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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep...

Is my cousin in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 14years old,and I have a 16year old cousin,a boy.When we were little as a usual bunch of kids he'd tease me,laugh at me,and make me cry.When I grew older,I've noticed he started acting different towards me.He began giving me hugs,and saying how ...

I don't believe that I love my daughter's father anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am in my early 30’s and I have a one year old baby girl. She is the best thing that ever happened to us. The problem is that when I was eight months pregnant her father called me a spic, and when she was only eight days old I was kick-out of the ...

Worried about my son on drugs..how can I have a life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - How can I help my drug addict son? What ,if he never going to stop? How can I keep my sanity?He is making bad choices, and brakes my heart,when he is hurting. So every time ,he goes down on the same road, I'm there with him, so my life is never ha...

I never got to say goodbye to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - On the 13th of November my dad past away with MS and we moved away from him when he was in the nursing home 3 years ago we went over to visit him and the day we went home the day after he died and I never got to say goodbye when he left and it's so ...

How can I find the truth without tearing my family apart?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - How can I trust my wife again? We have been married 10 years and we have 3 young children. I thought we have been very happily married with no major problems, but got the shock of my life last week when I found some very inappropriate text messages...

My Dad's behavior is way over the top!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My dad's been embarrassing me, and not in the "Dad dancing at a wedding kind of way". At a close friend of mine's engagement party (she's 25, he's 28), he stripped to his Y-fronts and began dancing to the music manically. Everyone looked on in hor...

Will my ex husband's behavior damage my son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hello I hope you can help me with my problem. I am divorced and live with my 3 daughters and son who is the youngest. Last week at school there was a slight accident with my son. The headmistress had advised the other female teachers to take...

I'm being forced into marriage in India. Please help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My parents have arranged a marriage with someone I really do not want to be with. He is 17yrs older than me, short, balding, overweight, unattractive and the few times I have been forced to sit with him I found him to have bad hygiene! I know people ...

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

Not in love with my wife and having an affair but can't leave because of my kids.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been having an affair with someone for 3 years. I have two children aged 7 and 5. I am not in love with my wife any more. I want more than anything to live with the girl I am having the affair with because I am in love with her but I don't ...

My mum wants to rule my life and ruin my relationship, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend, we have been in the relationship for 3 months, my mum found out that me and him have been having oral sex. And now she keeps trying to split us up. About a month ago she ordered me to dump him but I just couldn't do it. ...

4 year old daughter claustrophobic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - My daughter is 4 years old and claustrophobic. Its a challage her the an elevator she crys screens and wants to take the stairs instead (we live in apartment). Once me, my daughter and my wife got stuck in the elevator for 30 minutes or so (no one ...

Is it okay to have sexual desires towards your cousins?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - OK so from reading a lot of people's questions, i have one myself. My question is, is it ok to have any sexual desires towards your cousins? would that be called incest? or would incest only apply to relationships between father/daughter or ...

Keeping it in the family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i ...

I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i ...

Can someone give me an idea how to tell my parents I'm moving out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So im 17 and a senior in high school. im plannin on moving out when i turn 18 in the middle of the summer. im not sure if my parents are against this...i know they dont want me to but idk if theyll go to the extremes about it. Can someone give me an ...

His parents don't like us dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a ...

Should I be worried about her mother catching us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - hi Me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we were foreplaying in her bedroom, her mother stugled to get through the door however i though we were safe, until my girlfriend came back in after talking to her mother and her mother realised her bra...

Can a relationship survive if the girl can't spend the night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Help! I'm 27 years old living under my parents roof. I was raised strictly.. parents always say 'Let a man show you respect.' They would just flip if I were to call them and say.. 'I'm sleeping over so and so's house.' The guys that I've dated ...

He will not introduce me to his family.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a man for 8 years. We do not live together although I would like to and asked him if he would buy a house with me. He replied that he will not buy a house with a woman again. I went ahead alone. I have tw...

Will this argument have a negative effect on our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello aunts, uncles! My bf and i recently had a fight about my family and its really bothering me. 2 months back my dad found out that my bf sometimes comes over to visit me and he made it clear that he doesn't want to see him around his house......

Problems with my son's anger

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (?) - Im a single mum with 2 kids (a 2 year son and 9 month daughter). Since my ex husband and me got a divorce last year he hasnt seen our kids in a whole year. I keep making plans with him to see our son (our daughter is quite a handful) but then he ...

I'd like my dad to meet my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hey. Ok I might as well tell you a little bit about myself and my situation first. Well, I'm 13 years old first of all however i'll be turning 14 in march of 2009. I don't need you to tell me i'm to young to know what love is. Because thats ...

How do I tell my dad my crush has asked me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Okay im a 14 year old girl and my crush asked be out two days ago. Were together now. I don't know how to tell my dad about it ( I would rather tell him than my mom). I think he would be alright with it but im really nervous. How should i tell ...

