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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Partner with intense chronic pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a dedicated relationship with a wonderful man. We've been together for two years now and plan to get married and start a family later this year. I really struck gold with him - he is everything I could want in a relationship except one ...

1st period and I need some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I just got my period for the first time and I am a little nervous about whats going on in my body. Can anyone help, girls only please....

Can you have an orgasm if your period hasn't started yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm fourteen and haven't started my periods yet. I havent masturbated before and I'm a virgin, although some of my friends have regular orgasms using both masturbation and sex - but they all have their periods. I want to masturbate but don't know ...

Does anyone know why I get so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Lately I have been really emotional. I will get really mad or start crying over the most pathetic things. I realize what I'm crying over is silly, but I can't help it. Does anyone know what could be wrong with me? ...

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cabl...

Ladies is this a tear or something normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (?) - This isn't a relationship question but a personal one. Ladies can you explain to be if this is normal. I have what I can only describe as 'ridges' on my vagina. The location is rather hard to explain, but they are on the mons pubis a little too the ...

How to tell my boyfriend to workout ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I want my boyfriend to workout. He seriously has everything I look for in a guy. But lately he has been gaining weight. I love him so much and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But I really do not want him to just let himself go and m...

I had sex and now I'm nauseous. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i lost my virginity on christmas 5 days ago and 3 days ago i have started getting stomach aches and feeling like vomiting but nothing happens is this a normal symptom or should i be worried? :/ ...

Men: How do you feel about HPV?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (?) - I tested positive for HPV over a year ago. It was type that increases the risk for cervical cancer, (not the strain that gives warts) I went ahead and got the vaccine for the other strains and I am now "inactive" and test negative though ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Husband lied about HIV

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (?) - i have been with mt husband for 7 yrs got married when i was 21 we have two young kids. my issue is he did'nt tell me he was h.i.v positive when we got together and only found out after a year of going out by that time i had it as well he has lied ...

Why do the corners of my eye bleed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I have a weird question.... why do the corner of my eyes bleed? First my best friend told me her eyes were bleeding about 6 months ago and I thought she was crazy but she whiped the corner of her eye one day and showed me and it was like purple ...

Do You Think It Was Okay For Him To Call Me Fat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So, I have this friend, or i thought he was my friend, and he's athletic, and he thinks he's perfect. We were talking and joking around like we always do, and then out of nowhere he goes all serious on me and tells me (in his exact words) "You know ...

How can I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just really do not know what to do now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.. We were both in relationships when we had a one night stand which lead to our relationship but ended them. For the first few months it was a ...

Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's ...

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...

What can this itching be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - the outer area of my vaginal hole(?) it itches so bad could this be a sign of a yeast infection. please help cause i dont want to tell my mom and go to the doctor and it be nothin cause that would be embarrising....

I cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I just want to know if something is wrong with me because I cannot orgasm when we are having intercourse. It just does not happen, it only happens when he uses his tongue or finger. Does anybody know how to have an orgasm during intercourse?...

How much should I drink for my age and height?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - New Year is coming up and my crush is trying to find someone who is having a party so we can both go together! It sounds fun but I havn't actually been to a proper party before with like alcohol and stuff cos I don't normally get invited and I've ...

My boyfriend's smoking addiction is turning me off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi all! Thanks for taking the time to read this! When my boyfriend and I started dating, I didn't know that he smoked. He never did it around me and I didn't think to ask since I never saw him smoking. One day though, the topic came up and I ...

My friend is a major alcoholic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - So my friend is a major alcoholic for his age. I wanna help him out but he drinks to be happy. A way that helped my cousin to stop drinking was to find that one special person who can make you stop drinking or someone you want to change for. Would ...

Is this how an orgasm is supposed to feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Okay, i just wanted to know what exactly an orgasm is. I'm a virgin, but i have fingered myself before. In the act, there is a point where my body basically goes numb. I feel my muscles tighten and my clit open and close. It's like i lose complete...

Can a vasectomy fail after thirty years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - A man I may be pregnant too claims to have had a vasectomy some thirty years ago.. Is it still possible it is his or is he likely to be lying? He never said this when we slept together in fact he asked if I was on the pill but he said this after I ...

Frustration for both of us over my slow arousal point. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is very good at oral sex and i really enjoy sex with him. I get frustrated, and so does he, because it takes me way too long to reach an orgasm. Sometimes i feel as if i'm concentrating too much on it, and maybe that is why. What is s...

Can being out of shape affect masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Hi Im 24 coming 25 and i have been masturbating for about 10 years. Up until recently i have been able to last 30-50 mins while watching porn but now it seems that i can't last long. Up until i have been excerise semi regular but now i ...

I think she's developing an eating disorder.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - hey all, my problem is my daughter, she is a beautiful 13 yr old, now she and i have been given a hard time by her dad we are still together just. she has no confidence and is 10 and a half stone shes not tall and so does look a big girl. i have ...

My BF and I get so nervous when we are together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I ask a question on here why my boyfriend and i get so nervous around each other but I have to ask something like that. If you haven't read my last question then I shall give you a summary of it. my boyfriend and I get super nervous around each oth...

