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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it is...

Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final ...

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

I feel that my sister has taken part of my identity away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm really insecure and envious, help! Ok, in 2007 I started college. I was the star of my program, because I love what I do and it comes to me easily. My (older) sister had dropped out of Law School, and she took that year off. She wanted to st...

Friend receiving threats and demands for money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has...

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed ...

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...

Do all parents feel like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My daughter's boyfriend is taking her for a night away with dinner for her 18th birthday after a big family party (he won this in a competition seemingly) and sent me a text to ask how I felt about it. They have been together two years and so all ...

Mom made me choose between her and my boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Okey my question is kinda complicated i have been with my boyfriend for 4 weeks now but ever since i started going out with him my mum has changed and is always moody with me and does not trust me. she thinks im gonna have sex when i told her wen ...

He's fallen out with our daughter and now loves to walk around in the nude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this year, very happy mostly all of that time, except for the last 4 years, he's just turned 48, he had a big falling out with his daughter at that time, bacause she lied, and she also had a young ...

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I ...

How do I tell my family about my boyfriend - different religions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks and I feel like we love each other which I know sounds a bit too soon, however he already spoke to his family about me and I wanna do the same but my family are different because we have different ...

My husband is having an erectile problem. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - In the past 3 times that my husband and I have had sex, his penis starts off hard but than it goes down- he tries to get it hard, and sometimes it does but once he goes inside of me, it goes down again. We never had this problem before, we wher...

My family doesn't approve of the big age gap between me and my guy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunt, i recently posted a qeustion regarding the same situation but just need a bit more advice Ive been dating a 56 year old man and im 18, weve been together 7months and i have never been happier. At work we dont tell anyone about our...

I told my husband I don't want his child (from his previous marriage) to be near mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Well do you think i'm wrong to have told my spouse that i don't want this child that he has gotten outside our home near my child. I told him that i know the child is innocent to what he and the child's mother has done but due to there disr...

As much as she is very excited, she cannot get to the finish point

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - OK, I hate to ask, but we are at a loss here. I love my wife very much, she loves me very much, and we only seem to have one problem, My wife and I get Very Excited with each other, and we play and get really into things, but she is having a prob...

Is my sister a true friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I had a full abdominal hysterectomy 3 weeks ago. My sister Marg is the only one of my quite large family who knew i was going for the OP. I haven't really been in contact with the rest of my family since my mum died and there was a family fall ou...

I'm not ready to be acting like I'm a mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really need some advice from someone who has been in the same situation.. My bf has a one and a half year old daughter to his ex and we have been together since she was 2 months old. I have been there through everything but I find it so hard to ...

My fiancee and his little brother passed away and I don't know how to express myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant ...

I have an evil stepdaughter and a stupid wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I have been seperated for 4 yrs. Recently me and my wife have been trying to bring our family together. We have one child together and she has a child from a previous relationship. The step child a girl is an absolute brat. She is a little slut as ...

My parents hate my boyfriend. How can I tell them I'm pregnant to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and almost 1 month pregnant... I haven't told my parents yet but I think they have been getting suspicious... so I need to tell them but I don't know how! Plus, my parents can't stand my boyfriend and on top of that he has proposed to me!! I ...

He says he feels awkward around my family yet he still talks to his ex's family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My birthday is coming up, he says he feels awkward around my family and he doesn't wanna go to dinner with us, but he still talks to his ex's family... what do I do?...

He wants to get more serious, meeting parents etc and I am terrified of commitment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my guy for 5 months now and we were friends for a while before that too. We got together through playing music together. Turns out we've got a lot in common in terms of what we read, how we spend our time, what we laugh about. ...

I'm turning 17 and my Dad treats me like I'm 10!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - hey.. what can i do when i hate my dad that i don't even want to talk to him or look at him!!! he treats me like shit, just because i turned off my phone to have a bit of fun he freaked out and sed i don't deserve a phone and i'm never going out ...

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the c...

Overportective dad - How can I reassure him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 21 year old girl. I still live at home with my dad but he is so protective. Everytime I go out with friend or my boyfriend he goes in a mood for days. Its like hes never happy unless I in the house. What can I do about this to show my dad I...

Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...

I love him very much, but he is breaking my heart, and using me as a doormat when he needs a babysitter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I was married to my husband February 14, 2005 and we have been married 4 years. I have been dating him since 2000. His son is now 12 years old and has become a menace to my life. My husband was dating a women before our relationship to whom he had a ...

13 and want to have sex with my cousin(s)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice. You see, I have been wanting to have sex with my older cousin who is 23, and I'm 13. But i also have a step cousin who is a year older than me and wants to have sex with me. Though I turned down my step cousin. But my horm...

