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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

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My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

She thinks this is funny. How can I get her to understand that I don't like that she when we make love she lets off wind? Why does this happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

31 December 2014 (M) - I have what I call a severe prob;em with my partner in that when we make love she lets off wind and never does do anything to stop it and when I said something about it she thought it was funny and laughed at me and wonder if I should end it with ...

I'm not given a chance. why do I self sabotage and why are women so picky with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3405 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Its like I unconsciously sometimes ( not always) want to fail or make people not want to want to get to know me..as in the past Ive not been accepted, sadly women are cliquey at times and despite efforts ive been cold shouldered or dismissed. like...

What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had a...

My mom is having a hard time dealing with a death in the family and is venting all her pent up emotions on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3406 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, This is not a relationship question but more something ive been needing help with in terms of my mother. My aunt passed away a few months ago, and both my mum and i were really close to her. Obviously this has affected my mum mas...

I am worried about upcoming annual reviews at work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Dear all, I'm a recent grad who began my new office job in July and I'm very overwhelmed. I'd truly appreciate your advice. I work in a freight forwarder for a major ocean exporter. My job is mainly to discuss rates with carriers and review c...

I need some reassurance before I make a doctor's appointment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I am a 24 year old female and I'm currently in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend. We started going out in March this year and everything was perfect( I thought). And we broke up 4 months later cause he didn't trust me. We got together in mid- ...

Would you change something that you hated about yourself, even if family and friends were against it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - So recently I have been thinking about having a my breasts lifted and possibly made a little bigger. I have spent the past three years getting into shape after years of feeling bad about my body and my body went from a size 18 (uk) to a size 8-10. ...

I feel like such a loser lately!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Man I feel like such a loser lately. I'm 22 years old, filled regret from my college experience because it was basically 4 years of stress/emotional suffering/extreme loneliness. I graduated with an ok gpa luckily, but so far I have no job (I've ...

EVERYTHING IS GREAT!! ................ except for our sex life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Let me just start by saying I LOVE my partner very very much. All I want is to make him happy and NEVER hurt him. He is 21, I am almost 23. We have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2. He is my best friend in the whole world ...

He is dwelling in the past when we need to move forward!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone.. I am quite in a pickle at the moment and i urgently need some advice... So about a week ago, my boyfriend and I were in an argument and things got pretty bad. And we were both invited to the same party. At that party I was feel...

How can I get a new razor without having to ask my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hey, this is a bit awkward! I'm in desperate need of some help. I'm a 15 year old guy, and I keep myself clean, grooming, etc. So, I shave. All places, and "down there" (if you catch my drift) is the problem. Well, not the shaving part, but the ra...

I have sexual thoughts about my mother, and the guilt is eating me alive! Am I abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - I am a teenage male with OCD and I often have disturbing sexual thoughts about my mother that I always try to shake out of my head but sometimes that doesn't work and I end up masturbating to get rid of the thought (only on a few occasions has the ...

He's neglecting me... Just want someone to talk to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I'm 32 and my bf is 36. We've been together for over 5 years. We broke up for about 6 months due to him neglecting me. During our BU, he contacted me EVERY week, the entire 6 months.... EVERY week for 6 MONTHS! Now you'd think in that time he'd have ...

Don't want to have sex with my b/f because I hate my body.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - I'm 22 and a virgin. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. My boyfriend and I are at the point where we want to start having sex and my problem is of how ugly my body is and how insecure I am with it. It really bums me out ...

I'm a cheater trapped in a sexless marriage and my wife has cancer. I'm at a breaking point here...help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - My wife and I have had a sexless marriage since shortly after marriage in 2003. This made me feel alone and unwanted so I started cheating to fill this void. Everything else in our relationship was fine and we had two children within a few years. ...

Does this mean that he stills care about me? Is he angry still?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - About a month ago I found out that my ex got engaged. I was devastated, cry the whole night, and was depressed. I wanted to contacted him but I decided not to let my emotions drive me to insanity. He cheated on me so I broke up our engagement and ...

His actions speak louder than words, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend around ten months. We only see each other twice a week due to work commitments on both parts so the time I get to spend with him is precious. He has told me I'm the first woman he's ever truly loved...

My wife's day is filled with pills, potions and quackery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - Until a couple of years ago we were the average happy middle aged couple but then things began to turn for the worse. My wifes day is now spent worrying unrealistically about her health. She imagines every spot, pimple or ache is serious and needs ...

I feel suffocated but can't say anything becausethey will be hurt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - Hi all I am a student studying abroad for the past two years. I have grown up enjoying a healthy and close relationship with my parents and family. But unlike the rest of my family I am a complete introvert. I am an artist so I go into these phase...

She said she will always chose her kids father over me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for about ten years in total, I've known her family longer than that. Four months ago we got back in contact for the first time in eight years and things went from friendship to more quite quickly because of the history we ...

I am married with a child but oh so lonely!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - I am so stressed and confused.. I don't even know where to start. My husband works 11 hours a day but has one day off a week. We have a 14 month old son who I am a stay at home mum for. Lately, my husband and I can't seem to agree on anything. He ...

Lonely, depressed and few close friends. What activity, suggestions and ideas for meeting new people are worth trying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice and honest opinion from you guys.. I'm 25 yo woman lonely without friends. I used to have so many friends to hang out and socialize much back then at college. But then there's some issues between us. After gradua...

I feel angry with the world right now ........

