am trying. I really dont want to see anyone - therapy wise but I'...

Penis problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - When my penis gets erect the skin around my penis is really tight. It only just gets back past the head of my penis and won't go any further also my frenulum pulls down my penis head when i pull my foreskin back. Could anyone suggest what I ca...

Is it unlikely that I'm pregnant because I'm on meds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I've had a urinary tract infection for about a week. I went to the doctor on monday and got medicine for it. It is now saturday. Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex, but we didn't use a condom because he forgot to bring one and i didn't have any.. ...

She doesn't want me to see her sick from her chemo treatments!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been friends for 4 years, dating for 14 months now. Shw was recently diagnosed with cancer. She was really open about it at frist telling me about her fears, wanting me to be there for appointments etc. She started chimo ...

Should I go see the doctor for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - my girlfriend wants to touch my penis but i feel something uneasy my heartbeats gets high and my blood pressure rises when she tries touch i feel awkward please help what should i do should i go to doctor...