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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Everyone is rowing and I'm in the middle. I must be the worst wife and mother in the world. Please give me some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been married for 22 years not happy and i have a boyfriend. my husband and i still live together just for financial reasons. I have 2 sons one 16 and another 13. the 13yr old has had severe anxiety problems that has resulted in him being a ...

Second cousin has a crush on me. Could it be a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - yeah i have a 2nd cousin thats had a crush on me since we were little. i never really thought much about it but now im starting to get a crush on her... the problem is i dont know if she still likes me or how our friends and family would take it......

Is it wrong to date my step sister? Our parents found out and they want to break either their relationship or ours.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1830 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - My dad is about to get married and she has a daughter and we really like each other and have been keeping a secret relationship for 2 months. they just found out and they want either their relationship to end or ours. Either way i wont be living in ...

How do I get my boyfriend's dad to move out or make my boyfriend realise it's time for us to find a place of our own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - How do I get my boyfriends dad to move out or make my boyfriend realise it's time for us to find a place of our own? I've been going out with my boyfrind for 18 months, and moved in with him and his dad 7 months ago. My boyfriend and his dad have...

I want to accept Mike, but I fear he will reject me once I tell him that a while ago I slept with his brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy Mike that I have been friends with for 16 years and I'm extremely close with his family.Even in high school I had a crush on him. I never once thought he looked at me the same. And a little over a year ago I had ...

My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't ...

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird bu...

It's been this 'back and forth' kind of thing. I need a different outlook.

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30 June 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship off and on for the past two years with a man that I have considered a friend, lover, and family. We have been, so to speak, kindred spirit. I know this sounds silly but it true. The past 6 months we have trid to make...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

What can I do to make this night really special for us both??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - i met a man over the internet a year and a half ago. we hit it off really well and i now live with him in australia. today is our one year anniversary of the day that i came here and i wanted to do something really special for him but i dont have ...

My mum always favours my sister over me!! Is really starting to get to me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - why does my mum always favour my sister, last night i went out for a drink with some friends at a males house, there was nothing wrong with what we did, we was inside, quiet music, monopoly, mindin our own business, chatttin and having a drink, my ...

My daughter who is 5 is still wetting the bed at night, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone my daughter is 5 now and is still wetting the bed im a little worried that she is never going to be dry at night. We have tried everything from stopping fluid at a certain time to getting up in the middle of the night to wake her up f...

How can I talk about this sensitive issue with my boyfriend without him feeling like I'm insulting or looking down upon his parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's parents are in deep financial trouble. They are about to lose their house because they cannot pay their mortgage and I think they are spending frivolously. They have a practically brand new car that belongs to his mom that just sits ...

My 8 month old son will not eat lumpy food!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - I have an 8 month old son who has decided to not eat his solids and I can not get him to eat lumpy food it has to be pureed otherwise he just gags on it and then throws up. It's really getting me down now cos im worried he wont ever eat lumpy food ...

My husband has severe anger and control issues, will this ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Help, my husband of only 1 1/2 years is very controlling, he does not let me have any friends and has even made me give up my best friend. He swears at me and calls me names on a daily basis and even insults my kids. I don't want to be without him ...

I believe my husband is afraid to stand up to his ex and concentrate more on our family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have three children, and two step children. MY ex is out of the picture and we have zero contact with him. I moved in with my now husband three years ago, and since his two daughters and ex-wife make my life hell. I moved in to the house that he s...

His grown up adult, immature children have a lot to do with keeping us from getting married, I'm sure of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - What do you think of a man who is older, that had given me a promise ring this past December, and promised me that we would offically become engaged within 6 months, and would be married shortly afterwards? A few weeks after this he told me "if" we g...

I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...

I'm working hard to ensure my teen daughter's educational future, but she doesn't appreciate it nor cares! What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - hello to everyone. i need some advice ASAP my daughter is only 15 she is now crazy about her bf who is only 18 years old and know nothing but only to smoke and drink. my daughter is now on he first stage of university but she is getting crazy now ...

Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressuri...

My boyfriends family keep picking on me and my bf...what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Okay so I have a dillema that I'm having trouble on how to handle. I've been with my boyfriend for going on nine months now. The issue isn't with my boyfriend its with his family. He has cousins all younger than we are and for some reason they find ...

I'm in a very critical situation! Please help me to solve this problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - i am a 22 years old girl and i need your help and suggestion regarding the relationship between my real brother (27 years) and me. Actually my brother has very good personality (i also) and many girls like him. my brother has sexual rela...

I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a father, I need your guidance.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Need advice, I recieved an email from a girl I slept with about 6 weeks ago, saying she is now pregant, wants to keep the baby and wants nothing from me and is willing to cut off all commuication. I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a fa...

Her 7 year old daughter asks for money from me! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! i have known my friend for almost 8 years now and am godmother to her eldest daughter who is 7.Her daughter is very spoilt.My friend is quite soft with her -she tells her off but its not convincing. My godaughter when thr...

My free-loading bf left me and our daughter! Should I ask for money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have a relationship problem that I would like advice with. My boyfriend and the father of my child has left me. We had a disagreement about money. The way things are is that I pay all the bills, rent, food, childcare costs (we both work), heating, ...

