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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

Should we postpone our wedding until we have a house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3148 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I have applied for a house with my boyfriend which is supposed to be completed in 2018. However, since we are both 30 this year, we thought of the idea of getting married first and living separately until our house comes. Another option i...

Should I study business jointly with a language? Then where to work and live successfully as a gay man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

30 December 2014 (M) - Since I am completely uncertain of what I should do, I was hoping for someones help. If i succeed in my exams this July I'll hopefully be off for university when summer ends. I have submitted and received offers from all of my university choic...

My mom is having a hard time dealing with a death in the family and is venting all her pent up emotions on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3397 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, This is not a relationship question but more something ive been needing help with in terms of my mother. My aunt passed away a few months ago, and both my mum and i were really close to her. Obviously this has affected my mum mas...

Which path should I go down for myself and my daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a daughter I'd like to provide for. The problem is that I can't decide on how to go about it. At first, I decided to join the military, but once I realized that my personality doesn't match the lifestyle I changed my mind and...

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

My boyfriend's mother dominates our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - (Sorry, this ended up being a long question. It's a few issues, that all stem from the same issue. I think. I hope the below makes sense!) So I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and for the most part our relationship is happy and health...

My brother and sister-in-law are keeping their new baby away from family

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this in advance. My brother just recently had a baby, its his first and the first grandchild. We have a beautiful little 5 week old baby in our family and everyone adores him. Is it normal to not ...

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and ...

Widowed mother sleeping with someone , I don't know with whom. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Hey Guys, I'm From India ( Male ) and my father passed away 8 year ago and today i found a pregnant test at my home, ( i don't have sister, its just me and my mom, no one else live with us, and no she didn't buy for someone else.the one i f...

My girlfriend says my the relationship between me and my son is unhealthy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - My son 21 and we have a great mother and son relation but my girlfriend always finding fault in our relationship. Because my son tells me I'm his number one woman in his life and he's the only child i have and we can talk about everything, my ...

Can age gaps work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Hi, why do I always fall for older men! I have had 2 serious relationships one when I was 19 and he was 38. Then I met my daughter's father (48) when I was 22 which ended badly. I swore after that I had to stick to men around my own age, more in ...

Should I tell my ex GF's dad she turned down my proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - Hey guys, my gf and i broke up recently. Her parents are great and i really like them. Just before we broke up i sent Christmas cards for the two of them. ( they are separated) well her dad sent me a Christmas card back and he was asking me if i was ...

I'm looking at buying my own home, but my boyfriend wont marry me unless I move in with him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'll make this quick. I've been with my boyfriend for several years now, and we don't live together. He's recently asked me to move in with him, as a bit of a first step towards settling down, but I'm currently in a position where I'm ...

I would like his kids to be part of our big day, but what if they cant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Merry Xmas everyone! I just want a bit of advice..I am getting married next year and very exited. My fiancé has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I love them to bits. My future step daughter who is 7 is a bridesmaid and step son usher. They ...

My father was upset when I said I didn't want to celebrate Christmas.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - For the past few years I've been living with my mom who is not always supportive and my father who moved away with my two siblings. Nobody liked living with my mother and I have never gotten along with my brother so I just decided I would stay with ...

What can I do about my nasty mother in law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. First, il wish everybody on here a very merry Christmas and I hope you all have a great day! Anyway, here's the deal, I am married for two years and been trying for a baby for almost a year, but we are certainly not panicking ...

My parents are so strict I can't grow my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - I'm 15. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years now. We go to the same school and are in the same grade but we don't have any classes together. So, we only get to see each other between a few of our classes. Neither of us have our own ...

18 months together and all was well. So why has he started being distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is being very distant and i dont know what to do. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. So far everything has been hunky dory! Hes fab! I love him, he loves me and were planning to buy a house together next year so we ...

How can I convince her to wait until I'm ready for marriage and children?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

23 December 2014 (M) - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm looking for some impartial advice and my girlfriend uses this site a lot so thought I'd give it a try. We have been together for 5 years, I am 27 and she is 29, and recently she has been putting a lot of pressure on me t...

Two separate lives... how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a white girl that met and fell in love with an Asian guy, we had a baby over a year ago. His family have never acknowledged our baby or me. He used to visit them to meet his children to his ex partner who is also white btw. In the end and ...

Would you change something that you hated about yourself, even if family and friends were against it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - So recently I have been thinking about having a my breasts lifted and possibly made a little bigger. I have spent the past three years getting into shape after years of feeling bad about my body and my body went from a size 18 (uk) to a size 8-10. ...

She wont move in with me until her 20yo weed smoking, all day sleepin' unemployed son is on his feet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

23 December 2014 (M) - Dear agony aunts and uncles. My dilemma is my girlfriends children. I've been seeing my girlfriend for over 18 months now and we've discussed moving into together, however the problem is, is her children. They are 18 (daughter) and 2 sons 20 and ...

Met online, had 6 dates, had sex on 4 of them, is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Dear Aunts, I met this guy at an online dating site about two months ago, and after we met in person (about seven weeks ago) we have been out about six times and we had sex four times out of the six dates. The other two times were nice and romanti...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

How do I distance myself from my abusive mother? Anyone else experienced anything similar?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I need some advice from people who might be in a similar situation to me. I’m a 25 year old woman who has always had a very strained relationship with my mum, but which recently has become unbearable. I’ll try to only give the information which is ...

I am beginning to hate my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - i am beginning to hate my best friend and i don't know what to do so basically... we have been friends for the past 3 years, since the start of high school and now i'm beginning to find her more and more annoying she is REALLY moody, and it's ...