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - I am a quieter, nice and ok but and ignored person, I have some anger in me that I cant let out? I don't want to be passive aggressive (im not but don't want to be, Ive seen others like this) what can I do, I dont want to let it build and ...

My period was late and it's lasted longer since I gave up my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - I Have a question. i usually get my period for 4-5 days and i lost my virgnity one day before my period. it was late by 2 days and now im on my 7th day of my period. What can this be?...

Does he just love my mind? Does he turn to porn to due to some dis-satisfaction with my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - My partner seems to get more excited over the women in porn that he does me. I have also noticed that they have several things in common. They are all young thin and beautiful. He never looks for any woman with a body type remotely like mine. I'...

How much angry behavior is too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - How far is too far? My husband got really mad this morning. I'm a house wife and I'll admit I'm not the best at keeping up with everything. I had two loads of laundry in baskets on the floor this morning. I had folded one load and just needed ...

My visiting a strip club upset my girlfriend ... how do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

9 December 2014 (M) - I need help fixing things with my girlfriend. Over the last few months she has gone off sex quite a bit and we only really have it once a week just now. She's been to the doctor who said she is physically fine so it might be stress or something. ...

My mother sucks the joy out of life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Limiting or completely putting a stop to spending time with toxic people is always recommended. But, what if that person is your mother? I feel sorry for my mum because she is SO insecure that she leeches the life and energy from anyone she spends ...

Why do we need a Dr check up first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

8 December 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. I was wondering since I am a virgin and my fiancé is too should I go to the doctor for a checkup to make sure everything is okay? In other word in the up in up. Do people do that kind of thing? Or is it okay to not go to the doctor ...

Time to open the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Here's our situation: not having sex. I am about 50 lbs overweight. I have been working on losing it but it's going very slowly (I have lost 20 so far). My husband has told me I'm unattractive--yet he still wants sex with me and says he still ...

Is he an alcoholic, or just a heavy drinker? What steps should I take?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I'm trying to convince my boyfriend of three years to seek help for his drinking issues, but he refuses to accept he has a problem and his family aren't helping when they tell me to back off. His father is a heavy drinker, he always has been ...

I'm 31 weeks pregnant I love him with all my heart. But now he's not interested. Can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3429 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Hi, Sorry in advance for the essay but I really need to know how to cope with my situations. My ex and I met online nearly 2 years ago, neither of us wanted a serious relationship but we ended up falling in love anyway, we got engaged and he mo...

Why do I have a desire to crossdress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3430 days ago

5 December 2014 (M) - i am physically a male but i feel a very strong desire of wearing women's clothes and i daily wears women's bra,panty,camisole,nightie,skirt and other women's clothing.i also apply makeup such as lipstick,nailpaint etc. i do crossdressing only at ...

I'm so anxious its making me miserable and ruining my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3425 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - Lately I have been suffering from increasing anxiety. It's happened on and off throughout my life. For months I will be fine, but sooner or later I become incredibly anxious for weeks or months at a time. Sometimes constantly. It's gotten to...

I don't want to be pushy but I want my boyfriend to stop smoking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - When I started dating my boyfriend, I knew he smoked in the past but had quit. Now, he has started smoking again. I lost my uncle to smoking so I am not ok with smoking at all. Plus it smells! He doesn't go through a pack a day or anything, but it ...

How to hide teen hard-ons?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

4 December 2014 (M) - Quick note: I have searched the site A TON already, and can't find anything useful on this, and desperately need help. Hello DC, I'm in a bit of a pickle... I'm 15, and "well endowed" so to speak, at 7 inches. In my gym class, we have to wea...

My wife and I have survived so much and made it through hard times, why now am I so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - My wife had serious problems in her family several years ago, including a father who was terminally ill. It took years for him to die and it was a long downward spiral as his brain atrophied. He eventually passed away right around the time I lost my ...

I have a phobia about throwing up in public. How am I going to get through my wedding day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3432 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - Hi all. I'm hoping someone can help. I have always suffered from anxiety due to my phobia of vomiting - I go through good and bad stages. I have seeked various therapy, counselling and anti depressants but they were all short fixes. I ...

I am so unhappy and am losing who I am in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - I have been married 28 years and am 51 years old and lhave helped get my husband thru 2 bouts of leukemia. It seems that his needs always have come first and since his illness it has gotten worse. You would think he was. 2 year old that couldn't ...

Does herpes rule out a successful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

2 December 2014 (M) - I've just been diagnosed with herpes. I'm aware that the presence of this virus in my body is going to complicate my dating life greatly, but is it still possible for me to have a successful relationship with someone? Also, what's the best way of ...

Why can't I get over this and attract someone decent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3433 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - After a period of a few years alone, (i had taken care if my elderly fatheruntil his death, had a long court battle with family who had deserted us, and then had cervical cancer- a very horrible time, that left me burnt out mentally and ...

Talk me down! Hair salon appointment tomorrow!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

1 December 2014 (F) - This may seem like the dumbest question ever, but tomorrow I'm going to the hair salon. I absolutely hate going to the hair salon, but I don't have time to style my hair for a wedding that I have to go to. The reason why I hate going is because...

My partner is much bigger than I am and it's hard for me to breathe when he's on top! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3434 days ago

1 December 2014 (F) - Hey everyone....I just started dating this really awesome guy.he is great and he really loves me because no one has treated the way he treats me.I have come to love him too.I think he is the one.he just makes me feel so complete. We have known ea...