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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Fiancée's attitude makes me sick but how can I leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my fiancée of 2 years went to her parents house for her mom's birthday. It was there, her mother told the family she was sick. This is the wonderful woman who put my fiancée through school twice!, bought her a car when she ...

Feeling jealous of my sister. Any ideas on how to sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - So I feel in a way jealous of my sister, she's 26 and I'm 22, she's married and has 3 children, I really love children, I work with children. I have no partner though. I really wish I was my sister. I'm a shy person so find it hard to form rela...

How do I deal with my father being a heavy presence in my life and the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - My beloved mom passed away 5 years ago. i am married and live 10miles away from my father who is single and has been living in the same house he's been living his whole life. The hose is clean because he has a cleaning lady but in terrible ...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

I know I need to end with my child's father first but do you think my ex is right to be holding back contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I have been in what does not feel like a relationship since 1999. Looking back he was great dad to by older kids and the one we have but he did not move things on with me. We never lived together, he never bought me presents or remembered my ...

How do I keep my college-age daughter from falling away from our church and family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I am a proud mother of six children from the ages of 27-10. I am a stay-at-home mom and part-time Sunday School teacher and I volunteer for many church activities as do all members of our family. All of our children attended or attend our small ...

We're back together but he seems preoccupied with his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday ...

My boyfriend doesn't hug or kiss me in front of his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Hello, I have been dating my BF for 9 months now. We are spending Thanksgiving at his mom's with his family. We are staying for the whole weekend because it's his birthday too. I am not sure why but I feel as he has been distance. He doesn't ...

I'm married to a narcissistic verbal abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am married to a narcissistic verbal abuser and bully. My husband ostracized me from his children and their mother from a previous relationship. It's like I'm his dirty little secret not his wife. He is always giving me the silent treatment. W...

What to do? My boyfriend will not stop talking about the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in soon, but their is one big issue between us. During our time we've dated until now recently, he was the one who drove all the time to pick and drop me up at my home. I don't have my own car. I rely on my mother to allow me...

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

Her daughter is a nightmare at bedtime! Ideas on how to deal with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a lovely woman who has a 9 year old daughter whom I absolutely adore. She is a great kid, but has quite a problem when it comes to bedtime. And it is driving my gf completely insane to the point she is at her wits end. ...

The father rejected our son, and his mother isn't interested either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a problem. Yesterday i went shopping with my son who is 4 years old, i saw my son grandma which is his dads mother for the first time. I approached her because i recognise her from Facebook. I told her who I was and she asked me ...

He wants to be a Daddy again. How can I get him to understand my feelings on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hiya I don't really know if I'm in the right place I could just really do with getting a bit of advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we've got two beautiful children together. Aged 2 and 3, I've just recently gone back to work ...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

What should I pay for, in the first month, as I will be away, and not residing there with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in together. He is paying for the rent, and i'm paying utilities and food. I unfortunately, will be gone for a month and a half with my mother on vacation. We planned this trip out, before I even met him because she is just...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...

My husband hates me while I'm working, then doesn't care about me when I lose my job! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm a newcomer to this country and I'm having troubles with finding a new job and my marriage. I got here few months ago, found a job which was my dream job since college. Bad news, got laid off weeks ago. It is a terrible feeling not having a job ...

My father dying and best friend moving away has me questioning what I should be doing for my future! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am in a bit of turmoil right now. I am 35 and live with a lovely guy, however we have no passion it has died, we have been together 3 years and I do love him but I can't help but think what else is out there. My father who I...

Why haven't I dumped him sooner? Why have I been so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The relationship has been really good but has definitely not been perfect; he has lied to me a lot. He first lied about being in touch with his ex, and carried on being in touch with her even after us ...

Please help me figure out how to deal with my awful in-laws!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Had enough of my in laws. None of them seem to understand what the word NO means. When my husband and I moved out, I thought they would stop. Still have my father in law dictating when we have my toddler daughter over. My husband is working after...

He thinks I'm sleeping with someone else. I find his remarks offensive. What reply to him is appropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I met up with my children's father today. We have not been getting on as there is a real communication problem and I find it a turn off. I feel like I do not know him. We have never lived together which has also been a problem as I have just had...

I have recently come out as bisexual. Any advice on dealing with homophobic family members with ingrained prejudices, some micro aggression and some homophobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I have recently come out to myself and close friends as Bisexual but I haven't to my family. They are not outwardly homophobic but are generally full of micro-agressions and ingrained prejudices. My grandparents are super homophobic and w...

New baby, but he will not lift a finger to help in any way. What can I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend 3 years we had a bavy girl 10 months ago I have now realised how lazy my boyfriend is he does nothing to help me with our daughter even after a emergency c section I have done everything I clean the ho...

Just how serious is he about our relationship? Or am I reading too much into these Thanksgiving "complications"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - So I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We are going at a good pace. We live 50 minutes apart so we see each other here and there. I have met his parents, sibling, a set of grandparents, and even neighbor...

His family set him up with another girl while we were broken up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Hello everyone, so I have a little dilemma. A few months ago me and my boyfriend broke up. I was angry and ended things with him. I continued my life, even though it hurt so much that we weren't together because I still loved him. While we were ...