How can I get a new razor without having to ask my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hey, this is a bit awkward! I'm in desperate need of some help. I'm a 15 year old guy, and I keep myself clean, grooming, etc. So, I shave. All places, and "down there" (if you catch my drift) is the problem. Well, not the shaving part, but the ra...

Am I better off dating someone within my own culture/race?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Five years in an interracial relationship with a man fifteen years older than me. I thought I loved him but now, I'm unsure. Holiday season is depressing. I've never been invited to a family dinner or functions and I hate it. My friends are always ...

I have sexual thoughts about my mother, and the guilt is eating me alive! Am I abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - I am a teenage male with OCD and I often have disturbing sexual thoughts about my mother that I always try to shake out of my head but sometimes that doesn't work and I end up masturbating to get rid of the thought (only on a few occasions has the ...

My little sister is dating a much older man and lying about it, and I'm worried he's taking advantage of her! Do I tell our parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Hi. My sister is 21 and yesterday told me she is in a relationship with a 40 year old man. This is her first ever relationship and they have been together 6 months. She says they are getting 'serious' however she has not and is not planning to tell ...

My family seems disinterested in my upcoming wedding

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm with my finacee 2 years and we are getting married in 2016. I'm 20 and my sisters are 32 and 40. My fiancee is 30 and i love him so much and we get on incredibly. Since I got engaged both of them have changed it is like they don't want to ...

We've got back together but the breakup has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I recently got back together with my then ex-boyfriend. We dated for 3 years before he decided to call it quits saying that he had fallen out of love with me.It was a real nasty break up and he was horrible and nasty to me I hardly recognized him. I ...

My boyfriend's mother won't let go

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Sorry that this is pretty long! Hope this doesn’t sound selfish, but she’s driving me crazy! I kind of feel like this may be too soon to address this issue in the relationship, since we have only been dating for a short while (9 more days until ...

Is my mother cheating on my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - I have known for a while that my mother talks regularly to another man, other than my father, and although I don't like it I've found that it's only ever been friendly. However, I recently found out that my mother has been talking to this same man ...

Not dating question...but help for getting through Christmas with my sanity intact!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - Hello, I see lots of questions on here that do not always relate to relationships, and most of you guys have wonderful answers so maybe you could help me... Christmas is hard. Not just in the sense of "oh there's so much to do...I haven'...

How do people resolve which family to visit at Christmas

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having issues deciding on Christmas plans. His parents live abroad, so for the last few years he has come round to my parents for dinner then we would both go to visit his brothers in the evening until the small hours. ...

13 months since we broke up and I still want him back. What are the chances that we could resume our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - My ex and I split up last year after a five year relationship. Like every relationship it had its ups and downs, but far more ups than downs. We had just moved into a house I had bought. When he asked to split up it broke me to pieces but I had ...

First he was very keen. I wanted to proceed slowly. Yet now he seems to be becoming less interested. Why? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice please. I've recently started dating a new man but I've had really bad experiences in past relationships and am extremely insecure. When we first started dating he was very full on - flowers, mix tapes(!), dinners, he treat...

I am boring my husband, how do I get the fun back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hi cupids, I'm after some advice on how to "re-attract" someone's attention. My husband and I have been together for 17 years, married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful sons. The problem is that I feel like he is not interested in me anymore...

Living with his lazy dirty family has me at the end of my tether

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hello. I don't know how much longer I can put up with this. His family is starting to become a deal breaker for me. Right now, I live with my boyfriend and his family. We pay rent, we buy our own groceries, and we pay for whatever else we use. We ...

He called me a selfish (expletive) because I want a specific colour.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

18 December 2014 (?) - Holiday help! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years. Everytime around the holidays, especially my birthday and Christmas he gets in a 'mood' like he's so unhappy in his life and then it ruins my days. I hope I don't come off ...

I am loving who I should't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I really have no idea where to start. My brother passed away 8months ago from an infection in the valve leading to his heart, it had ruptured and he had gone into cardiac arrest the night he was staying over at my house, I was with him from the...

I'm dating someone with kids so that means I'll be alone for all the holidays and events happening in his family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I've always gotten good advice here before so I'm back again. I'm just wondering why it is so hard to be ina relationship with somebody who has baggage? Has anybody been in this situation before? Maybe dated somebody that has kids? It's very hard ...

What are my rights and my rights to items my parents have given me, if I move out of home? I fear that my parents may disown me if I move in with my older brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

17 December 2014 (M) - Three years ago my parents kicked my older brother out because he is gay. Basically they told me not to have any contact with him what so ever. My brother keeps in touch with me with e-mails but i no longer use the computer at home because my paren...

Love, or my dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - So i am in serious help and i need some opinions on what to do. Ive been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now! It started off perfect and i was happier than ever! I live in Texas and he is living in Oklahoma. We are actually 15 years ...

Whose decision is it anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - My fiancé has 3 children, 21, 23 and 26. They still live at home. Her children want the ex husband to come for Christmas Day lunch at her house. He will not come if I am there. They have been divorced 10 years. She is now telling me she won't ...

Boyfriend's father is immature and rude. How do I deal with his behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - This past summer I had an argument with my boyfriend's father ("Rick"). Rick has a painting business and so my boyfriend works for him during the summer. I also work for Rick to make some extra cash. When we paint, we usually would take a bre...

Is this the correct approach to use with feuding parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm going to ask a series of questions and I just wanted your opinion. I fully understand that kids (I know I'm not so young) should be kept out of feuding parents business, but no one ever gives useful advice when they force your han...