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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Father will be angry if he finds out I am dating someone! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I am in love with such a wonderful person, he wants to marry me. Even his parents approved. The problem is my Father he is very strict. I am 21 of age and successful in life. Now I feel like having a baby, but after marriage. My boyfriend and I ...

Mom is depressed over issues with my brother's wife! How can I help Mom cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - How can I deal with the fact that my mum is depressed about my brother and sister behavior who only phone her to ask her for things or advice and the disappear for days or just worry about their lives, they are very nice and do not notice but she ...

My friend's on/off again bf got married and she found out while pregnant w/ his child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - my friend has a child with a man she has been dating on and off for years. they are still in an on and iff relationship and she just found out that the man married another woman he's known (or maybe been in a relationship with) for even longer. my ...

My parents emotionally blackmail me when I bring up moving out. Now people are calling me a "mommy's boy!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - Hello, need some wide spread opinions here. I'm male, and 23yrs, living with my folks, I have 3 older sisters who have married and moved out. Our folks refuse the concept of moving out of the house, saying why move out and pay rent when you ca...

My dad said no dating until I've moved out of their house - but I have a bf! Do I tell him, as he may become violent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My concern is about my parents. They are very protective at least my dad about a bf. He says i'm not allowed one until out of the house. I have been going out with this guy for 4 months now and am scared they will see us one time. I want to tell ...

Can we raise a child together while we live in separate homes? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - i really want this to work but how will it work when i know deep down that i cant trust him he seams to think i should get over it but it hard when you have been lied to. we have a child together we live in different houses a 40 minute drive he ...

In order to support my kids, I have to work out of town. They hate me for this and only email when they need money. I'm hurting so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - im far away from my 2 kids, i love them dearly but i got no choice to be far from them, i have to work to support them for what they needs. the problem is they are now growing from my parents, and they hated me being far from them they dont even ...

My rich parents think it's rude that my unemployed bf doesn't offer to take them out to eat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - My parents were telling me they think my boyfriend should offer to pay for dining out sometimes. They expect him to treat my entire family out. I don't know how to tell him without him thinking how petty my parents are. He is very polite and thanks ...

Is it legal to sleep with your first cousin?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - is it legal to sleep with your first cousin,...

My friend found condoms in her Dad's car. Should she tell her Mother? How should I advise her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hi every1, i was just wonder, my friend came for me for help i did know what to say!!she saw condoms in her father's car as they were pulled up by a police! she and her mother had already discussed that her father might have been cheating since he ...

He doesn't seem to want to be a family with me and our daughter. Why is he this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - i what him to move in with me and our daughter but he wont does he really want a family or just a part time 1. it feels unfair to our daughter 1 night hes at home with us and the other 4 out of the week hes not. why dont he want the family life?...

Giving my wayward cousin advice about her messed up life has got me thinking---am I a hypocrite? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I have a cousin named Dee..she's 2 years older than me (28) and she has always bounced from place to place..but first let me give you some background.. :) She quit school 3 weeks before graduation and ran off to marry her BF, after r...

In love with my brother's best friend! But my brother will never approve..What can we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - okay... well i have a problem. I'm in love with my older brothers best mate. He knows I like him and he likes me to, and we really want to be together. But we know my older brother will never aprove. what do we do?...

How can I go from A to B?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - i like this girl right..lets name her A.. ok ive gone out with her for the past month or so. i really liked her. i mean REALLY really, loved her she seemd like the perfect person. Unfortunatly there is this other girl..named B..haha i got to know ...

She has me soo worried! Is My Mom going to sell the condo out from under us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - My mother bought a condo a few years ago, which my fincee and I now live in, we give her the money for the mortgage (which is in her name) since we live here. Anyway, recently we've had some money issues, the car keeps breaking down, and Shaun ha...

My bf expects me to shoulder the responsbilities at home! I'm fed up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6300 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I have been living with my boy f for about 7 months. His ten year old son lives with us also and his two girls stay over once a week. We have been together for about 18mths. I knew if i moved in with him his son would live with us - and although i ...

My brother is abusive and stresses out our family. My parents don't deserve this - what can be done??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - My problem is too complicated to explain here, so I've simplified it a bit... I'm 17, my brother in 14. He is out of control. He gets in trouble with the police, he grafittis, he has been expelled from school, and he's just generally abusiv...

