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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

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Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern i...

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Does what appear to be scratch marks automatically mean your partner is cheating on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Does what appear to be small scratch marks bring you to the automatic conclusion your partner is cheating on you? It's nothing obvious and he has rashes and a skin condition. The lines don't seem to last long either and they are on the back ...

What could we do on dates that won't make me anxious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We live in the same campus accommodation at our university and hang out in each other's rooms every day. I get on really well with all his friends and we have a nice relaxed time together. However ...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

How do I get rid of bad odor caused by too much sweating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and a girl. I've got a really bad problem. :( It's about sweating! I sweat a lot! The climate here is about 25'C on average. I can still handle the sweating part, but the odor not at all! I get it from my dad's side of the family...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

She's into me one week then ignores me the next week. Why so many mood swings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My partner exhibits some peculiar behavior that I find rather frustrating and hard to figure out. We have a great time together for the most part, and I really value her companionship and our overall relationship. At the same time, she goes off...

Lost virginity may wreck upcoming marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I am from Nigeria. and i want to become a virgin again. I don't know if you can help me with what wil make me to become a virgin again? My wedding is coming up and don't want my husband to be mad at me. Please do help me. I do want your reply as ...

How can I get my husband to realize that his mother is taking advantage of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married 6 and a half years (together 8) and our marriage has been wonderful. He's absolutely my best friend and soul mate! However, his mother has been a real issue.... He was not raised by his mother, nor has he...

How do I attract and choose the right men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I just recently ended my 3rd serious relationship. We were long distance and he was very selfish and emotionally abusive. However, the pattern remains the same. I meet a guy, we get attached very quickly, after a month or so he says he loves me...

What can I say or do? My mother in law is driving me crazy and bankrupting us at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I am a 42 year old male who has been married for more than 20 years. I have always viewed my mother-in-law as meddlesome, but harmless. However, over the last 7 years (she is mid-70s now) she is experiencing signs of dementia. She can't pay ...

My mother passed away today, and I feel like a bad son!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

25 December 2015 (M) - My mother past away today, she was 84, she been in bad health all year, she is in a better place now, but am I a bad son, my girlfriend broke up with me , three weeks ago, am thinking about her more, I love my mom, but my heart is broken, over a ...

My son lost his twin brother. Should we let him go to counselling on his own or as a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - I have 2 sons, 1 is always in my heart and the other i wish only to make his pain go away. Twin boys born 21st june 2001. We lost Matthew in February this year. Paul was, well he was inconsolable. In june he refused to celebrate his birthday, now he ...

I love my husband but I'm thinking of leaving me as his illness is draining me. At the cross roads. Can you please help with advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am seriously thinking about leaving my husband. I wish I could discuss this with my friends, but I can't do it without divulging certain details from my husband's life. Not only I do not want to do it, I firmly believe I don't have the right to do ...

What do I do? Find a passionate partner? Or go for a comfortable existence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - I'm in real trouble, I'm in my mid twenties now and final year of uni, I have a brilliant girlfriend of a year and a half. She's really nice and clever, come from a great family very well raised. We would have a brilliant life together if we ever ...

Could you cure an STD without knowing it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Is it possible that you have cured you chlamidya (std) without knowing? so if you had caught Chlamidya and you didnt know you had it and took antibiotics for another reason such as a sore throat, would your STD also go away?...

My stepmother is cheating on my father and abusing him, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello. This might be a long story so I have tried to condense it. I feel distraught and powerless. My dad and step mum have been together around 5 years and things have gotten out of control. This woman has been married previously 4 times and my d...

He is in denial. How can I get my alcoholic ex to see sense over his heavy sustained alcohol consumption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My finance loves to drink. he wont go one week without drinking and it can carry on for days. It causing problems in all areas of his life such as our relationship, jobs and his health. he admitted he has a problem before and went to an AA meeting...

He doesn't seem bothered. Yet my friend's lifetime dream has been shattered. How can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - I've been keeping touch with an old friend of mine from school who left early because he found an opportunity to pursue an artistic direction, something he had always wanted to do. He's not the type who talks much, and I've often misinterpreted w...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

How can I demonstrate to my Bf that I still want to be there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hi, just a quick post to gather a few opinions on what to do here, so thank you in advance of you decide to reply. So, I'll try keeping it short, so it might sound a bit blunt, but I don't want to babble on. I was diagnosed with depression n...

I'm still in love with my ex! We talk all the time and I just can't move on. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I had been dating this guy who I met online back 2014, we talked FOREVER and got to know each other so well, we got along, we agreed on everything, he was perfect for me.. He admitted he loved me over the phone (during those 5am calls that lasted 10 ...

I can't imagine trusting someone enough to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, a virgin, and I believe myself to be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I have what I believe is a low sex drive compared to what I've heard from my friends. I think at some point I'd like to have sex but honestly it really doesn't matter to ...

I want to compete in a beauty contest, but speaking in public makes me anxious.Should I contest or move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

19 December 2015 (F) - I didn't pull through to represent my country at the miss universe pageant. I didn't even make it through the auditions because I am a nervous wreck or was. I don't know, I have so much confidence as a person and I know back then in universi...

I'm concerned the impression I'll make on our first date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - I have started talking to a guy on-line and we are planning to meet for the first time tomorrow. I am not too confident about my physical appearance as I have lost about 30kg over the years, but now at an average size. I am big busted and the weight ...

