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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Boyfriend will not take down sports illustrated calendar that his mom bought him!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - This question is really weighing me down. This Christmas, my boyfriend of about a years mother bought him a sports illustrated swimsuit calendar. Now, before you roll your eyes and dub me insecure, know that my irritation and issue with this has ...

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a ...

I need to move on, how should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, yet, he hasn't talked to me about marrige. He knows that I would like to get married and have kIds but I'm 28 he's 29, and I feel like I'm getting to that point where I need to move on. How should I bring u...

How can I cope with the pressure to marry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - How can I become immune to the social pressure from family and friends to get married and 'settle down' already? I'm in my twenties, in a happy longterm relationship and still studying. We have a three year plan regarding starting a family. I ha...

Should I give up now or wait and hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can give me some guidance with a problem I have. I have been seeing my partner for a year now and I'd say it's a beautiful relationship. We get along fine and don't have any problems. We have little rows now and the...

Should I encourage our kids to reach out to my ex's side of the family during this crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

30 December 2013 (?) - My ex and I have been separated for 3 and half years, there have been many women and of course lots of hard drama. This last woman has been quite a challenging event with her many harrassing messaging, fake accounts to contact. Its been quite ...

How do I find balance in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Ive been with my partner now 10 months. He is great with my son who Is 5 yrs old and we live together now.we seem to get into arguments because of me I admit that.i have a very hard time letting go over some past things and I no that I shouldnt be ...

Who should I choose?? my boyfriend or my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hii guys, i am a freshman in college. My mom found out that I was dating my friend for 4 months already. She got super pissed, and and she forced me to break up with him. She also forced me to promise her to never date him or be with him ever again. ...

I feel my privacy is being invaded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I've been having an issue lately concerning those around me and my private life. For starters many of my friends this year have gotten married, are in committed relationships, and have kids. Since this has come to the attention of my mother and ...

Was I just used for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her as they have twin boys who are a year old we recently slept together for the first time we had ...

I really like her but we come from two very different cultures. Is this worth pursuing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - I'm not sure about pursuing a relationship with this girl. Hi. I'm from Pakistan and currently studying at a University in London. There I befriended a Tunisian girl. I became attracted to her because of her character. At first I was just merely ...

My girlfriend's mother seemed to like me but has suddenly changed her mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a dilemma that I need a little help with. I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over 7 months and we are both 20. I have stayed at her moms house (she still lives with her mom)a few times be...

I haven't heard from him since we had sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi i met this man in April this year we had 4 dates i really liked him and we got on really well but due to problems on his side nothing came of it now boxing day we got back together he is still having the same problems not heath wise but family ...

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people ...

I like my best friend's sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?! On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been o...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

I love him so how can I tell him I am not ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years. I love him very much, but like most young love we have problems. A few months ago he told me he didn't love me anymore, we didn't talk for 2 or 3 weeks but like always we kissed and made up. All of a ...

Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even thoug...

Ex-wife running my down to our kids and they're treating me disrespectfully

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - I have been going through a tough time as of late I am married for a second time and my ex wife is married as well. Recently she started running me down to my two oldest kids my oldest daughter lives out of state and I talk to her as often as I can ...

Should my parents file for bankruptcy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but just wanted to get some advice about my family. My parents (58 and 60 yrs old) are in a lot of debt. They have a business which has been losing money for a while and is putting t...

I drove him to the airport, so why isnt he texting how he is away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - My bf left for vacation to see his fam n hasnt txted me or anything. I tried texting him bt he doesnt reply. I know he is with his fam n his enjoying his time, bt just texting to know how I am is not much. Afterall, I was the one who volunteered to ...

Where is the passion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I appreciate any/all answers immensely because I'm feeling very lost. I have been dating a man for nearly 3 years now (I'm 22 years old) and he is a great individual..he is kind, affectionate, understanding, loving, intelligent, supportive, has a gr...

I am terminally single and want a surrogate baby!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I am 30, straight male, never had a girlfriend or relationship and I have come to a point where I am thinking, I want a baby of my own. I have given up on the prospects of finding a girlfriend. Dating game has always been my weakest point. I have b...

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...

What if I don't actually like my inlaws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone :) I was just curious…do most people get along well with their in-laws/parents of their SO? I'm in a relationship with a guy a really like, but my relationship with his family (parents and two older siblings) is just so-so. They're...

