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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I just want to know if there's anything that I can do or say that will get him at least making an EFFORT

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I just need a second opinion to make sure I'm not going mad. This is a question about my boyfriend and and my family. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. During which time my boyfriend has met my family about fiv...

I want to move out but don't want to break my mother's heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - How can I tell my mother I plan on moving out without breaking her heart? It's inevitable, isn't it? I just cannot stand her. 80% of the time she irritates me and 10% she's insulting, the other 10% she's funny. She's practically the only friend I ...

I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I know this has nothing to do with dating issues etc. But I'm completely devastated by the lack of communication me and my mother have. Sure we get along every-time, laugh, agree on the same things.... but just that because when it comes to...

My parents want me to marry the man of their choice but I'm desperately in love with another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i am from a very orthodoox rich family of rajasthan.i am madly in love with a guy of different caste.first we tried to convince our parents for marriage.but as they came to knew about it they started threatning me that they will get the boy killed.i ...

I feel like my life has fallen apart and I feel very alone......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Where to start? Well have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a child together, she is 15 mos old (I am stay at home mom). It seems every 3-4 months we get into a big fight, where he says he is unhappy. This last fight I had it, if h...

Unexpected father of a lesbian daughter. How do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 28-year-old single, straight, male, who is now a stay at home dad to a 14 year old girl, my niece, who was left with me when my sister and brother-in-law died 2 months ago in a car accident. The first month was definitely awkward as I have ...

How do I get the friendship with my cousin back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i’m a male, i love my female cousin very very very much,i like her with no bounds.We are of the same age. We had a sweet romantic relation and also an immensely strong friendship from 9 yrs of age.Then when i was 12 yrs old i got an accident...

Why doesn't my new partner want to see my ex wife's child when I raised him as my own for 8 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i am wondering if any one can explain why my new partner doesnt want me to see my ex wifes child even though i bought him up for 8 years since was one and he is my sons half brother ? confused...

Bonding with my partner's 3 year old son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I've been seeing this woman, whom has a 3 year old son. I invited her to have a nice pic-nic at a park with her in attempt to bond with him a little. How ever I'm not quite sure what would be some good games for us to play with him, let alone f...

Is it really that bad to explore someone's sexuality even if its only been 2 months and considering my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, Im a 24 year old woman, Im still a virgin. Ive been with a 29 yr old boyfriend for two months, hes been good to me so far. Ive had already had other boyfriends before, we made out but never went far 'cuz I didnt want to. I love making out ...

I feel like I'm the glue that holds this family together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So how do I start this out. This is a family issue, not mine but my parents and brother. I've been living with my older brother and parents well since I was born anyway. It's a long story, and I will try to keep it short and right to the point....

I'm keeping it in the family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and i think im in love with my brother's girlfriend's brother, but my brother's girlfriend and my brother are having a child together, ive been out with my brother's girlfriend's brother before though, is this wrong or incest in any way ? ...

How can I convince my parents to cut the cord... or at least stretch it out a bit more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and I have to say I've been very good to my parents. I have never done drugs, I only drink when I'm with them so they can watch me and cut me off when I've had enough, I don't smoke, I did pretty good in school, I listen to them, I help out ...

How should I tell my parents about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for about 4 going on 5 years now and we've been good friends before we even started dating but I've never told my parents. Most of our relationship has been long distance and my parents have never met him before (he ...

Am I selfish for thinking "what about me?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi All I'm nearly 22 and I've been with my fiance for nearly 4 years and we have two little girls. We live together and are getting married at the end of next year. Our youngest is only 4 months and I fell pregnant with our eldest at the end of my...

I don't love him anymore, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...

When is verbal abuse too much verbal abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lot to ask, but it all leads up to, "When has the verbal abuse gone "too" far? My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we just recently got married this year. 8/2010. We are both mid 30's, and we each have 2 children. This is his ...

My ex has asked me to be his girlfriend again but I don't want to because of his family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - This is probably going to be long so sorry :) Well I was friends with my ex before we started dating. He used to skate alot, so I'd hang with his friends and see him skate and just generally hang out. We'd chat on cam on msn and he'd tell me about...

Should I drop college to be closer to my boyfriend even though my family will hate me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am female and I have a long story for you guys. I go to college up in Michigan, I'm 18 and my boyfriend of three years lives in Toledo. I hate being far away from him and I hate being and doing things by myself. At the beganing, I went to college ...

Need help on how to deal with father-in-law to be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I need help!! Ok, I am 20 yrs old and I have been with my fiance for almost 4 yrs. We had our own mobile home but someone burned it down in august. I found out I was pregnant a couple weeks ago and we are having to live w/his dad for now. I just ...

How to get over a boyfriend cheating on me with my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - For November of 2009 to January 2010 I was seeing a guy that was two years younger than me. (I was 18, he was 16). I would this a bit strange to begin with but seemed to be working well. Towards the end he started acting weird towards me, he k...

Was it wrong of me to enjoy this sexual experience with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Here is the story: I went out of town to visit my aunt for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen my cousins for over five years. My aunt, who is my mother's half sister (BTW), had 10 kids--So I have a lot of cousins. This cousin in particular is the one ...

Separated from wife, ill mom, and I don't know where to turn

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My situation is complicated. My wife and I have separated now for about a month. For the last year I have been staying and taking care of my 86 year old Mother at her house at night. We would travel between both houses so we could see my 2 children ...