I need to walk away but I'm finding that terribly difficult. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, My problem is that at the moment I'm finding it hard to cope. I have been seeing this guy but I just don't think it's going to work out. I was so scared of letting someone into my heart, but he was there for me all the time, being supp...

Years ago a guy was found not guilty of harming me. It divided the community. Does it matter that I get few birthday cards now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - I've gotten in to a massive argument with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. A few years ago I was raped and it went to trial but the guy was found not guilty. I live in a really small town and the man who did it was my best friends boyf...

The lack of sex in our relationship is taking a toll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I am a man in my early 40s in a long term relationship that I have been in for 20 years. We have 2 children, 1 mid and 1 late teens. After the birth of our second child my partner developed a physical problem which meant that sex was painful....

Feeling shattered. Two days ago I saw my wife cheating with another man. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

16 December 2015 (M) - I caught my wife having sex with another man. She says it was the first time she did this, but she did him with me just 30 feet away and right out in the open when i saw them. He says it was flirting that got out of hand. She says she don't...

I think I'm so bad at sex that I should consult a sex therapist or sex coach! Is it worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid It's embarrassing to even say it but i completely suck when it comes to sex, I can't do anything. Had two long relationship, one with ex bf who didn't care much and we hardly had any and everytime I just lie down and he will do his job ...

My master manipulator sister is ruining our wedding plans and our life. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - My sister is a master manipulator. Over the past year, since getting engaged, not only has she tried to get money out of me for stuff we borrowed, as well as bringing money for family suppers (instead of food), but she also has tried to interfere or ...

Thinking about going to a sex therapist, or sex counsellor. Will it work? Is it worth this effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3055 days ago

I have a feeling my girfriend might be cheating. Should I break up with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - I want to know if my girlfriend of six months is cheating or not. At first, she was all chatty and flirty and quite honestly, all over me. But then she would back off real quick and make some excuse to go home or cut off the date. When I asked if...

Is my Bf's technique the cause of the pain I feel after sex? What needs to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3055 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - When my partner uses his finger (we don't use toys or penis) on me, even when I'm really lubricated and it feels good, it sometimes feels a little torn when I use the bathroom once or twice in the few hours after. It doesn't usually hurt during, ...

Am I right to be upset about this skinny shaming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - OK, I have a gay male friend who to me seems obsessed with my weight/body. I m female, a size 8 weigh 57kgs and i m 169cm. According to my doctor i m in excellent health and the right weight etc for my BMI (Body Mass Index). I ve never had an...

Refractory period last for too long, anybody has the same experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3056 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Thi is not a new thing. My husband has always had a long refractory period. The minimum is about 24h. We met in mid-20's and now are in our forties. We're both in good shape, eat well, exercise, still love each other and are very much attracted to ...

Can anyone tell me if my equipment is too small?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest ...

I shared personal information. Now it'sall over the office

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - The guy that I was engaged to 1997 gave me herpes.I was still young in my twenties. This change my whole life. He didn't tell me he had it. I was so hurt I cried. At some point I excepted this of course I couldn't change it anyway. Ten years late...

What are the dangers or issues associated with not wearing underwear? Assuming there may be any dangers or issues.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, I have an odd question. I recently have decided I want to stop wearing boxers. I don't enjoy wearing clothing to begin with, and I don't even see a reason as to wear underwear if I'm covered. I'm in high school, and I want to kn...

I keep getting crushes on random people and fantasising about them. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - What is wrong with me? Someone please help. I have a wonderful husband that treats me like a queen (been married 4 years and been together for 8) and all I keep doing is getting crushes on random people, fantasising about them and stalking them on ...

Without foreplay I feel pain if my husband attempts intercourse without foreplay. How can I make him understand? I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I am recently married to my boyfriend of 10 years. We never had sex in these years,only physical intimacy/foreplay. now after marriage he just wants sex, he cant wait for 15-20 minutes of foreplay before sex. foreplay is important to me because ...

He takes me for granted and I want to leave him. What's my best strategy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - i hate everything my boyfriend says or does he has become a pain in my ass..... He is self centered and only treats me like a lump of shit...he is 24 hours on a stupid game...on his phone i dont mean anything to him he isnt how he was...he has star...

Getting guys' attention--do they like me for looks or personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3059 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - So lately I've noticed that my behavior has been odd. I wasn't that type of girl who likes attention from guys since i was very shy. But i worked on my self esteem 2 years ago, and now I'm a very outgoing, confident and a loud person BUT who likes ...

Do breasts get bigger by being touched?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - hi....last time i went for a date with my boyfriend and while kissing he alys touches my brest and now i feels like my brest getting bigger so does the brest become bigger when touched?...

I'm scared to tell my boyfriend that we are HIV coz he been suspecting my ex has it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - boyfriend and I met after a long time chasing me...we had our 1st sex unprotected;we were drunk but I still remember I had told him I want a condom that night...months later when I became pregnant he kept asking me and telling me about my exes that ...

I panic a lot. I feel I am failing. I have no idea what to do. How do I get over all this insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - Growing up as a child I always thought, money would come very easy. Then in my teenage years, I got into university quite early and finished early too, I thought immediately after graduation, everything was going to fall in place and work out just...