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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

How can I make it up with her father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 453 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I have recently had a massive break up with my girlfriend which has resorted in violence, We have both seen that there is a way through this and are willing to try but we dont know how to repair the damage that I have caused with her father, which ...

I don't want my mum to be alone.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - You may all think Im mad or that my Mum is but here goes, I'll explain a little before I tell you the problem. My Mum's been through tough times for example violent partners and Alcohol and Drug abuse. Maybe she thought that that was her only esc...

My mum has changed since my dad left, and now I'm having nightmares about her!! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I keep having violent nightmares about my mum trying to kill me because ever since my dad left , my mum has changed and she gets really angry and violent towards me and she says its my fault he left and she sometimes hits me to teach me a lesson and ...

I am 14 and pregnant and don't really know what to do for the best.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi agony aunts and uncles. im in a bit of bother and dont know how to handle the situation :S i am pregnant, i know your probably either thinking oh god another teenage slag up duff at 14 how stupid sort of thing but thats to be expected. i have ...

My first cousin and I are in love, is this so wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - About two months ago I admitted my feelings toward a first cousin (after a few drinks, son of my aunt, we are both 42). He confirmed that he felt the same way. we have since been talking and admitted that we have both felt like this for as long as ...

Can I have an abortion without my mum knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - hi i'm 14 and 15 in 1 month and i think i'm late, but i'm not sure because i keep forgeting when my last one was and i think i'm pregnant but i just split up with my boyfriend, my mum only found out 2 day that i wasn't a virgin but she doeasn't know ...

My daughter's father keeps texting even after I tell him not to talk to me again! Is he trying to see what he can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - It's going on six months since I left my daughter's father. At times, I wonder what he's doing but I need to move on. My work profermance is not what it use to be (be on top of things, completing paperwork before certain deadlines, etc). My ...

I love my guy very much but his family is coming between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Been with my bloke for 5 years. Engaged for 4 1/2 years. Problem is his family. They are always after money from him - they do it behind my back - and he gives into them everytime. They normally only want him or get in touch when they want something ...

Is it worth continuing to see him even although he's 22 and I'm 16? I REALLY like this guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - I am 16, my boyfriend is 22. his ex is having his baby in a months time, and my parents know this.. we started seeing each other only 3 months ago, he is getting a lot of crap from people about my age and a lot of drama is caused.. the situatio...

I am ready to sacrifice everything for this man so should I marry him when I'm only 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hello! I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. problem is, he's 8 years older than i am, which doesn't seem to get in the way of our relationship as we both see it as just a number. I'm 18 and he's 26. We really love each other and get on...

Mom doesn't like my 18 year old bf and won't let me see him at my Dad's place! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 454 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hi, i am 15, turning 16, and am dating a guy who has just turned 18. he is my dads girlfriends son, and both my dad and his gf approve with our relationship, but i just told my mum about it, and she is against us seeing eachother, she says he is too ...

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...

Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts ...

Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or care for her, but that is not possible as she is quite nasty and forceful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

28 April 2007 (M) - hello, I am a 24 yrs old single guy, currently staying with my uncle and aunt. My aunt seems to be a dominating woman and she is trying to teach me things i don't really agree with. Basically i feel that she deeply wants me to please her, or c...

Should I be worried about my girl's two kids and how they may affect our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - I am becoming very serious with my gf who has two young children. Their father is completely out of the picture. I have never had any children. They are very sweet; they love me and I love them. We've talked about having more together. I'm ...

I feel as if my boyfriend's mother and sister really disapprove of me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now (we're both 17) and i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to tackle his sister and mother. His dad and i get on really well and my boyfriend has told me that his family really like me....

I cant cope living with his father anymore! Cant see a way out but to end things!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Help. Im on the verge on ending my relationship. We have been together 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter. We live with my boyfriends father as I had to take extended maternity leave (our daughter was sick) and we couldnt afford to pay my ...

When he doesn't get his way he is uncontrollable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - Hello, I need some advice about toddlers. My son is two and a half years old, he is chatting well, understands and asks for things by name, and knows when he wants something he asks or gives the indication for it, and repeats words, problem i...

