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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get ...

Bleeding after sex/masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I ...

Is this stain in my underwear me starting my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - its the second day now and i have brownish stains in my underwear and at first i thought it was crap but then it happened again and then i thought that i might be having my period. i do have pubic hair and ive noticed arm pit hair sooo yea.=/...

Bent penis is it a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi my penis leans a little to my left when it gets hard and im not circumcised and my skin is not at the centre of my head i have a lil trouble peeing when in hot bt its nt dat bad, so what u all tink...

Can you worry yourself sick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up on Sunday and I have been worrying trying to figure out "What went wrong?" "What could I have done differently?" and such... because we seemed so happy together... I cried for 7 hours straight and only got 3 hours...

Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first ...

Could an STD affect my sex drive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - dear cupid, i'm a 24 year old man and have always had a high sex drive but in recent months it has taking a bad turn for the worse, my penis hurts sometimes while having sex and my urine stings to sometimes and i think i might have an ...

Does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I haven't had my period yet but I'm due in a couple of days and I was wondering. I'm on the pill and I was wondering does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period. I've heard rumours that it isn't your real period ...

I feel fat and ugly and don't think I can get a boyfriend. I need support.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - why do guys hate all ages hate to be seen with with fat and ugly girl,why don,t these girls ever get asked out and treated nice. why do guys have to be so shallow and egologstical. thats not fair, to treated girls like this like they don,t ext...

I am depressed with my sad existance. Do looks improve everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i feel life is very unfair the way things are .the goodlooking /cute ,girls get good jobs,good freinds,a fair share of boyfreinds,good exams ,there have figures . goodlooking /cute people are lucky . i try very hard and i get no where.i have no ...

Has my mental illness pushed him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Me and my partner have been together over a year now. We have both deeply been in love for the whole of the time but have had a bumpy ride. I developed high anxiety at the beginning of the year when I was with him. This has mean't he has been taken ...

I had a baby and now I'm so emotional

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - okay, so i have a 3 1/2 month old baby. i have been getting really emotional and i cry all the time, i go from being happy and laughing to crying or anger. i never had this problem before, and my sister thinks i have post-partum depression. what do ...

What should I say to the doctor about my depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Tommorow I am going to the doctors to try and get medication for my depression. The reason I need these meds is because I'm losing all motivation to do anything, I mean, I've almost quit my job, and I've almost started smoking again! And I'm close ...

Could I get into trouble for not calling after my procedure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I know this is totally irresponsible of me, but here it goes. I had an abortion at the beginning of 2008, i had to get emergency medi-cal and they told me that i had to call them and cancel the emergency medical after the procedure. So i totally ...

I'm terrified of gaining weight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Not really a relationship question here, but I do think I need some help. I'm 19, 5'5", 112-3 lbs, I have a pretty healthy diet... and I'm terrified of gaining weight. I had a mild case of anorexia when I was thirteen and I'm wondering if it's ...

Am I causing myself a lot of harm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice. I dont drink as much fluid as i should...some days i havea glass of ice tea and thats it. I dont ever feel thirsty. I sometimes have to force myself to drink.Am i causing myself alot of harm??? My colleagues go ...

Anyone know what this ache could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi All, this isnt a relationship question. Before i went to bed last night, I had a dull ache in my stomach area, below ribacage and above belly button. It didnt hurt, just an ache, it sort of felt like i was really really hungry, but I wasnt. It ...

Pain after losing virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Is it normal to still feel pain even thoug i've lost my virginity? I my virginity in feb, but broke up with the guy soon after,we only had sex twice, and now me and my new boyfriend have got to the stage of wanting to have sex, but it is still ...

Being stalked..what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Is it ok to hit a man or get someone else to hit him if he is stalking you and threatening to harm your child? I've been to the police but they say there is nothing they can do. I'm at my wits end. Help....

I'm very depressed and need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I am Not Good!! I am going through a bad depression to where all i can do is sleep in and cry not wanting to get up in the morning and lay around all day .Im not working right now as I hurt my back and I am going through therapy. I am also going ...

What is causing this white discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - This is quite a personal question. I hope you can help me out with the problem. Some mornings when I get up and go to the bathroom, my underwear has white stuff (like a big blob of it) on it. I don't know what it is. Any ideas? ...

Can it be my hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone thanks for any help. The other night I tryed fingering myself but I could'nt get my finger in, there was like a layer of skin. It was blocking the entrance for my finger. Im really worried coz I dont no what it is. Is it my hymen? Also ...

My boyfriend hit and abused me, how can I trust another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - ok im 15 and not that smart so if i spell wrong please dont make fun of me. ok well i had this boyfriend that i loved verymuch but one day something went wrong he became mad 4 every little thing i would do. i once was talking to a guy that i new 4 a ...

Depressed & lonely! Need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I'm 17 year old and live in NYC.. Since I can remember I've never had friends for long.. Since age 14 I dont have any friends male or female... I DONT GO ANYWHERE.I only care for a boyfriend as my companionship.BTW:I am only ATTRACTED TO OLDER MEN ...

Mood disorder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I think i suffer from some mood disorder, ro something. at time si feel EXTREME happines and at others i just want to dissapear, hurt myself then i sumtimes i feel very irritable and get moody easily. what could it be?...

Did I really start my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Okay this is kinda awkward but I have been getting this brown discharge (it started last month for about a week) and I know that it means I'm about to start my period for the first time, well about two days ago it started again and today when I got ...

Do girls think its weird if guys shave their pubic area

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Do straight guys shave there pubic hairs? If they do, do girls think its weird?...

