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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...

Can he refuse to see the kids on the specified dates if there is an order by the court?

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31 March 2011 (F) - i recently got a court order for scheduled visitation for my children and their dad. let me inform u that he has already been seeing them prior to this order. i decided to get the court involved bcuz he called when he wanted and my kids always had ...

I've ended and affair, but I'm having trouble moving on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1861 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a married female 32 years of age, and recently ended a four month affair with a married man,2 kids, same age as myself. He worked in the same building, and after many months of serious eye contact, approched me and we started off just...

He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I ...

My family won't allow me to date, so how can I stop thinking about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey I'm really very confused because...some boys love me...and I cannot say yes to them because I am scared of my family and teachers too..so in this situation what should I do now????? Because my family and the teachers won't allow me to do ...

I'm attracted to my cousin and we are both girls .What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi! I am a chick and am attracted to my cousin who is also a female.Her and I are very close best friends..we usually text or call each other frequently n we have sleep overs. O...

How do I explain to my parents that even though I am with a man, I still am bi-sexual ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and I am Bi-Sexual. Ive been bi since I was 13. It was rele easy to tell my mother and after telling her I have always told ppl the truth about myself. Though my sexuality was confusing to myself. I was bi ...

I hate my course and I am homesick, but my family have invested a lot of money into this! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and ...

My step father is getting a bit too close! Does he just think I am a child? Is this part of his culture? Or should I tell my mom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hello. I am a fourteen-year-old girl. My widowed mother just recently married again. My stepfather seemed very nice. She's attracted some sleezy men in the past. But he seemed great. I'm an only child and while they were dating, they'd often take me ...

I am going to move in with my BF. I need help breaking the news to my parents.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I really need some help on how to tell my parents I'm moving out. We don't have a bad relationship but at the same time I have never found it easy to talk to them either. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and he has asked me to mo...

I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i fe...

What should I say to my parents so they will let me be more independent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My parents are very strict . They don't allow me to have a job. I'm 16 years old and they still think that I'm a 5 year old girl. I want to work and raise money, I want to be independent, but they refuse. What shall I do? Help me to convince them ...

The constant emotional abuse from my parents has led me to project their negativity against my B/f into my relationship, which I'v now almost ruined. How can I repair the damage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now and over that time, I've become increasingly frustrated with the fact we haven't moved in together in all these years. I'm in my mid-late twenties and still live at home with my parents....

I don't know what more I can do about our kids, should I shut their dad out of their lives completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - i tried so hard for my kids to have a dad but all he wants is going out drinking even when we break up i tried getting him to spend time with them he makes everything hard. why cant i just drop them off for a night and come back the next day. he...

After hiding it for 2 years, my brother finds out I'm dating his friend and hes not happy about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Help!!! I've gotten myself in a bad situation. I've been talking to my big brothers friend for three years behind my brothers back. It wasent supposed to last this long we just planned on having a one night stand but things didn't happen that way we ...

Girlfriend or father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - hi, i'm a fourteen year old boy and il tell you a little bit of background about my situation first. i'v been going out with my girlfriend for eight months now and i really love her, i can't think about anyone else and its going really well. it's a ...

Inlove with my boyfriend's cousin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, for some time now, about 7 years, I've been with the same man, we had a baby very early in the relationship because I just wasn't damned careful enough to use more than a condom to prevent pregnancy. We had a son, whom I adore, he...

Was I being childish and selfish over this situation? And how to deal with our opposing families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Just wondering what your thoughts are on this – I’m in a 2 year relationship with a 32 year old Muslim man from a country outside mine. I am 26 and a white Muslim convert (I don’t wear hijab but I do believe in the principl...

How do I deal with all the issues surrounding dating a man 20 years my senior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am in my 20s and have recently started seeing a guy 20yrs my senior. We have been friends for years prior to dating each other. He is stable, but not wealthy, and I have a good job and support myself - I am not looking for a sugar daddy ...

Father won't talk to me since he found out I was having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 1 year n a half had sex. My father figured out and is is now neglecting me and wont talk 2 me. Im not old enough to leave and he wont let me see my boyfriend. What do i do?...

My sister babysits a boy who knows things that freak me out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Hello readers, so this is just a bizarre story that I'd just like some other opinions on. It has nothing to do with love etc. I'm just creeped out. Anyways, my older sister happened to be babysitting this 8 year old boy (which she's been doing for ...

Should I accept my husband's solution? Our arranged marriage is not working out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - mine was an arranged marriage two years back.we both are highly qualified doctors.before the marriage my parents made very clear about the dowry demand and my not knowing cooking. inspite of that my inlaws made a demand for the list of furniture ...

My sister-in-law lives with us. I want her more than my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - I'm 36years old and living a happy married life. We are living two families together. This means my family and the other family is my wife's brother's family, but wife's brother is not living here. He is in Dubai. I like his wife and want to develop ...

Younger sister can get guys my age but I'm too shy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - This is going to sound really selfish but I get really annoyed by it. I have a younger sister who is forever flirting with all of the lads in my year including my friends who are boys and my crush which really gets to me. She is 3 years younger than ...

My husband has tuned out of our marriage in every way. What are my options now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Dear Friends, Please guide me. I am alone in this country and have no friends to discuss my problems. my husband and i were in love and married 10 yers ago.. now we have a daughter of 4 years. My husband is annoying with me all the time. .. he ...

Women in my family have given so much up to be a housewife, why do they?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

26 March 2011 (M) - Dear Ladies or should I say dear ladies only as I want only women to answer this question. I am asking these questions to you all as I quite obviously cannot ask this questions to the ladies who have forced me to ask these questions. All m...

