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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

His mother STILL MOTHERS HIM and that makes it hard to accept our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hi, ok my problem is quite silly really, but i am with a realy great man in a relationship and have been for over a year now. i find it difficult to accept his relationship that he has with his mother. we are both adults, but she treats him like ...

My friend is 7 months pregnant and in denial, after hiding the pregnancy from everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've just found out my friend is 7 months pregnant - but she's kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone - family, friends, the father of the child (it was a one night stand with a friend). She's in total denial and won't talk to anyone about it....

My partners daughter resents me, how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid. This has got to be a recurrent problem. I adore my partner. We met at work, and our feelings grew from there. She has 3 children, the eldest, a boy of 18, and the youngest, who is a girl of 8, have presented, and continue to pres...

My 24 year old son has started drinking again after 7 years of sobrioty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - My 24 year old son has started drinking again after 7 years of sobrioty....What should I do?...

My boyfriend's Mom gets into our arguements and doesn't like me, do I tell her to butt out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend been dating for 1 year and 4 months. last night i got drunk and talked to him about everything and how i feel about him, even the bad stuff. so we got into a fight and his mom got into it. She is pathic... shes not a good ...

16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never ...

My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...

My heart tells me it will be fine and there is no need to upset our 11 year old by kicking his daddy out, despite of his affair and his soon-to-arrive child. Any insight, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - A few months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, as is natural. He decided however that he was going to break it off with her and make it work with me and our son. About a month ago (2 or 3 months after they ...

I don't want to live with him and his family..now he threatens we will break up! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I m acctually living a dilemma I recently knew someone who asked me for marriage quite rapidly I was a bit confused ,its true that he is a good guy who has many good qualities ,he works ,he is well educated but he comes from a diffrent...

I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...

In love with my best friend but he doesn't know what he wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 186 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I think that I've fallen in love with my best friend, and I just won't admit it. I told him that I liked him and he likes me back but he also likes some other girl who is slutty. He doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't know if he wants a ...

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

My mother still has my marriage photos hanging up and I've been divorced for 18months, what can I do to make her see I don't feel comfortable with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hi My ex-husband and I separated 2 years ago. We have been divorced for over 18 months. I have a new boyfriend - we have been together about 6 months and things are very serious. But: My mother still keeps photos of my wedding and ex-husb...

How do I choose between my boyfriend and staying with my parents who need my help and support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - hello, I love both of my parents, and I hate to see my mom work so hard for so little money. I want to help her by opening up a busisness; but I am currently on a long distance relationshp and I am kind of stuck in the middle. I want to help my ...

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...

I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...

I video taped my mother in the shower and masturbated while watching it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Before I left for uni in September I did something horrible. I got drunk one night and hid in our airing cupboard in the bathroom. I waited for my mother to take a shower. I watched her undress and masturbated over her as she showered. I felt ...

A younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home, even calling ME. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - i have been married for almost 6yrs now. it has been a very happy one, blessed with two boys. recently, my hubby met a younger lady of about 21yrs. i know my hubby loves me, but this younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home. ...

Should I expect gifts in return from his mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Been with my man for 5 years, since we were teens. I get on with his family well and as far as I know they like me just fine, they are not rude. I hardly ever see them as they are busy people but yeah, we get along, no problems, it is friendly...

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...

I haven't seen my dad since I was 3, now he calls me but every couple of months he tells me hates me and it's very hurtful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and haven't seen my dad since i was three he started callin me last year but every couple of months he tells me he hates me and that i wont amount to anything (other stuff but very inapropriate) then he turns around and acts like it never ...

We are dealing with the loss of my father and my brother has just decided to spend the holidays with his affair. I feel like I have been mortally wounded for the second time this year. How will I be able to forgive my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My Dad died two months ago. I flew home for his funeral at the beginning of a trip for our 25th Wedding Anniversary. My brother took forever to get home for his funeral, I was home before he was - and I came home from Europe. My brother is ...

I'm in love with my step brother. We didn't grow up up together and I didn't meet him till I was 20.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - This seems weird but I think I'm in love with my X stepbrother. We didn't grow up together and didn't meet him till I was 20 and we only talked, at first, once a year on Christmas. My step dad died 6 years ago and miss him dearly!! We just ...

Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her ...

My bother in law is getting married abroad this year and only thinking about going there makes me cry. I suffer from agoraphobia and I feel like an outsider in his family, how do I live through this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - My husbands brother has announced he will be getting married abroad later this year, and naturally we will all be expected to go. It will be two weeks with my husbands family which is going to be really hard. I am very different in every way to them ...

I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 months but now her family is getting argumentative about it, what shall we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my cousin for the past 4 Months'. We're very happy together. But her family is getting very argumentative about it now. I was just wondering if anyone can advise me on what I should do?...

I'm 14 but I feel very old. Yet I get considered a kid by everybody so why do I feel like an old foggie then??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 189 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i am 14 and i feel like i am very old yet i get considered a baby by my parents and a kid to others mainly because i am the youngest in my house why do i feel like a old foggie am i old?...

