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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister wants to go back to this horrible man and I'm terrified for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My sister moved to the another country many months ago where she met her current boyfriend and I recently went to visit for a week. In my time spent there I quickly realised that she was in an abusive relationship. My sister is only seventeen and it ...

8 years, 1 child, another on the way..how do I get him to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are both 28 and have been together for eight years. We have a three year old son and I'm currently 8.5 months pregnant with another boy; we even have three fur babies (a dog and two cats)! We've talked about it several times when we ...

I never imagined I would end up here

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 24 years, and we have two teenage daughters together. I thought I married my best friend, and for awhile we were very happy. I don't really understand how things went so wrong, but over the years, our marriage ...

Should I be angry that my boyfriend isn't introducing me to his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and he wants to go to his family but he doesnt ask me to go with him because he said he already knows i wouldnt be able to go. he has met people in my family that i have never even met. i think ...

Is there any point in telling my dad that I'm gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - My question is... Is there any point in telling my dad I'm gay? I have been out to my mum and friends for a long time now and I'm happy but I still feel like I'm hiding, my dad moved away before I was born and left my mum, he has had two other kids ...

My mom treats me like crap and I just want to leave home but I have nowhere to go.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi. So this is my story, i'm 18 years old. I live with my parents and my older brother but it hasn't always been like this. When i was a baby my mom couldn't take care of me because she worked and she didn't want to leave it so her sister took ...

My interfering mother drives me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - me and my mum have just argued AGAIN. this time is because i said i would be cooking our dinner quite late (7pm) after she was starting to make noises about being hungry (she never cooks) so she snook up to my son's room and gave him a banana and ...

Can an abusive person change their ways?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...

He wants to move towns to accomodate his child from his first marriage...should I accomodate his wishes?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - My husband wants to sell our house and move to another town to live in a rented apartment in order to free money to send his child from his first marriage to a prestigious school there. He is self- employed so will be able to work anywhere. I ...

I want to go to this dance, but my mum won't let me. Should I lie about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I want to go to a teenage disco which my other two best friends have gone to, they said it was class. Its June now and the one for school finishing is on this Friday the 3rd, though my parents wont allow me till the one on halloween and I'm not ...

Should I forgive my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I want some advice, my mother and i have always had a strained relationship, she made me live with my grandparents as a child and then would up and move me every time she found a new boyfreind, then as i got older she would help me get a car etc and ...

How do I tell my parents that I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - hi, this might no be quite the right place for this but its the only place i know so :) i was wondering how to tell people im gay, all my friends know. but i need to tell my mum and my step dad and i really don't know how to. i would really ...

Here I am, on a bad economical market with no plan B. How can I get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Okay, this is not a relationship question, but I need your help anyway. To cut to the chase: I'm a 24 year old woman and I'm not sure about what to do with my life. I'm going to give some backstory. Sorry if it's boring, but I need someone to ...

His mother treats him badly. How can I help my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost over 2 years not and he has a lot of problems with his mother. at the age of 12 she sent him to military school for no reason.. it ruined him. he still cries when he's alone. He is now forced to sleep ...

Boyfriend spends all of his money on or for his mom. There's none left for me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend but I'm so very sick of hearing sob stories he is always broke. He lives with his mom, pays all the bills, and also just gives money. I admire someone who can help their mom so much...but when it comes time for me, his finances ...

How do I tell my dad I"m dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Ok so i'm dating this guy and he's really sweet but i don't know how to tell my dad about him. I'm only 13 and my dad is kinda overprotective. I really want to tell my dad but my dad's the kind of guy who only looks at the bad things that could ...

I'm the perfect child yet my family loves my drugged up problem sister more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I'm in my mid-twenties and throughout my life, I have been a near-perfect daughter. I've never gotten drunk, never borrowed money without paying every cent back, never smoked, never done drugs, never lied, never stole. Yet, my parents and sister c...

She constantly brags about her daughter. It wears me down. What can I say to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have a friend that constantly brags about how "advanced" his daughter is. It's incredibly annoying, and not even true. I find her very unfriendly and she doesn't even say a word to me at all. Why do people do this? What can I say, so I don't have...

Should I teach my clingy cousin some modesty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - hi i want to ask your help. i have a 13yo cous who is pretty clingy. and by mean clingy, i mean like hugging (tightly), grabbing my arm, etc. sure shes sweet and i love that she adores me but im just wondering, should i teach her some modesty?...

How do I deal with somethng I did a long time ago??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have a really big problem along time ago when i was 14 i did a sexual act with my third cousin i regret it so much i not attracted to him at all this mistake i made was because he harrased me until l gave in now im 20years old im still a virgin ...

Should I tell my family his real age or wait until they get to know him better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for a couple weeks and we've been talking for about a month and a half. But theres a big age diffrence and it doesn't bother me but my family is having a get together in a couple weeks and I invited him to come. He's 18 and I'm ...

His grandmother has just died. He's sad. Is it too soon to ask my ex to go hang out with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - what can I do.?.. well my ex boyfriend and I were trying to fix everything out. However, when he talked to my parents everything changed, because he understood that my parents didn't want me near him, so we stopped hanging out(but they don't care i...

My aunt has been rude to me ever since I didn't have any bridesmaids for my wedding.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I got married 7 months ago and because between my husband and I have lots of nieces and cousins we decided not to have bridesmaids as I would have ended up with 11! Which we couldn't afford to do. We didn't want to choose just a few of th...

