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*issable.Lips
writes:6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date anyone and just focus on myself. Or even just randomly popping in to see how I'm doing or how my day was. OK, now I'm confused. What happened to unavailable? Is he interested and waiting for me to make the first move? Why is he only showing interest AFTER I give up and settle for friendship? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 This is why some women play hard to get, because men (and women) love the thrill of the chase. No guy wants a desperate girl. It's because suddenly you seem independent and unclingy, which is attractive to anyone.
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (30 April 2010):
b/c guys love the chase, and now ur makin him chase u...let him keep chasing u, dont make any first moves girl! ;) stay in the mindset ur in, and dont get ur hopes uop with this one, just let it be....if hes showing interst then go with the flow, dont show as much interest bak.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (30 April 2010):
 You don't say how you reacted towards him before you settled for friendship. Did you flirt a lot towards him? Show him lots of attention? If so, perhaps since he is married (at least what you called him!), he felt uneasy, but now that you have given up and settled for friendship, he's much more comfortable and just is interested in you - NOT smitten, but just want to be good friends.
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