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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister married a loser, and how she and I never speak.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - My Older sister was in love once before, and engaged. Her previous relationship cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. Now, she left that guy and met the guy she is married to now. and he is a total loser. No job, no drive, no personality. He...

I'm in love with my cousin's daughter and need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I need help, I fell in love with my cousin's daughter. (I'm 21, she's 18) I know some people think it's wrong and immoral but I truly have developed feelings for her. We don't get to see each other since we live far away from each other, we m...

I'm in love with my brother's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - How do i tell my brother i am in love with his best friend? I have been seeing my brothers best friend (david) for about a month now behind my brothers back. David says we need to tell my brother so we can have a more opened relationship. I ...

I really dislike my boyfriend's sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I'm sorry to say this, but I really dislike my boyfriend's sister. She just isn't a nice girl. She is so rude. She is constantly belching and farting, and doesn't even bother to excuse herself. I know everyone burps and farts, but the fact that sh...

How do I punish my son for what he did?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Our 3 year old is very intelligent. He can write his name, sing the alphabet and ride a bike without training wheels. He is an excellent talker and even uses big words to describe things in detail. HOWEVER, he is mean to our dog. I keep ...

My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like ...

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...

Why the hell would my boyfriends dad send me 7 friend requests on Facebook?!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I'm 24, been living with my boyfriend for 5 months now, been together for 5 years. I was checking my Facebook profile the other day when I was surprised to get 7 friend requests from my boyfriend's dad! Why would anyone need 7 Facebook acc...

How can I get the relationship with my daughter back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have a 27 year old daughter who left home and does not speak to my husband, myself and my son. She does speak to my twin sister and my sister does not share what is going on in her life and that has made my sister and my relationship rocky. My ...

I think my step dad may be cheating on my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem ...

We want to move in together, but her family doesn't approve, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I am 17 yrs 0lder than my girlfriend, At first we were freinds for about 10yrs. And now have feelings for each other. She wants to move in with me which is OK. but when she told her mum her mum is dead against it and so is most of her family. ...

My mom makes it very difficult to be happy in our house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - This might sound silly or strange but I felt like talking it out rather than just keeping it inside me. First of all today my mom was saying how cold it was. I immediately replied it's not cold. She then for some crazy reason makes a big fuss...

Is my best friend REALLY okay with me dating her cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My 'best friend' and i had a fight a few weeks back, and it was about a sweet 16th party that she wanted to throw with me,(as in a joint party)which never went ahead because neither of us told our parents. The other thing she was mad at me about was ...

We broke up because her mom doesn't give her much freedom... is there any way of getting her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I wanna knw wat can i do to get back wit my ex? Its cause the reason she broke up wit me is cause of her mom. She would barley let her go out and we would barley see each other.But her mom said that she would have to meet me in person to see if i ...

My brother caught me masturbating, what to do about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I was watching a quiet porn video on my laptop while masturbating on my bed with my hands down my pants (all clothes were still on). I knew that my brother would be coming home soon, but i still left my bedroom door open. When i heard him come home, ...

It's been six years since our mom died -- how can we get dad to start dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I hope this doesn't confuse you guys on here. It's three of us talking (a girl and two boys). Our mom died when we were four, six, and eight. It's been six years since then and our dad still hasn't started dating yet. We love our dad and that's why ...

Relative is flirting with me after giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - What is she after?? Please help, there is this girl who is a friend and a relative of mine. Since years now our friendship has been some times spicy and some times cold. Finally a year ago she suddenly got flirtatious and I got a little excited a...

There's this guy that has asked me out, but there are a few things in the way, and I like someone else! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Men are definately like buses!! I met this 21 year old throught my sister about a year ago and we've been talking on msn and such ever since, we've also met up a few times recently. He has now asked me out. However i have a number of proble...

I feel betrayed by the guy I like, and my friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - This summer I went on a choir trip to Spain. My best friend told me she kind of liked this guy, but it was visabley apparent the only reason she liked him was because she was trying to get over the guy who she hooked up with for a while. He didn't ...

I think he introduced me to his children too soon, as I'm not ready for him to meet mine. Is it odd or am I making too much out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating this gentleman for 3 weeks now. We met online and seem to have a lot in common. We both have young children, (6 years and under) and I have issues with meeting or introducing children to a potential relationship before I know if ...

I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet up with his ex girlfriend when he flies over to his home country! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend we been together for 6 months and we are madly in love. we both have different culture and religion. but we both understand each other well. soon his going back to his country to see his family and im worried if we meets up with ...

We're 18 months into our relationship, and suddenly our family and friends are predicting when we'll start having sex! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Allo peoples! My girlfriend and I are over the year and a half mark in our relationship. She's 18 I'm still 17 but 18 in a month. We love eachother very much, and although we're virgins, many people, friends, our mums, have suddenly been pr...

What can I do to get my guy friend to talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My guy friend doesn't talk to me much! He keeps my texts and when I talked to him on IM he talked to me for a half an hour! But he only does that a few times a month. Why would he seem like a shy guy but talk a lot to his other friends. Me and him ...

Parenting advice for handling certain situations

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I am planning to be a father soon, and I just wanted to get your opinions on how I should handle certain situations, should they rise. They are: 1. If I caught my son or daughter experimenting with the same gender, how should I go about handling t...

Husband gave me an ultimatium to either move with him or get out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - my husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have no family of my own, but he comes from a large family. His family is now back east and my children are here in the pacific northwest. Hes always disliked my kids, so its hard when he says ...

I don't want to be with b/f any longer but can't make it without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and we have a 3 year old son together. He tells me he loves me all the time but he gets mad so easy and yells at me and calls me a bitch. We argue alot and i dont like my son to see us argue. ...

