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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I feel like I need to choose between my boyfriend and my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - Ok so i am 21 years old, a junior in college. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now. my boyfriend is also in college, and is a senior. he also has a job and pays for his whatever he needs. in the beginning, we were still in high school, ...

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / g...

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

My mom has cancelled plans to come see me but expects my husband and I to travel to see her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I've been living abroad, half way across the world for 5 years now. I only have my mum pretty much left family wise, and we get along great, even if it is mostly on skype (i have been back twice, she's been to my new country once). Recent...

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for ...

My mother-in-law ignores my children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I need help getting along with my mother in law. We been married for 5 years with 3 kids and till to this day my MIL ignored our children. When she calls she always asked about her son and maybe her grandkids later.....she always checked when we ...

Can our relationship survive his family crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some advice on my selfish personality traits. My partner has a very large family and whilst I get on with them I wouldnt say I was extremely close to anyone but his mother. I wouldn't exactly say they were a close family but...

I had considered asking if she would let me masturbate to her but I don't want to come across as a creep. Is there another alternative?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Hi. I am stuck and am open to advice. My cousin and I have been close as "brother-sister" while growing up. She is a few years older then me but we are both in our twenties. I have always had a crush on her but when we were teenagers while ...

Who should be her priority, her husband or her adult child?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - I have a question and I desperately need an answer. My wife and I have been married for almost 22 years. She has a son approaching 29 years of age from her first marriage. He lives with his father. Her ex suffered a heart attack a few years ago, a...

I am seriously thinking about putting my 2 year old up for adoption! Advice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Hi please don't judge me for this : I am seriously thinking about putting my 2 year old up for adoption. I love her but I am not the mother I hoped to be or she deserves. I cry on a daily basis, find myself snapping at her. The burst into tea...

I am confused about lots of things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Thought id message in as id heard about this site, feel confused about lots of things so just wanted to see some other peoples opinion on this. Basically i am worrying about the future as i am coming up to 35 years of age and really hoped by now...

His parents don't approve of me, a single mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - So here is the situation and I will try to keep this as short as possible so thanks for bearing with me. At the age of 22 I started dating this 25 year old man and we became "official" in August of 2014 after 2 months of dating. He says ...

I want my grandparents story preserved, but I don't want to upset Nan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Soon, it will be 10 months since my grandad passed away. On and off, for about a year before that, I started to document (in story form) as much of their relationship as my nan could remember - my grandad had a memory block, so he couldn't have told ...

I'm scared I'm dating this guy for security but nothing else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I am not sure if I ever want to get married or not. I hear a lot of people say single people are lonely and also that marriage is not for everyone. I can be very erratic in my decision making and change my mind many times before I get to where am ...

Am I overthinking this or does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - Hello to everyone reading this, I would like some advice please, I am not sure if I am just over thinking this situation or if there really is a situation here that needs dealin with. My partner and I have been together for four years and we hav...

My marriage was broken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3373 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I finally found the courage to leave my abusive husband for the last time.God gave me the strength to open my heart ? eye's and ears to others going through a similar situation in their lives hopefully my heart ? breaking tonight will make at least ...

Its a very delicate subject ......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with my mother in law who likes to sit on my husbands lap for photos - not every time but just when she feels like it that is what she does. She just gets up off a chair and sits on their lap and this seems 'normal' to them but not ...

I'm pregnant and the father wants a termination.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Im pregnant. When I found out my instinct was to become a mother not to have an abortion. The father wants nothing to do with a baby right now because he wants to move and continue to find himself as he will be 25 in May. He’s called me selfish, ...

My sister in law is cheating because I showed her how to use the internet! How do I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - Let me start out by saying a love my little nephews and brother to death and would do anything for them.I a very sensitive person and consistently asking people are they mad at me. I feel so bad and it's totally my fault that their mom is che...

Should I tell my family what my fiance's ex is like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - Hello.. Just need opinions on a predicament I have. I am getting married to a wonderful man this year, he has 2 kids from a previous relationship who I love to bits. The problem is his ex, she is a nasty piece of work, my fiancé had to go to ...

Should I spend all my money to move out (and become broke), or wait for my dad to give me money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I want to thank everyone here that adviced me in the past. I was previously anonema but forgot my password so I had to create a new account. Your words really made me take a different approach towards handling certain situations in my life. I have...

Marriage woes after 2nd baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Dear People, I would like some advice on some marriage problems I am facing, which have peaked since having my 2nd baby, 3 weeks ago. I am recovering from a brutal c-section - my second - and still in immense pain. Husbamd is generally a goo...

How do you deal with an adult son that disrespects his father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - I'm engaged to a man that his little contact with his son. His son is now engaged to a wonderful girl and is getting married. They are being frugal about their wedding plans so they can go on a honeymoon and save for a house, which we think is ...

She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficul...

Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many ...

Brother-in-law is a pedophile and sister hid it from the family resulting in chaos

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 652 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - My sister lives 6 hours away and we use to be close as children. When ever she is back in our home town 2x a year her and her husband and me and my betrothed hung out for a couple of hours and got dinner etc. My fiancé got to liking my sister and ...

How many stay with their first love and is it better for me to experience someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hello there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts if you decide to answer. Since the new year has started, many couples around me broke up or there were people that started a new relationship. Many of my classmates are around the age of 22 or ...

