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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I am insecure about how my body looks, its affecting my sex life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Hello, and thanks for reading. I am very apprehensive and insecure when I have sex with my boyfriend. I wish I had the confidence to initiate but everytime I build myself up to initiate, I clam up. I find myself to be beautiful and I love my body ...

They're saying I'm too harsh with her little brother who has autism! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

28 November 2016 (M) - Hello everyone! I need a hand with something concerning my girlfriend's autistic little brother. So this kid is great, I love him to death I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months and love her very much, I'd do anything for her. He...

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

Fiance issues. What should I do? What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - MODNOTE two issues concerning fiancé combined. . . . . . . My fiancé a couple of years ago, made some very bad decisions and cheating on me many times as well as lied, hid a 2nd phone to be able to chat with other women, and was sleeping wit...

Why would he? Potential date seems too much in a hurry to meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take...

Why does my g/f want to go to planned parenthood to get checked out if she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - My girlfriend and me are both 15. She said she got her girl thing at 12 but she wants to go to planned parenthood to get looked at. Even her East Orthodox mama said no since she's a virgin and doesn't have to. I'm Pentecostal and I agree with her ...

I'm worried that my anxiety is making my job performance even worse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I would love to have some advice and any ways of coping or what to do please. To give you some background I work in the media and last year was at what I thought was the most amazing job, I was there four years and ...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

How do people get over being bullied? I can't get over this bullying experience

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts. I am struggling to get over an experience which Is effecting my professional and personal life And I wanted to share with you. About a year ago I was working for what id call a "cowboy" firm. Bad accountancy practices, awful manageme...

Is there anything that can be suggested, on ways to best support my partner of five years, over her work and health issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - My partner of 5 years who is 52 has worked in a bakery for 30 years and her boss has sold up to a family. The wife of the said family does not want her in the bakery or using the delivery truck as my partner suffers from IBS (irritable bowel synd...

Had enough. What now? I'm honestly so ready to run, but I truly love my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - My husband and refuses to stand up for me when it comes to his crazy family. I was harassed during my husband's deployment. I have been through hell and back and defended my husband but I can't get the same in return. I always thought he would...

How can I face loneliness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - How can I stop feeling so lonely? I have just started the process of getting to know myself yes at 31- meaning finally dealing with my loniloness and not using escape mechanisms such as the wrong crowds(friends) to waste time with or men(bad ...

Facebook jealousy is making me resentful and bitter

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I saw a question posted a while back similar to this, as I seem to have the same problem. I recently had to deactivate my Facebook account because everyone posting constantly about their wonderful lives is making me really jealous and resentful of ...

Our fights have become over the top!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs. On occasion, I have had to walk away and take a "break," because the arguments become so personal and heated and so incredibly loud, and I cannot stand the insults any ...

Is my boyfriend a massive jerk who doesn’t care?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me or get upset when genuinely bad things happen to me. I've had a massive argument with him today and I'm wondering if it's because he's a total jerk or do most people get this way when they can't handle a ...

I don’t to give my girlfriend visible hickies or love bites!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

14 November 2016 (M) - Adults only please; this questions is not suitable for young readers. My gf has grown to love rough sex that leaves marks. I oblige but I draw the line at anything visible - often neck hickies or love bits. I don't want others to either see her a...

Any advice on how to have conversations with people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - HELP! I get so anxious whenever someone starts a conversation with me. Being around people I am totally fine with and I can handle a little bit of a small conversation, but I have issues keeping the ball rolling and I freak out whenever I shoul...

I read my sister's old life planning journals and I am shocked at what I found!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - My sister graduated university last june and as a result had a whole box of old stationary/notepads in her room at home which my mum said I could borrow since she left them behind when she moved out (she's currently renting a flat for a year as ...

Can I ever get my thoughts under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to write this to see if anyone has had any success in dealing with this or if there is no hope for me to resolve my issues. I have been in therapy and with medication since I was young I'm 31 now. I was diagnosed with OCD at 12. The last ...

