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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I feel like damaged goods because I won't be able to have children and haven't talked with him about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (?) - well i do love my boyfriend just a few things on my mind and i need some advice. Firstly, christmas time i bought him a ear ring and hes only worn it a handful of times do i ask if he liked it? its niggling at me a bit More importantly on numer...

I feel love for my dad's cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - What do i should if I feel love for my dad`s cousin and she is eight years older than me?...

I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota ...

I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i mo...

Problems with my dad.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hello, I hate to ask this but I have a question about my dad ... I just dont know what to do :/ I am full time uni student who has a lot of time off through the week but this is filled up with my uni work and also i have a part time job wher...

Afraid of my strict parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I'm so afraid of my parents! They've always been strict with me and they always feel like I'm being rebellious. But I don't feel the case. Whenever I'm hanging out with friends I tell them who I'm out with and where I am and what time I would be ...

Is it a myth or truth that you see loved ones before you pass away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My uncle was recently diagnosed with bowel cancer after prolonged suffering brushing the problem under the carpet hoping it would go away he is 70 yrs old and had always lead an active life style he had surgery last week to remove it tonight i ...

I had to leave my daughter with my ex in order to get out of the relationship and now it is so difficult to get to see her, is my ex's behaviour normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - i was with my ex for a year and half. we went through a lot together. we had a baby girl few months ago. i eventually realised that i have no friends left due to him alienating them all and few family members too. he always kept hold of my bank ...

Troubled relationship with my mom is really getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Hi there, I'm finding my mother really difficult to deal with. I just don't know what I can do for her anymore. She has no friends, no partner, she's 50% of the time very bitter towards everyone. Everyone is wrong and she is right. Shes alwa...

My mother is constantly reminding me of my age and the fact that I'm single. I just want her to stop and to leave me alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - I will be turning 26 this year and I'm single. Personally I'm ok with that. I figure as long as I'm living my life and enjoying what I do, the right guy will come along. I'm not in a rush But my mother on the other hand is constantly remin...

My sons are angry and think I am a bad mother when all I tried to do was give them a good life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have just had a very heated conversation with my teenage sons aged 17 and nearly 20. Both them feel they have had terrible childhoods because I use to smack them and threaten them with implements when they were younger and according to them also ...

Are we in a good position to be making these plans for our marriage in the future?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hi so really this a question to get people's opinion. here's the back history of me and my boyfriend first so you know where I'm coming from :-) I've been going out with this boy now for 4years he's 19 (20 in september) and I'm 18 (19 in April) we...

Should this change how I feel about my husband to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My Fiancé is a very inspiring person: born very poor single mother who had troubles with "the drink" (one Christmas he told me all he got was a black eye). Yet, he's now finishing a medical residency and has put everything behind him from his past, ...

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...

He can't go, so says I can't go? Am I being selfish wanting to take this big trip with my mother to see sister in Oz?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - There is quite a bit going on at the moment I don't know what to do, but my main objective is to go and see my sister in Oz (who I am quite close to). She moved to the other side of the world last year and so me, my mum and my boyfriend were all ...

I want my LDR b/f's family to accept us but I don't think they do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm writing this on my phone so I'm sorry for any mistakes. I've been in a long distance for four and a half years now. We've met before. Last year, we both told our families. Our friends already knew. Anyways. Last Chri...

Gift for partner's mom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - hello aunts and uncles, my partners mother invited us for a birthday dinner at hers and i really don't know what gift would be appropriate for her.(we can't get something together as he has already given her a gift) please note she's in her lat...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

Is it possible my boyfriend is too interested in my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for about 10 months now and recently I'v noticed something peculiar. Whenever he meets my mom, he really 'looks' at her when her back is turned. He even asked me about my parents sex life once when we wer...

I'm getting tired of it, I really am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I was asking for advice concerning my ex we broke up in August remained friends he visits on weekends and has times he stays in the week I see our friendship like being on a roller coaster one minute fine then look out. We are nothing alike y...

Torn between boyfriend and home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

Weird tension between me, my boyfriend and my boyfriend's brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I made out with his older brother at a party. My boyfriend and I have now been dating for 6 months, but any time I go to visit his family with him, his brother is there and it's incredibly awkward. It's ...

I want children, just not right now! B/f wants me to forget about education and have them right away

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone :)...... Just asking for some outside perspectives for the confusing mess iv got going on in my head right now! My partner is 35, I'm 22. He wants kids. Soon. I'm about to graduate in about 15 months. So he wants to start trying so...

Do you think he is going to live up to his promises?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hiya Just need some advice please on a current situation... I have a lovely home and a lovely boyfriend who loves me completly - however, he has 3 children. I have told my boyfriend what I want out of life and he has always said he will do it...