How often is too often? And if the only sexual activitiy I have ever had has been masterbation, alone, then am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hey everyone im 17 and im a girl and i feel that i have a huge problem. I masturbate a lot especially when i feel horny. I use my fingers and a vibrator and i orgasm most of the time. I am a virgin but i believe in marriage then sex with my part...

Help dealing with mentally ill manipulative abusive in-laws

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been married for over 7 years to a wonderful man. Sadly his parents are mentally ill and won't get help. We have distanced ourselves from them by moving across the country. They are emotionally abusive and snarky smart mouths. ...

How can I get my father to give him a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hello, I am a mature senior in high school who has experienced a lot at this point in my life. I dated a boy who was a couple years older than me for over two years. He was my high school sweetheart and we were madly in love. He was a part of my fa...

He has 4 kids by different women! How do I ask him about this? How to continue to love someone with so many children?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 35 years old with no kids and never been married. Just met a guy i love so much, i went into his facebook account just to find out about before i can be serious about our relationship. To my suprise he has 4 kids with different woman ...

My boyfriend misses his kids -- what can I do to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Hi all, I've been wit my boyfriend believe we are soulmates. He has 3 kids from his previous partner. His youngest is 5 months old. His ex partner got pregnant just wen they decided to end their relationship. So far me and him have been doing good. ...

My in-laws are difficult to live with

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...

Condoms under his bed ! Do I believe his explanation? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi all, I would really like some help ihave wrote on here before but would appreciate some more advice. Been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him to pieces. But about 6 monthd ago we went to his mums house when his brother came out with, '...

Ohhhh, my cousin, I think I love your wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - hi , am someone who have a big problem in his life ...i think i love my cousin wife and she stair att me all the time ...i am really confused when i see her looking at me and iam worried that her husband think a bad idea about us ... i think about ...

I am sure my Mom was just a bit tipsy but this creeped me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hi, I m a 23 year old guy. Yesterday I asked my friend Jeremy (also 23) to sleep over my house for the whole weekend. Around 10 my mom and her best friend were sitting at the kitchen counter drinking some wine when Jeremy came over. This was the ...

My girlfriend misses her friends and family but I don't want her to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

17 January 2015 (M) - I've been with my gf for four years and i love her alot. I'm 31 and she's 26 I met her when she came to my city to see her dad and she decided to stay to be with me which is what i wanted too. We have a difficult relationship - she misses her ...

My Cousin Has Fallen For A Former Player, But I'm Not Convinced He's Changed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (M) - My cousin is gay, and he happens to have fallen head over heels for a gay older guy (who's 29 and my cousin's 22). There is apparently mutual interest. The older guy is one of those people who is nice but very flirty. I've met him before and he ma...

Great opportunity if we move, but it would take me away from family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - What would you do? My husband has the opportunity to make an extra 35 grand. However, to do this we'd need to move across the country and away from my extended family. Our money situation is good at the moment. He makes 70 grand. But we still ...

Am I wrong for wanting my nineteen yr.old son to move out and get his own apartment?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have a three bedroom apt.my mom,son and I live there its roomy for us .But my son has a problem with helping with house hold chores.He works and goes to school but in between time he doesn't take trash out wash dishes or anything to ...

How can I stop my sister's relationships from interfering with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (M) - Now, I may know absolutely nothing about relationships, but I have been brought to one striking question. In what way, shape, or form is the point of a relationship when all I ever hear from them is arguing and yelling every single day. Over...

Is there a way for the kids to be in our lives despite his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and for the past year and a half his ex has been a complete nightmare. He has 2 children with her 7 and 3. The 7 year old has Autism. The first incident was when we met. She insisted on meeting me ...

Living with grandmother. I want out. Should I get a job that MAY pay better, or should I take the risk and leave now? Suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Currently I'm living with my grandmother. I help her pay bills,but she treats me like a child. Living there is like living in a prison. I can't do this, I can't do that, I can't have friends over(don't have many to begin with) and when I final...

Scared to tell her I really love her. But if she sees me as just a friend then how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so I am one of those people who try all time not to catch feelings for people, because I know how it can hurt, but I can never see when its coming. Well, I have this friend on a social network, and I've never met her in Real Life, but I kn...

I'm already shaky and nervous about meeting his family, shouId I tell him I can't go or push myself to get over my nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriends sister and I have never got on. We knew each other at school and we just never clicked. I have known her since I was about 6-7 so I know that we won't just become best friends suddenly. I have accepted how close she is to my boyfriend, ...

Perfect girl, but we are in the perfect storm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

16 January 2015 (M) - Ok so this is where it starts, I had been living in Shanghai for about 1 year at the time of meeting my current GF. She is Chinese and just 20yrs old now. I am 29. We share just about everything in common, with both dj, Im a chef, she loves to...

Should I call his bluff and leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - So, when I met my partner (stanley) he worked as a builder for a bloke (trevor)for £100 cash a week (if he was lucky). I persuaded him to go out and get a full time job so we could move out together and everything was lovely, we were both so happy. ...

My MIL leaves me in tears and always gets away with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - This question is about my mother in law. I know that lots of peoples mothers in law are a pain in the ass, but mine is something else! She has a lot of mental health issues, including bulimia and alcoholism. She gets away with preposterous comments ...