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I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

29 November 2017 (F - Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia ...

I think my uncle is hitting on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2310 days ago

27 November 2017 (F - I think my uncle is attracted to me. First of all, excuse my English please :( Unfortunately, it’s not my first language. So, the problem is that my uncle’s brother (well, probably my other “uncle”, huh?) is acting strange. Well, you may t...

Am I selfish for not wanting a relationship? My parents are desperate for a grandchild but I'm not so sure I'm ready

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2304 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - I'm just curious as to what others think about this situation or if anyone else has had a similar problem. I'm 23 and I've never dated nor been in a relationship (and therefore obviously a virgin), but that is mainly by choice as I have no desire...

My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2313 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!! Has anyone experienced this? What can I do to get him to back off? The worst of it is that he has stolen my husband's username ...

Should I tell my son that his girlfriend is cheating on him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

25 November 2017 (F - My sons girlfriend is cheating on him??? Both she and my son are 25 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 years with his BFF. I ...

Can I ever make this right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

25 November 2017 (M - I'm 38 year old guy. A year back my younger brother wife became close to me and we got too closer. Initially i thought she is giving this attention just due to the respect towards an elder brother. I loved it. But finally she was treating me like ...

Staying with his mum is taking all out savings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

24 November 2017 (F - Hiya.. I currently have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years.. we are in a very happy relationship- no problems and we get on like a house on fire.. we are currently saving to buy our first house and are currently living together at his mums ...

I'm in a horribly abusive relationship and I need a way out for me and my daughter

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

24 November 2017 (F - Hi basically just looking for some advise plz, I really don't know what to do or how to. Basically I haven't been happy with my partner we have been arguing lately quiet a lot we have a small child but the arguments ain't in front of her as he ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

24 November 2017 (M - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

I'm trying to get it all together to be an adult and be ready for the world but my mom thwarts my every move!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2306 days ago

23 November 2017 (F - Hey, I'm in a frustrating situation right now. I am a legal adult and I want to become independent and learn how to handle school and work at the same time; however, my mom is dead set against it (even though she helped me apply for a job at Publix ...

I need to help my parents know I'm an adult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2309 days ago

21 November 2017 (F - Hi, I posted a question a few days ago and felt like after getting some responses, I feel quite insecure of my plan. So, I’m 18 years, 19 soon, brought up with an Asian Chinese background. So I got re-in touch with an old friend of mine who I lost ...

I'm like a weekend hobby for my boyfriend while his sister and nephew are his real family

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2309 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives 50 miles away and I only see him at weekends. In the week he lives with his widowed sister and works with her son to help him out as he is retired. The other week for the ...

How will having a baby affect someone with PTSD?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2319 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have spoke about our future what we both want , i work and he doesnt and that is due to him having ptsd . he has his good days and bad more good and he goes out everyday so he doesnt get low and it ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

19 November 2017 (F - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the ...

Would this relationship be wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - I've already asked this question but I didn't outback detail in to it so I'm gonna try again! Is it wrong for me to be falling in love with my soon to be step uncle ? I've recently turned 18 and he's recently turned 21. My uncle is marrying ...

Should I tell my daughter about her biological father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - This is a family question, my daughter doesn't know who her biological father is but from the time she was a baby my boy friend has been her dad and plans on adopting her. She knows that he's not her bio dad. Her bio dad had his rights terminated, ...

My dad intentionally tried to shame and humiliate me at my wedding.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - I've had a very distressed relationship with my family since I was born really. It's pure dysfunction. My mom is mentally ill and I no longer communicate with her. Leaving me and my sister to look up to and rely on my dad as a sole parent for most ...

How can I get over my parents' neglect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - how Can I deal with moving back home to parents that only care about money and are constantly berating me - I come from a Eastern European culture where my parents marriage was arranged (very toxic relationship) my parents hate each other but stay ...

Mum kept hitting me with a shoe

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

13 November 2017 (F - I can't talk to my mum and I think she's being abusive. So this is the thing right. My mum just loses it all the time. It's like there's a war going on in my house. It always happens when I come home from school. We just yell at each other. She ...