I love my gf to pieces...but she's going away with her mates...and I'm worried that they will influence her actions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend to pieces and i know she loves me. I trust her so much but her mates are all man eaters and i know what they are like when it comes to men. She is going away with her mates and although she may not be the same as her mates, i ...

We have a second child on the way but he prefers to live like a single man. Any advice please. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My husband never has time for me but always for his friends, going out, drinking, weekends away with friends etc. We have been together for 3.5 years, have been married nearly a year, have a 2 yo and next baby on the way. I feel he still has ...

He asked for another chance and messed around on me. I caught him and now I want REVENGE!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i split up wiv my long term partner of 8 yrs last yr.i have a 4 and 2 yr old kids and they took it hard.alot was trust issues.i had herd rumors about him sleeping with other women but always took his word for it but he never trusted me ie;going to ...

My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...

Dating him over 8 months and he refuses to let me to meet his family!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - When should you expect to meet his family? We have been dating for over 8 months. I have met his son but no one else. He has met my whole family and alot of my friends. He works with his family in the family business just down the road from my wor...

Dated his cousin and now---he doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - About one in a half years ago I did something bad. well my boyfriend now, we've been together for a year in a half now, well before we were together we were together for a month and broke up but i can't remember why. Anyways he decided to get with ...

Should I tell my mom I caught dad having sex with my best friend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Hi, i dont know what to do, i caught my dad and my best friend having sex in the kitchen. they did not see me (or so i thought)...what am i going to do????? My friend is 16, she is very flirty with men and wears very revealing clothes and al...

I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in ...

Should I get involved with this woman with two kids? Can I express to her how mad I am for her past mistakes? Please guide me through this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - Woman with 2 kids, what should I do? We're both 23 years old I'm single and not involved in any relationship yet She's got two kids, one from a relationship from highschool and the other just recent from a three year long relationship. This beau...

Am I wrong to be feeling like this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) - do you think im out of order to be unhappy and upset over this? well basicly im 16 and i live in the uk, ive just left school and at the moment ive just finished my exams and am looking for a job like most others my age. ive been goin out with my ...

I date my cousin somtimes but also cheat on him, but can't stand seeing him with anyone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I've had this huge crush on him ever since i could remember, he always makes me happy. we have kissed before and dated but sometimes i cheat on him with someone else, i hate seeing him with another person. are my feelings only like a cousin or more?...

How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...

If he took off with my daughter I would be devastated! Please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I have a daughter that is about to turn 7. Her father and I split up in November 2005. He has not helped us at all. He has moved on and married another woman that has 3 kids. He has seen my daughter a handful of times and all but one my olde...

Can someone please help me tell him its over??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I want to break it off with my on again off again boyfriend....okay here it is... I've been with this guy a few years we have a kid together... in a nutshell tons of love, drama, sex lies, abuse and last but not least b.s...one minute he luvs me ...

How do I choose and who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Please help me. I have a boyfriend of 4 years who i am in a long distance relationship with, although we do see each other at least twice a week and talk everyday. he is willing to give up everything and sell to move to where i am and buy a hous...

I'm not willing to become a hermit because of my mother's own problems. Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - I posted a week ago about how I had been struggling to move on with my life after being betrayed by my friends in the past -- best friend started dating my ex two weeks after the break-up when I was very depressed, then both were malicious to me ...

I'm in total turmoil and it's been 9 months now!!!!! HELP!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - Hi. Back in February I posted a question along the lines of asking for advice on how to deal with the fact my ex of 7 years had met another guy at work and I couldn't help myself but ask questions about what they get up to. I thought it wa...

How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...

We just click and get on completely, but I'm worried about the past violence stuff

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Hey, im in a bit of a perdictement here... Iv been seeing this lad, and i really really like him and always have, im just a bit concerned about his past anger problems.. He really is the nicest guy ever, the sweetest and the loveliest, just he's had ...

Should the mother of my fiancee's kid back off a little?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Im interested in what you have to say and your opinion.. My fiancee has a 5 yr old son to another woman from years ago, before i ever knew him. She comes in our house to talk about 'their' son, which i dont have a problem with. Its when my fiancee ...

I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler! We have lived together for over a year. It was not until we linked our bank accounts that I found out where all the money was going -- online poker! He knows how much he has hurt me and ...

My girlfriend is pregnant, we already have 4 kids and I can't handle any more! She won't agree to abortion, any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriends pregnant again... We already have 4 kids, she popped the first sprog out when she was 15, had to stay with her ever since, i dont wanna leave her but i cant handle any more kids! Its doin my nut in! She wont get rid of it either., ...

Why doesn't my mother want to meet my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating three months, and it's got more serious in that time. I've met his mum, now I want him to meet mine. Problem is, that Mum doesn't want to meet him. When I suggested it, she went on about how she doesn't ...

What should I do about my fear of kissing without having had consumed alcohol? How can I accept my sister's love life without having experienced romance myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I am a 19 year-old girl who has never had a romantic kiss. I have madeout with my share of boys in college, although I was drunk everytime and never saw any of the boys again. I never drank in high school and had never kissed anyone until I went to ...

My older sister did not end her cyber relation since she started seeing her present BF. I've always admired her and now this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - I'm very, very dissapointed. My sister is 21. I'm 19. I've always kinda looked up to her, because she's much more mature than me and she's very respected, you know, she really has it going on. I've always admired her relationships too, because she...