I'm in love with my cousin and he broke it off w/ me to be w/ my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - i am still in love with my cousin. i lost my virgity to him and were togther for 2years behind close doors. he stopped everything recently claming he could not take it because he wanted to be with me the way he should and now he's dating a friend of ...

Should I tell my Mom that Dad looks at porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 years old and about three days ago i was searching through my parent's computer's search history. To my horror, I found that my father had been looking at porn. I went to google desktop to find that he had been looking at it since Aug of ...

My family is angry and hates me! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - well here i go! sorry if it is long i have to get alot off my chest.... im 17 years old! everything in my life is going wrong at the moment. Everything i seem to do makes my mum and stepdad angry. My mum will ask me to do one thing and when i...

I've moved into the big city with my boyfriend, he loves it here but I really miss my family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6301 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - So i've been with my guy for years..we met in my home town where i grew up.When i graduated the two of us moved 5hrs away from there to the 'big city'. We both decided it wasn't for us but instead of moving back to my hometown we agreed to move to ...

My boyfriend's mom doesn't like me. She makes me feel so unwelcome. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i are very much in love but his mum keeps interferring, she wont even let him come round mine anymore, i know his mum doesnt like me and makes me feel very unwelcomed but my boyfriend is old enough to make his own decisions and she ...

Is my relationship here ...going anywhere or should I call it a day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - My situation is a complicated one. I have been dating a wonderful man for just over 2 years. I am 30 yrs. old and he's 29. I have 2 beautiful daughters from a previous relationship ages 10 and 11. My boyfriend has always wanted to be a ...

She has no pictures of my kids up in the house! Do I have reason to be upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I have been dating a woman for 16 months and we just got into an argument over a bulletin board that she has in the kitchen. The bulletin board has every one of her friends and families kids pictures on it, but not mine! I feel hurt that the...

My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...

My Mother called me a 'waste of space ' and a 'failure'! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - I am fed up at home. I am 16 so take my GCSE's in the summer and have just done my mocks. The problem is that my mum's expectations for me are huge. apparently I have always been very bright etc. but I am under a lot of pressure with my gcse's. ...

He moved back in w/ his ex, so I won't let him see the baby b/c I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Im in a real fix. I have a 5 month old baby, and the dad has left me and moved back to his ex girlfriends house. When the baby was born we got on well, (although we never lived together - he said he was happy sharing a flat with a friend) but he ...

My husband wants us to live with his parents but I don't really want to. I need your help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - i have been married for over a year now and my husband and i are renting a place as we cannot afford to buy a house just yet. the problem is my husband wants us to buy a house together with his parents, but of course them living in the main house, ...

Broke up with this guy and fell on love with his brother. But we can't tell his family.! Any advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - I dated a guy for over 3 years but we broke up over a year ago. I gave him everything a person could possibly give in a relationship but he was a very selfish man and was only concerned with himself and his hobbies. Throughout our relationship I ...

How do I convince his Mother to let us date and see each other more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6304 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - OK i really really need help!! me and my bf have been going out for about 3 weeks and i love him SO much (we also went out for 8 months last year...then split for 5 months) so were really close, and we love each other very much....but we h...

How do I help my bf get in contact with his son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6304 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - i met my partner when he was a drug user,i was giving support to help him become clear of drugs.only after he was clear of heroin did we become sexually involved. i'd fallen in love with him before any relationship had started. he had lots of sad ...

How do I leave my immature bf who doesn't work and lives with his parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and his parents. He is 28, never worked a day in his life, does not have a education and is immature. I am 23, I want to go to school and start working again, but I feel held back by him. I do not see a future at all and ...

My dad was sent to prison for indecent assault on a minor. How do we all cope as a family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - My father was accused and found guilty of indecent assualt on a child. the story is really long so i will cut it short as possible. The girl was my brother ex gfs daughter. My brother and his ex gf would argue constantly My father would be cal...

His Mom is an alcoholic and he's depressed as a result, causing me to worry! How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6304 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriends mum is an alcoholic. She openly drinks in front of others but doesnt think she has a problem and claims that a "few" glasses of wine relax her after work. she can easily have a whole bottle to herself and regularly buys between 4 and 6 ...