My mom is threatening my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - This boy called the house and it was my boyfriend and my mom found out and now she said shes going to get somebody to jump him stuff like that! ...

My parents were rigid and controlling and I have low self-esteem! How do I cope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I have been brought up like an obedient servant by my parents who does everything they ask to, even if it's not something i want to do. They would pressurize me to do it if i denied and it is generally me who has to give up, for they are quite rigid ...

My Mother blames me! Any advice on how do I deal with her when she does this unecesssarily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I think that being born as a child to my mother was painful for her and that i am guilty for the pain she had to bear. Atleast that is something she has been trying to justify to me. Any advice on how do i deal with her when she blames me ...

Is it wrong of me to keep my dad in the dark when it comes to my dating life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 years old and in a relationship with an amazing man. I won't get all sappy and annoying but suffice to say, he makes me extremely happy and I feel very secure and loved with him. I endured a bit of sexual abuse when I was younger an...

Due to a divorce and other problems, my mom feels like giving up and cries a lot. How can I help her cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hey im writing for me mum she is 50 somethink she has been married for 35yrs but is going threw a divorce its a really bad one because no one knows where my dad is and no one can get hold of him not even the solicitors and she has also found out ...

In love with my cousin for years now! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - hi iv been in love with my cousin for years now 4as long as i can remember she is 12 years older then me and we both say that we wud be the perfect couple together. we havent had sex but we hav kissed and touched each other, she says if we were ...

Is it worth pursuing a relationship with my cousin when we are both interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - i remember driving down the road a couple of years ago, thats when it all started, i saw a guy,only from a side angle,i thought he was gorgeous,i couldnt keep my eyes off him,i wanted to see his face more than anything,but the lights changed and we ...

I'm 14 and I get home often and my dad has put all my stuff in the hallway! How do I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - I'm quite a messy person, but will make sure that it's only my room that I leave messy, and it's more cluttered than unhygenic. My dad on the other hand, when stressed likes to tidy, I'm sure he's got mild OCD, as even if something is pretty c...

I said I wasn't sexually active at the doctor because my mum was with me and I'm only 14! Should I tell the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hey. i have a lump on the lip of my vagina. I have been to the hospital and the doctor asked me if i was sexually active. My mum was there so i said no even though i have been. I couldnt tell him i was cos im 14 and my mum would go mad. He said ok ...

My parents don't approve of my boyfriend but I really need their support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - I am 21 years old my currently ex bf is 27. there is no problem with the age difference, it's my parents. We were engaged to be married next year and everything was going fine until he proposed. after that we stopped doing any thing and i felt that ...

My boyfriend and I have just broken up because of his parents.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Me n my bf hav just broken up cos of his parents. he is the first guy i've had sex with n the only guy i hav ever loved should i keep fighting for our relationship or just give up. we were together a year. sum1 help!...

My son starts school soon and I'm terrified he'll be bullied.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - my son will start school in september (he´s 5). I know I was bullied at school, and although it hit me really badly, I got out of it OK. But I´m scared that if my son gets bullied, he keeps it all in even if we tell him to tell us if he´s being ...

How can I tell my rather strict parents that I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - ..i know this is kinda stupid but here goes! how can u tell ur sorta strict parents when it comes to guys that u have a bf..cuz i don't want them to think in the back of their heads that when i say i am out with my friends they'll thinkl i am out ...

What dress size am I as far as US dress sizes go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hi there, i was just wondering, does anybody know this? i am living in lebanon and i am a size 31 here but my aunt living back at the states wants to send me some clothes. i have lost about 11 lbs since october that i have been there where i was ...

Mom won't let me date this older guy! Do I go behind her back or try to convince to let me do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - wow...i really really like this guy and there is a small chance we could date but my mom says she would never let me date him....do i have to stop liking him...go behind my moms back or try force her to let me date him if there was a ...

I want him back so how can I prove to him, that I'm changing my ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - On the 10th April I got into a strop at my boyfriends house about getting some of my things back to my house and I left his house without saying goodbye to any of his family. (We were heading back to mine when I left.) Then on the Monday I got angry ...