Too much pressure on my b/f to help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - im 16 and have been having problems at home with my mum and i usually talk to my boyfriend about it but im worried im putting to much pressure on him to be there for me. because about 4 hours ago i had an argument with my mum and she walked out of ...

My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and ...

My wife's college sweetheart is now my next door neighbor!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - About thee months ago, my wife's old college sweetheart "Ken" moved next door to us. Ken was the all-American jock-football player, well built, and smart, and, I have to admit, nice. They dated for nearly 4 years until they each went to grad scho...

Am I right to tell my wife to drop this stupid idea?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I have a situation which could have serious ramifications for other people, not just my wife and I. My wife and I are married for 7 years now, have 2 great kids, and are timing out having a 3rd child. The issue is, when I was younger (18-19),...

Should I secretly have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - well me and my mom don't have a really close relationship i want to tell her things like i want a boyfriend or something but she won't listen. Should i secretly have a boyfriend?or What? i can't explain to her...

I don't know whats going on with him and I need help figuring this out before I go crazy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - ok theres something going on between my fiance and i and i cant figure it out... we have been fighting for about 2-3 weeks now. we've been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. but some things are little as him chargeing xbox stuff to o...

I want my son to have his father in his life full time, but his dad has two other sons that wont leave home!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have been together for a year and we have a 2.5 month son together. We don't live together because he has a 21 year old son and a 26 year old son that live with him. He says that he wants to buy a house for us but ...

Religion is getting in the way of our relationship....How do we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - im dating this girl who parents are jehovas witnessness and she is too but not my choice anyway im not in anyway relgion n she isnt supposed to be seein guys or even me but we been sorta datin under the radar for awhile i find her really amzing ...

I really think I might be bi but I'm scared to date a chick. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really have 2 questions 1) I really like this girl and she live in MA and I live in PA. She has A boyfriend but she wants me And I want her. Is it possible to have a long distance relationship like that? Btw I'm 17 she's 21. 2) I've...

Is it a possibility my girlfriend is seeing someone on the side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey everyone I'm 17 years old and I'm very depressed well here's the story... Me and my gf have been going out for 11 months and well my parents and my whole family know her .. I take her to family events everything! She doesn't even live it at he...

What can I do for my mum to accept my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - im seeking for help don't know what to do. i have a boyfriend who really love me and i also love him but my mum don't want to accept.i don't know what to do, he invite me on the beach with him but i don't know how i will tell my mum about it because ...

I feel like there is just one thing missing in my life, a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi I am 21 years old and i feel like there is just one thing missing in my life, a baby! I have a long term boyfriend who I love very much and who loves me too. Recently i had a scare when I thought I was pregnant I was so scared to tell my ...

I cannot get to terms with the way my father lived.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My father died last year. We were never close, I grew up with my mum (they were separated). We had an on o.k. adult relationship (or so I thought). As a child I was often scared of him because he liked to use physical intimidation as a method of ...

Husband's homecoming from Iraq

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My husband is in the army and has been in Iraq for the last 10 months, he is due home in less then 3 weeks. This is his first tour and it has been very emotional for the both of us. (we were only married 6 months when he left) He is a huge momma'...

Does hypnosis work? He says he will do anything to know why he cheats.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi Could you answer some of my questions please. My husband had been having an affairs though out our marriage 3 that i know off,but he keeps changing his mind as to why he did cheat how can he not know the reasons? We are going to relate ne...

6 years and I'm still thinking of him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Okay well,My brother has this friend,and they have been best friends since I was like 8. Well,there was a 5 year difference. when I was 8,I HATED him with a deep passion,but as i grew older I realized,how attractive he was.He had always joked around ...

I just found out that my dad died!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I need help right now!! I just found out that my my best friend died today my dad! And I was crying all through school and my mom wouldn't come get me so I was walking around all day with red puffy eyesand I tryed to wash my makup off ...

My friend's dad beats her and I don't know what to do to help her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - today my friend came over and started crying it took me 15 minutes to get her to tell me wats wrong...she told me that if she gets in trobule her dad will beat her mom and sometimes her..i'm soo scared for her i didnt know how to react when she ...

Should I tell him? Or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Just recently I was informed that my brother is getting married.Im extaticly proud for him but something is nagging at me.in the past i never really saw my brother because we had differnet moms and his mom and my dad are divorced.sometime after in ...

I wonder if we are just married as a habit now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I am 46 and have been married to my husband for 22 years. We met when we were both 17 and we are the only partners each of us have had. Our relationship has changed over the years but and is now at the stage that I still love my husband but I am...