Would it work, me and my sister living together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - my sister and i would like to know what harm it would do to our personalities if we lived together and had children. cricisms of su ch relationships usualy are in terms of law,custom, or genetics. but these seem distant from how we will treat each ...

My relationship with my daughter is strained because of her boyfriendf, and he ruined my Christmas. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - Hello and Happy Holidays to All, I have a very heavy heart at this time, due to my daughter and her so called boyfriend. On Christmas eve they were at my house along with my son and his girlfriend, and they both have 1yr old boys, my grandson...

I have been with him 7 years but he's abusive and hurtful to me and my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - hello i have been with my partner for 7 years and it can be good at times but mostly it is argumentive he has a drink prob and always thinks he is right he is always picking fault with my children from my previous marriage and is very abusive and ...

I hate myself, I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i hate myself. i cant help it, i really do hate myself. sometimes i feel sick with the self loath. i need help. im weak and worthless and i need someone to help me. i hate myself, i hate the way i look and i hate my personality, i must be a really ...

My stepuncle makes me feel uncomfortable...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - okay this is going to sound petty but i am worried and i have been told once before on this site, if you are uncomfatable, go with your instinct. here is what happened. my aunty remarried a few years ago to a man we'll call "rocky".. i wen...

I am dating my step neice but scared about our family finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - my step niece and i are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! i don't know what to do either because they will disown us if they find out. i've never been so happy in my life! what should I do?...

How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...

How can I get back in with my family after my mum fell for this blokes lies??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - My question is How do i get back in with my family? A bloke has told my mum I have given my 13 year old brother drugs when he's around at mine. Of course I havent but she's so stubborn she wont have it that I havent. What shall I do?...

How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to...

I double date with my mother but am really not sure about kissing my date in front of her. Any ideas??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - I live with my mother who is single. She suggested that we double date when I told her that I was interested in seeing more of this boy who has been a friend. We do not have a problem coming up with ideas that would be fun for me and my date as ...

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...

I'm torn between my boyfriend and his brother. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I have a confusing situation going on right now in my love life. It all started about 8 months ago at a party when i hooked up with a guy named John whom I knew but never really thought about it THAT way. After we hooked up, it was a little awk...

Why Does My Mum Blame Me For Losing The Person She Loved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - why does my mum blame me for the person she loved going to prision? i know what he did was wrong, and i know my mum loved him, and i know she'd choose her childen over him, but why does she still blame me for losing the person she ever loved? ...

We are in love but my parents won't agree to our relationship. What should I do, marry him anyway or forget him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - i love a guy and he too loves me a lot,but my parents wont agree for our relationship, due the circumstances he is telling let us forget and marry the person our parents like. how should i react and wat should i do. should i marry him or forget...

I seem unable to organize my room and I feel like I'm unconciously choosing to leave it messy, what is wrong with me, is it a mental disease or something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Is there like a mental disease or something happening to me? I'ts been more than a year now and I can't seem to get my room organized. I'm an adult, I graduated for college and all and I live with my parents. I have my own room which is quite small ...

I had a "fling" with my cousin (he's adopted.) Now, seeing him after a year I want to advance, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Well, I had a "fling" with my cousin and I think he loves me and I might love him..we aren't blood related, he's adopted. We did things but we didn't have sexual intercourse. I didn't see him for a year(trying to let him go.) but then I seen him and ...

In my thirties, broke, single and unemployed, my family is toxic. How can I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I'm broke, unemployed, have to live with parents in my thirties in a small house and mother won't give me the respect I deserve as an adult professional woman I have more than 8K in credit card debt, more than 35k in students loans (I don't have to ...

I'm always super-frustrated when they go out together, my gf and her cousin. I'm afraid her cousin who is dishonest and promiscuous will trick her into being the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I don't want to seem to be a shallow, judmental guy, but I need to get opinions. I have a major problem with my girlfriend's cousin, whom she spends a lot of time with. The first thing is that she is untrustworthy. We are both adul...

I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to ...

My brother has asked I not tell my parents that he is gay! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - Basically I have suspected that my brother has been gay for years but he never answers questions on his personal life and showed many signs which suggested he was gay. I finally asked him yesterday and he confirmed this and said he had been in a ...

I have an annoying little Sister--how should I deal with her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 December 2007 (F) - I have a younger sister who is always getting on my nerves. She is always taking and using my stuff without asking first. This may not seem like much but after a while it does get on your nerves, especially if your parents don't do anything about ...

My Mother's dream is disturbing. What does it all mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I haven't talked to my crush for like 2 and 1/2 months.Well today my mom tells me that she had a nightmare.She told me that in her dream that my crush came to my house and that he wanted to talk to me but I wouldn't let him that I just kept on ...

16, My parents aren't speaking to eachother because of me. Can I get a place of my own?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid im currently having problems with my parents as they are not speaking to each other because of me. this started today when they made me go college and i didnt want to, so i ended up shouting and screaming at them and saying stuff i d...