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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

His family doesn’t like me and I don’t know why? Should I ignore them all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - What’s going on with me I’m so paranoid over something that he promised I’m not and I cant get over the stuff that his grandma said about me that if I were young it would be different but now I’m older and she thinks I’m bad and am going to do ...

How do I cope with my friends calling me names?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My family is kinda well off but my friends think that because were well off I'm spoiled and it's really hurtful to hear them talking about me behind my back and saying things that aren't true what should I do?...

I'm worried my brother gets ignored by my mum.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I'm really concerned about my 12 year old brother. I've always gotten more attention than him, which used to drive me nuts because he could always get away with things that I couldn't, but lately I've been seeing this in a different light. I'm 18, ...

He's asked me to some big family events, do you think this means he's really serious about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My bf has invited me to all these big family events of his, such as his dad's b'day celebration and his grandma's and granddad's wedding aniversary as well. All his family will be at them, like his mum, dad, grandparents, siblings, aunty and uncles, ...

I am unmarried and the teacher of my son might fancy me, what shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have a 6 year old that i take to school everyday and iv noticed a certain male teacher there who has just lately being smiling at me and says hello and im very attracted to him, im single so i dont have a partner.The problem is im not sure whether ...

I am never in the mood although initially the sex was great! What to do to improve the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my fiance john, I love him very much and I am still attracted to him. When we first started dating we had a great sex life but now I just dont feel like it (I hardly ever feel sexually aroused anymore). ...

How can I stop my 10 year old son controlling my husband and I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My son who's 10 has tried to runaway several times. It is very distressing for my husband and me. Our boy seems perfectly happy at home and it seems in school too but when he doesn't get what he wants on the spot he often gets into one of his bad ...

Her parents won't let her have a boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - What can I do, my girlfriend's parents don't let her have a boyfriend, they found out she is talking to someone on the phone every night the saw the phone bill, should I go introduce myself or what could we do? Her parents won't let her have a ...

Should I tell my cousin that I saw his girlfriend cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - oh my god i walked in on my best friend having sex with her boyfriends best friend! i dont know what to do. her boyfriend is my cousin and even though we're not that close hes still blood!should i snitch on my best friend and help my cousin or ...

If I am pregnant by this guy, would my baby be okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I'm turning 16 this year and the guy is turning 20. I met this guy 3 years ago through a friend, I didn't know who the guy was at all then later found out he had the same last name as I did. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but started to ...

Is it legal to be with your "First Cousin, Once Removed"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - I was just wondering if it was legal to be with your "First Cousin, Once Remeoved"? You see I'm in love with him and he doesn't know yet. I plan to tell him though. However I don't know about my question...I thought for the longest time that he was ...

He insists everything would be wonderful if we moved but I can see he is uncomfortable...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over three years. I love him, but my family is also very very important to me, and they live on the East Coast while he lives on the West. I've told him that I want to move back to be closer t...

Why would my 15 year old have open diapers inside her closet? I have not mentioned my discovery yet.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Well, I was cleaning through my daughters room as usual while she was at school and I go through her closet to clean it up and all and I find a bag of diapers (open) inside her closet. I wasn't really sure what to think at the moment besides that I ...

I helped him find his mother and she has separated us, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - me and my fiance was together 2 and a half years and planned to get married in june 08, but he wanted to find his birth mum so i helped him do this,anyways we found her in july 07 and in novemeber 07 he went to live with her, ending our ...

I'm tired of faking happiness when I know my wife's getting so personal with someone else... in the Internet. Is this tolerable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, and God Bless you all. This is a good thing that you are all doing. I feel guilty for doing this, but about 6 months ago, I had this strange feeling that my wife was using her computer at work and the computer at home to talk to ...

I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. ...

All this negativity is making me doubt whether getting married is the right thing to do - even though we do both love each other dearly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hi my girlfriend (38) and I have been together 9 months and are due to get married in April. My girlfriend found out she was pregnant in January but is afraid to tell her elderly father as she fears his reaction to her being pregnant before she is ...

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...

My stepson lies about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - My partner and I both have one child each from previous relationships, mine lives with us and his have visited at weekends and school holidays for 3 years. From the very start my stepson has told us stories about how nasty his stepfather is to him ...

My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relation...

How do you get your 'joy' back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - What can I do to get my joy back? I know everyone goes through life's struggles and I think I've handled them well up to this point. But lately I've become so overwhelmed with life that I feel like I'm losing myself. I used to be so cheerful and ...

As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...

I don't want my brother's friend to ask me out but I do want him to know I'm interested in him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - There's this guy I'm really interested in being with, not right now cause I'm not ready. The thing is he's like my brother's best friend and I don't know if I'd be his type or not, but he's really hot and I could see it really going somewhere with ...

I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for som...

60's and dating but his family doesn't accept me. How do I get through to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years and 3 months. he broke up with me back in july and even though he denies it i do belive that his adult children and their spouses forced him to do this. we finally got back together and now i have ...

My mom is protective but I want a boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i really want a boyfriend but my mam is really overprotective of me and hardly lets me outside the house i dont no why but i just really want a boyfriend! any advice on what i should do?...

Do you think this will make his family look down on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My bf proposed and I said yes. Now the thing is that he is from a normal family, married parents whereas both my parents are re-married. They live on opposite sides of the world. They won't even be able to make it to the wedding because of money ...

