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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

Where do I go from here? Broken hearted. How long should I wait for to contact my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of one year recently broke up with me. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost the entire time, although I've bought plane tickets to visit her several times, and she came to stay with me for 8 weeks over summer where we ...

This mean girl in my class insulted my friend about her weight, and now my friend wants to starve herself to be able to lose 30 pounds by the end of the month!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Today's Halloween, and so my school had this contest on who could come to school in the best costume. Like 90% of the people in my school dressed up, including me, but that's besides the point. I have a friend who's a bit overweight, but ...

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

We plan to meet for the first time soon but he is very ill and I'm worried if I see him it will make it harder. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - im 22 years old and been in a relationship with this 46 years old canadian guy online,there no exact words to express how happy i am to have him. I know deep inside my heart that i do love him more than anything in this world..and he also does for ...

Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...

In Turmoil. How can I resolve my Commitment issues? my girlfriend has given up on me :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - Hi Folks, Commitment issues of my own have caused my girlfriend to give up :(! I'm after some advice, not sure if anyone can help, but basically the story goes like this: My girlfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We had a long ...

Are my concerns about my daughter's mental health valid? How do I suggest she get help? She wants a sex change for vocational reasons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My 16 yr old daughter told us she wants a sex-change. She said it's the solution to all her problems - she wants to work in the motor industry or the logistics industry, and said both those industries aren't really accepting of women working ...

Early stages of ED, what can I do to combat it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (?) - for the past one week my penis doesn't get erected,i was very much worried about it,i consulted my doctor he says it is a starting stage of ED, what exercises will help me to eradicate my problem, i have discussed with my girl friend , she ...

She wants me to stop taking the pain killers after I hurt my knee otherwise she will leave me! Should I just leave her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - hi guys ive been dating a woman for almost 2 years shes spoiled and is just a baby i dont make a lot of money but i do pay bills, take care of laundy, cook, clean i do it all.... recently i got hit at work in july by a truck so ive been in therapy ...

Shall I contact him on FB even though I am not supposed to know his surname? Or ask his friend for his phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi there - I met a guy at a party and we slept together. I like him but i do not see him as relationship material. But i would like to see him again. Just to have fun. If i wanted a relationship i wouldn't contact him but i guess i have nothing ...

Solutions please to reduce panic attacks? old school? New school? Or other options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hey, yep its me again so thanks for taking the time to read my question. I haven't been at school for about a year now and now and my family and I are making the necessary changes for me to go back to school. Only problem is many schools round my...

I have pain when I'm finishing urinating. Anyone know what it might be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I have pain when im finishing urinating. My first pee of the day is the worst because i get really uncomfortable after the pee and i have pain for hours. What could it be? Im sexually active but i make sure the guys use a condom all the time so i'd ...

I'm not sure whats wrong, could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on the needle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Uh, i have no clue how to put this. ill just try my best. Lately iv been feelings a bit weird. i feel like im going to vomit pretty much all day every day. I get full off like nothing pretty much, i pee millions of times. i havnt had sex sinc...

Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...

Can this happen? My Sex drive is gone, and I'm only 20 years old

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I have lost my sex drive completely. I have an amazing fiance of four years, and we never have sex anymore, b/c I don't want too. I'm only 20 years old, and I don't care for it. As of right this very moment, i don't care if i EVER have sex again. At ...

My Gf has major self esteem issues. will she ever change or go back to the way she used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - my fiance of 4 years has always suffered from self esteem issues, an eating disorder and was raped when she was 16. now because of this she dated men who treated her like crap because she thought she deserved that. she has had no support from her ...

Should my husband go out to bars so often without me? Or should he consider me more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - For the past year my husband has been going to the bars with his friends about twice per month. He stays until the bar is closed. I was ill for a few months and never wanted to go out when he asked (not that I could, because we don't have a baby...

Is my proposed celibacy solution workable? And any tips on helping me get over this intense amount of regret/shame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 15 years old. I have given two guys bjs, and I am soooo ashamed. I regret all of it, and i feel sick whenever i think about it. I feel like i am a bad kid. However, I am in a relationship right now (although he says he doesn't care about phys...

Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...

Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...

My girlfriend is telling me she is being abused, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is telling me that she's being verbally and now psyically abused. What is the best thing to tell her or do?...

We were good friends. Does she have a lot on her mind maybe, and just doesn't want to talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have been best friends with my friend for almost a year now. We became really close really fast. We were inseparable and up until about a week ago i thought we still were. we texted every single day and talked on the phone almost every night. When...

My periods are still irregular, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm 13 and I'm on my third period. The first two were relatively light and I could use the Always pads with the three or four absorbency drop thingys. But now, on my third, it's been sooooo heavy and the Always pads with the four drops get full...

I'm a picky eater! Should I see a doctor about this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - this isnt a relationship question but i would appriciate any advice you can provide me with i am a very picky eater i dont eat a lot of variety and rarely try new foods. I also eat quite little for a number of reseons; i have a busy schedule wi...

Has anyone gained weight rapidly and was able to overcome it and if so, how? What challenges did you face and what did you have to watch out for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I have a question regarding fitness. I see that I have a very bad habit of binge eating sweets and chocolates. The urge to eat junk sky rockets especially if I start exercising. I live alone, and I don't feel motivated to cook at all, and...

Is it normal to feel lonely close to 30? All my friends are married and presumably happy. But they don't talk to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Hi I just remembered that once upon a time, a few years ago, I used to have friends I could pick up the phone and talk to, but now I have none, and it really isn't my fault that I don't - just that, choices were made by them. And I went far away, an...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

I need some help to cope with what's happening now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - PLEASE HELP! Okay, well I have been to the doctors about depression and they are just saying it's harmones but I am lower then average. I have used marijuana a few times to make me feel better and use it I don't have a lot. I don't smoke it ...