My 14 yr old is only smoking to fit in! Please help he has cardio problems!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - Please help my 14 year old friend smokes occasionaly when he is out with people who do smoke and it worries me because he didnt used to and i feel he is doing it to show off and i really care about him and he knows that and he wont listen to me ...

My boyfriend and his mom are very controlling towards me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and his mom are very controlling towards me. I kind of live with him, but not all the time. I have alot of friends that want to spend time with them, but every time I want to hang out with my friends my boyfriend and his mom goes off on ...

My GF causes a row over the fact I share my car with my twin, does she think the car is hers aswell as mine!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - After only recently passing our driving tests [A few months ago] me and my twin bro share a car as we can't afford one each and we can't fit anymore on the drive anyway. I generally go out more in the car than my brother and I have it up to 5 ...

How can I get my dad to like my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - my dad doesnt like my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really sweet and my friends like him. I dont know what to do?...

I live at my partner's parents place and have two children. I don't have any support and want to move out, but that might cause problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - I live with my partners parents, we have two children and I am finding it hard living with now We wanted to pay off our debt which we have and save to buy a house. However things have changed, I feel like a slave to his mother our kids and him, he ...

My parents and friends hate my BF after some things he said to me - how do we change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - When I was in elementary school...moreso around kindergarten, first grade era, I had a boyfriend. You know how kids that age always say they have a boyfriend/girlfriend and switch every week. Well mine lasted from the time I was 5 until I was almost ...

He told me this deep, dark secret from his past and it's bothering him? What do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

19 April 2007 (M) - Someone told me their deepest, darkest secret. As a child, he and his sister were curious and engaged in brief sexual contact. Although he truly feels that he didnt know any better, he still feels like he is the worst person in the world becaus...

We are second cousins so would this cause any problems with the baby we want to have together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - hi i need some advice im 25 and my partner is 36. The problem is we are second cousins he's my mums cousin. We love each other so much we are now considering having a baby together im wondering if we did would the baby be ok? or would it have ...

My brother-in-law is an alcoholic and it's ruining his and his family's lives - He's even crashed a car when drunk! How can I help him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - Hello - I'm not actually having a problem myself, but my brother-in-law (I'll call him Sam) is and my husband and I would like to help. Sam is about to turn 21 and drinks every chance he gets since going away to college. Over the past few yea...

The father of my twins is not all there! How can I protect my twins as they see him, regularily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - Ive got gorgeous twin girls, nearly one. I met their dad on a dating site and he never took me home and kept 'falling out' with me over no good reason, it was very weird. Anyhow, he told me in some intention to 'keep me' I think, that he wanted a ...

Mom read my diary and now she's really 'off' with me! How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - i really need your help :0( i live away from home at university, when i came home for easter, i think my mum read my diary-i left it under my pillow and it was moved when i came back.it makes me feel sick the thought that she has read it-it has lots ...

My Mother hates my gf! How can I get Mom to understand without having a big argument?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

18 April 2007 (M) - ok I am again in a predicament......my mother and father do not approve of this girl that i am talking to meeting etc..lets call her "girl"...My mother cannot get past Girls clothes that she was wearing when i met her......she was kinda scantly ...

What do you do when your boyfriend's parents won'tt accept you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - What do you do when your boyfriend parents dont accept you? My boyfriend got this girl pregnant who he wasnt phisically attracted to, about 2 years ago. He says that he was too drunk and messed up on drugs when he got with her. That he didnt know ...

My mom has been really snappy with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

17 April 2007 (?) - Hi!I have a big problem.Well my mum has got really snappy at me and I don't know y!Ur mum is meant 2 b ur best friend isn't she not ur worst enemy!It's all because there woz a nasty smell in my room under my bed then we moved my bed and found that ...

Frustrated because my family never approve of my bf's, expecially my Mum. How can I reason with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I'm getting really frustrated because my family never approve of my bf's. I had an on/off two year relationship with a guy who had a bad reputation but he went out of his way to prove to my family that he was really a good guy, he treated me with ...

Is dating your step brother wrong ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - is dating your step brother wrong both our parents know about it please reply thankyou xx...