Meeting older boyfriend's parents and I'm very nervous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

28 November 2010 (?) - so i am a school girl age 16 in uk .. i need help well ...i am seeing this man of 20 and my paretns know about us and everything and so do my friends but his mum and dd doesn't know about us so we are going to go around next saturday and he ...

Sister vs. sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - okay i have a bad situation. my sis and this guy were together. they brroke up cuz he was flirting with me, well now im with him and he talks on the phone and txts my sis alot wat do i do??...

Family member hates my boyfriend, what do I do? I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been going out for almost a year now and one particular family member of mines does not want us to be together cuz she said he is a bad person but he never treats me bad... despite that we live far from each other but i love ...

What does his sister have against me? She's never even met me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend back in August. We are 20 years apart. One night back in the summer when we were supposed to hang out, he was with his sister and I guess told her he had plans and she asked with who and he told her about me and she now hates me. ...

Why does my step mom hate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Why does my step mom hate me? She's been married to my dad for almost five years and they have been together since I was nine. Up until I was thirteen she seemed to be okay with me, but after that she began to get real horrid. Continuously now she ...

Do men ever regret NOT being in their child's life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Hey i just wondering, do men regret not being in their child's life... like they know they have one or do they have to see the child before they regret not being there or do they just not give a damn? and before anyone says I stopped him seei...

I'm scared my mom will find out I've been watching porn on the internet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Does this mean I should stop? I've been having night terrors where I can't remember if what happened was a dream or reality. I fear my mother will find out I have watched porn on the internet. She's found out a sex conversation before and a naughty ...

Can't stay if it don't change soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm In a relationship with who I think is the man of my dreams. He has children and I also have children. We live together, 3 of my children live with me and 1 of his. Its like when his other children come over for the weekend he c...

Holding back so she shows me love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - i am happily married for 12 years now and i used to work abroad for almost 7 years now, sometimes i've questioned my wife's priority with regards to giving attentions only on my mind(our kids, her friends over me) ... so im thinking maybe it's just ...

What can I do about my mother? I don't have the money to move out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - my mother is driving me absolutely crazy... i used to think she was just lazy or didn't care but i'm convinced she's really passive aggressive and does stupid things on purpose to piss me the fuck off.. she'll eat and leave dishes in my room gets ...

Do I keep... or get rid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well ...

In love with my ex's brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I know many people posted about this, But I feel like I really need some help. This is a tough situation, and I dont know what to do. I had a 3 years relation ship with my ex, we lived together for 2 years. I know his family, I actually...

Is there anything I can do to help her without causing more trouble for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - I’m posting because I’m concerned about my girlfriend. Its regarding her family and how they treat her. From what she’s telling me, it seems that she doesn’t feel like one of the family because they either put her down, put her in bad moods or ...

It feels like no matter what I do, I cant make my mom happy! Surely aged 20 I am allowed some freedom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - I'm having issues with my mom. When I was younger, I was in a serious long distance relationship which in turn made me a hermit almost all throughout high school. Eventually, I moved to be with him and I was still a hermit due to the fact that I had ...

Am I being selfish for not wanting to go round to his mother's house once he moves out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for two years and a year ago he had to move back in with his mum due to financial difficulty (he's 39 and his mum's 55). it has been a year from hell! when i first met her i was going round for dinner with him twice a ...

I think my aunt's sister likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - Happy Thanksgiving to everybody so, I have a question. I think my aunt's (married into the family)sister likes me or at least is into me. Ok, so one time it was just me and her talking and she said randomly I really like sex and sometimes I wake up ...

He doesn't want to commit! Am I being played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - So I've been seeing this man for about six months. We talk every day, texting back and forth constantly and we see each other about 2-3 days out of the week when he drives me to his home (he lives about 70 miles away and I don't drive). I'm a little ...

Is it too soon to start thinking about having a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - It's a pretty new relationship of 5 months. My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, making me 27 and him, 22 years old. I overcame the "he's younger than me...is it okay" phase. however, I'm facing a new dilemma. I'm going to want to start having ...

How do I stop her from being such a fool and going back to this abuser who'll obviously hurt her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys... this is a long one but please advise! My 22 year old stepsister got physically abused by her boyfriend yesterday. She's been living with me for 4 months but spend most of those nights sleeping over at his place. She met him 3 months...

Does my bf still want me or is he just dragging me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - i am hopeing that i will get an honest answer from what i am going to write, and i hope i can get some help and advice, I recently been going out with my boyfriend hes 23 and im 19 and i would say i feel he could be the man that i would end up with,...

Girlfriend doesn't want to go see my family. should I go without her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - what do i do if my girlfrend dose not want me to see my famlly for the holidays . she dose not want to go with me and love my familly should i not go ?...

How can I connect with his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He gets along with my family really well. We always go out to dinner and he comes over all the time. Everything on my side of the family is great. The only problem is I feel like I have no ...

How do I get away from my abusive mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and live with both my parents and my sister. For the last, approximately, five years I've been subjected to frequent rages from my mother. In the majority of these she has been very violent towards me, often bruising my face ...

My husband has not spoken to anyone after his mother's funeral, what can I do to help?

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25 November 2010 (F) - Fifteen years ago, my husband stopped speaking to his family save for his cousin (who was a groomsman at our wedding) and his now deceased grandparents. We had already been dating by then and he was SERIOUS about getting away from them all. I knew ...

Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be ...

My brother says I'm hot! Is he the brother I used to know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - So my brother has returned home after getting his degree from college. He's sticking around, so he can get his life in order. It's been a long time since I've last seen him. We've been pretty much on neutral grounds as we grew up. We weren't really ...

Why does my sister in law hate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got p...