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Friends with benefits, how do I find out if he wants more?

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Question - (28 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok two years ago after I broke up with my BF I met a guy who I talked to for a little bit but decided to make it a sex only relationship because I didn't want more. It worked out well. We had sex for like 4 months then I got back with my BF. A year later we broke up for good my and my BF now I'm back having sex with this guy more then ever. He calles me or sends me a tex and I do the same and ill go over* I think he likes me well wants more but he's so shy. He knows I'm a good girl only been with 3 guys I'm 24 and I see it like this have sex with one guy because I'm single instead of random people. He loves our sex ship lol who wouldn't!! What guy wouldn't love it. And I really don't bug him at all. I do I find out if he wants more?

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A female reader, KaileyLove Canada +, writes (29 April 2010):

KaileyLove agony auntWell, if I was in this situation I would casually ask him, "Hey... Have you ever thought that what we have could ever be more?" if he questions why you ask just shrug and say, "Just wondering."

If he agrees that he has thought of more of a relationship, well, then, the rest is up to you. At that point you can easily ask if he ever wanted to give it a try.

If he disagrees and claims that he never thought of it that way, haha, he will now.

Perhaps this is a win win situation??

All depending if you want more of a relationship, that is.

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