My boyfriend seems to have forgotten his promise that we would return to my home. I'm miserable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - I feel like I have made so many changes for my relationship to work but I feel like my boyfriend hasn't really done anything and it's bugging me. My boyfriend grew up in Ireland, moving over here when he was 17 to stay with relatives. We me...

To have or not have children? Can people give their stories?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - We are deciding whether or not we want to have children and we're leaning towards not. We've been together for years, value our spare time, our independence, ability to take trips at a whim and the quietness of our lives. I've done plenty of reading ...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

How do I go forward and make something of my life, feel wanted, and get a birth certificate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Well, I just need to know what to do with my current situation. For starters I'm 18 years old and want to go back to school. But have important reasons why I can't to back for one I have no of,birth certificate. Anything do it's like I don't exis...

She I forgive her and resume our relationship, which is what she wants?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

19 November 2015 (M) - So I have a issue and I need some help from people with experience. My girlfriend and I of 5 years split up for a few months and she ended up sleeping with someone else during this time. Now she wants to get back together but idk how to handle t...

What can I do? Feeling unhappy with my body after pregnancies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I have a wonderful husband and 2 wonderful children. I had back to back pregnancies. I've always been a positive happy person but since the birth of my second son, I've been feeling pretty depressed about my body. I got very very bad stret...

What can I do? I'm feeling trapped in my own relationship. His depression is wearing me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I decided to pour my heart out and tell my partner exactly how I feel. His depression and his secrecy of our relationship from his ex is getting too much for me and I had a moment of weakness and my emotions just outpoured. He promised how he ...

My boyfriend lives with his child's mother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1944 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - To begin, my boyfriend and I have not been together long. I really care about him! I have two children and at first I thought he only had one. When we are together it's great and when we are not together things are also great. He will spend 95% of ...

Is it too late for a last goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I suppose I should summarise. I met him 10 years ago and we started by dating. We were both incredibly young and reckless, not to mention mentally unstable. We were both confused about our sexuality but he has since came out as gay. Somehow a...

Nudity - his family are comfortable with it. I am not comfortable. Am I right to feel this way ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hello dear Aunts and uncles, First of all let me thank you for taking your time. I've been visiting this years for quite a while now and it's time that I'm going to ask a question. I am in a five year happy relationship with a guy two y...

What needs to happen to effect some improvement in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, It's been 3 years since we married, and we are together for about 6 years. I confess I wasn't very thrilled when she pressured me to get married. I guess I don't see the point in one getting married when a stable and healthy relat...

I am crushing on my Dad's student!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3072 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - My crush is my dad's student. Recently I got to know that my dad itself is searching the suitable bride for him. And since I like him very much the thought of my dad searching match for him is killing me. Please help me on this one. Is there a way I ...

We spend alot of time together but never overnight. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I have met a great guy 13 years younger than me. We speak on the phone 2-3 times everyday, meet up 3-4 times a week. we met approx 4 months ago, have had a couple weekends away more planned and a holiday in 3 months time. we spend a lot of g...

Clearly three women in succssion have not felt "that way" about me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

15 November 2015 (M) - Hello all. I am a 33 year old guy with a 10 year old daughter. Her mother and I split up nine years ago but I have been ever present in my daughters life. I see her as often as I can and I pay my way with every salary. Everything is great but for ...

My brother is making life so difficult for me, due to his dislike of my fiance. How can I cope with the hatred I feel towards my brother?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - I hate my brother. Im 25 and hes 22. We used to have good relationship and since last year i think we hate each other or at least i hate him. Last year so many things happen. He lied to my parent about his girlfriend background and even against...

How can I deal with my over-bearing selfish family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - How do I deal with my overbearing selfish family? Do I cut them off or distance myself? I feel like they are being selfish and not respecting me, my husband or our decisions. I am pregnant with out first child and naturally have talked about up...

How do I make peace with my father in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - My wife and I have two kids (4yrs and 1yr). We separated a year ago. We were having constant arguments which turned physical a few times. We have recently started to communicate. We both have taken our times and have gone through separate ...

Since he's not always remembered my birthday, does it mean I'm not as special as he says I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - Its been 5 years of dating my long distance bf..he remembered my bday twice.. Last year he sent me flowers and made me feel real special.. It's the 6th year now and bday is couple of days away and I know he doesn't remember(am very sure).. I...

How can I persuade my brothers to accept the fact that I may never find a partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - Problem is people seem to think i should of settled down got married and produced maybe 1 or 2 children in the process. Honestly that is just not how i feel. I have brothers and they have children and to me that is my family. I do not think get...

All my Bf's past relationship history bothers me. Am I over-thinking all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I have been bothered by my boyfriend's past relationships recently, because he kept bringing them up over the course of our relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and he occasionally brings up his exes. We met when I was a sop...

Should I break away from my parents and my comfort zone to move in with nice people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading, sorry if this turns into a long post! I just turned 25 and im in my first year of uni. It turns out its not what i expected and its really awful so im looking to change degrees but thats a different matter. Right no...