Broke up with my girl, and I need advise on how to make friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

28 October 2011 (M) - Hello I am 19 year old male and I have no friends. I lost my female best friend 2 months ago and my girlfriend 3 days ago(it was a mutual agreement, she didn't dump me). I started studying economics this year and it is still hard for me to find one ...

What to do to stop feeling so lonely? I haven't felt like I've done something fun for a long time. It's getting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - It's been a while since I've had a good conversation, it's been a while since I was sure I'd make plans and they would actually follow through. It's been a while since I've had this feel as I've started college. Everyone in my class is 2 years yo...

Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...

He seems weird sometimes. But I'm confused and cannot work him out. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - someone please help, I really don't know what's going on right now. last year I liked this guy, we got along amazingly, a had a bit of a thing for him. to make a long story short, I found out through mutual friends that I wasn't his type (physica...

Unexplained blood after having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship, I say long - we live like forty minutes away on a train, but to be fair it's long enough that we only get to see each other once/twice every week at some point because of money and juggling work ...

Is it right for my husband to leave me despite having a high risk pregnancy to go on holiday?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - i have been married for a few months. i am 34 weeks pregnant, with a history of heart disease, and classified high risk pregancy. my husband lobied for a paid for 2 months vacation out of the country with his employers and really excited about it. i ...

I'm so ashamed and afraid that I have an STD!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - this summer i made a huge mistake. i hooked up with a guy and we both performed oral on each other. he didnt cum though. he had had a few oral sexual partners before, and had said he never showed any symptoms for stds. i have shown none as well but ...

Is a tan a turn on? Guys and girls, your thoughts on whether tan lines are a turn off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I personally think it's a bit shallow for one to complain about tan lines on their partner, but that being said, I'm one who loves to soak up the sun in summer and obviously when I'm by the pool or at the beach with my friends, I'm not going to be ...

I do have the confidence to ask a girl out. But do you think I sound likable to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I am very nice, really cool, strong, tough, funny, loyal, really sweet, a caring guy. I do have the confidence enough to ask out a girl. I'm not trying to rush in these things, when ever I meet a pretty girl I just smile and be nice. When I h...

Spiders? Heights? I have a Phobia of statues! Any solutions or people with my Statues phobia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Oh hey its me again! Just an odd little qeustion, i have automonophobia and i was just updating my profile and wondered "hmmm i wonder if anyone else has it." So i thought id ask some of you lovely lot and wheather anyone has it. ...

I took him to the clinic because I thought something was wrong with him sexually and now he wont talk to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles. Okay i've been here before, asking a few questions, and i got wonderful and useful feedback. So now i'm back...same guy...different situation. Okay, so today, i wanted to take him, well the both of us to the clinic ...

My boyfriend is sick and wont go to the doctor, I'm really worried any idea of what he could be sick with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Hey guys this is more of a health question but i cant find any help any were on the internet so i was hopeing you guys could help. Well my boyfriend is 18 and about two days ago he started feeling sick. He will feel really hot and break out in to a ...

I like being happy but why do people at school say I'm retarded because I like to laugh?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I'm a very happy person that likes to smile and laugh and for most times no reason I can't help it, I love to laugh and smile. At school people be mean to me and say I'm retarded because I like to laugh and smile. They say I shouldnt be happy that ...

Tatoos and laser removal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and have alot of tattoos. Id say around 16. I got alot of them when i was 17/18. I love them but I really want the ones on my arm gone...I havent been succesful in the relationships ive been in, and sometimes I feel like these ...

I need tips on gaining weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - please help me... i am a 19 year old female who is five feet tall and weighs 100 lbs, i recently had a son and i thought i would have gotten fatter but i didn't. people often times say that i look like around 15-16 and it makes me sad as i went thr...

I'm worried I will always feel like this! Does anyone have any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate some advice please. I have a history of attracting the wrong type of man, despite the fact that I believe I have done a lot of work on myself to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle. I recently met a man at th...

He's cheated and given me an STD! How do I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I have just found out my boyfriend of a year has been cheating on me and now I have a std I really loved him but now he has been cheating on me I know I have to break up with him how do I bring this up to him I know he has been cheating ...

Our son who has Asperger's syndrome is depressed because he thinks he's gay. How can we help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4567 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - For the past 2 weeks, our 23-year-old son, Simon* who has Asperger's syndrome has been acting differently - showing signs of angst/depression, smoking and drinking [soft drinks] to excess and putting on weight. We weren't sure why and asked him on...

Lots of questions about sex, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - hey i am suresh from india !! i have many questions first of all !! 1) my penis size only 5 inch long so is it normal size or not ? 2)can we increase our penis size ? 3)i am very fond of sex i masturbate twice a day !! is it normal ? 4)whenver i...

He's my emplyee and the apple of my eye. Can we be more than that? Do you think that it's all wishful thinking on my part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - I recently hired a new male employee (I am a gay male) who is 16 years younger than me. We have a great relationship at work and have even hung around together after work on a few occasions. He knows that I am gay, and single, and he is well over ...

How do I ensure we do NOT break up? Between school, homework, and work, he doesn't have any time for me anymore..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4567 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with D for seven months. He just started college and I'm still in high school and he barely has any time for me anymore and I'm getting fed up of being so lonely all the time. We both love each other very much and I do NOT want to...