My husband puts more effort into pleasing his dad than pleasing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - why does my husband seem to constantly feel the need to please his dad? he puts so much time and energy into it that he has none left for me and he also works for his dad. he is almost forty so i find this odd. he is always so exhausted when he gets ...

My brother's wife is quite rude to our Mother! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - My brother's wife gave birth for the 1st time 2 weeks ago, she had lots of help from my mummy and I like doing the shopping or tidy her house b4 she came back from hospital, my parents are wealthy and try to help them anytime, my mom invites them ...

I'm 15 and my parents seem not to like the idea of me dating. They don't trust me or my bf. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is 16 and im 15. i'm really happy with him but i haven't told mum and dad about him, i have been spending heaps of time with him and mum asked me if i was going out with him but i said no because i was afraid of what she would ...

My dad's girlfriend may be cheating on him I've gt proof! Should I tell him? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - I hope someone will reply to this because i've got something on my mind i just need to write down. My dad has been with his girlfriend for 2years, she lives with us and i've just found really explicit messages sent in the history of our computer ...

Worried that my pregnancy will interfere with my sister's wedding!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, My question is that I have just found out I am pregnant - it's a happy result and my husband and I are delighted! However, my due date is 2 weeks before my sister's (who is also my best friend)wedding! I feel so bad that I can not be t...

How do I stop having a crush on my husband's cousin - I'm not sure how I'll act once I've had a drink around him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I'm just really looking for some advice. I'n not sure whether I am in love with my husbands cousin or whether it's just a schoolgirl like crush on him. I have only been married to my husband for almost a year and have a young daughter, but I ...

Am I being too demanding? Tell me what you think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I have invited some friends, my brother, his girlfriend and her daughter for dinner. My partner is cooking and it is his birthday. He has planned to make curry, which he does from scratch by grinding up all the spices etc. My small son it going ...

What should I do to make things right after I made a fool of myself in front of his parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - ive been going out with my BF three months now. Last nite we went to meet his parents for the first time!!! long story short...i was demonstrating this kick boxing technique to my BF's dad and i ended up accidently kicking him in the nuts!! I really ...

My brother and I was a new sibling! Is it wrong to ask our mum or dad to make one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - hey all, heres my question. i really want a baby brother or sis. i have one bro whos 12, and its only me and him, im 15....... i think dat a baby sis/bro would be really awesome but i dont think my dad would be to into the idea, my mother loves kids ...

My parents were pissed off when they found I paid my own way, with this guy on our first date. Did they over-react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - I am 18 and I have been in a relationship with the same guy for over four years now. My parents have known about the relationship the whole time, but have never let me actually go on a date until I turned 18. Anyway, now that I am 18, my parents l...

My Mom's bf smokes weed and I hate breathing in the stuff! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6309 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - right...heres me im a young teenager, and everything has been going wrong, i even moved schools! i started off in Tywyn, gwynedd now i'm in Dol, gwynedd! my mates hate me, i'm stressed with school work, this 17 year old lad keeps bugging me, i've ...

My new wife will not accept my adult kids! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6309 days ago

16 January 2007 (M) - Good Day. Five years ago I met my present wife and after a short time she moved in with me and we married shortly afterwards.Unfortunately between my wife and I meeting and living together,my daughter was the subject of abuse by her partner,...

My mom found my bag of birth control! Now my parents are threatening to kick me out, stop paying for school, and say they've lost their trust in me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

16 January 2007 (F) - I hid condoms, birth control and papers from the clinic in my bedroom. So today I was going to throw out the condoms and papers so I put it in my bag. Without me knowing my mom went into my bag and found it. She flipped on me and she told my dad. I ...

He hates that I put my kids first and he wants me to move away with him! What are your thoughts on this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - I am a mother of 2 children and have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He doesn't like to come to my house and feels I put my kids first although I do all I can to make him happy including staying at his house. He wants me to sell my house and ...

Is the terrible relationship w/ my parents worth salvaging?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - My parents and I have a terrible relationship. They always criticize me for everything - be it what I'm wearing, how the furniture in my house is arranged, learning foreign languages, traveling, ANYTHING. They also dislike my husband and even make ...

I don't want our baby to get attached when the father has to go back to his home country!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - hi i'm 21 and have just had a baby. the father is 31 and from a different country. after having the baby i got very ill and my partner wasn't there for me and said some nasty things so i finished things with him. now i'm in a dilema as to if i ...