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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with this pretty girl in my class. We've known each other for a year and hung out together a couple of times. Unfortunately, there's one of these smooth-talking politician types who is always telling jokes and acting fake. He already has plenty of girls crushing on him...and now the girl I like is one of them! I saw them flirting this afternoon and honestly it made me feel like crying. He even waved me over but when I got there, he only made a few jokes at my expense. The worst part is that I had to laugh because the bastard is a funny bastard. But after I felt sick. What do I do?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Stop laughing with him if you think he is a bastard? And honestly if your crush is falling for a fake she's not that bright and you'd probably need to keep watching her all the time not knowing whom else she'd fall for when you're not looking.
You want a girl who is into YOU. And hopefully you want a girl with smarts. Girls who dont follow the stream. Perhaps tell her that you know lots of other girls crush on this guy and that he is just using them to make himself feel popular?
Or, this guy isnt a fake and you are jealous? You could still ask this girl of yours out on a date and see how it goes, if you make her laugh and feel special she might just open her eyes to you. Girls love to feel special, and if this guy has plenty of girls crushing on him and he cares the same for all of them, neither will feel that special once they become aware of each other. You however only have eyes for her, and once she sees that she might become attracted to you.
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (28 April 2010):
Often in your life you will meet someone you'd like to get to know better and get closer to, only to find out that they are not interested in you, or appear to be more interested in someone else.
Just be yourself and continue to be friendly to the girl you like - ask her to come to the cinema with you, or for a walk and an ice cream.
Don't worry about the other guy. Girls don't really like people who tell jokes constantly, and can tell when people are bullshitting much more than other guys can.
Also, girls think it's cruel if someone makes jokes at someone else's expense. So just let this guy carry on - if she's a nice girl, she'll realise he's not nice. If she doesn't, then she's not worthy of you anyway.
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