The changes in my friend are unsettling me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My best friend is really starting to change. It all started when we went to the mall. I saw these really cute pants but I'd wasted all my money on a birthday present for my mom. So, my friend says "take the pants, put it in your purse and walk out...

Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...

Are there any guys that don't mind girls who just trim?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Are there any guys that actually don't mind girls just trimming their pubes nowadays? I've stopped getting rid of mine now cos of the itchiness and ingrown hairs, but all my guy friends say they find pubes extremely unattractive. Is this true for ...

What causes Trictillomania?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Does anyone know what causes Trictillomania. IE: the compulsive urge to pull one's hair out? I am finding it very hard to stop doing it at present and it is becomming quite distressing....

Odd girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - So im another average teen girl. Asian tall super skinny size 00 back hair with red streaks not gorgeous but not entirely ugly either. I havent been in a relationship for about 2 years now. An i was wondering how to get a boyfriend. I mean i have a ...

Should we break up or get hitched?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now about a year and we were both obese and I got really fit and joined the army, now im back on leave and she wants to get married in the next week but I dont feel attracted to her anymore, she doesnt ...

My testicles were hurting after I made out with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - hi im a 15 year old boy turning 16 this year. today i was making out with my girlfriend.we made out for a good 10-15 minutes.then we stopped and just watched a movie.when we stopped i realized my testicles were hurting. the area around my pelvis w...

Mom thinks my headaches are coming from listening to music and not sleeping enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - hi all.. this may be just a silly thing to ask but i am very cautious on my health. i never tend to get headaches, it was rare for me, like, i dunno, once every 3 months. it might not sound very rare but my days and weeks last long, lol. at...

My strategy failed: I lied to my bf saying I was pregant to try to get him back. Would telling him I miscarried work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - OK; soo i Have an ex boyfriend and i am still in love with him... i would love to know how to get him back ? he is my very first love, but i think i made a mistake. Because i lied to him and told him i was pregnant, just to see if he would come back ...

Are tampons comfortable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - im 13 and i started my period not long ago and i use pads but there really uncomfortable and panty liners :/ i want to try a tampon but im not sure if it hurts? if its even more uncomfortable? and whats its even like to have one "in"?? please help ...

Please don't judge, need advice. I'm crazy for him. He has 5 kids by 3 women and his wife is pregnant. At wit's end

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I need help. I've been in a relationship with this man for over a year now. He's married. In the begnning I idnt know he was married. His family lied to me he lied to me. I got pregnant and we now have I child together. She is 5 months old. He and ...

Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...

Is getting an AIDS test scary, how is it done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - So in health class weve been talking about STDS and aids and how it is transmitted through any kind of sex. Two years ago i used to give my now ex blowjobs, but i usually didnt swallow the cum except for once or twice.But my health teacher told us ...

I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...

Was I raped by this guy years ago. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I had a really traumatic first time, experience years ago. I was making out with someone and I was happy just with that. Then he forced himself on me and had unprotective sex with me. It was very painful. I couldn't stop crying, but he kept going ...

He uses smoking as a way to cope with stress but I want him to quit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 15 and I'm kind of in a relationship with this guy ( same age ). Ilove him with all my heart, and he loves me back. Itell him everything, and vise versa. He has had a difficult life. He's in a depression, but he goes to therapy ...

First Christmas without my ex here and I am about to lose it.. how can I stop this depression?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - It's my first Christmas since my boyfriend and I broke up and I am just about to lose it. This has been the worst break-up I have ever had. I have lost myself and feel like I have nothing left and all these holidays are making it so much worse... ...

I'm afraid to get tested for an STD

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Could ihave an STD ? I'm 15. Iam not sexually active ; I'm a virgin . But in the past, ihave done stuff. They say icould get an STD from skin to skin contact ( refering to genital areas ), and ihave done that before. They also say you could get it ...

It smells down there. Do I need to see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Hi there. I have a problem...whenever me and my boyfriend have sex he says it smells down there bad to him...so i went and bought summer eves bodys wash and wipes for whenever im not at home well i used these products and the smell goes away but ...

Will skipping pills give me the effect I want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been on the pill for about 5 or 6 months and this month i wanted to start my period a bit sooner than i'm supposed to. i have 2 normal pills left and the next week is the sugar pill week. i was wondering if i just skipped the 2 pills an...

Foreskin problem please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - hello i'm just gone 16 and i have a foreskin problem... it can be pulled down (when and not when erect) without hurting but it doesn't seem to stay down, i do NOT want to be circumcised, please i really need help do you have any?...

Pain for 2 days after sex, doctor says nothing's wrong -- anyone experience this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - heya, i'm with my bf 14 months over the last 4 months wen we have sex occasionally i do get very sore pains just at the end of my stomach, i mean these pains to be so painfull, i dont get them till like the day after we have it and the pain last abo...

Lots of awful yellow headed spots down there? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Well hi! I dont know who else to ask. It's quite embarrassing! For about 2 years now i've shaved my down below adea. Using a new razor every time and sensitive shaving gel! But i always go really itcky pretty much right away! I've noticed more too....