How do I tell my dad that I'm pregnant? I don't want him to be disgusted with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Im 26 and just found out im pregnant. Its a suprise but im overjoyed. The father is a guy who I was seeing for a short while casually but im no longer with him. However I have told him and hes happy and says he will support me all the way. My next ...

We can't see each other outside of school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - okay so my problem is that me and my bf have been dating for the past 4 months and we have yet to see eachother outside school except at like football games and non private stuff. We can't really form a good connection without some alone time you ...

I laugh, I cry, I love just like normal people, so why do I end up unhappy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) - im in such a mess. ive posted here before and i cant find the question but i asked about a family problem. i will reexplain it. everything has seemed to get worse since then. its a long story but intersting, so if you cant help me then well, at ...

Help! I kissed my sister's boyfriend, and I think I'm falling in love with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - hey im 13 and my sister is 18 she is also pregnant to this guy whos 22 well there was this one night when there was the three of us and my mum downstairs watchin a film and my sisters boyfriend let me lie on him for the film well the film finished ...

Oral sex with cousin and I want to do it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - ok guys, basically what happened was a few months ago me (im 14) and my cousin (shes 13) were alone. we started making out and one thing led to another and i was performing oral sex on her and she was performing oral sex on me. i want to stress w...

I like this boy, but I'm worried my cousin will tease us and ruin everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Hey, So i met this boy last week at out static caravan where we come every weekend. We got to know each other and soon, We found out we both felt strongly about each other. He asked me out over msn and I said "i dont know because we will only see...

I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...

What do you do when you find out the father of your kids is staying at another womans place?

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28 August 2009 (F) - What do you do when you find out that your baby daddy is staying at another females house? You want to try and work it out. Everytime you want to talk grown people talk he says I'm grown i pay my own bills I stay where ever i want? Is is really ...

Girlfriend basically making me chose between her and my parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hi, This is a difficult one and i really need some help and guidence. My girlfriend hates my parents so much she is letting it drive a wedge between us. She has hated my parents for a long time because she disapproves of the way they tre...

Brother molested me as a child years ago but acts like what I remember never happened!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I am 52 yrs old and was sexually molested by my brother between ages 7-8. Recently this conversation conversation came up and he told me he had never really abused me. He says that he spoke to other people and that touching me thru the sheets was ...

My new partner can't understand why I let my ex see our daughter when he gives me no support

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I'm in need of advice. I've been separated from my ex 3years now and I have a daughter by him. Now I am in a relationship with a man who can't understand why I let my daughters father see her when he gives me no money. He does not want me talking to ...

I've started feeling really bored, and like a really boring person! Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. In the past two years, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions. I previously was dating a really bad person that was nothing short of a sociopath, my parents divorced each other ...

Brother in law is abusive and a jerk and I don't want problems in the family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My husband's brother abuses his wife, he is an alcoholic, and gets a really bad temper, but is in denial. About 7 years ago before my husband and I were married (we were just friends) my husband's brother got in my face and screamed at me and ...

Leading a double life from my family

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27 August 2009 (F) - i feel like i lead a double life. my dad is an expat and i have moved to three different places. my family has always had a view that children should respect their elders,parents are always right,doing well in school is most important, and romantic ...

My soulmate has 2 children and an unstable ex wife, please help me/us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I know it's long, but please read and help! My boyfriend has 2 little girls, ages 6 and 7. We have been together for 8 months. I feel as though he is truly my soulmate, and he feels the same. We are both the kind of people that lead very simple ...

Does it make me a bad person if I have feelings for my ex's brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - ok so i am really not looking for any criticism so please dont do that. i have a friend i have had for about 5 years now and 2 years ago he hooked me up with his older brother. we didnt last havent been together for about 7 months now. he became a ...

Do you think I could be bisexual because of my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - recently when i watched the trya banks show[lesbians it was about on this episode] i have been wondering to myself are you a lesbian!but to me i aint cuz i have a boy friend and stuff! so now im wondering if im a bisexual becuz when i was small...

I feel really ashamed of myself.. how can I get over this event?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Last weekend was the worst weekend of my life. I went to a concernt Friday and Saturday night (same band). I have been in contact with one of the crew guys and we were going to get together after the shows. Friday he ditched me, no biggy because ...

I hear my dad masturbating and it's really bothering me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hi, i am a 14 year old female and i have a big problem! my dad keeps constantly masturbating and its really bothering me! he gets up at the middle of the night to turn on the TV and masturbate and its really disturbing! like the noises he make!! ...

A family member of mine had a stroke... has anyone else gone through the same thing, and if so, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - hello. has anyone had a close family member suffer a stoke? my father had one on sunday night. he has lost the use of his left arm and hand, his speech is slurred but can still make out what he is saying, he can walk aided, and trys to feed ...

I'm having second thoughts about trying to conceive right now because my husband is sometimes cold with me and his daughter is going to move in! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I've been married for one year now... and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last 6 months and is not happening. He has a daughter with another woman, she is 10 yrs old and is coming to live with us. She is a 'good" girl but i ...

I think my boyfriend is planning to kiss me next to he sees me, but I'm not sure how to! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey, So im 13 and i have just met this boy who I really like. We are seeing each other for the moment... but I will only see him like every month. He lives 15 minutes away but I only see him when at a holiday home every month. He is the nicest pe...

It feels like her love for me is fading...what can I do? Can I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Ok this is probably going to be a long story. So Like a year ago I was going out with this girl she's in the 10th grade now and I'm in the 9th, We broke up some time ago. Well about 6 months ago I started seeing her sister and we are still together...

My daughter is dating a much older man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. ...