My boyfriend is gaslighting me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice on "gaslighting" please?its a technique used by narcissists etc to make people doubt their sanity!I'm having a lot of problems with my boyfriend of 2 years...the main problem is that hes not had sex with me for 6 ...

My relationship seems to be breaking down, and I think I'm having a quarter-life crisis over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - Long story short, I feel like I am having a quarter-life crisis. I turned 23 this year and although I am in a good career already and finished university, I have become paranoid about EVERYTHING. From the way I look to the friendships/relationships ...

I fear I'll regret breaking up with him

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

10 November 2016 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years but I'm worried I'll regret it. I love him a lot and I don't even know if this is the right choice or not. He's nice sometimes and used to make me happy all of the time for the first year, but now ...

Do I have cancer? I'm really scared!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

8 November 2016 (F) - So it's been a long journey of worrying myself sick and feeling scared and alone. About a year ago I had sex for the first time. I'm not gunna go into to much detail but yes I did use a condom. Long story short.. I developed a little bump where my ...

My ex boyfriend hates me for no reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - Hi My ex boyfriend hates me for no reason. He changed into a very nasty horrible person after he admitted he was taking tablets I think for depression. Sex went out the window as well I thought he was cheating but he said it was medication. I was al...

I'm uncomfortable saying words about genitals. Help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Hi there, I'm in my first relationship and have been for 18 or so months. I've got body dysmorphia and I'm waiting for therapy for it, but I'm ashamed of my body. I'm very introverted physically and I've only ever been naked with my current boyfr...

I'd like a gap year, is that so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - Hi. So I know this question isn't really about relationships and sex but this sites by far my favourite and I figured you guys would be helpful. Im 17 and supposed to be starting university next September - I say supposed to because I'm completely ...

Boyfriend using his health as a reason to be lazy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

6 November 2016 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years. In these past three years, he has not has a job, is extremely lazy, relied on me and family to support him. I was on the verge of breaking up with him, then he went to the Doctor's and said he was ...

What do ladies think of men who shave everywhere because they are hairy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

5 November 2016 (M) - What do girls feel about guys who shave their whole body neck to toe because they are overly hairy everywhere otherwise?...

I just feel emptiness! How do I bounce back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (M) - Hello people I suffer from anxiety and OCD. In the last 2 years, I found out my girlfriend was cheating, I dropped out of college, changed 2 jobs and currently unemployed. I spend most of my time in my room. My thoughts drive me crazy. I've trie...

How do I stay optimistic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - It is coming up on two years since my heart was broken. In that time, I've gone on... Maybe 30 dates? I am actively using dating sites, trying to meet people in person, trying to improve myself... In short, I think I'm doing everything right...

He's different to me when he's drunk. Is he punishing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - I met an Irish guy doing the regional work in Aus and became close. While he went on a road trip for a few weeks,I met someone else,which only ended up as a fling, and had to tell him when he returned before Christmas. He was very hurt and bitter. ...

I heard talk that my FWB beat up his ex girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Is past abuse a deal breaker or red flag for sex buddies? I left my boyfriend because he beat me up. I do still love him and been trying to deny the really tight tramua bond I have with him. And now I guess I have a new sex buddy.He has been hel...

Am I being unreasonable when it comes to priorities in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hi guys, Background story: me and my boyfriend met whilst we were both working evenings in a large fast food company. Neither of us planned to stay there. I got the opportunity of a daytime management position at another company. He pushed me to...

Should I take the medication my doctor prescribed? I lost my parents and am depressed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - It's a long time since I came on here, but in the past I have always been given good advice so here goes. 6 years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. A couple of operations and some treatment, and I got the all clear late last year. Dad had skin...

How do I keep my feelings for him from distracting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I know this guy who studies in another university in the same country. I met him on a casual occation when i went to visit my friend in that city. We did not talk a lot. I do not even have his phone number. He never showed any flirty moves on me and ...

Do these behavioral patterns show red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2680 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - Should I pay attention to men's patterns? I'm 31 year old woman that has not had any luck in love; I don't usually date a lot so when men approach me and ask me out 9 out of 10 times I say yes( I don't go on dating site because I don't feel ...