Pregnant at the same time as my mother...how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I am pregnant the same time as my mother and i cant tell her please help me?? i am really scared as amy father will really kill me and also i am still in college as well as my boyfriend we both have part time jobs wat cn i do,??...

My mom is a hypocrite and I can't stand it anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Ok, so it all started awhile back. Ever since i was little my parents have pinched my butt, i've always hated it, and whenever i complained they still didn't stop. When i was in kindergarten, i had a little-kid-crush on this kid in my class. ...

Should my sister marry this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hi The problem I'm writing about it is not my problem it is my sister's... so we are Americans but we live in Saudi Arabia in Aramco (which is a very open place, not like the rest of the country).. about 2 years ago my sister met this Saudi dude and...

It seems like my father hates me, what should I do?

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25 May 2011 (?) - My parent's divorced when i was around 2, and my mom remarried to a WONDERFUL man, who treated me as I was his own. My step father died when I was 11, and it was really dramatic for me, and i went through alot of pain and suffering from it. Every ...

My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left h...

Why are my parents strict? The rest of my family isn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - My cousins already have children and don't live at home. I'm a grown adult and my parents never want me to leave home until I'm married. I can't stand their outdated rules anymore. When my cousins were living at home, they were also allowed to have ...

He's living 3 lives with 3 wives and I'm tired of it all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - How do I handle all of this? I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are both in our 50's. We live 30 mins. away from each other. With his work schedule, we don't get to spend much time together. He has been divorced for 8yrs and has a 14 ...

My Mom and step-dad who I love to bits are breaking up, and I am falling apart. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Ok well my mam split up from my actual dad when i was very young because he was and still is an alcoholic. as i was young i never minded much because i didn't know what was going on. i still seen him every 2 weeks for a few hours. everything was ...

Will the day ever come for us to move in together as a family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - just a question to your great agony uncle and aunts who always helps me on here if i ever have a problem, just a thought, will i ever move in with my man of nearly 2 years, its LDR and we are fully committed see each other as often as we can, and we ...

My boyfriend of two years direspected my family member-he apologized but should I still dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - My question is what should I do? Should I stay with him or should I dump the guy? So long story short one of my family members is a police officer and I was talking about him, to my boyfriend whom I have been dating for almost two year. My boyfriend ...

In love with my cousin, but I have a boyfriend too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to ...

My boyfriend told me to never wear my sister's dress again because it made him feel he was kissing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - So today when i went to see my bf i was wearing this dress, it belongs to my younger sister and she wore it to a dinner we all attended a while ago. So when my bf saw me he asks me about the dress and said it looks like something my sister would ...

Should I be forced to invite my cousin to my bfs small birthday dinner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Today I called my mum to invite her and my father to my boyfriends birthday dinner in a couple of weeks. I explain that we don't have a set date put aside but heads up - it will be in two weeks. Immediately she tells me that as my cousin will be ...

Is it love? Or am I just longing for him because I know I can't have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - i am currently 15 and my mum and dad got a divorce a few years ago and im perfectly fine with that, but the thing is, when my dad found a new girlfriend last year (i was 14), she had 3 sons, 2 of which i was extremely close with. i will call them ...

Is this a dysfunctional relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Is this a disfunctional relationship? I have recently come to a cross roads in my life and have to make a choice once and for all. I have had a troubled relationship for 7 yrs and have children from this. My partner i think has been abusive ...

I want to talk to my mom and bdsm but when I tried she said she'd send me to a therapist!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I am a masochist and I learned that I like bdsm. I mentioned the subject to my mom and asked what she thought and she told me that if I liked that stuff she'd send me to a doctor to get checked out. I dot think there's anything wrong with me. But I ...

Can he stop me from moving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hi, some advice please. I have an 11 month old son, I split from his dad, my husband due to him having an affair. Now I decided I wanted to leave the area to make a fresh start for myself and my son as they only live around the corner from me and I ...

I don't know what's happened to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I need serious help. feel free to stop reading here as its gonna be a long one but if you carry on it would be very appreciated :) so, rewind my life back about a year and i was popular, was doing well at my gcse's and (not meaning to boast) but i ...

He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her ...

I love my first cousin. is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so ...

My husband wants a life away from his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I really need help as my current situation is driving me to despair: My husband is a Latin musician with a dream of selling millions of albums worldwide, going on World Tours forever and living the life of a rock star. Now, back to Earth – we are a...

5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother ...

B/f wants me to give up job to be with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...

Iv been stuck in a rut all my life with disgusting boyfriends. How do I get out of this and what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance for how ridiculously long this is. It's an all around vent/question thing and I'd really like some sound advice from anyone who has either gone through this and knows how to get out or would just like to help. Thanks... My f...

There is no valid reason why my husband refuses intimacy. What can I do about my controlling husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - can anyone help me find out why my husband 46 won't get intimate or even have sex with me? This has gone on now for over 7 years now. Before it all stoped, when we did have sex, he humiliated me in telling me how to do what and when. He is a very...

Dad is sick, boss is angry at me, bf is neglecting me. How do I go on????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi I hope you can help me as I really don't feel I can go on anymore. Last week my dad had a huge heart attack, we were told to say our goodbyes to him but fortunately he recovered but needs to have a triple heart bypass. I am emotionally and ...

Husband doesn't want to be with me anymore because I support my family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - My husband says that he doesn't want to be with me anymore because I support my family. My family is overseas and I am living in USA since 2007, I have a decent job and YES I help my family sending some money each month. We both work and we don't ...