How can we mentally and physically put her at ease during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 331 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i attempted sex for the first time with each other last night. We were both quite nervous and but when i tried to penetrate i couldn't get fully in and i was hurting her so we had to stop. She was quite upset and explained that it ...

Having trouble with erections

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

27 December 2008 (?) - hi, im 25yrs old boy,from the age of 18 yrs i used to press my penis r testis for ejaction of sperm,but one day my penis loose erection power.now when ever i watch sex scene my penis will not erect what is my problem it is Erectile dysfunction r ...

Aids after kissing ex-girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - i am 21 years old. i am kind of very deeply thinking guy. i posted my question on this website some 2 days back and i was not convinced with the answers i got. the problem that still persists is, i am very tensed of getting AIDS after i have ...

Problems with birth control?? Pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Good afternoon. I'm going to just get to the point of my dilemma. I've had irregular periods for as long as I can remember, I've had about 5 injections of the depo provera and everytime at my third month mark I'd have my period; been sexually active ...

Bach flower remedies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 331 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - I was wondering if anybody has any good experience with bach flower remedies? And if it works for you , how do you feel the change? is it just placebo , or is it really working. I have bad depression, and trying to find natural treatments. Do you ...

After my son was born 2 years ago, I get sick after intercourse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - As strange as this may sounds after intercourse i often feel sick. Now this started after my son was born and i thought that it might go away but however it didnt. What i am wondering is what can be done about this if anything just keep in mind i am ...

What could be wrong with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I hope you can help. I need to know how common is my situation and how to get help. I'm in my late 40 -es, and a few years ago I became impotent. I'm married more than 20 years ago, and I do love my wife. She is attractive, and we get alon...

My girlfriend of 8 years hurts during sex... how can I help her feel more comfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Help me please. I have been with my girlfriend for for almost 8 years now. we trust, and love each other very much. My problem is she has a hard time with sex. It hurts her. Ive done lots of research and every couple that has this problem seems to ...

Has anyone else experienced a late period after the morning after pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - About a month ago my boyfriend and I had sex and the condom split - so obviously I got the morning after pill. A few days after this I started "spotting", I went to the doctor and they said it was fine. But the other day we had sex, however this tim...

Weird confusion about my girlfriend, is it an anxiety disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Ok, so I had my girlfriend for half a year now, and everything's just perfect - we never had fights, never offended each other, always joked around and it's just great and dream-like - until now. Sometimes, I feel extremely empty in my chest and ...

I think masturbating is affecting my health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - I am 22 yr old..but just 45 kg..i am masturbating once or twice in a week..i think it is affecting my health..But i cant control it..What should I do?...

Penis bigger than usual..why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Alright so I'm wondering if anyone can explain this. A few days ago I was having sex with my girlfriend, it was the first time I'd seen her in a little while so I was pretty pent up. Anyways, she kept going on about it being bigger than usua...

Ex tells everyone I'm bipolar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - I'm very angry because my ex-boyfriend tells everyone I'm bipolar when I'm not. A few years ago my other ex raped me, and so I was sad for a while (understandably) so went to a nurse practicioner for counseling, she asked me like 8 questions about ...

Living with bi-polar disorder

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hello all I am bi-polar was diagnosed about 4 years ago. I am married with 4 great kids. Having this mental disorder has really ruined things. I have done things that looking back on I can't believe I did and really feel that I was in a haze to ...

Can you get AIDS from kissing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - i kissed my ex girlfriend for the first time . i am kinda very deeply stressed after that. i know i am being a phycho asking this but will this cause me AIDS ? i trust her completely but still she is a stranger for me afteral and i cant be sure of ...

Do I have a foot parasite?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - Could this be a sign that I have a parasite in my body? Last night while I was taking a shower, I felt a pain on the side of my right feet. After I got out of the shower and started walking the pain was still there. When I started to sit down or get ...

Why do I always need to pee when I take a bath??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 334 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Hi All, i have a strange problem! every time i take a bath i have to pee and the urge is so strong that i dont have time to get out so i pee in the bath! I always go toilet before i have a bath and i get the urge to pee about 5 mins after i...

Engaged to an alcoholic- how do I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 335 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years, engaged for 1 year. I've always known he had a dependancy for booze, but recently it's hit ludicrous levels - depression, won't take medication, won't go to work, out drinking for 12 hour sessions. ...

Does acne make me too ugly to get a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I got two questions. One,wot are da qualities that girls look for in a guy? I am 19 . Still single. So pls,help me out. Two,i had lots of acne.so i have some spots on my face,not that much visible .but is it way too much ugly to have spots on face?...

What are these spots on my penis? I had to break up with my girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - i have spots on my penis and i broke up with my girlfreind because i have them and i didnt want her to find out and tell the whole school that i go to. what should i do now as i dont want to be a virgin for the rest of my life. ...

His sex drive has gone down drastically!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - so my husband and i have been married since october and have been together for a lil over a year and our sex life has always been really really amazing but for the past 3 or 4 weeks maybe 5 weeks, he has not really been wanting to have sex.. it ...

How do I deal with Crohn's disease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i have a rare disease called orofacial granulomatosis also known as crohn's disease. i have been bullied for over 4 years now because of this actually i think its longer and i havent had a proper real boyfriend because no body wants me some people ...

I'm very insecure because of my stretch marks since childbirth! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half... we're both definitely in love with eachother. there's just a few things that are really making us fight...Note i'm 18 years old... i have a 2 year old baby (yes i know i'm young) and after i had ...