He ended our relationship quite abruptly, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i was in a realionship with my partener for seven years. we have a 5 year old daughter together 3 weks again he telephoned me and told me it was over and hed meet someone else he has started a new relationship with her and i'm totally heartbroken i ...

Looking back, I see that I was more unhappy then I was happy in my marriage. Should I continue this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband and I always argue on everything, and he is so pessimistic unlike me. What to do? I have been married for 8 years now. we were our first ones and because of that it was very hard to get along! We have huge communication issues. he sees ...

The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...

I am considering giving my daughter a sibling, even though I have severe problems with my partner, would this be this selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

25 February 2008 (?) - ok so here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we have a 3yr old daugther. our relationship is not the greatest. he has cheated on me before(more that once) and right now we went from living together to me and my daughter living at ...

What is wrong with me that I can't get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - About a year ago a met this guy and I kind of liked him! We knew each other for a while and I thought he liked me too. We were talking one night on bebo in mail and I had enough of it and decided to tell him so I did and I asked him what about you ...

Trapped in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Hi I am 20 years old, I have a 7 month old baby and I live with my boyfriend who is also my baby's father. We live with his mother. The thing about it is, I am not in love with him anymore and I want to move on with my life. The only problem is I ...

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

I really want a baby (I'm 16) and to leave my parents' house where I'm not attended properly. Help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I'm 15 almost 16 in November, my boyfriend has just turned 16. I live in Syracute and he lives in Albany, we really love each other and we've been going out for 9months, I really want to have a baby with him and live with him, but my parents want ...

Why is he spending this time with his ex?

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24 February 2008 (F) - hiya i really don't know whether i should say something a year ago my boyfriend (of 6 years) lost his sister she died very suddenly at the time the way he coped with the grief was to lean on his ex wife they supported each other. I couldn't do right ...

I'm unsure what the problem could be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I've known a male doctor for 19 years. He used to treat one of my children and seemed to like my family-anyhow things changed suddenly.Well the behavioural change wasn't that sudden- it changed after my husband suddenly died from mugging ...

Is my bf suggesting marriage, do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - i've been with my wonderful bf for 3 years now (just had our 3rd year anniversary on 2-14). he's 29, never been married, and no kids. i'm 28 (almost 29) with 3 girls ages 8,6,and 5. my bf loves my girls dearly and treats them as his own. we've had...

The father of my daughter sexually abused me, I'm so scared our child will be next. Could I obtain full custody or have him visit under legal surveillance, you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Hey I have a question regarding custody. I am 18 years old and I have a five month old daughter. I have recently filed for child support and sole legal and physical custody which I already have because we were never married but I want it to stay ...

I am affectionate but he is not,. Neither are his children.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 18 months is not affectionate, except during sex, and even then it's not the type of affection that I need. We bought a house together, and I'm living full time with his two kids and my two kids, while he works in another city most ...

My parents want me to emigrate and my boyfriend wants me to marry him. Which do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I am 21 and have a bf who wants to marry me but my parents wants me to migrate far from him.Who will i choose my parents or marry him an dont go anywhere.We r so i love. ...

I'm 16 and I'm pregnant by a 13 yr old. Can I be charged with rape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - (i live in New York) If I am a 16 year old girl and I got pregnant by a 13 year old while I was drunk and I wanted to keep the baby could I be charged with rape? Also, if his family wanted me to keep the baby and live in their house with them and ...

I'm 15 and pregnant. Could I legally move in with my boyfriends family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and I ranaway and I got pregnant while I ranaway. And neither of my parents like my 16 year old boyfriend. And his parents like me and would let me move in with them, but he lives two hours away from me. Do you think I could move ...

How do I stop being so jealous and nosy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - i have a bit of a "jealousy" problem. and it's not with boys, it's with my sister. when ever my older sister has her friend over i get in such a bad mood and i figure it's because i'm jealous but how do i get over my jealousy..???? Plus she says ...

Would he come back, is he just trying to hurt me, or have I really gone too far this time and lost him forever??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - hi I split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago now, we were together 2 and a half years and we have a 1 year old boy, who's gourgeous by the way lol !!! Since xmas I'll admit I did distance myself from him, I went out with my mates a lot, started ...

I do love my husband but he revealed to me after marriage he is against having children, time is running however so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and have reached a stage in life where my biological clock is ticking. i feel the need to have babies but my husband doesn't agree. when we were dating he never mentioned that he didn't want children..but now he is ...

Is fate against us or will we ever be together...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - 5 years ago I was moderating in a quiz room and met this wonderful man. We got on like a house on fire from the onset and eventually met 6 months later. I was reluctant to meet him as he was married and when we did so it was only as friends. We ...

My boyfriend's friends and family are beginning to dislike me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - my boyfriend’s family and friends don’t want him to be with me anymore because i don’t have a job and i’m not in college, they don’t understand that i have a hard time going out and doing stuff on my own and it’s hard just getting out of bed ...

So many troubles and pressures and I'm only 14!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) - hi every one! I really need some help. I'm 14 and everything in my life seems to be going wrong and I'm scared if I get anything else to worry about or any more pressure I might do something stupid. Well let's start, my parents are splitting up...

I'm secretly dating him, should I continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I'm a 13yrd old girl who needs some peoples opinions. So I'm in grade 8 and a boy in my class likes me. He's 13 as well. I think he is very nice and all but I never realized he liked me until he asked me to the movies and he told me. He started ...