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I pushed him away because I wanted him closer to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - So 3 weeks ago I kind of pushed my boyfriend away and told him I don't wanna be with him but what I was really trying to do is making him understand my mental illness, suffering from GAD and BPD, I tried to tell him maybe through my ery wrong way of ...

How can I make my life meaningful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

30 July 2017 (F) - I preface this by saying I want to be clear that I don't mean to put anyone down. I don't want anyone to feel lousy. God, no. I want to do ANYTHING but that. I just need to get a load off... I have been extremely depressed lately . Is it pos...

My husband is trying to bully, control, manipulate and isolate me! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - I have recently got married again and gradully my husband is imposing boundaries and when i challenge these he becomes incredibly angry to the point of screaming, telling me i'm stupin and running down my friends and family. He is now tell8ng me my ...

Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...

Why do men think its alright to comment on a woman's nether regions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - This is probably more of a rant than anything, but what is up with some men thinking it's ok to comment on the look of a woman's vagina/vulva?! Whether it's not neat enough, 'beef curtains', too hairy, it 'looks loose'... the list goes on! My m...

Overwhelmed by worry - please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

21 July 2017 (F) - How can I stay calm or practice keeping sane? I suffer from an obsessive personality (doctor said this) where I start to think about cuz and I repeat it in my head 1729 times. I habe the same reaction to a medical diagnosis to loosing a wallet- both ...

How do I handle my critical dad? He's given me poor self-esteem!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

20 July 2017 (F) - I've been struggling w/this for years w/my dad. My dad does love me, I do know that. When it comes down to me, he has always been negative w/about 95% of everything. For the last 10 years he has been convinced that I'm overweight and will be ...

I don't want to panic in the future about oral sex performed on me, advice please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

18 July 2017 (F) - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and lost my virginity earlier this year. It was great, and the foreplay was even better, except as he was kissing his way down there I was pulling him back up. I told him I wasn't comfortable with him going down on me, like I ...

Low self esteem is punishing me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

15 July 2017 (F) - Hello to you all. I'm basically just wanting to know of anybody has gone through this and if so how do I overcome it. I have extreme self-esteem issues - it's starting to ruin my life literally. I dread summer or warm days where I have to show skin. ...

I seem to be stuck in a fantasy world. Am I going mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - I want to give a little background - I have an obsessive personality (my therapist) has stated this on top of bad anxiety. Lately due to the stress because of bills all I do is work and I have found that I get sick in this fantasy land of dreaming ...

Do I leave my depressed boyfriend who will not get help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

10 July 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner just short of four years and I can confidently say he was the love of my life. I say was because now he is suffering with depression and will not seek help. He got diagnosed with this in 2013 and stopped taking tablets ...

How can I get my emotional life in order?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

9 July 2017 (F) - How does one start believe the positive affirmations - for example I'm reading a lot of self help books that say speak to the universe And it will give it back - it's logical if I say I would like to be successful and calm - or I would like to be ab...

Is his request weird or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

9 July 2017 (F) - So lemme know if this is weird or not. My boyfriend has been serious/joking with me about if I we had kids, that he'd want to drink my breast milk from my boobs. I shudder at the thought, and I can only imagine the issues women have with their ...

Hes been exchanging suggestive messages with an ex ... should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - A few months ago, my boyfriend and I argued over a woman that he had been making sexual comments with on facebook. He said that he was joking, but I didn't think it was funny. She said she had a soft spot for him, then he mentioned a "hard spot" , ...

How can I deal with bad female bosses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - A year ago I was working for a large publicly held company - when they hired a senior manager and let go my original manager that hired me. As soon as she started working no more than two months in the job she started criticizing my work- micro ...

I don't understand why she wont just delete her profile from online dating sites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

6 July 2017 (M) - It's hard to know where to start, and I know this will turn into a long post so I appreciate anyone willing to read through and offer advice. I've been in a long-term-relationship for about six years, we're the same age. When things are good,...

Nothing ever goes right in our relationship. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for over 2 years and it just seems nothing EVER goes right in our relationship. There is no such thing as peaceful, pleasant times for us. It has never been like that, unfortunately. When we got together, instea...

I work while my husband stays home, he goes on vacation but I cant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - A little over a year ago my husband left hos job because it was too stressful and demanding and became a househusband. I own our house, so no mortgage and extra espenses, and although our lifestyle has changed a bit- meaning that we try and save ...

How can I start liking myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - How can I start liking myself after many years of not standing myself? I'm so over my moodiness and my misery- I'm ashamed of myself because I should be thankful for my health my family and a fairly easy life but no matter what has happened I can't ...

I've forgotten how to meet people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Ok I need advice, I'm a widow of 7 yrs, I was married for 27. I have forgotten how to meet people. seems the ones I do just want sex, Im not saying sex is a bad thing. but I want a relationship. Can anyone refresh me on how to meet people. ...

Who do I help, the one who relies on me or myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

5 July 2017 (M) - I have a strained relationship with my girlfriend of five years. There's a lot of love and care there. She'll shower me with it, thank me and bless me. She has me on a pedestal and I shelter her from life. There's a lot of love but I feel trapped. ...

Should I tell her that I have no experience with women what-so-ever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - I'm an honest guy. I like to tell the truth. I'm thinking about pursuing a specific girl in my life who seems to like me. Would it be wise to tell her that I'm "love-shy" (really really really bad with women)? I feel like it would take a huge load ...

How do I comfort a friend who learned he has herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

3 July 2017 (F) - One of my really close friends got genital herpes and I'm so in shock. He and I have had an on and off fling for a while, but never even kissed cause he's super all over the place. He's practically in love with me, I guess, but anyways that's ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

Do men lose out on any pleasure by using condoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts. I've met this amazing guy and we have been chatting for a while, he is going at a slow pace with me :)he is kind, understanding and says he is very much in love with me, I feel the same. I can trust him and I think he's perfect for me ...

I feel like I am a mistake and that everybody knows it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

2 July 2017 (M) - Am i stupid, or just living in the past. I am gay and i don't think i have ever said that before. i have always been scared and think of other peoples feelings rather then my own. I avoid social situations and even family stuff because everybody is ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...

How can I stop living inside my head ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I have been told that I have an obsessive personality by my doctor- I suffer from OCD but mostly obsessive thoughts- my worries don't go away - I worry about saying the wrong things in meetings when I'm silent all the way to thinking "what if I ...

I don't want to be replaced by a vibrator .... again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

2 July 2017 (M) - I have a much higher sex drive than my wife. About 10 years ago I bought a vibrator for her. Everything was great and we used it a lot together when we had sex, and sex happened more frequently. After a while, she lost almost all interest in havi...

I am still breast feeding my school aged child

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I do not see a problem with this however I wondered what the general consensus would be .... I am breastfeeding an almost 7 year old? I am quite out spoken about breastfeeding but a side from close family and friends, no one knows that we are still ...