I find it very difficult to trust my husband...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for more than 6 years now with 2 beautiful children. my problem can be summed up by one word: trust. i mean i cannot trust my husband not telling his parents or even sister the details of our lives, our plans.... you name it. i ...

How do you deal with a difficult parent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - First off I really know the answer to all my problems: MOVE OUT. Later on in this letter you'll find out why I haven't yet, but I suppose I just want to share my thoughts with people who perhaps have the same problem and to find out their opinions ...

Difficult family situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I hate my relationship with my daddy. he isn't the way he used to be. and he won't ever be the was he was again. about 8 yrs ago he hurt his back. he used to surf and play tennis and swim with my brother and I all the time. now he can barely make it ...

My wife can't understand why I went to that club, now our relationship is going downhill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi All, I wonder if you can help me with an issue I currently have. My wife and I live in England and married in April 08 after 6 years together (4 of these years we lived together). It was the first marriage for either of us. I was 38 and my wi...

Parents will not approve of us living together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and I want to move in with my 19 year old boyfriend but I know my parents will reject the idea. we've been knowing each other for quite a while and we get along just fine. we want to be close to each other while attending college and get a ...

Family making comments about boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My bf of nearly 6 years and I had a rough patch last fall and we split for a very short time. We have worked hard to get things back on track and I think we are doing well. It is awkward around our families and it feels a little like everyone has ...

I am worried about my brother and think he's moving too fast.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - ok, so i need some help on this... my little brother is dating my bff and has been for 3 months now, and im pretty kewl with it, they are very happy and are cute together... the thing that bothers me is that, they have been getting very sexual and ...

We want to move in together, what do I tell my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - hi I have a question about moving in with my boyfriend. I'm 19 and he is 19. we have been friends for about three years but in a long distance relationship for 6 months. he stays in indiana and he's in school and has his own apartment. he's a really ...

Just lost my job and boyfriend says I should go to live with my dad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 years, I am getting laid off from my job next month my bf says I should go and live with my dad, my dad does not know we are living together, I really am confused, I don't know what to do. I want to stay ...

I am heart broken... does he know he broke my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Ok so I was in a horrible abusive marriage and found true love somewhere else. The new BF was in a dead marriage with no love. We fell for each other hard. Whirlwind romance for over a year. We both filed for divorce... But real life sets in- ...

Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son? Even if they aren't married any more, but my dad has a son with her which makes him my half brothers half brother???...

In love with her cousin, what must I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Im a 36 year old man. My fiance' is 32. Im in love with her cousin who is 32. My fiance and I never got along during our 10 year relationship. She's not financially stable. Her cousin is the ideal woman for me. Her cousins boyfriend is just like my ...

Being stalked..what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Is it ok to hit a man or get someone else to hit him if he is stalking you and threatening to harm your child? I've been to the police but they say there is nothing they can do. I'm at my wits end. Help....

When I was younger my brother forced me into having sexual activities...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, when I was younger my brother 4 years older than me forced me into sexual activities. I hated it, I use to beat him to stop! He was so much stronger, I couldn't do anything! I have never told anyone before! Shall I? or shall I keep it ...

My husband has beaten me up.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. ...

I'm really worried about my brother and think he is on a downward spiral!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I am writing about my 34 year old brother who I am deeply concerned about. He has never had a girlfriend, the most he has ever done is kissed one girl in a spin the bottle game. He is a hopeless romantic, has a good job as a pharmacist for over 10 ...

My mum doesn't like my boyfriend... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we love each other very much. I didn't let my parents know about him, but a week ago, my mom saw our picture on his website and now she told me not to date him any more because she doesn't like his appearance, and he is not ...

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

My wife left with our 5 kids in December and I'm cracking up without her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I've been married 8 years and my wife left me in December saying she can't cope any more. I want her back with our 5 children, she's only 27 years old and I love her and our children very much. It's been a very lonely xmas, she has put herself and ...

My parents don't like the guy that I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Ok so theres this guy and he's 20 years old and I met him over this summer we played soccer together every week like 3 times and we fell for each other. I want to get to know him more and have my parents meet him. He's mexican and so cute. My ...

How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (?) - My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour ...

I don't want my family to be torn apart, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Im a 16 year old girl and i live with my two brothers, my mom, and my stepdad. My parents got divorced when i was younger, i dont really mind it except for the fact that my dad has never been there for me. My mom got remmaried when i was 7. I ...

Should I hope Mr Wonderful gets back with me or just forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I went through four years of self healing after a very manipulative relationship.I have two children and i found it very hard to get back on the dating scene itried several times but just wasn't bothered.I then out of the blue met the most wonderful ...

I don't know what to do so that the whole family stays together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - hello everyone! i need ur help on this. Wednesday is new year's eve and im in a tough situation: a very long story short, my father is cheating on my mother, we all know that, she even know it and decided to stay for me and my sister. where i live e...

I think I love my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Hi there I think I'm in love with my cousin, and I need some to talk to... in advance...I'm a long talker...so sorry... For a while, parts of my family did not see each other due to some animosity between stubborn heads of the families...