My parents are separated, dad has a girlfriend who's not too great and my mom is spiralling out of control. Help me please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

12 November 2017 (F - Hi. My question today/tonight is about separation.. My parents have been separated since April 2016, They are still married but do not live together. I asked my dad nicely if he could pay for flights for myself and my mum to go over east to...

I'm torn between the re-appeared ghosting ex and the lovely but dependent new love interest! Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

11 November 2017 (M - I am going through a very tough situation and which is kind of a Love triangle. I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 year and I loved her so much . but 6 months back she ditched me for some reason. Everyday we used to go through a lot ...

He never wants to spend time with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

9 November 2017 (F - Hi everyone I've been with my fiance now for 4 years we have 2 children I already had my daughter when we met then we had a baby girl who is now 2 the problem is he never wants to spend anytime with us he goes to work on a morning comes home at 4.15 ...

Should I tell my ex that I am pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

9 November 2017 (F - Hello. I don't know how to say this but I recently found out that I am pregnant with my ex's child. He is 34 and I am 21 turning 22 January. While we were dating he told me he doesn't mind having kids. We dated for 6 months until we started arguing ...

Is online cheating okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2328 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - OK! I found out that my boyfriend of 8 years has been going on adult dating sites looking for women to hook up he'd say he hopes they can come over see I'd stay at my daughters sometimes and baby sit. is cheating OK if there's no actual contact ...

I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2327 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is ...

How to deal with my interfering and judgmental cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - Hi, my cousin is so judgemental and always interferes, even though we never chat and haven't done so in many years. If i have an issue with somebody else and mind you, a legitimate issue, she sees it fit to interfere and stick up for anybo...

Why did my daughter chose the abusive guy over my grandson?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

7 November 2017 (F - Dear Cupid my grandson son was taken by CPS and adopted by a family I don't know.The child was being physically abused by the dad and was removed from the home.My daughter requested that my grandson has no contact with me or my family because from ...

My boyfriend thinks he should be consulted about my mother's estate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Is it wrong to not consider my boyfriends opinion regarding my house? My mom passed away last year and my cousin is helping me get the house in my name. He and I agreed that refinancing the remaining amount of the mortgage was the best option for ...

Is my boyfriend’s brother hitting on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we are very much in love. My boyfriend is very close to his brother, and we spend time with him a lot. His brother also has a girlfriend. The problem is, my boyfriend’s brother keeps liking photos on...

My Boyfriend excluded me to his brother's funeral because his ex was going

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Hello, I am after some opinions please as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset and rejected. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly...

I'm 30 years old and my mother tries to rule my life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2250 days ago

4 November 2017 (M - I’m thirty years old and I don’t know how to deal with my mother anymore. She has been a fantastic mom to me, offering emotional support, taking care of me, making sure I’m okay, but lately I can’t stop fighting with her. And it’s always over...

Wish I could sort out family problems

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

4 November 2017 (F - Married to a husband with dysfunctional family. His parent quarrel since he was kid. Been over 2 decades until now. (They) often threaten to divorce but not divorce. Their fights last for weeks. I don’t know what's wrong with my in-laws and my ...

I don't like the way my parents treat me and I'm thinking of running to my boyfriend in Canada

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

3 November 2017 (F - I've been in a relationship with a guy online for about 5 years now. I trust him alot and we do love each others. My problem is my parents. I've hated living with them. Everything has abnormal strict rules and im sick of it. I feel im living on a ...

Scared to admit I've reached maturity befor my older sister

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

2 November 2017 (F - Hi I'm 14 and I started my period at 13 a few days after my birthday. I don't know how to tell my mum and I'm quite scared as for telling her so late. I'm scared for the questions she might ask me like how did o l keep this (secret). It was hard...

I need ideas for a 60th birthday toast!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

2 November 2017 (M - Hi, I'm going to be giving a a short splech on the occasion of my relatives 60th birthday I just want to make it very short and sweet!Could y'all give me ideas?or a beautiful phrase with which I can start the speech?...

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