How do I tell my parents that my boyfriend and I will be moving in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I'm 21, and I'm just graduating from college. My boyfriend is 23 and we've been dating for about a year and a half. We met in College when he was doing his masters and so we actually lived in each other's dorms pretty much all the time. I have no ...

Father's strange behaviour is making my life so difficult!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I feel like my father is trying to drive me to a breakdown. I think he has severe mental problems, but he has never been diagnosed. When I was growing up and well into my twenties, he would give me and my Mum the silent treatment (but not my ...

I'm ready for sex...but how to ask mum for the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - dear readers, ok here is the thing i want to have sex. i have in a wonderful relationship with a guy i have been with for 3 years and we are both ready. the crux is my mum always told me that i should come to her and ask for the birth control fi...

I fell in love with my sisters partner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I fell in love with my sisters partner of 7 years. I stopped spending time with him, but couldn't get him off my mind. One night I had a break down and he was really there for me.Ive had a tough past and hes always helped me through my problems. ...

I want my parents blessing for dating my much older boyfriend!

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26 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 31 years my senior and I am 20. We truly love each other however my family doesn't approve of us. Their blessing is important to me. Is there anyway to help them accept us or should I just forget it?...

Should I let my 6-year-old daughter see her Mum, even though it may break her heart if her Mum then disappears again from her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - Hi All, I have a beautiful 6 year old daughter, absolutely beautiful. I was with her Mum, a successful Uni graduate, for a short time when she was conceived, but we split up before she found out she was pregnant..anyway...she gave birth and I went t...

Older partner who's going to be a grandpa soon; I love him but I'm not "in love"...should I stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Hello,I have a couple of issues here. 1: my fiance is 9 years older than me. I'm 29 he is 38. He has 2 grown kids 18 year old boy and 20 year old girl who is married and 9 months pregnant. I have never been married(neither has he) and I have no ...

Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. ...

My fiance's sister wants to date my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

25 March 2011 (?) - So a couple of years ago, I dated this guy. He was a HUGE part of my life, and we dated for a long time. However, we grew up, and went our seprate ways. But we still talk. I moved 6 hours away, and...every couple of months, i'll get a text or a ...

How do I tactfully deal with my boy friend's lonely Mom? Am I being bitchy not wanting to go out as a group of three on dates with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's mom is very nice and friendly, and I do like her. The problem is that she is always around, and several times while he and I are hanging out, she has tried to get us to do things with her, like go out to dinner, go to the movies, etc. ...

What rights does my child's father have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Im pregnant and I am keeping the baby because I don't want to have to go through having an abortion. I am happy with my decision but the baby's dad is not and says 'get rid' but I'm not going to. can anyone tell me what are his rights? (UK) and...

My 3rd cousin is checking me out. Does he want me to help him with relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I have a small concern and issue. I havent seen my cousin for many years. He is my third cousin so we are that distant. Well we moved to a new town and we just happen to run into each other. Him and my fiancée are really good friends. Well I have ...

What do I say to my daughter who wants birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - My 16 year old daughter came up to me last night while I was making dinner and asked for birth control. At first I didn't say anything I was in total shock. Let me give you some back story. She's a good kid. She's no straight A student and she'...

What are top tried and tested ways to tell our families that I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 years. He lived 2+ hrs away but he moved in with him aunt and her husband when were positive we wanted to be together. We have know each other since I was born since I'm 17 and he's 20. I'm grad...

Why is he treating me like this? Seems he's not bothered by breaking up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been Togther for fifteen months. Three months into our relationship I fell pregnant, and now we have a daughter who is beautiful. Though in my mind something in our relationship is missing. he works and all, but it's always a...

Betrayed by my own sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - It all started when i was in 7 grade i had this big crush on this guy name Adam. we would flirt all the time! oh how he gave me the butterflies! we had very little classes in school together and we never saw each other out of school! but it was ok ...

I'm cheating, want to divorce my wife but what will happen to my daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 March 2011 (M) - I have been married for 8 years and have a 2 year old daughter. I love my daughter to bits and will do anything for her. I have fallen deeply in love with another women 2.5 years ago and we've been together since. The feelings i have for this ot...

Is it really wrong to have a relationship with my cousin's cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - Hi, my problem started on new years eve - I was drunk at a family party and my cousins cousin kissed me in the bathroom. Ever since we've been seeing each other and it's the best relationship I could've asked for but people (particularly people ...

Am I wrong for asking him to take a break from us while I figure everything out with my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I am 19 and he is 23. Everything is good between us but my parents failed relationship has always made me scared of being in a relationship myself. When I was younger I always thought it ...

Should I wait until he makes a move? He's read, but also ignored by message

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I use to date this guy for 7 weeks. And I fell in love with this dude and he did too, but he broke it off. because my mom is so over protective. And it sux. I really want to be back with him. I talk to my mom about how she is so over protecti...

Troubled son--what do I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - I have a 16 year old who I am now so ashamed off. He has really gone off the rails. I have been a single mum for many years and my current partner stepped into his life when he was about 6 yet he does not appreciate or respect him and keeps ...

Should I reunite with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - i'm so confused my whole family broke up due to domestic violence 7 years ago , and i have just got back in contact with my 2 cousins . my father has gone back to turkey should i reunite with him ?...

Introducing the kids - good timing vs. bad timing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

23 March 2011 (F) - My birthday is coming up in the next month, my BF is fairly new (4-5 mos) and he hasn't met my kids. I'm waiting to see if this blooms into something serious. I'd like to invite him to my home for my birthday dinner with the kids since he's now a ...

Strained relationship with mom ever since I came out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - I can't stand it! I feel as if I can't be myself around my mum! Ever since I came out last summer We have had a strained relationship. Before she would ask me about girls and stuff and I know it is an adjustment but now I don't feel I can talk about ...