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Should I go for it despite being unsure if he is gay or straight?

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Question - (29 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I am in love with my best friend but he's been in many straight relationships but after looking at everything I think he's gay too but it's against his religon!

Well my best friend that was a really nice person that always helped me and when my friends ran off after I fell down the steps and broke my leg and arm he found me and carried me to a chair and got a teacher and that's how we met. After that he was always sitting by me in class and we became best friends and I stopped being friends with the jerks who left me to die, he was a really nice guy he didn't care that I wasn't exactly skinny, I told him that he wad my best friend he said that I was his best friend too.

Anyway he left in the summer and I never knew I loved him but that's when I realised I did, he was so nice to me how could I stop myself we are still in contact and he's coming down here for my birthday and I'm going over to his, I looked at his personality and the sighns and he had all of them he has been in many relationships with girls but I think he's trying to prove something to himself and I think he pretended that he was caught watching porn to stop anyone thinking he was. Agony Aunts and Uncles Should I go for it or not?

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony aunti think you are seeing what you want to see here- if he has been going out with girls and caught looking at straight porn AND there are no obvious signs of him having a sexual interest in you, it appears you are clutching at straws because you love him. just because you love a person doesn't mean they will love you back even if they like you and care a lot for you. what you have described in him sounds like the bahviour of a good friend, appreciate what you have got!

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A male reader, CaringGayGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2010):

CaringGayGuy agony auntI think you should leave it it's against his religon in wich he will be disrespected by his family and never be spoken to ever again! This situation is hard I know I think the best thing to do is not go for his birthday because seeing him will make you fall in love with him even more! So leave it!

-CaringGayGuy x

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