Starcrossed lovers with a disapproving family....what can we do to ensure we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - This is like a Romeo and Juliet kinda situation.... Ok, so basically me and my gf have been going out secretly for a year and a bit. It's a long distance thing, we live an hour away. This is all secret. However, recently her elder brother confisca...

I'm not sure I trust my ex when he says he isn't using drugs anymore, we have a 10 year old I want to keep safe!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hi, new here. Question about addiction. My ex-boyfriend and the father of my 10 year old had, when we were together, a big drug problem. We split up 3 years ago. He used to smoke cannabis every day (had 'come downs' when he couldnt get any)...

Should I move back home or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hey :) I moved away from home 4.5 years ago to come to uni. Although i finished uni in 2010, I ended up staying here. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year but we dont live together. I live with a friend, but my boyfriend and I are trying to ...

My boyfriends MOM and BRO - are taking drugs and it's effecting our life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for about five years. We handle everything as if we are married, and yes that has been something we have talked over... I have very humble and quiet personality, my boyfriend is the opposite, but I like to think we...

I am jealous about my guy's other children!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...

Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...

What sort of Mom says these things to her own daughter! Advice, please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - So I'm a 21 year old woman who still lives with her parents. I've always had horrible self-esteem. I very rarely see myself as beautiful, and it feels like calling myself pretty is pushing it a little. I always get compliments on my hair, my own ...

Could my baby look like my lover?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...

I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his ...

At what point would I be 'settling' versus being 'too picky' in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - How do you know when you are "Settling" in a relationship vs. "Being too picky". Both will get you in the end. "settling" for someone or a relationship in general that can't or won't meet your basic needs will leave you lonely, and unsatisf...

Wow! Cheated on twice in a row

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I am devastated to say the least. The guy I have been dating for the last year, I found out was cheating on me. I know that these things happen, but it seems like they are happenening to much TO ME! I don't know what I'm doing wrong? In a nut ...

I'm worried not attending nasty sister's wedding could cause more problems in the family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Will try and make this short. I've been married for 12 years. My husbands younger sister has always disliked me. I tried to build a bond with her early and had her as a bridesmaid in our wedding and she also lived with us prior to that so s...

I need to tactfully deal with this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have known this woman for a few years as our kids attend the same pre-school and school. During pre-school this woman would never give me the time of day or even acknowledge me ( I didnt really care ) Then 2 years later our children start...

Am I actually in a good relationship for once??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. It feels like we are settling into a "comfort zone" of sorts. Not in a bad way, I don't think, but I just want to get advice on if what's been happening are good signs that the rela...

How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...

My parents are starting to ask about my boyfriend's family, what do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have a problem regarding my parents and my boyfriend's background. Long story short, my boyfriend is adopted and his real parents are in a different country with the rest of his siblings. His foster mom is currently fighting a deathly cancer. ...

I want to give him this letter now I've told him my biggest secret, but he is being weird about it. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi all. On Thursday I revealed my biggest secret to date- I was sexually abused by my cousin for 4 years. (23 years old now). I never open up about my feelings but I told this friend finally. It was extremely difficult and slightly harder because he ...

So with the new date, do I tell him about my ex and what about the conditions he puts on our dating? And why does my ex want to deter me from dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4448 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Topic 1: My Ex Recently I broke up with a b/f of over a year, we didnt have any sort of falling out, we simply cant/couldnt be together because of issues outside of our control. Since we both admitted that we didnt think we could wait like 10 yea...

My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...

My little sister is flirting with a guy I like. How do I deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Okay soo there this guy i school I hadnt really ever spoken to much before, but recently i started talking to him more because we have a class together this semester. He's a pretty cool guy, funny, really smart too. I also like the fact that he like...

Can I leave home and be OK with my Girlfriend? I'm scared to do so, but I am sick of the fights at home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4446 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Im only 17 years old and i believe that i am gay. It may be a phase but so far i really don't think it is. Recently my parents and I had a disagreement with it all and they make me feel like Im nothing when I know Im better then what they think i ...

What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has ...

I hate my stepfather he hates me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Basically my mum married my step dad when i was about 7 or 8 but when he proposed to her she would ask me if i was ok with it first, and i stupidly said yes because i liked him at the time he was nice to me back then, but then my mum had his son (my ...

My father doesn't like my boyfriend because he has kids and he thinks he's a bum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hiya! Hope you can help me. I am 31, nearly 32, I have been with a wonderful man for nearly 8 months and he just completes me. I don't have any children. However, here goes, my dad doesn't approve at all because he has kids..he won't le...

My mom's death is taking a toll on all of us. How can I help my younger sister and sort everything out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am a 13 year old girl. I am quite mature for my age; however I really don’t feel ready to handle what is happening to me right now. My mother died a few months ago, after her 2nd struggle with cancer. My dad was obviously incredibly upset when it ...