Overbearing in-laws since day one! Do I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

25 December 2013 (M) - I have married for almost seven years, I am not a young person and this is my second marriage. But I have been having with over bearing inlaws since day one. At first it was just little comments from my father In law about things I might do around ...

I want this relationship to work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm needing advice about me in my relationship. To make a long story short. I have been with my fiancé for almost 4 years. We've had our share of trouble, but there is one that happen a two years ago that still haunt me. My fiancé che...

Boyfriend cheated on me years ago and my parents worry about my future with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Our relationship was great until I knew he lied and cheat from me several times. That's about 2 years ago and since then I'm become a negative person and always worrying too much. However, I kno...

In a troubled relationship, and my boyfriend's mother is making things worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and a half. We're both young professionals, independent and fairly busy in our lives. Our relationship has never been perfect, though we both fight through determined to be together. He ...

26 never had a boyfriend, no confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm 26, I've never had a boyfriend, I've never been kissed or even been on a date. I was always very popular when I was little but we moved away from my home. People started bullying me and I lost all my confidence. I was called ugly and fat ...

I don't want to be alone anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - If I'm trying to find my first g/f, or in general first date, etc... What places should I go, library, book store, when I'm at the park on a walk? I'm feeling out of options here, I just don't really want to be alone anymore. If anyone has anything ...

What's the deal with this crazy girl and how to I get her to stop if I can't prove anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - A few months ago, I met a girl at my step-dad's church function and we hit it off really well and decided to go to dinner at another time. Her phone was shut off, so she just told me where she lived and said that she was sorry she couldn't let me ...

I think our friends daughter who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - I think our friends daughter- who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it... Over the year I have noticed that after they visit, small things go missing from our house. At the beginning of the year I noticed that ...

How do I tell him without hurting him? I like my own space and some time to be alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys just have a short and simple question for everyone here... i just want a different opinion and hopefully it will help me sort things out in my head... I have been with this guy for around 7 months and yesterday his family came round fo...

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

23 December 2013 (M) - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best ...

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...

Money is tight so eating healthy food hasn't been happening

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I know this isn't exactly a love or relationship question, but I really respect the answers and opinions of the people here and would love some input. My father is drastically overweight. It is affecting his health and quality of living. He has b...

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

How do I inform my friends and family that I'm now a vegan?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Basically I converted to veganism 2 months ago because i nolonger want to contribute to the violence towards animals, with the bonus of improving my health and being one step closer to saving the planet. Now i've keep this a secret from ever...

If men can't be trusted why do we even try?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I've been with many guys before him and I know this sounds dumb but nobody else gave me this feeling of satisfaction and love that I get from being with him. This relationship feels different from ...

Help! I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3777 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start and conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days ...

He left when they were babies, and now wants to be "dad"!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - I live in (MOD NOTE: City was deleted for privacy) Florida and have 3 daughters; twins [non-identical] aged 23 and a 19-year-old daughter who is their half-sister born to my husband (the twins' stepdad). The twins were born in 1989, and the father ...

His ex wife wants him back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...

Its make or break time for our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...

Every girl needs a bad boy...... right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Okay so i need help, theres this boy who i like and he likes me too but people including my friends tell me that he's not a nice person and that he will ruin everything for me such as see other girls. However, when i talk to him i never see that ...

My fiancee is being abused by her mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

21 December 2013 (M) - Well, I recently found out that my fiancee is being emotionally and verbally abused by her mother. I looked up under section 6 felony. But does this mean that my fiancee mom go to jail or get a warning etc? But this is crazy how my fiancee's mom is ...

I feel uncomfortable that my B/f''s ex is still a part of his little sisters life as well as his

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Wondering what people think of this because I find it kind of odd. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. My boyfriend has a little sister who is 5. When him and his ex girlfriend dated for 2 years, she became really close to his littl...

I thought I had moved on fully, until my ex told me he is doing the same. How to cope with these mixed feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - My divorce was just finalized a few weeks ago, and my ex husband just told me today he plans to introduce our son to someone. I'm experiencing confusing feelings. Mostly, I feel angry because he only sees our son twice a month and I don't understand ...

I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with his sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup ...

I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

20 December 2013 (M) - I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...